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Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 10:29 AM
Hi everyone!

First of all I want to apologize for those who have viewed me as rude and condescending.

Now on to intro.

So, the name and age that you see on my profile is my real name and age. Don't let anyone tell you a different thing otherwise.

So, I have a deep fascination about mermaids. This started 11 years ago to be exact! All because of a mermaid themed TV show. I just love how the tails in that show varies in color depending on the personality of the characters. And then there is this H2O and all the mermaid vids in the net 5 years ago or so.

And I am well aware of the separate identities that some have in here. I know everyone here is as human as an average human is, so I want to treat everyone here as both humans and merfolks.

With that said, I want to know somethings about your normal lives. If you think I'm being to invasive and crossing the line, please don't be afraid to PM me here!

One more thing. Please don't get me wrong about this, but I still have notions of how "perfect" mermaids should be. That is what my Avatar and Profile Pic is about, my view of the "perfect" mermaid. I don't own a tail but I'm hoping to own that tail that you see on my profile, or even just a same one.

I'm not here to judge you base on your physical appearance, age, and gender.

Please, I hope we could all be friends here! And if you still have questions and/or doubts just PM me. That is the best way!

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 10:36 AM
I want to know somethings about your normal lives.



Why?

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 10:42 AM
Why?

Because how do you think you guys should be treated: Freaky delusional weirdos or normal human being who live normal human lives except you have exceptional interest?

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 10:43 AM
... normally when people do intros they introduce their actual names, age, where they are swimming from... why you have a fascination about mermaids.. stuff of that sort. this is extremely different from all the intros i've read. not buying it. sorry.

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 10:47 AM
Because how do you think you guys should be treated: Freaky delusional weirdos or normal human being who live normal human lives except you have exceptional interest?

Wow, now I really don't trust you.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 10:52 AM
So show me yours, so I know what to put in here!

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 10:54 AM
Wow, now I really don't trust you.

No worries. I don't expect you to personally trust me!

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 10:54 AM
So show me yours, so I know what to put in here!


lol, surely you cannot be that dim.

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 10:57 AM
... um.. you can easily look up the other introduction threads to see what everyone else has posted.
http://mernetwork.com/index/showthread.php?3686-HA-I-DID-IT-I-FIGURED-IT-OUT!-ok-proper-introduction-time

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 10:58 AM
I find it rich how Xianne is refusing to give any information about themselves.

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 10:58 AM
This is also very true.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 11:01 AM
... um.. you can easily look up the other introduction threads to see what everyone else has posted.
http://mernetwork.com/index/showthread.php?3686-HA-I-DID-IT-I-FIGURED-IT-OUT!-ok-proper-introduction-time
Ok I think I got it now! I'm gonna edit my intro though!

Merman Arion
03-13-2015, 11:02 AM
Because how do you think you guys should be treated: Freaky delusional weirdos or normal human being who live normal human lives except you have exceptional interest?

Are you for real?!
How dare you?!







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-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 11:05 AM
Ok I think I got it now! I'm gonna edit my intro though!

I wouldn't bother.

Merman Arion
03-13-2015, 11:08 AM
I wouldn't bother.

Agreed.



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AniaR
03-13-2015, 11:21 AM
I'd like you to prove either privately to a mod ( like they do on reddit) or here on the forum who you are.

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 11:23 AM
DAMN does it take THAT long to write an intro??

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 11:51 AM
I'd like you to prove either privately to a mod ( like they do on reddit) or here on the forum who you are.

Same. Cough it up.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 12:05 PM
DAMN does it take THAT long to write an intro??

DONE!!!

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 12:08 PM
DONE!!!

I know this might sound a bit forward and, well, rather esoteric of me; but who the fuck are you?

You still haven't told us anything about yourself, other than your obsessions. How old are you. Where are you located?

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 12:10 PM
Your intro is the exact same as last time except for the mermaid interest. We still know nothing about you.

I think we can all call bullshark of this.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 12:13 PM
As I said. That is my real age (21). And the location that you see is my real location (I really live in LA [different from L.A.]).


any more questions that doesn't involve the face?

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 12:20 PM
yes. why do you post pictures of other girls on your profile picture when they're clearly not you?

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 12:22 PM
Nope, I need to see face and sign plx. Otherwise, you're full of shit and I don't trust you. Either verify yourself here or in private to a moderator, but it's the only way.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 12:28 PM
As I said, they are my image of the "perfect" mermaid. Just look at the slenderness they have.

Now, can we move on??? Thanks!

