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Echidna
08-21-2013, 11:10 AM
Hello all! *wave*

It was mentioned mers from this site might also have a mer-avatar in SL.

Knowing how difficult it can be to bring even the people of one country together for a mer-meet, here's the idea!

We set a time/date (maybe through a poll, to determine which day most of us would have time),
and then meet in a nice, watery SL destination we previously select.

Come as any avatar you wish/can (there are some cheap commercial mermaid avas available),
it would of course be best if you made your avatar resemble you as much as you can, and your outfit looking like a tail you really have, to make this virtual meeting as close to a real one as possible!

Feel free to make your dream tail to go with it, or come as a fairy if you prefer, in SL, everything's possible, and you can fly :D

I've not been on SL for a very long time, but I'm willing to help out people who would like to make their real tail for their avatar and don't know exactly how.

A gathering in SL would also enable people to meet who otherwise never would because of distance.
We could try to make a world-wide meet as well!
And this is the best purpose of SL btw, a platform to meet people from around the world in real time, while looking like themselves!

What do you think?

Mermaid Cascada
08-21-2013, 11:14 AM
Great idea!!!

Merman Dan
08-21-2013, 12:47 PM
I'll meet those who are able at 1am GMT (9pm Eastern) at the Safewater Foundation Headquarters (http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Mermaids%20of%20Phantasien/125/126/3). In SL, I am Aeolius Graves (SL assigns a last name).

Echidna
08-21-2013, 12:58 PM
Your ava looks gorgeous.

Mine are many years old, might have to touch them up a little:
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Made that outfit myself, a long time ago.

Anyway, sadly my name is different on SL, but if I can show up, I'm going to look like this:

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:D

Mermaid Oshun
08-21-2013, 04:56 PM
I am mermaidgoldenpearl on 2nd life. Feel free to say hi if you see me there :)
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Echidna
08-21-2013, 05:39 PM
Hey, it DOES look like you! :)

I'll keep an eye out for you guys.
I know some amazing underwater spots, secluded, secret, with sunken wrecks and stuff.

If the idea catches on, maybe we can get a bigger number of forum mers together!

Mermaid Oshun
08-21-2013, 06:02 PM
where is the best place to buy a tail on second life?

Merman Dan
08-21-2013, 06:10 PM
If you go to the SWF headquarters, there is a "free and cheap tails list" in the toolkit on the welcome desk. There is a notecard in there that should have fairly updated landmarks to places with mer-tails :)

Mermaid Oshun
08-21-2013, 06:11 PM
Thank you Aeolius I will go look for it now

Echidna
08-21-2013, 06:41 PM
Found a tail?
Just checked this location, it's fantabulous.

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There is just one thing I'd really like to change in SL;
replacing the "flying through air"-sound with water bubbles/underwater swimming sound when you are in water. :p

Mermaid Oshun
08-21-2013, 07:21 PM
Yes I got an orange tail at Safe water foundation
I like it but Ive got a gap between my legs. I will try another one later. Still fixing my avatar
Are you on sl now? befriend me "mermaidgoldenpearl"

Echidna
08-21-2013, 07:43 PM
Looks like I'll have to re-learn the ropes, so I don't look too outdated beside all the new stuff wearers
:p

Meh, each time I go back to SL, I have to remake my outfits...so annoying lol.

SeaGlass Siren
08-21-2013, 08:55 PM
does it cost money to join second life? o-o

Merman Dan
08-21-2013, 09:07 PM
Second Life is free! Granted, you can spend a boatload of money on props, avatars, and the like but there's plenty of free stuff as well.

Echidna
08-21-2013, 10:25 PM
yea, it's free, and most of the freebie stuff you can get nowadays looks better than the most expensive things years ago lol.
I had much fun in the Merclub tonight!

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If you've never been in SL though, keep in mind there are voracious dragons, dinosaurs, evil snakespirits, and demons of all sort lurking everywhere :neener:

Merman Dan
08-21-2013, 10:29 PM
Tonight was a blast! I hope we can make this a regular gathering... when MerNetwork invades Second Life! ;)

Echidna
08-21-2013, 10:38 PM
Would be great!

From the size of those new underwater regions alone you can tell mermaiding is getting popular.
I liked the mansions there too, although not as much as my old mercastle, I'm just the kind of person that prefers fairy looking stuff :D

Mermaid Caspiana
08-21-2013, 10:41 PM
So it's kinda like a Sims for mermaids?

