MermaidSaku
09-18-2011, 11:27 AM
Well, I'm kinda sorta in a new relationship with someone. It's been about 2-3 years since i have dated anyone specially in person lol. He's Chinese and lived in Japan with his family as a kid then they moved here to Houston, Texas. I can't help but point out just how different we are! Polar opposites with completely different ways of thinking and completely different cultures, and boy do i mean it! lol
Other than the obvious skin differences there is the style differences. I am a Gothic/Punk/alternitive/lolita/visual-kei/ and occasionally a k-pop kinda girl. And he's just your average guy who like to wear shorts and a polo Tee. Loolll Food differences as well. I don't eat pork and i have only had beef twice and usually never finish up..And he eats anything and everything. Also there is my mermaid thing and oh, don't forget my room lol. He also gives quizzes randomly when we cuddle or jsut sit holding hands.Which is weird and sorta stressing because most the answers i know but i just can't remember at the time cause i am thinking about him not what 7 x 12 is : / or who joe biden is... urgggghhh lol . I'm the type of girl that doesn't care about what the gov is doing. i wanted to leave america a long time ago probably as soon as they elected Obama.. no offence to Will Smiths ear twin. :'/
I guess, what i am trying to get at here is that i am really not used to having someone in my life i have grown very comfortable with of going through things in my life alone.
Examples from our first date: We went to a Chinese bakery i saw bread in the shape of a cute Crab. I picked it up and bought it myself. Or how about the Japanese store? I also bought all the cool Japanese stuff myself. I wouldn't know exactly if he was willing to buy anything for me or not,i guess because i am not the sort of girl that really cares. I'm used to going in stores and buying my own stuff even on dates because usually the guy doesn't want to spend any money on me in the first place lol. I also took the bus to meet him for our first date.. Crazy huh?
But, what is cool is he knows my room is covered in j-rock bands, basically a tone of asian guys cover my wall but he's fine with it and thinks it's cool. I dressed Gothic punk for our first date and he aid it was hot. He's heard me avoid his quizzes and tries to get me to answer anyway until i shut him up "another way", he knows i don't eat certain foods and he respects it even if he says it's weird lol, and he's extremely polite.
So I'm not going to run away (or in this case swim away) from him just yet. I'm waiting to see where things go i guess.
Most of the time i am just trying really hard to impress him. :/ i have no clue how though.
Other than the obvious skin differences there is the style differences. I am a Gothic/Punk/alternitive/lolita/visual-kei/ and occasionally a k-pop kinda girl. And he's just your average guy who like to wear shorts and a polo Tee. Loolll Food differences as well. I don't eat pork and i have only had beef twice and usually never finish up..And he eats anything and everything. Also there is my mermaid thing and oh, don't forget my room lol. He also gives quizzes randomly when we cuddle or jsut sit holding hands.Which is weird and sorta stressing because most the answers i know but i just can't remember at the time cause i am thinking about him not what 7 x 12 is : / or who joe biden is... urgggghhh lol . I'm the type of girl that doesn't care about what the gov is doing. i wanted to leave america a long time ago probably as soon as they elected Obama.. no offence to Will Smiths ear twin. :'/
I guess, what i am trying to get at here is that i am really not used to having someone in my life i have grown very comfortable with of going through things in my life alone.
Examples from our first date: We went to a Chinese bakery i saw bread in the shape of a cute Crab. I picked it up and bought it myself. Or how about the Japanese store? I also bought all the cool Japanese stuff myself. I wouldn't know exactly if he was willing to buy anything for me or not,i guess because i am not the sort of girl that really cares. I'm used to going in stores and buying my own stuff even on dates because usually the guy doesn't want to spend any money on me in the first place lol. I also took the bus to meet him for our first date.. Crazy huh?
But, what is cool is he knows my room is covered in j-rock bands, basically a tone of asian guys cover my wall but he's fine with it and thinks it's cool. I dressed Gothic punk for our first date and he aid it was hot. He's heard me avoid his quizzes and tries to get me to answer anyway until i shut him up "another way", he knows i don't eat certain foods and he respects it even if he says it's weird lol, and he's extremely polite.
So I'm not going to run away (or in this case swim away) from him just yet. I'm waiting to see where things go i guess.
Most of the time i am just trying really hard to impress him. :/ i have no clue how though.