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 12:30 PM
No, dear, a picture of yourself.

You say you want to know the people behind our personas, well why don't you start us off with a little picture of yourself?

Merman Arion
03-13-2015, 12:34 PM
As I said, they are my image of the "perfect" mermaid. Just look at the slenderness they have.

Now, can we move on??? Thanks!

FYI, there is no such thing as a "perfect" mermaid. We are a family of merfolks of all age, shape, size, color and so on. No offence but you can take that slenderness up your *censored*.





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-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 12:37 PM
FYI, there is no such thing as a "perfect" mermaid. We are a family of merfolks of all age, shape, size, color and so on. No offence but you can take that slenderness up your *censored*.





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Hey, hey, hey, no skinny shaming here either! All body forms are welcome! :)

But yeah, Xianne can shove his prerogative up his clacker.

Mermaid Wesley
03-13-2015, 12:39 PM
Okay so. Your Facebook profile is of an actress or model and the perfect mermaid, we are expected to believe that you are a mermaid, and then you insinuate that the community is freaky and you are here to see if were freaks or normal and to understand the psychology of? Mermaids? Sex? Asking us to share personal details of our lives, without even being honest about who you are and then getting rude when we demand that you tell us who you are. Male or female I honestly don't care. I have ignored you on here and on facebook. You seem very fake. Also if we are to think that your image here is you, I would assume you would speak English without the small errors that many second language learners make. So I don't believe that you have any real photos where we can see them and I tend not to trust people like that.


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Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 12:40 PM
That is the reason it's on air quotes, it is just a term or idea.
And yes, size, age, gender, and appearance don't matter.

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 12:43 PM
And yes, size, age, gender, and appearance don't matter.

If that the case, then why do you tell us a 'slender' mermaid is a perfect one?

You wreak of hypocrisy.

Merman Arion
03-13-2015, 12:45 PM
Hey, hey, hey, no skinny shaming here either! All body forms are welcome! :)

But yeah, Xianne can shove his prerogative up his clacker.

My bad, Anwynn.
I wasn't skinny shaming at all. Wasn't my intention.

The prerogative above just pissed me off a bit.



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Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 12:45 PM
I said, it was my personal opinion.

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 12:46 PM
My bad, Anwynn.
I wasn't skinny shaming at all. Wasn't my intention.

The prerogative above just pissed me off a bit.






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I understand! ^_^ It's all good.

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 12:48 PM
Okay so. Your Facebook profile is of an actress or model and the perfect mermaid, we are expected to believe that you are a mermaid, and then you insinuate that the community is freaky and you are here to see if were freaks or normal and to understand the psychology of? Mermaids? Sex? Asking us to share personal details of our lives, without even being honest about who you are and then getting rude when we demand that you tell us who you are. Male or female I honestly don't care. I have ignored you on here and on facebook. You seem very fake. Also if we are to think that your image here is you, I would assume you would speak English without the small errors that many second language learners make. So I don't believe that you have any real photos where we can see them and I tend not to trust people like that.


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agreeing with wesley

Kishiko
03-13-2015, 01:00 PM
So lets review.

Sketchy social media profiles (X)
Fake photos (X)
Defensiveness (X)
Refusal to Prove who they are (X)
Asking mers about their personal sex lives (X)
No details about themselves (X)

Gee guys I think they're REAAALLL trustworthy.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 01:03 PM
Believe what you want to believe! IDC

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 01:04 PM
Believe what you want to believe! IDC

I only believe things when evidence is shown to me.

Pics or GOMI.

AniaR
03-13-2015, 01:06 PM
Sing it with me.... Na na na na... Na na na na... Hey hey hey... Goodbye!

Merman Dan
03-13-2015, 01:09 PM
No offence but you can take that slenderness up your *censored*.

I really need to update my profile to read "The unprofessional recreational merman with a farmer's tan (and sculpted twelve-pack abs)." ;)

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 01:17 PM
I only believe things when evidence is shown to me.

Pics or GOMI.

It goes the other way too, don't believe what you don't want to believe!

AniaR
03-13-2015, 01:20 PM
See I get concerned about grooming when adults come on to a forum with minors and jump right to sexual stuff

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 01:25 PM
It goes the other way too, don't believe what you don't want to believe!

Did you not see my picture before or are you just that willfully ignorant?

Merman Arion
03-13-2015, 01:26 PM
Believe what you want to believe! IDC

Well then, I believe you are full of shit.

