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Ok, so right now I'm pissed with my sister. I was making seanut butter cups (like my sea slang?) when my 9 year old sister asked to help. I said she could so she got right to work. The problem was, she kept on putting in too much chocolate into the muffin tins. I asked her nicely to stop, so she "stopped". A couple minutes later, I realized that she was STILL putting in too much chocolate so I showed her how to do it. She yelled at me and ended up taking a big spoon full of chocolate into the bathroom to eat. When she came back, I asked her where the chocolate was. She didn't say anything, so I asked her if she ate it. She yelled at me again, and I told her that she couldn't make them anymore because she wouldn't listen and she was eating all the chocolate. This made her really mad for some reason. She yelled at me some more, called me a terrible big sister, and then threatened to kill me with a hundred knives. She then tried to take one of the knives I was using on the table, and she almost stabbed me. I yelled at her and told her that this was unacceptable. She said "Your not my mom dumb ass!". By this time, my mom had come out of her room to see what was going on. I told her, and she ended up comforting MY SISTER. Not the one who almost got stabbed in the heart, the almost killer! WTF?!
I'm just REALLY pissed right now! My sister has always been violent and threatened to kill me, (she even almost threw a chair at me once) but this was just going too far. I mean, she almost STABBED me for crying out loud! All just because I wouldn't let her make seanut butter cups. SEANUT BUTTER CUPS. I ALMOST GOT KILLED OVER SEANUT BUTTER CUPS. What was REALLY scary was that afterwards, she threatened to stab me in my sleep because I wouldn't let her have a seanut butter cup because they weren't ready! UUUUUUUGGGHHHH!!!!!!!
I have come down to the conclusion that my sister needs anger management class.

That is horrible. My mom would never go for that. She is young. First she shouldn't be cursing or threatening you. Where did she even learn that from? Have you told your mother what she's done? Mothers can get through to children easier because children see them as the adult to listen to. My mom spanked me so I mostly tried to do nice things. ( everyone has different parenting methods so I'm not saying you should take this route) unfortunately kids learn to hide things and look innocent when parents come around. I suggest trying to talk to your sister. Yeah she is young but sometimes they understand and actually care. But If this continues you need to tell your parents. Young ones are the future. How they are raised effects how they think of what's right and wrong. Either you or parents can change how she thinks. (even if some kids are stubborn)

Your sister probably just felt a rush of hormones...I hate the word hormones, lol, but I've felt really, really violent before and even done things like that before at her age. I see your side totally though, too.

All of you... Need big Internet hugs. :hugs:

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I'm really irritated that I can't figure out the facebook password so I can deactivate it again after accidentally reactivating it. >_>

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If my account has been suspended can an admin please contact me through email or facebook and inform me as to why. Or if it's just the site messing up, can someone let me know?

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Glad we got that sorted! That was totally my bad. This is why I let Malinghi handle the technical aspects of this stuff- I end up crossing wires then someone has to tell me that I broke something, haha. In the future if something happens if you could post in the "Help and Support" thread. Posting there will catch our attention better as well (this post could have gotten buried here). Also if PMs don't work for any reason, remember we have a contact us page at the bottom of the page, and the mernetwork@gmail.com email :)

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Glad we got that sorted! That was totally my bad. This is why I let Malinghi handle the technical aspects of this stuff- I end up crossing wires then someone has to tell me that I broke something, haha. In the future if something happens if you could post in the "Help and Support" thread. Posting there will catch our attention better as well (this post could have gotten buried here). Also if PMs don't work for any reason, remember we have a contact us page at the bottom of the page, and the mernetwork@gmail.com email :)

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Thanks Iona. Was wondering what I did and if I did something :headdesk: I deleted my rant since the problem was fixed :)

I just fell down 10 steps, I slipped down them cos it was wet. Now I have a big bruise on my butt, another on my back and down my arm (where I tried to grab the railing)

Ouch i know how that is, I once fell from the top of the stairs and hit every step with my butt on my way down. I couldn't sit for a day because of my blue butt :P

why does our stupid heating system go in error every time why try to take a shower? It's freezing outside and we like to get warm :(

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That was...awesome. :group hug: And I did do the mushed peas trick for the little fishie, and it worked super well :)

Today my "mother" told me that I would soon find my self living elsewhere because I used a plastic bag to transport a dying fish so my dad could kill it. A fish that SHE and her golden child where supposed to take care of instead they let it die. She has been sich a bi*** to me these past few years. Not long ago I came home from my boyfriends house and she told me " I wish you would go back and stay there" and I cant count how many times I have heard her say that if she could she would go back in time and not have conceived me. Honestly at this point I don't care if she kicks me out, the only thing that is keeping me here are my animals and no money to get a place to live. All she wants is a bigger room for her perfect little boy. The child she actually wanted. I cant take staying here anymore, my 18 years here are up and I'm done with it all....