Merman Dan
08-21-2013, 10:59 PM
That's a good way of looking at it!

Echidna
08-21-2013, 11:00 PM
It's similar.
SL is a platform where you can make everything yourself (clothes, appearances, furniture, houses, fantasy stuff, vehicles, anything really) exactly the way you want it to look.
The only limit is the user's ability to use the in-world building and editing tools.

Apart from that, it's a world which is shaped by its residents.
Some come only to party or go to clubs and meet people; others buy themselves their dream villa on a tropical island they cannot afford in reality;
others roleplay, change into a different entity, or explore the ever changing regions.

I know many people never get into SL, because they somehow think it's an MMO, and since it isn't, they get bored and leave.
You won't get quests or goals to achieve besides those you set for yourself.

And there are sims- regions- for about everything.
The mermaid related ones are more and bigger than what I expected and remember.

Mermaid Oshun
08-22-2013, 01:06 PM
HELP I am trying to make my own flexible prim merfin from my actual fin photo but I cant get a transparent channel with my psp software.
Please help someone. If you can mask out the background and make it transparent in this photo I would be so grateful
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Echidna
08-22-2013, 01:15 PM
I could do that, but I'd have to send you the .tga file somewhere so you can upload it to your sl inventory.

Mermaid Oshun
08-22-2013, 01:20 PM
Thanks so much I sent you a private email

Mermaid Dottie
08-22-2013, 01:51 PM
This looks pretty cool, I'd be up for it. Are you guys going to have another one?

Echidna
08-22-2013, 02:20 PM
Sent the file to you, Pearl.


This looks pretty cool, I'd be up for it. Are you guys going to have another one?
Yea, guess so :)
I'll hop on now and then, and rework some of my stuff.

Mermaid Dottie
08-22-2013, 02:29 PM
I just downloaded it and everything, and I'm working on my appearance. It's a very confusing UI, though....
My name on there is the same on here. MermaidDottie.

Echidna
08-22-2013, 02:38 PM
Great, another mer :)

Yep, the UI and tools definitely take some time to get used to.
Don't rush, you'll get the hang of it soon enough.

Once you're ready to head out, type "safe water foundation" in the search menu, and you should get a teleport button.
On the minimap you can see who's there and their names, so you'll spot other forummers easily.

MerAnthony
08-22-2013, 02:42 PM
Ok I joined SL. My name is MerAnthony44. now I have to figure out how to get my tail.

Echidna
08-22-2013, 02:57 PM
You can go to the SWF (or other mermaid regions) and look a bit around.
Most have a box with tails and fins that are free.
The free tails in the SWF look better than expensive tails from a few years back.

Mermaid Oshun
08-22-2013, 03:15 PM
caltuna you have mail here

Mermaid Dottie
08-22-2013, 06:42 PM
Umm. here's me.13868

Echidna
08-22-2013, 07:33 PM
Cute!
Look forward to seeing you in-world! :)

@Pearl, so glad you got your tail sorted! :)
sorry about disappearing, my screen froze over and I dc'd. Can't even connect to the website, it's telling me the host is down wth ? :/

Echidna
08-22-2013, 08:43 PM
oh, and your inbox is full again ;)

Mermaid Oshun
08-22-2013, 08:55 PM
That's ok I figured you would be here. Mermaid Dottie I have to look you up on sl too :D

SeaGlass Siren
08-22-2013, 10:04 PM
This is sad.. I joined but I can't access the platform :|

Merman Dan
08-22-2013, 10:23 PM
SeaGlass, is it a browser issue?

Merman Dan
08-22-2013, 10:23 PM
There are loads of merfolk dancing HERE (http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Todos%20Santos/140/142/2) tonight :)

Echidna
08-22-2013, 11:20 PM
There are loads of merfolk dancing HERE (http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Todos%20Santos/140/142/2) tonight :)

those tails :jawdrop: must post pics later.

Echidna
08-23-2013, 12:36 AM
PICTURE TSUNAMI INCOMING!

Here are some screenshots I took during another merdance tonight.

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This is from a high bird's point of view showing the dancefloor.

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These were two dancers who impressed me a lot; a dark sharklady, and a brilliant, frilly- er- fishman.

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This lovely golden merlady had an incredibly detailed avatar and was the host and DJ of the event.

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These pretty mermaids were actually doing a synchronized dance!
Awesome inspiration.