How is that? :roll eyes:




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-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 01:28 PM
Also, how is it that you keep trying to turn the attention away from yourself? This is all about you, remember. I don't have to verify anything. Then again, I'm not the one asking other members for intricate details of their sex lives.

Everyone can see you are a fraud. Why not just admit it, unless you can come up with a photo.

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 01:35 PM
yeah like how hard is it for a picture of your face saying hello to mernetwork.

unless you're actually not 21.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 01:37 PM
Then, Fine!

You want me to admit that I'm not real? Then, I'M NOT SO FREAKING REAL!!!
There you have it!!!!

Satisfied now?
End of discussion!

PEACE OUT!!!!

Morganna
03-13-2015, 01:38 PM
Hey, loves. Not trying to put my two cents in here if it's not wanted but here is what I think:

Some people crave attention. They don't care if it is positive or negative attention, they just need their name on someone's lips. Right now, it's all eyes on her and you are all just feeding into her BS. She only steers the convo away from her because she KNOWS 100% that someone will bring it back to her. Nobody is going to believe anything coming from her based on her behavior up to this point.

Personally, I don't so much mind that she doesn't want to share a face pic publicly or sharing too much personal info. Some people aren't comfortable with that. But honestly I think that is the icing on the cake, the cake being all the other issues: The fake pictures, the overly invasive questions, and just being plain rude.

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 01:42 PM
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvhm5zinKa1ql85u5.gif

Morganna
03-13-2015, 01:44 PM
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvhm5zinKa1ql85u5.gif
Hahahahaha! Awesome!!! :)

AniaR
03-13-2015, 01:54 PM
We do have a responsability though as a community to boot out people who could exploit minors. We have had issues before with merverts joining and harassing minors. This whole thing was so similar. So while I agree with not giving attention... In this case if we all ignored I believe there was the potential for sexual exploiting

-Annwyn-
03-13-2015, 01:55 PM
We do have a responsability though as a community to boot out people who could exploit minors. We have had issues before with merverts joining and harassing minors. This whole thing was so similar. So while I agree with not giving attention... In this case if we all ignored I believe there was the potential for sexual exploiting

This ^^^^^^^^^^

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 01:55 PM
Hey, loves. Not trying to put my two cents in here if it's not wanted but here is what I think:

Some people crave attention. They don't care if it is positive or negative attention, they just need their name on someone's lips. Right now, it's all eyes on her and you are all just feeding into her BS. She only steers the convo away from her because she KNOWS 100% that someone will bring it back to her.

Okay fine! I'm an attention hog! But people are free to ignore what I said if they don't want what they saw and move on other threads that can bury mine easily! Or just straight up say that it's offensive right there and I would stop it! It was what I first said that ticked everyone off and then it turned into identity issue fiasco!

I already apologized, let's just start fresh here!!!

Morganna
03-13-2015, 02:00 PM
We do have a responsability though as a community to boot out people who could exploit minors. We have had issues before with merverts joining and harassing minors. This whole thing was so similar. So while I agree with not giving attention... In this case if we all ignored I believe there was the potential for sexual exploiting


Don't get me wrong, I 100% agree with you. But I guess I'm not seeing where she was asking any explicitly sexual questions. Is it on a different thread? Or I may have just missed it. I am kinda skimming through b/c I'm in class. But yes, RaniaR and Annwyn, I do agree with you there.

AniaR
03-13-2015, 02:03 PM
Yes it is in multiple threads.

Morganna
03-13-2015, 02:05 PM
Yes it is in multiple threads.
Oh. I apologize. I was not aware of that.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 02:07 PM
We do have a responsability though as a community to boot out people who could exploit minors. We have had issues before with merverts joining and harassing minors. This whole thing was so similar. So while I agree with not giving attention... In this case if we all ignored I believe there was the potential for sexual exploiting

I understand and completely agree with your point! Regards to age, I know that there is an age limit here although some would get away with the real age. And if we want to avoid potentials for exploitation, then we should refrain from talking about things that imply sexual behavior... I just want to know how far you all would want to go talking about this. Again, if you don't want to totally talk about it, then don't discuss hints about it. That simple!

AniaR
03-13-2015, 02:10 PM
I think what we all want and what we deserve is to know who you are as you exhibit almost all of the behaviour seen in the past from men pretending to be women or mermaids for the purpose of sexual gratification. I think we deserve to not have our hobby or job objectified if we aren't giving consent. We typically don't need to know exactly who everyone is specifically but in your case I feel MerNetwork as a whole would feel safer knowing.

