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MermaidKatrina
03-15-2014, 04:36 PM
Ok, so on facebook there is an adult male who has some mental disabilities asking me how to become a merman. This person states that they want to be just like me.. I really don't know what to tell this person because they genuinely believe that mermaids exist and that we are not real people in tails... I don't want to be the mean person to crush his dreams... Please help

Mermaid Annariea
03-15-2014, 04:53 PM
You may just need to tell him the truth :/

BayouMermaid
03-15-2014, 05:07 PM
I would just tell him that *your* tail is a costume. I wouldn't come out with the "mermaids aren't real" speech, but be clear that your tail is a prosthetic piece.

MermaidKatrina
03-15-2014, 05:13 PM
BayouMermaid thank you, that is the easiest thing to tell him. Thank you!


•Just Keep Swimming•

BayouMermaid
03-15-2014, 05:40 PM
Glad to help!

Trade Winds
03-15-2014, 07:03 PM
I agree on explaining it is just a costume...if he wants to believe merfolk are real, let him! No harm done. Hope all goes well.

AniaR
03-15-2014, 10:32 PM
Katrina I wouldn't engage at all
I had a situation like that and the man found my business number and started calling me leaving messages and stalking me in person. I had to call the police :( you dont owe anyone a response. You dont have to reply and quite often Thats the safest measure

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MermanZen
03-16-2014, 10:30 AM
Katrina I wouldn't engage at all I had a situation like that and the man found my business number and started calling me leaving messages and stalking me in person. I had to call the police :( you dont owe anyone a response. You dont have to reply and quite often Thats the safest measureSent from my Nexus 4 using TapatalkI agree better not to answer because you might not know how he'll take it and like AniaR said better to be safe than sorry