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Fathom delMar
06-21-2013, 02:33 AM
Sorry for the late introduction post... The name's Fathom del Mar.
I've believed in and wanted to be a mermaid for as long as I can remember (I went through a time when I first discovered witchcraft of looking for a spell to turn me into a real mermaid... no, seriously. I did. I trolled every website I could trying to find a way, even tried a few). I am finally now putting myself towards obtaining that goal and becoming a professional mermaid. My first time seeing Hannah Fraiser made me realize "I can be a REAL mermaid". I bought a monofin and had planned on making a tail (after watching Mermaid Sasha's fabric tail video) but never did. My monofin sat in my boyfriend's trunk for the last 2 years, until I stumbled across Raina the Halifax Mermaid's Facebook. I thought to myself, "This is it." And once I saw her book, I was like-- yes! I got out my monofin and started researching, and researching. I've been dreaming of mermaids and of making a tail for three nights in a row now. I want to do underwater modeling and bring awareness to the state of our oceans and help encourage people to try and make a difference before it's too late. I am also a big DIY-er and crafter, and I enjoy painting as well, and have started/am in the process of creating sea-themed jewelry, art, prosthetics and mermaid accessories that I hope to begin selling soon. Most of the proceeds will be going towards a professional tail, but I am also in the designing stages of creating my own tail. I am currently a doula and student of midwifery and hope to get to Hawaii from NC by the end of next year. My goal is to get a bit of land and have an off-grid mini-homestead, work as a midwife, and get involved with the Sirius Institute and assisting with dolphin-attended ocean-births there. I am constantly coming up with ideas for things... things to make, business venture ideas, housing designs, stories... It gives me a headache sometimes. I tend to dive right into things without a second thought, but I also have a habit of dropping things really fast and moving on to something else. This is something I've been trying to work on, however. Most things I drop I come back to, sometimes multiple times. I have just gotten back into pursuing modeling which I think will compliment my mermaid-ing well. I am a traditional foodie (Sally Fallon and Weston A. Price), love anthropology, environmental activism, human rights issues, LGBTQ and polyamory studies (and activism), and had once (before I discovered my call to midwifery) wanted to be a marine biologist and study the language of cetaceans and their interactions with humans (which is actually a lot of the work that the Sirius Institute has been involved with). I am a bisexual, polyamorist eclectic pagan. I enjoy learning about other religions, studying philosophy, discussing quantum physics, and pondering the universe. I am not a butterflies and sparkles light-worker Wiccan, but more of a down-and-dirty bones and fur and shells and blood kind of worker. I work a lot with ocean magic, and one of my matrons is in fact Yemaya (my other is the Morrigan, and my patron is Cernnunos). I hope to make a lot of friends, hopefully network, and to learn as much as possible on my journey :) ~Fathom

Seyani
06-21-2013, 05:37 AM
Hello there! Nice to meet you :3
Have fun with your adventure and goodluck with your creativeness at tail making! I can't wait to see~

Probably enough material to talk with you about considering from what I've read from your intro ;3

Fathom delMar
06-21-2013, 12:26 PM
Hello there! Nice to meet you :3
Have fun with your adventure and goodluck with your creativeness at tail making! I can't wait to see~

Probably enough material to talk with you about considering from what I've read from your intro ;3
I'd love to talk about anything :) I enjoy good conversations and meeting people with similar interests. Yea haha I'm excited to get started. I think I may have found a way to make a semi-realistic but relatively in-expensive way to make a tail, after scouring the site and doing some other research. Once I get started I'll definitely make a progress thread.

Mermaid Varshana
06-21-2013, 12:32 PM
Again with the diversity! I would love to pump your mind for info sometime. I don't know enough serious pagans. I am not poly, but I'm fascinated by that relationship style. No worries about jumping around with interests. I do that too. I think it's healthy and keeps life fluid and interesting.

Mermaid Momo
06-21-2013, 12:41 PM
Hi! I want to be a midwife and live off the grid on a homestead too! Though,I want to live near a forest instead of by the ocean :)

PhaylennMurúch
06-21-2013, 05:54 PM
hi, Fathom!