AniaR
03-13-2015, 02:10 PM
If you respect mermaids and the community I don't see why that's a problem.

Lotus
03-13-2015, 02:26 PM
Xianne, Shannon is an attention hog, (owl love you, S) that's why we see HER ACTUAL FACE in her pics and vids. In my mind, I can see you sitting there, trying to photoshop a sign that reads "hello mernetwork!" Into the pic of some young Asian model..... You're so full of shit it makes me want to hurl. I love how you try to just get everyone here to forget what a creep you are and move on, waiting for anger to die down so you can try again, more subtly this time, to get us to share our sexual experience with you. I love how your "real age" is now 21, after your "original real age" of 15 was called out as an obvious lie. I love how you think we're all going to just take your word for you proving your identity to an administrator, (btw, could an administrator weigh in on if this was actually done?) I love how you say you have respect for this community when you're just here to get your rocks off, and I especially love how you're so clueless about our true nature that you don't think we will rally against your type. We all may have our fights and our differences, but for the most part, we protect one another, especially the younger or more naive members. You disgust me.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 02:29 PM
Since you all want to know who I am, then I am and I will be who you all think I am. I hope it's no longer a problem. It's pretty clear that you would know a person by the attitude that person displayed.

Lotus
03-13-2015, 02:40 PM
So you're a dude who's here to fap to mermaid sex stories. Thanks for clearing that up.

SeaGlass Siren
03-13-2015, 02:46 PM
And if we want to avoid potentials for exploitation, then we should refrain from talking about things that imply sexual behavior... !

EXCUSE ME?

son you do NOT get to play that card with us. we have a right to talk about whatever we want. it is never the fault of the person who chooses to share a sex related subject, it's the fault of the person who uses that information for their own inappropriate reasons/personal gain. the time anyone shares a story we put the trust in another person so how is it our fault?
YOU do not get a say in what we should discuss.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 02:47 PM
I love how you try to just get everyone here to forget what a creep you are and move on, waiting for anger to die down so you can try again, more subtly this time, to get us to share our sexual experience with you.

When I said that we all move on, I really meant it! MOVE ON! If no one wants to tell about it then, they are not being force to do that. Geez!


I love how your "real age" is now 21, after your "original real age" of 15 was called out as an obvious lie.

My age is really 21. Who told you I am 15?


I love how you think we're all going to just take your word for you proving your identity to an administrator, (btw, could an administrator weigh in on if this was actually done?)

Then don't take my word for it. I said nothing about proving my identity to an administrator.


I especially love how you're so clueless about our true nature that you don't think we will rally against your type.

Oh I know your true nature: You tick one off, you tick everyone else! If that's what it is, then, I'm no longer clueless.


... we protect one another, especially the younger or more naive members.

Then if you say my "original real age" is 15, then you should have told me not to "meddle" with that subject at all since it's all "grown-up" stuff, since I'm part of the younger crowd.

Starfrit
03-13-2015, 02:50 PM
I vote we all move on by whacking Xianne with the banhammer and then carrying on our own fabulous business without them. :T

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 02:51 PM
If that is what you think I am. Go ahead!

Lotus
03-13-2015, 02:53 PM
Omfg. I'm not moving on, no matter how much you tell me too. I'm not alone.

Lotus
03-13-2015, 02:54 PM
Tieri, I agree 1000%

Starfrit
03-13-2015, 02:54 PM
You don't handle being called out on your lies very well. If you wanna keep trying to lure people into giving you creepy fetish fodder in the future, you might wanna work on that, bro.

Xianne Lime
03-13-2015, 02:54 PM
I think that is what you all should have done in the first place when you had become all suspicious!

Hit me with that banhammer now so it could be all over now!

Lotus
03-13-2015, 02:56 PM
Of course that's what I think of you, you sick f*$#.

MermaidShannon
03-13-2015, 03:59 PM
Woooooowwwwww

Venessa Louisiana Mermaid
03-13-2015, 06:42 PM
I think that is what you all should have done in the first place when you had become all suspicious!

Hit me with that banhammer now so it could be all over now!

WHY YOU SONOFA....you are LUCKY I've been out all day. I KNEW YOU WERE A DAMN DUDE! How DARE YOU COME ON THIS FORUM and try to fap to mers! Ugh, I am so damn disgusted I even let you be my friend on Facebook this long. You've seen pics of my kids you sick fuck. Somebody BAN THIS GUY!