Yesterday I had my first gig at a casino resort. The arrangement was for me to get there, change in the changing room, and have the client take my stuff up to their room to keep it safe until the gig was over. Well they didn't know the jacket hanging next to my purse was mine. just before I'm ready to get out of the pool, one of the parents who was chaperoning the party went in there and saw my jacket. [again, not knowing it was mine.] By the time I got in the changing room, it was gone. Someone had stolen it. It had my iphone with a ton of private info on it, it had my pay for the gig, and a bunch of my business cards. The thief had about a 5 minute window to grab my jacket and run. I'm most upset about my chapstick. both my chapsticks were in my jacket pocket because one was almost finished and the second one was brand new.

so we go to the front desk who basically says that unless someone turns it in, there's nothing they can do. we go to the security guard because he can radio all of the other guards to spread the word. He says that even if they did see someone walking around with my jacket, they can't do anything because they don't have proof that it's mine. When I told him my business cards with my name and number were in the jacket pocket, he said they aren't legally allowed to search anyone. So if I saw the thief wearing my jacket, there would be absolutely nothing I could do about it. They could walk right up to me, shake my hand and introduce themselves while wearing it and I wouldn't be able to do a damn thing about it.

what kind of a security system is that?

So now I have no phone, which means I'm most likely missing calls from potential clients. I posted a note on all my websites saying that my phone was stolen and to contact me via email, and now all I can do is hope that they see the notes.

Is it a smartphone? If it was you may be able to track it. I don't know exactly how you do it but I think you use your phone number or something. That's also the reason why I lock my phone so if its ever stolen, the thief won't be able to get into it that easily and whenever anyone gets into the Internet or any aps my phone transmits its location.
I really hope someone returns your phone and business cards soon with little or no damage done.

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Is it a smartphone? If it was you may be able to track it. I don't know exactly how you do it but I think you use your phone number or something. That's also the reason why I lock my phone so if its ever stolen, the thief won't be able to get into it that easily and whenever anyone gets into the Internet or any aps my phone transmits its location.
I really hope someone returns your phone and business cards soon with little or no damage done.

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I have the app called "find my iphone" installed on it. it lets me remotely lock down the phone and erase all the data the second they try to plug it into their computer, so it basically becomes a useless paperweight. it also had a password lock on the phone.

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Today my "mother" told me that I would soon find my self living elsewhere because I used a plastic bag to transport a dying fish so my dad could kill it. A fish that SHE and her golden child where supposed to take care of instead they let it die. She has been sich a bi*** to me these past few years. Not long ago I came home from my boyfriends house and she told me " I wish you would go back and stay there" and I cant count how many times I have heard her say that if she could she would go back in time and not have conceived me. Honestly at this point I don't care if she kicks me out, the only thing that is keeping me here are my animals and no money to get a place to live. All she wants is a bigger room for her perfect little boy. The child she actually wanted. I cant take staying here anymore, my 18 years here are up and I'm done with it all....

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Oh gosh, I am so sorry! Genuinely sorry, Dacora! I really don't know what to say besides that I really feel for you, and wish you the best of luck for whatever happens next. Just keep on doing what makes you happy and let no one stop you! You'll get through this, I'm sure :) <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 :hug:

I'm sorry, Dacora! I wish I could help you in some way, but know you have my sympathy and I'm sending all good wishes your way.

Thank you guys for the nice words and good wishes, it does mean a lot. Ill be graduating this year and I will get a job and be out. If everything works out according to plan my boyfriend may move in with me.

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Thank you guys for the nice words and good wishes, it does mean a lot. Ill be graduating this year and I will get a job and be out. If everything works out according to plan my boyfriend may move in with me.

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;D That's good to hear. If you need a job, maybe there is a career center near the area you live at? I have one near me and they are helping me find a job right now. I'm with this program called the 'Out of Youth Program' and you get 120 hours to work at any place you want (as long as the company you want to work at agrees with it) and you work 120 hours for free for them (but the out of youth program pays you, so you get money either way) and by the time the 120 hours are up, they should hire you after the 120 hours are up if they have open positions and they like the way you work. I was working at marshalls first but, they didn't have any open positions, so I stopped at 50 hours, and I'm going to move the rest of my 70 hours to an indoor pool (since it's winter) if they have open positions ;D. And I know what you mean, it can be very rude and annoying if your mother keeps telling you to leave the house. My mom has tried to kick me out 3 times already. x.x

Our neighbor's dog are kept outside in the back yard most of the time and they just wont stop barking 24/7. Don't get me wrong...I love dogs, but it sometimes fees like a little too much.

