What has mermaiding taught you?

[Mermaid Photine]

Besides swimming or how to make a tail, what have you learned from spending time mermaiding and talking with fellow mers?

I have learned that I have something in common with people who live miles and miles and miles away, and that is just awesome to think about. I have also learned about materials and tidbits about spfx which sounds like a rather fun career should I wish to do more research on it. I have also remembered how fun it is to play pretend. I never really forgot, but I couldn't find a good enough reason to do so, even though I wanted to. But just today, I filled up my bath and splashed around in my fabric tail. I am so excited for summer and trying my tail out for real!

[Mermaid Hamant]

I have learned how to be secure in who I am. I tend to get some strange looks sometimes when I tell people I am a mermaid for fun, but I have learned not to care and to do what I love. :)

[LittleTreasure]

I've learned it's okay to let out your inner child...and unfortunately, that people have distorted views about what is "mature" and what is "childish." Who cares if I want to fulfill a childhood dream, and play in a mermaid costume? Who cares if it's not practical and useful, so long as I feel good and don't abuse it?

People do other things that are harmful and irresponsible, yet socially acceptable, like drinking, doing drugs, etc - to do EXACTLY the same thing...play. Why is making myself a sparkly costume so horrible? Why is that bad?

Anyway. >.>; I love my mermaid tail. Even though it's winter now. Come on SUMMER! :)

[happyguava]

Exactly what you said, LittleTreasure. :)

I've learned to be stronger and to not care as much what people think of me.

I've learned that I'm really quite good with kids! (yes, being a mermaid made me more aware of that fact than 3 years as a teacher!).

I've learned to love who I was as a kid and honor her by living her dream.

I've learned that I can get excited about things again! (I'm sure there are many people here who have felt the lack of motivation that comes with severe depression.)

I've learned that the ocean off southern Australia is FREEZING in winter, but also that swimming in it is still totally worth it.