Echidna
03-13-2015, 07:09 PM
I agree.
This guy has not only told a bagful of lies, he also insinuated he's going to blackmail members with the things he extracted from them.
Aside from the obvious, being a total creep and enjoying it.

Mermaid Lunette
03-13-2015, 07:18 PM
Reminder in case anyone forgot: reporting his comments directly via the little triangle with the exclamation point might be the best way to give this person the hammer for real.

Meronica
03-13-2015, 07:32 PM
I suggest everyone here report him on Facebook as well as here, for having a fake identity.

He's a creeper that doesn't realize that we would have welcomed a middle-aged man if he did not pose as a fifteen-year-old girl who seems interested only in discussing sex. I hope that it is possible to IP-ban this mofo.


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Elle
03-13-2015, 07:37 PM
Something that happened in the other thread. Everyone ignored the problem for a while there. Mainly because of the shannonigans. While it is admins job to decide who stays and who goes, obviously honesty isnt something we're going to get so I vote to go back to ignoring the problem. I know that wont solve the problem but I'd hate to see everyone go on a 5 day ban from all this

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Venessa Louisiana Mermaid
03-13-2015, 07:47 PM
Wait....why the HECk would everyone get banned when one person is the issue here? Seriously?

MermaidShannon
03-13-2015, 07:53 PM
Venessa it's because you ate all that stinky Olive Garden

MermaidCelesteFL
03-13-2015, 08:02 PM
I leave the forum for ONE DAY. ONE DAY. And this happens. *gets on anti-troll armor*


.....

*sits and does nothing*

Elle
03-13-2015, 08:53 PM
Wait....why the HECk would everyone get banned when one person is the issue here? Seriously?

Because on the off chance it turns out we're wrong and xianne is who they say they are some may have possibly used terms that may or may not be in line with the forum rules.

Obviously that'll come down to what Mal and Iona decide. But I'd rather she doesn't have to dust off the ban hammer again so soon.

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Elle
03-13-2015, 08:54 PM
I leave the forum for ONE DAY. ONE DAY. And this happens. *gets on anti-troll armor*


.....

*sits and does nothing*

Well don't leave us to our own devices and it'll all be fine.
Honestly you had one job :) lol

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Lotus
03-13-2015, 09:45 PM
Elle, I respect your wanting to proceed with caution due to the (teeny tiny) possibility this person is legit, but I reserve my original stance on this person being NOT OK. That's the best way I can leave it.

Kishiko
03-13-2015, 10:42 PM
Also, I'm NOT defending here, this user is NO GOOD. But they never said they were 15.


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Elle
03-13-2015, 11:10 PM
Elle, I respect your wanting to proceed with caution due to the (teeny tiny) possibility this person is legit, but I reserve my original stance on this person being NOT OK. That's the best way I can leave it.


I understand completely. I just feel it's easier to ignore them for now, have admin deal with the issue and that way we're not all getting drama headaches over this shit. I don't think I'd want to associate with this sort of person face to face so why should I put myself in a situation where I have to deal with that sort of person online.

The attitude that this user is giving, make me feel they aren't worth my time or effort, so I'm not going to give it :)

Meronica
03-13-2015, 11:21 PM
Also, I'm NOT defending here, this user is NO GOOD. But they never said they were 15.


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Yes "she" did, in the "Shenanigans" thread.


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Kishiko
03-13-2015, 11:26 PM
Yes "she" did, in the "Shenanigans" thread.


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No that was a different user. I think it's on the first page?


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Meronica
03-13-2015, 11:49 PM
No that was a different user. I think it's on the first page?


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Just checked and he/she edited the post once people started saying it was inappropriate. Originally they said they were 15 and interested in hearing stories about pre-marital sex.


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Winged Mermaid
03-14-2015, 12:12 AM
As I said. That is my real age (21). And the location that you see is my real location (I really live in LA [different from L.A.]).


any more questions that doesn't involve the face?


So lets review.

Sketchy social media profiles (X)
Fake photos (X)
Defensiveness (X)
Refusal to Prove who they are (X)
Asking mers about their personal sex lives (X)
No details about themselves (X)

Gee guys I think they're REAAALLL trustworthy.

This person lied about their age (said they were 21, signed up with a birth date that would make them 22, get your lies straight man) and also lied about their location (IP is in Louisiana, not LA). Considering all the rest of their fake info/pics, their posts, and the very inappropriate thread they started I'm at LEAST suspending this person until I can get in contact with the other admin. Perma ban is my the way I'm leaning now.

Locking this thread as well.