Echidna
08-23-2013, 12:40 AM
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This mysterious Merlady in blue appeared out of nowhere, danced for awhile in the depths, and then disappeared again.

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There were quite a few Octopus Mers present; this was one of them.

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An overview with many pretty fluke shapes and tail colours on the dance floor, and me swimming above.

malinghi
08-23-2013, 04:08 AM
I made an account a couple years ago, got kinda into it for a bit, then got tired of it and haven't been on in a while. If you guys are going to be hanging out on there I can maybe give it another try. Its kinda funny that its been so long that I didn't really remember anything, so when I logged on I was surprised to find that I have a pretty nice avatar.

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SeaGlass Siren
08-23-2013, 08:09 AM
I think it may be a browser issue Ae... Because I still can't log on. Stupid old computer. Ive been using this since 2003..

Merman Dan
08-23-2013, 08:49 AM
This lovely golden merlady had an incredibly detailed avatar and was the host and DJ of the event.

That golden merlady was MerNetwork's own CynthiaMermaid. :)

Mermaid Oshun
08-23-2013, 09:18 AM
thanks to Caltuna for helping me to put my real life (rl) fluke onto my second life (sl) avatar
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It waves in the water like a flag when my avatar moves. That's exactly how it moves in rl
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I tinted it to match with my scale color

Mermaid Oshun
08-23-2013, 09:35 AM
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I think I know how to make this tail. Just find a palm tree on sl, attach it to your foot and tint it blue. So your avatar is swimming around standing up on a palm tree or dragging a palm tree behind itself.

I think I will try to make one in gold

Mermaid Oshun
08-23-2013, 09:38 AM
Regarding the other gold lady's tail
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looks like the tail maker covered almost every square inch in wing like fins and feather like things. Looks like a cabaret or ball gown.

Azurin Luna
08-23-2013, 10:25 AM
I might join in too when I'm home :)

Echidna
08-23-2013, 01:16 PM
Oh, nice ava, malinghi!
Your tail looks almost like the modern mesh ones already?

@seaglass siren; there are certain graphic cards which do not work with SL.
check out the pc requirements on their website www.secondlife.com (http://www.secondlife.com), they have all the hardware listed.


Regarding the other gold lady's tail

looks like the tail maker covered almost every square inch in wing like fins and feather like things. Looks like a cabaret or ball gown.
It's just the perspective. From the side you can see it's not a gown, I just took the shot from the front to show her avatar better.



I think I know how to make this tail. Just find a palm tree on sl, attach it to your foot and tint it blue.

Lol!


That golden merlady was MerNetwork's own CynthiaMermaid. :)
Oh, I didn't even realize she was from Mernetwork too!

Echidna
08-23-2013, 01:24 PM
Today, I had some fun trying to re-create my SL look irl :D

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I used:
a tiara/crown from my carnival/performance props;
my white snaketail, which I made look longer than it really is by wrapping a white qipao around my feet;
a white bellydancing veil, which I fastened above and behind me;
and a white bathing suit with a scale pattern.

Now, making a tail outfit like this and actually swimming in it would be fantastic (and better for photoshoots),
but I made my snaketails a bit shorter for a reason :p
I need the feeling I'm getting somewhere while swimming, or I get frustrated lol.

+100 interwebs if you recognize what the background is.

Mermaid Oshun
08-23-2013, 04:14 PM
Weeee! I bought that gold tail the MC had on last night
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Azurin Luna
08-23-2013, 04:36 PM
Still figuring out how to do stuff in there, but my name is Draecin, Azurin was already taken
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It's a back view of my avatar, as I don't know how to move the camera around it yet

Mermaid Oshun
08-23-2013, 04:50 PM
I LOVE your mer hair!

Echidna
08-23-2013, 07:39 PM
^^Shiny!
I had no idea that goldfishtail could be bought.
But then, probably not everyone can make such pro outfits themselves, thus I guess most of the stuff we've seen is vendored somewhere.

I finally sorted my full snake- and dragon avatars, and had another look at my old mermaid outfits.
They aren't half bad, but I still prefer stuff I made on my own and is thus unique in all of SL. :)

Mermaid Oshun
08-24-2013, 09:42 AM
Here's my new sl tail
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and my next suit
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Echidna
08-24-2013, 10:49 AM
Great looking!
Those are mesh tails, right?
I like the white one!

btw, I found some fluke texture in my inventory and couldn't apply it to a tailprim, the exact problem you had Pearl,
the flexi path was upside down.
I found absolutely no way to rotate that around, save for building an entire new fin lol.