Sorry just had to rant out there.

Ugh, dogs. My boyfriend's dogs ate my goddamn boot (bearpaws). They were the only black ones I had and I wore them with everything. My boyfriend keeps offering to buy me new ones any time it come up (this happened Saturday), but I just keep telling him it's too expensive and that it's my fault for leaving them there overnight. Sometimes I wish I was more aggressive. -_- it really pisses me off whenever I think about it!

Remember guys, if you want to vent about mermaid drama, it goes in this other thread, not this one.

I'm having a rant moment before I up and go to work here. I REAAAALLLLY hate it when I go to work (I work at a daycare), and a parent comes up and asks if I'm allowed to be in a different classroom than the school age kids. I mean sure, if my hair's down I look younger, but I'm nineteen, for heaven's sake! GEEZ people. ANyway, there's my rant. Rwawrgh.

I always LOVE being blamed for crap i didn't do. No surprise to any one my other half has a temper and today it exploded over checks he couldn't find. He apparently had them in the back of his jeans and the beginning of the month and never got around to depositing them and since i do laundry obviously it's my fault they are missing.never mind that i dig through every single pocket on his pants cause i know he's always got crap in them and always put it all in the same place but never saw any checks.our the fact that those jeans have been through the wash how many times now this month and he just now thought of it. Ever have those moments where you hate the person you love

Ugh, my bf is constantly after me for scraping my teeth on my fork. I don't do it on purpose, and I've tried to not do it but what he doesn't understand is that I have way too many crooked teeth in a very small mouth. It's pretty much impossible. I have enough stupid food related stuff to worry about in a day with all my allergies, don't start haggling me cuz my teeth OCCASIONALLY scrape. Go eat by yourself :p I didn't even KNOW this was even an issue people have until I met him. I just always ate and never paid any attention. it's like, really, I just walked in the door and you're going to fight with me about how I eat my food? Here's a book in your face. lol

LIKING EVERYTHING AND SHARING NOTHING IS NON-PRODUCTIVE!!!! *epic flails* \\\\\(>_<)/////
>:O It takes 2 seconds to hit that like button people! you know how long it takes to hit (and preform) the share action?! literally 3. ONE second more! building a fan base is HARD. We can only do so much! We literally CANT do it without fan help and support....

/end rant....

in all seriousness... this just irks me all the dang time....

*breathes deeply and goes back to the depths*

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Ugh, my bf is constantly after me for scraping my teeth on my fork. I don't do it on purpose, and I've tried to not do it but what he doesn't understand is that I have way too many crooked teeth in a very small mouth. It's pretty much impossible. I have enough stupid food related stuff to worry about in a day with all my allergies, don't start haggling me cuz my teeth OCCASIONALLY scrape. Go eat by yourself :p I didn't even KNOW this was even an issue people have until I met him. I just always ate and never paid any attention. it's like, really, I just walked in the door and you're going to fight with me about how I eat my food? Here's a book in your face. lol

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My bf freaks out beacuse he can hear me chew. I can't even hear me chew but he does. I have had to go to another room to eat a snack so he don't freak out. It's very funny at times.


My dog got out today and got hit by a car. :/ The person didn't even stop to let our neighbor know they hit a dog infront of their house. He had been dead for an hour or two when my mom called to tell us he was on the side of the road.... I'm also worried about my older dog. I kept the two together for warmth,so they don't get lonely and they where mom and son. Now she has to be alone at night. I'll be playing with her more so she won't get lonely but still....

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O.o One of my coworkers was mad today because I put my hair in a ponytail. So weird. But anyway, I just gave her a very Vulcan look and passed, saying "odd that you'd be mad about that." And she just shrugged, and we went our separate ways.

On another note: Your poor dog. T^T Now I'm sad.

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LIKING EVERYTHING AND SHARING NOTHING IS NON-PRODUCTIVE!!!! *epic flails* \\\\\(>_<)/////
>:O It takes 2 seconds to hit that like button people! you know how long it takes to hit (and preform) the share action?! literally 3. ONE second more! building a fan base is HARD. We can only do so much! We literally CANT do it without fan help and support....

/end rant....

in all seriousness... this just irks me all the dang time....