I'm always curious as to how other pagans started on their path, I'd love to chat about it sometime

AniaR
06-21-2013, 09:00 PM
=) Hello! <3 so glad I inspired you. There are many inspiring people here on mernetwork, so be prepared to be wowed! haha. I hope you find lots of helpful info here. <3

Little_Orca
06-21-2013, 09:44 PM
Whalecome whalecome :)

Fathom delMar
06-21-2013, 11:05 PM
Darnit I had done a whole reply and went to post and it didn't >.< Here goes again....
Again with the diversity! I would love to pump your mind for info sometime. I don't know enough serious pagans. I am not poly, but I'm fascinated by that relationship style. No worries about jumping around with interests. I do that too. I think it's healthy and keeps life fluid and interesting. To be honest, I'm a very lazy pagan haha. But I'd love to talk about it. If there's an appropriate board for that kind of discussion I'll make a thread unless you just want to PM about it :) Yes, I agree. My boyfriend makes fun of me for it, but it keeps us both on our toes haha. He's always like, "What are you researching/attempting now?". I came out to myself and my boyfriend (high school sweetheart and father of my beautiful 16-month-ol d son) about being poly back around December, which was when I first heard the term, but after some reflection realized I've been this way if not forever, at least a really long time. I'm only interested in women outside of our relationship, I joke that if it weren't for him I'd be a lesbian. Unfortunately still no luck on the lady-love front haha.


Hi! I want to be a midwife and live off the grid on a homestead too! Though,I want to live near a forest instead of by the ocean :)That's awesome! There is an aspiring and student midwives group on facebook I created if you're interested :) We had originally been looking at the mountains of western NC (near Asheville) but lately everything has been "Hawaii" and nothing was falling into place for us to move to Asheville, and I just love the ocean too much to move 6 hours away from it. My bf is also a big beach bum. He body surfs mostly. Have you thought any of what kind of midwife you want to be/what path you want to take? I am going direct entry and may or may not go for my CPM license. I'm not a big fan of licensing. I believe in the evidence behind hands-off birthing and see myself as that kind of midwife. part of why I chose to train under Whapio of The Matrona Midwifery School (in Asheville actually).


hi, Fathom!

I'm always curious as to how other pagans started on their path, I'd love to chat about it sometimeWe can totally PM about it :) Or like I said if there's a place for it we can start a thread. I love meeting new pagans and talking about paths.


=) Hello! <3 so glad I inspired you. There are many inspiring people here on mernetwork, so be prepared to be wowed! haha. I hope you find lots of helpful info here. <3Yes! I love it here and am really excited to have found this forum. Tons of information and lots of neat, inspiring people to engage with and learn from.


Whalecome whalecome :)Thanks! "Whale"-come... I like that haha.

Mermaid Oshun
06-23-2013, 10:17 PM
welcome Fantom del mar

Mermaid Momo
06-29-2013, 08:48 PM
That's awesome! There is an aspiring and student midwives group on facebook I created if you're interested :) We had originally been looking at the mountains of western NC (near Asheville) but lately everything has been "Hawaii" and nothing was falling into place for us to move to Asheville, and I just love the ocean too much to move 6 hours away from it. My bf is also a big beach bum. He body surfs mostly. Have you thought any of what kind of midwife you want to be/what path you want to take? I am going direct entry and may or may not go for my CPM license. I'm not a big fan of licensing. I believe in the evidence behind hands-off birthing and see myself as that kind of midwife. part of why I chose to train under Whapio of The Matrona Midwifery School (in Asheville actually).

I was thinking of going for the CPM, but I haven't really thought much about it since i just decided last year that I was going to go to college for nursing instead of art :)

Mermaid Varshana
06-29-2013, 09:06 PM
I was thinking of going for the CPM, but I haven't really thought much about it since i just decided last year that I was going to go to college for nursing instead of art :)

smart, smart, smart choice.