Lotus
05-23-2012, 11:57 AM
Alright, so here's my SERIOUS dilemma-
My family and I recently moved- it's been three and a half weeks and we have not seen our rather large security deposit from our other place yet... according to our d-bag former landlords, we will have it back in 60 days.... UGH... the point is, we have NOTHING to live on, our bills are seriously passed due, we have no gas, no food... you get it. So here's the big problem:
My boss offered to help me out financially so long as I pay him back to the tune of 20 bucks out of my tips every shift. Now, this may sound like a great deal, but here's the problem... my boss is fickle and unpredictable... he treats his customers very very well, but us girls who work for him are constantly subjected to lectures about how poor our performance is (which is HORSE SHIT), we are not allowed to call in sick for fear of losing our jobs... he and his family occasionally have huge fights that the customers can hear from the dining room... (and though they are in a different language, people know whats going on...)
The gals I work with have warned me not to take his help no matter what or he will use it against me any way he can- (one of the girls I work with is currently in this situation with him...) but I'm behind a THOUSAND DOLLARS, and totally screwed. I want to find a new job ASAP that isn't so hostile... if I take his help, I'm in his pocket. If I don't, we have no food, and we get evicted from the home we have only been in two and a half weeks. (we were allowed to move in without paying our deposit because we thought we have the one from our old place back by now)
WTF do I do???? I have nothing of value to pawn, or I would do that..... and I don't have a sugar daddy lol.......... HELP?
My family and I recently moved- it's been three and a half weeks and we have not seen our rather large security deposit from our other place yet... according to our d-bag former landlords, we will have it back in 60 days.... UGH... the point is, we have NOTHING to live on, our bills are seriously passed due, we have no gas, no food... you get it. So here's the big problem:
My boss offered to help me out financially so long as I pay him back to the tune of 20 bucks out of my tips every shift. Now, this may sound like a great deal, but here's the problem... my boss is fickle and unpredictable... he treats his customers very very well, but us girls who work for him are constantly subjected to lectures about how poor our performance is (which is HORSE SHIT), we are not allowed to call in sick for fear of losing our jobs... he and his family occasionally have huge fights that the customers can hear from the dining room... (and though they are in a different language, people know whats going on...)
The gals I work with have warned me not to take his help no matter what or he will use it against me any way he can- (one of the girls I work with is currently in this situation with him...) but I'm behind a THOUSAND DOLLARS, and totally screwed. I want to find a new job ASAP that isn't so hostile... if I take his help, I'm in his pocket. If I don't, we have no food, and we get evicted from the home we have only been in two and a half weeks. (we were allowed to move in without paying our deposit because we thought we have the one from our old place back by now)
WTF do I do???? I have nothing of value to pawn, or I would do that..... and I don't have a sugar daddy lol.......... HELP?