Could you by any chance explain how you turned your texture around on the prim?

Mermaid Oshun
08-24-2013, 12:24 PM
1)Put the fluke on by R clicking it in inventory and click attach to l o r foot
2)R click on the fluke and click EDIT
3)click on Texture tab
4)look down at Rotation Degrees and change the number to about 180 degrees if it is on 0
you will see the fluke turning around
5)realign the fluke back onto your feet.
6)click on the Features tab and make sure Flexible Path box is checked.
come out of it and the fluke should wave the right way.
HTH

PS To get a "mesh" texture go to the Texture tab and increase the transparency to about 40%

Merman Dan
08-24-2013, 12:32 PM
How many folks have Sims in SL? I had one, long ago, a private island with a sand castle for a home. Granted, they are not cheap, so I let it go. These days I rent a mer-house in the Haven of Mermaids.

Ariel-Starfish
08-24-2013, 12:35 PM
I tried to use SecondLife in the past, but I suck at editing the character etc. Maybe if someone would make me a avatar? :')

Mermaid Oshun
08-24-2013, 12:53 PM
I used to have a 1/4 of an island under my old avatar elsa chauveau. But I havent been on in years.

Echidna
08-24-2013, 01:05 PM
@Pearl, thanks!!!
It worked! woo! lol.

(Actually it was so easy I wonder why I couldn't do it myself, I feel dumb now.)

I made an album with SL Mers, so for those halfway interested, but not sure whether they would really like to try SL out, have a look at it to see some example looks :)

And if you'd rather be something entirely else, check out my SL aquatics album :D
(I haven't put up cetaceans, squid, snails, rays, sharks, plesiosaurs yet though, I will when I find someone who has those avas).

Mermaid Oshun
08-24-2013, 01:07 PM
:lol: @ your feeling dumb now. I am so glad it worked for you if you're in world tp me so i can see it

Mermaid Oshun
08-24-2013, 03:24 PM
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Echidna
08-24-2013, 04:27 PM
^^So you got your account back?

I remember those horses.
Have quite a few of them in my inv, but I guess newer ones will look nicer lol.

You're not using the normal viewer, are you?
Because the official one doesn't allow you to start it/login twice.

Mermaid Oshun
08-24-2013, 04:47 PM
yes I have all my old stuff back. You can sign on 2 accounts at the same time. I looked it up online.
Go to ME in menu then PREFERENCES then ADVANCED then check box for Allow multiple viewers.
You sign on one account. Then you go to start and open another incident of second life and sign on your other avatar... Voila! :eek:

Echidna
08-24-2013, 05:09 PM
Whoa!
I never knew! :eek:
Cool stuff, thanks again! :D

..although, wasn't it somehow not allowed to have 2 accts?
not sure but I think I read that somewhere.

@Ariel; it's not that difficult to make your own avatar, only you know how you want it to look anyway.
The rest (picking up a decent skin, hair, and ao) can be done once you're past the first initial customization. :)

Mermaid Oshun
08-24-2013, 05:15 PM
I think you made that up in your own mind
http://community.secondlife.com/t5/General-Discussions/Multiple-accounts-one-person/td-p/154573

I used to work selling sims on sl. It was typical for agents to have one account for work and another for their own pleasure.

Merman Dan
08-24-2013, 05:49 PM
Your horse looks a tad out of place. ;)

http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5539/9586728176_10fa3ed00c_o.jpg

Or perhaps a stingray ride for four?

http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3777/9584079607_8b194763a0_o.jpg

Echidna
08-24-2013, 06:21 PM
Your horse looks a tad out of place. ;)

http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5539/9586728176_10fa3ed00c_o.jpg



aw, so cute!

and Pearl, thanks for that info.
I was not completely mistaken; in the link they said back then when I played, it wasn't approved of and that's what I remembered.

