So, I have been fighting with this for a long time. I used to identify with Keiayra for so many years...
Not many of you know but my birth name is Loralei McLoughlin, and I always thought of using my own name. As I seen many of you do. But the fact that Loralei in its many spellings is so common, and the fact that many years ago certain people were so protective of certain names I felt conflicted.
I jumped the gun and changed my name here.
I don't want to make anyone feel bad about this. Like I have a pit in my stomach writing this. Anyone had a similar experience?