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Rennara
04-17-2015, 04:30 AM
Hello,

I am new to the community and, indeed, fairly new to the concept of a Mer community. I feel like I have so much to learn about everyone and everything and I couldn't be more excited to meet any of you. I will admit, I was hesitant to join after reading several comments about how some mer-folk wish that the community wasn't growing and how others have brought trouble and drama to your community. I don't want to be one of those. Please, if I am ever incorrect in how I refer to anyone or anything, please let me know (as said, I have much to learn).

I feel excited to know that there are others, but also anxious. Like any close community, there are social norms I have no idea about(for example, I identify more with seals than fish, are selkies accepted in a mer-commuity?) There are others who don't want to accept outsiders, which at this point, I am. This community is a family for some of you, and I don't want to intrude... but I want oh so badly to be a part of it.

That aside, I can't believe there has been a community of people who feel a deeper connection to mermaids and I never knew about it. I have always felt a more at home, and more complete when I am in a body of water than on land. I've dreamed of being a mermaid since childhood. Dreamed of swimming through kelp beds and under glaciers. The sea has always felt like home and I'm really quite relived to know that I'm not alone. I've gone through life feeling unworthy of wanting to be a mermaid because I am not the "right shape." In recent years I've learned to ignore what the world says I should be and follow my own heart. When I am in the water, I'm where I belong and I feel beautiful and free. So here I am.

I hope to get to know you and your world... our world.

-Rennara

Mermaid Wesley
04-17-2015, 04:45 AM
WELCOME FELLOW CALIFORNIAN! You're totally welcome here :). And selkies are awesome. I know about ten mermaids who want to make a selkie-inspired tail... at some point....myself included.... But yes. Welcome! *rolls out the welcome wagon*

Yulia
04-17-2015, 09:06 AM
Welcome to the forum!! :D

PearlieMae
04-17-2015, 09:25 AM
Welcome to the network, Rennara!

Don't worry too much about the drama, etc...it comes and goes, like any forum/community. I was a solitary mermaid for YEARS before finding there were entire oceans of mers out there! I think you'll find, on the whole, that the folks here are very friendly.

There are also tons of resources and information on all sorts of subjects here! Come on in! The water's fine! :D

Echidna
04-17-2015, 09:56 AM
Welcome!
Of course selkies are fine! There are several already on the forum, I think.

Don't worry about drama.
There is not a lot of that, and often some of the oldest members are involved, not necessarily new ones.
Personally, I love every friendly and sensible addition to the community, which you seem to be.

But then, I'm probably not one of the "back in our meryuku-day, uphill in the snow"-folks either :lol:

ShyMer
04-17-2015, 09:56 AM
Welcome to mernetwork!
I hope you enjoy your time here<3

Now that you're here, do you have any plans for getting or making a tail?

Rett
04-17-2015, 10:19 AM
Welcome! I know youre going to love it here! :D

Theta
04-17-2015, 11:19 AM
Welcome to the club :)

The only time the drama gets annoying is when uninvolved people jump in and try to shame everyone into behaving a certain way because mermaids are magical creatures who would never stoop to fight with others, or something. They conveniently forget that mermaids are historically murderous and temperamental. There may come a time when you see people drop the rainbow farts routine and hash their problems out. Just roll with it and don't let it get to you too much :)

We're a pretty open crew. If you have a question, use the search bar to see if there's a thread about it- a lot of the times there is. If there's not (or, although some people don't agree with me on this, if it's really old and has been inactive fore a long time) make a new thread. Explore a lot! There are a lot of great discussions floating around.

Also, try to see if there are any meetups in your area. They're a great way to meet people in the community and make new friends.

AniaR
04-17-2015, 11:24 AM
Have I told you lately that I love you Theta?

shimmygoddess
04-17-2015, 11:49 AM
welcome!

Rennara
04-17-2015, 02:04 PM
Thank you all for the warm welcome and reassurance!


Welcome to mernetwork!
I hope you enjoy your time here<3

Now that you're here, do you have any plans for getting or making a tail?

Shy,
YES! Absolutely I do. I designed a selkie tail about three years ago and have been pricing out neoprene for it ever since. Unfortunately I keep going back and forth over whether I want to make a cover for it out of lycra velvet and airbrush dye onto that so the tail is soft and furry like an actual seal or to paint directly on the neoprene.

Also, I've been considering over the last year (after viewing several tutorials) designing a betta or lionfish tail to make out of spandex/lycra.