Glad that was changed! :)

MermaidSaku
08-24-2013, 06:32 PM
Awesome ^^ I have been on Secondlife since 06 xD. Would be awesome to meet you guys on sl!! This is my new avi named Silentaiihttp://i86.photobucket.com/albums/k113/Sakurakosaturnstar10/Snapshot_017_zpsf474f5b2.pnghttp://i86.photobucket.com/albums/k113/Sakurakosaturnstar10/Snapshot_014_zpsdd2416ec.png
http://i86.photobucket.com/albums/k113/Sakurakosaturnstar10/kasdfghjk_zpsc2e1b9c0.jpg

Lady Aurelia
08-24-2013, 06:47 PM
I have an SL account. I haven't been on it in quite a while. I got it back when I was 13 and met up with some other kids my age. We found this sort of family like setting and they made sure we were in appropriate areas since having an account then at that age wasn't allowed. I stopped playing because I had school to focus on, it's been a while, but seeing this thread reminded me of it :) It's much more enjoyable when you have friends on or people you know. It isn't so much fun by yourself.

Echidna
08-24-2013, 07:07 PM
It's much more enjoyable when you have friends on or people you know. It isn't so much fun by yourself.

Definitely!
Unless you are a builder constantly busy with your projects, or working on some grand plan, SL should be used to meet people, talk, and have fun,
otherwise, it gets old fast ;)

Lady Aurelia
08-24-2013, 07:25 PM
Definitely!
Unless you are a builder constantly busy with your projects, or working on some grand plan, SL should be used to meet people, talk, and have fun,
otherwise, it gets old fast ;)

I used to be a builder. Sort of. I at least knew how to build. But since I haven't been on in a while, the new UI is a bit confusing. I'll probably use Phoenix instead, it uses the old UI that SL used to have before they "upgraded".

Mermaid Oshun
08-25-2013, 09:38 AM
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I made a copy of my white tail red for the day. I can turn the white tail to any color.

MermaidSaku
08-25-2013, 09:49 AM
That reminds me of the betta fish tail i used to have on sl xD lol

Mermaid Oshun
08-25-2013, 10:02 AM
I will look for you on sl!

Mermaid Oshun
08-26-2013, 10:10 AM
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new looks i am testing
I think I prefer the top skin

Mermaid Oshun
08-26-2013, 12:11 PM
I rented a house http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tamura/171/149/2850

Mermaid Oshun
08-26-2013, 04:13 PM
I found an H20 tail demo on sl marketplace
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Got a new shell bed for my house

Merman Dan
08-26-2013, 04:39 PM
I rented a house http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tamura/171/149/2850

My rental mer-house is in the Haven of Mermaids. Let me tidy the place up a bit and I'll invite the gang over for sushi! ;)

Echidna
08-26-2013, 04:51 PM
I'm too poor for renting :(
Feels bad to not be able to give a tip at the parties too, but I -really- don't have anything left, lol.

I found a huge store where in one corner, mer animations were sold!
There were beautiful dances, even a danceball, and some mer-mer cuddle anims :)

I'd so get me some of those dances or a HUD if I could.

One word of warning:
Lately, there has sprung up a new species of griefer in SL, the so-called crashspammers.
They use a malicious script which acts similar to a trojan and will log you out/crash your pc, and they flock to populated areas, especially gatherings and parties.

If you repeatedly freeze and crash, and cannot connect to the SL website afterward while everything else on the internet works just fine, it's likely you encountered one.
I had some serious problems with that because there is a crashspammer repeatedly visiting the twomoons events where I used to hang out.

Mermaid Oshun
08-26-2013, 07:33 PM
Caltuna save the TP I gave you. You are welcome to use that place whenever you're online. Saku you too!
Since I am married in real life, I can't make much use of a second life pad :lol: so it's best it does not go to waste.

Echidna
08-27-2013, 01:38 AM
hm, what do you mean with pad? some adult anims? :p

I don't really care for those.
Love dances though, especially artistic ones.
Ballet, Flamenco, waterballet (aka merdances)...could watch them all night!

Maybe someone in touch with the managers of SWF can ask whether the mercouple balls in front of the ruins shouldn't be positioned a bit (a good bit, actually!) higher into the air.
They are now lying on the ground, and each time the couple dives down (second dive), they completely submerge under the sand ground lol.

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It happens after the third pic (the lower small one), you can already guess that dive won't end well xD

Mermaid Oshun
08-27-2013, 03:58 AM
:rolleyes: I see youre going to always take everything south caltuna :eek:
Actually what I meant was when I was going through my last divorce I had a sl husband before I got married again in real life. In retrospect, that actually helped me to get through the drudgery of a divorcing my first rl husband after 20 years of marriage.
But no cyber dating or anything of the sort for me this time since Im married again in real life.

PS I like the wigs that you and that girl are wearing.

