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DexRicon
10-07-2013, 03:12 AM
I'm sure this has been asked before many times. Indeed I've asked myself many times. However recent in-depth discussions with my [somewhat] new wife have found me with new insights into why I'm such a merphile.

Ignoring the obvious answer that I was about 3-5 when Splash and the Little Mermaid came out and a bunch of psychological issues were then set, I always wondered if there was more. Why do they continue to hold my interest as other childhood fandoms become of idle nostalgia? It certainly isn't prurient...or entirely so, as I don't have pictures of Princess Leia or Wonder Woman cosplays on my computer.

The conclusion I've come to (for now) is that the inherent dichotomy in the mermaid is incredibly interesting. The mermaid, perhaps more than any other mythological creature, is of two worlds but really never belonging in either of them. In the water she's a force to be reckoned with, but our limited understanding of the ocean forces mermaid characters to be essentially bored and lonely with underwater life. On land the interesting mermaids are always a little out of place, if not often forced out of place by an errant and unwanted transformation from legs to a tail. In many ways I see myself in that thought, having always felt out of place no matter where I was.

So what about everyone else? Why mermaids? Why the costumes or interest? What keeps you coming back to this particular mythological creature as vampires, werewolves, and all manner of other types of fiction await you?

Seatan
10-07-2013, 11:13 AM
Personally, I don't really see mermaids as being bored in the ocean--I think that is an idea pretty closely related to The Little Mermaid. When I SCUBA I feel like I am in another world, and that world is the farthest from "boring" than you could ever imagine. There is such endless, beautiful life below the surface. Even the ugliest creatures are awesome, and the ocean is so enormous that there is always more to see. I think that is why I am drawn to Mer. It's like being an alien from a strange world, only this is no fantasy! Us tiny humans can actually sink into those blue depths and see the wonder, no space ship necessary. That's what my mersona is about--being a part of their world, no pun intended. I like to dream that I one day could swim freely amongst those wonders, no breathing apparatus, no fins, no mask, just the water and the reefs and me. I don't care that much about the fantasy creature or the mermaid myths--for me its all anout being a part of the endless beauty that is the underwater world. No vampire or werewolf or fairy can do what the mermaid can: Open you to a REAL world of unexplored wonder.

SeaGlass Siren
10-07-2013, 09:05 PM
Seavanna that was the most beautiful thing I've ever read . ;-;

DexRicon
10-07-2013, 09:59 PM
Interesting statement. Mermaids as a method of being more connected to the natural world. I can see that. Not alone, but surrounded by more color and life than you could ever dream of finding up here, filtered through your own experience and hobbies. Mine is too, imagining a mermaid being bored and lonely underwater as I'm bored and lonely outside of the city. A dash of shame on my part as I realize I view the mermaid as a tragic character while you see her (you) as being nearly heroic in her connection to a larger world.

PearlieMae
10-07-2013, 11:08 PM
Oh! I have pages of opinions and theories on the subject! But I'm trying to write from my phone...I would love to share. I will try and reply tomorrow from the big computer, and will edit, I promise! (I'm replying now so I get notified and won't forget!)

Seatan
10-09-2013, 02:08 PM
Seavanna that was the most beautiful thing I've ever read . ;-;

*blushes* :)