Echidna
08-27-2013, 12:41 PM
Well, if someone keeps mentioning they can't do XYZ because they're married- even if it's just a completely normal gathering/dance organized by the mersim club-, what am I to think?
Clicking on a dancefloor isn't cyberdating. There are single dances too :)

Didn't mean to diss your offer though, it's very generous!

Merman Dan
08-27-2013, 01:11 PM
Even in SL, I wear a wedding band. :)

Meemerdd
08-27-2013, 01:35 PM
I might try SL, but, I have no experience with such things. XD

Echidna
08-28-2013, 03:27 AM
This wednesday, there is another big merdance upcoming, don't miss out!
I believe it's in the afternoon, sadly that means I won't be able to attend.

But I found a mer waterballet group in SL and promptly joined, so now I can dance wherever I want without the need to be in a special place :D

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That's me and two of the other members practicing some choreos.

Oh, and I think Lotus joined SL and came by in the location of the next Merdance.
Sorry I didn't respond to your warm greeting, I was afk, baaad habit of mine :$

Mermaid Allie
08-28-2013, 10:39 PM
Hmm this is interesting... Wish I had time but none at all in between ap courses, sat prep and skating :( does this website give your computer any viruses at all? It would be cool to try but I'm super protective of my computer lolol

Echidna
08-28-2013, 10:58 PM
So, the merdance in the wellspring was awesome!
Glad I could make it (I suck at understanding the SL time, lol.)

There even was a merjelly there:
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We had some impromptu trio swimming afterward, because our colours matched so well:
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@Allie, it would be nice to see you in-world.
If you have reasonable virus protection and firewall, you should be ok, but scan more often to be sure.

You're skating? That's awesome!
I used to as well, but I've never been very good, I can skate forwards, backwards, and do a very slow pirouette, that's it lol.
But I have some really cool skate moves on my avatar, hehe, even physically impossible ones :p

MermaidSaku
08-29-2013, 09:42 AM
Haven of Mermaids? I love that sim!!! XD

SeaGlass Siren
08-29-2013, 10:28 AM
I still can't seem to open up the program.. Maybe my computer is outdated? Help! :(

Echidna
08-30-2013, 04:20 AM
If your screen remains black after starting, it's most likely your graphics card cannot handle SL.
Check the requirements on the main website, you should find all info there.

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Three more merdances since yesterday, and countless more of the legged variety.
I had no idea the SL community was so lively and thriving.
Very glad I returned :)

SeaGlass Siren
08-30-2013, 11:02 PM
It's wierd it doesn't even open after I click on it.. It kinda ignores my command :( it doesn't even go black..
Perhaps it's time to get a new computer..

Miyu
09-02-2013, 01:48 AM
I'm trying to convince the BF that it's okay for me to go on SL, it's not ALL sexy tiemz on there anymore, I just want to dance with all the lovely mers! It's *almost* like actually having a social life, right? :p

Echidna
09-02-2013, 01:57 AM
Hehe ;)
I don't go out irl either...never have (don't drink alcohol, and apparently it's all about that :p).
And no, not all is pixelpr0n in SL unless you go and look for it.

Sadly, my internet was broken the day before yesterday, and since then, it randomly disconnects me every few minutes or even seconds.
I cannot stay logged into any platform or game :/
even posting here is difficult.

I really miss the mer parties! :(

Miyu
09-02-2013, 02:11 AM
Haha yeah, my alcohol drinking is mostly limited to a little while camping or when hanging out with pirates, LOL. But, even if I did drink, I kind of live in a place where there's not much to do except tend to your fields and make things out of all the wood that grows in abundance here :p I used to live in Denver, CO, where at least there was things to do that didn't involve drinking, and were also mostly free as well... So I'm very lonely now, and I'd like to mer-club it up haha!

I think, if I can convince him that it's going to be safe and PG and I'm not going to fall madly in love with some random person and all, that the main issue will be bandwidth... Like I said, we're in the boonies, and our house is at the tail end of the internet... line... thingie. So I guess we have the slowest internet in our area, haha. The BF plays MMOs all day (no, really, all day I'm not exaggerating), and I'm worried I'll make him lag, and he gets like... REALLY upset when he lags. One day, I uploaded some large pics to my tailmaker, and his character died, and you would have thought I lost him his job or something! O.O;

Meemerdd
09-02-2013, 02:27 AM
It's always a little slower in the middle of no where! (And not within walking distance of ANYTHING.)

But SL stands for SOCIAL Life. :P not really


I can't figure SL out. :( but the stuff I'm having trouble no tutorial aactually explains, it's really annoying. I can't go anywhere, because I have to change settings I can't find. I can't seem to find a place I can red. I want to put together a tail, of sorts, and unbox my mermaid AO. (As much as I like boxes inside my arm, it doesn't really help.

Echidna
09-02-2013, 03:12 AM
Oh, I can relate, Moonlight!
I live in the middle of nowhere, too.
I usually don't mind, but having to drive an hour to get to a pool, or a doctor, or anything, is annoying...and it can get lonely, which is why I love SL parties lol.


One day, I uploaded some large pics to my tailmaker, and his character died, and you would have thought I lost him his job or something! O.O;
Haha, I can relate to that as well!
I used to play wow a lot, and especially in the beginning, it was srs bsns :p
Also, when you are grouped with others, they kinda rely on you, so if your BF was tanking or healing a dungeon or raid, his char lagging and dying could lead to an entire 24 other people dying (called a "wipe"), and that costs them all gold for repairs, and time in RL, so don't diss them too much for getting upset xD


I want to put together a tail, of sorts, and unbox my mermaid AO. (As much as I like boxes inside my arm, it doesn't really help.
lol.
When you click the item and "wear" it, and it still isn't unboxed, you will hold the box in your hand/arm.
Right-Click the box again and choose "edit".
In the Edit menu that comes up, open the "Content"-Tab.
You will now see what the box contains (usually your stuff, and some notecards/scripts and such).
Choose the stuff you want to unpack, and drag n drop it to your inventory.

You can also just click the box while wearing it, and get a window asking whether to copy to inventory and/or wear it, then just choose yes and there ya go.

Mermaid Jessica
09-02-2013, 04:39 AM
I cannot figure out Second Life either ]:

Miyu
09-02-2013, 04:52 AM
Caltuna: LOL yeah, I totally understand him wiping a whole group... It already happens sometimes when we get really bad lag just because, and he's also a prominent figure in his guild (and usually their main tank), so I totally get it. The day he freaked out was actually during the day while he was playing alone. He's just been grumpy because we ran out of food stamps so he's been out of soda for a week :P He drinks nothing but Cherry Coke, so he gets just a wee bit cranky without it LOL... And I understand, he's also lagged me so bad the whole internet froze while I'm trying to upload video and we had to reset the router...

What time do Mer-dances usually happen? Serious raiding doesn't happen over here until later at night, it's a night owl guild.

Echidna
09-02-2013, 05:39 AM
What time do Mer-dances usually happen? Serious raiding doesn't happen over here until later at night, it's a night owl guild.
Mostly they happen later evening/night, I'm afraid.
There are of course spots where parties are going on 24/7, but those are for leggers :p
(not bad either, if you're into that kind of thing.
Most have theme mottos, so I get to wear all the stuff I've made over the years :) ).

Miyu
09-03-2013, 01:28 AM
Hmm... I'll see what I can do. I mean, we *do* have two people raiding at the same time very very late at night (usually after 2:30 am), but I don't think I can slow down the internet that bad unless I'm uploading stuff...

Echidna
09-24-2013, 09:26 PM
Has anyone else found their way into SL by now?
Every weekend, there are several awesome mer gatherings; here a pic from the last dance I attended
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SL-ified 2 more of my RL tails as well:
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Hope to see more of you, it's really boring to hang out alone there if you've nothing to build or such lol.

Echidna
10-12-2013, 06:10 PM
I just heard that Stella Mare Sanctuary has shut down.
Not sure yet what this implies.
Is this the end of merdances & gatherings in Todos Santos, or will the whole sim go dry?

Anyone knows what other places are affected?

Mermaid Bella
01-06-2014, 03:13 AM
do you guys still play?i just reinstalled and started playing again after about 3 years absence.. lol

Dee Tal
01-06-2014, 04:49 PM
I am very active in SL and am a full time mer (octomer/cecaelia). I have a pod of dolphins that I pilot around the waters of SL with up to 11 passengers. We meet next to the (previously mentioned) Safe Waters Foundation Headquarters at 2pm (PST/SLT) every Sunday. It's a lot of fun.

Feel free to friend me.

http://my.secondlife.com/grim.enigma

I have some mer-related items I sell at https://marketplace.secondlife.com/stores/2159 but if you IM me in-world and mention the MerNetwork I will give you any of the items for free.