*breathes deeply and goes back to the depths*

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If you wanna build a fanbase, come OUT of the depths! Haha but I know what you mean..went on a page-liking spree yesterday to be supportive of other mers, and thought, "Maybe they'll be supportive of me and like my page!" but no. lol but that's okay, patience is key to everything, right? (:

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If you wanna build a fanbase, come OUT of the depths! Haha but I know what you mean..went on a page-liking spree yesterday to be supportive of other mers, and thought, "Maybe they'll be supportive of me and like my page!" but no. lol but that's okay, patience is key to everything, right? (:

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BEEN out of the depths... Just posted a reminder about the raffle that we are doing. I know its patience... its frustrating. This isnt my first page trying to get likes for. (have a hairbow page as well) Either way, the page is Shadow Fancy ^_^ Please let me see your link! I am always looking for other mers to support and will gladly give a like ^_^

Oh, I already have the page liked! Haha I haven't seen anything recently, though. I don't think you can do the "add to interests" thing on mobile. And I don't know if I liked it on my personal or my page..heck, I might have even done both! lol this phone really stinks when it comes to facebook-y things. Once I get on a computer, I'll be sure to put it on my list! I think Lexi (Anna Norris?) liked my page. http://www.Facebook.com/mermaidkelby

You really gotta work your ass off to get a good fan base. It's not as easy as most people think. A lot of it is posting things that people want to share, and doing that constantly. That usually means pictures and videos. As far as I've seen, most of the growth you get is through content that a fan shares then a friend of that fan sees and likes enough to go like the page (not just the content) as well. With the "one extra click is too many" mentality that we see on the internet, it's hard to grab people enough to get them to make those two extra clicks to actually like a page. Sad as it is :/

FB fans also don't determine your level of success FYI. lol I dont book the majority of my gigs through FB :p

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Ugh, my bf is constantly after me for scraping my teeth on my fork. I don't do it on purpose, and I've tried to not do it but what he doesn't understand is that I have way too many crooked teeth in a very small mouth. It's pretty much impossible. I have enough stupid food related stuff to worry about in a day with all my allergies, don't start haggling me cuz my teeth OCCASIONALLY scrape. Go eat by yourself :p I didn't even KNOW this was even an issue people have until I met him. I just always ate and never paid any attention. it's like, really, I just walked in the door and you're going to fight with me about how I eat my food? Here's a book in your face. lol

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Gaaahhh! Remind me to never eat with you, Raina. :P I have the same problem as your boyfriend, probably worse. The thing is, it HURTS! At least if you have it as bad as I do. Metal scraping against teeth and plates hurts for some reason, it's so weird!! And as I'm typing this, my dad is scraping his fork against his plate and I'm cringing like crazy >_<

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Gaaahhh! Remind me to never eat with you, Raina. :P I have the same problem as your boyfriend, probably worse. The thing is, it HURTS! At least if you have it as bad as I do. Metal scraping against teeth and plates hurts for some reason, it's so weird!! And as I'm typing this, my dad is scraping his fork against his plate and I'm cringing like crazy >_<

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I know what you mean I have the same issue with that also when the vaccume hose is sucking up stuff off of wood flooring that (to me) is worse than the metal on dishes and teeth.

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I know what you mean I have the same issue with that also when the vaccume hose is sucking up stuff off of wood flooring that (to me) is worse than the metal on dishes and teeth.

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Really? That's one i've never heard before :P

I hope I'm not the only one. That particular noise kills me I cringe just thinking about it.

I am not sorry I am not perfect! I not a size 2 and I don't want to be. I wish you could how much it hurts me to hear "should you be eating that?" "If you really want do memaiding, I think it be better to lose at lest 20 pounds." or her favorite "Ariel didn't have bad skin!"

I did the beauty pageants, I did Disney, I did everything you wanted me to do. I am sick of being of trying to be perfect. Yes I need to lose like 10 pounds but I am doing it on my terms.

And if I want to get another tattoo, I damn well will and I am getting my tongue split too. Stop trying to control everything >.<

NO, Cody and I are not having kids soon, Yes still with Cody, yes still married, No your not coming to the service. Because I know you and you make me a push over and have a second wedding.

I missed the one episode of David tuttera's my fair wedding where he does a phantom of the opera themed wedding. Whyyy ;-; I tried youtubing and going onto their website but I can't find it... (firstworldproblems)

K. you know what irks me?

Saturday i got my last wisdom tooth out. extra meds and antibiotics because they had to go into my sinus to remove my tooth. I am instructed to rest for 3 days when i get home. i tell me mom, she goes "ok."

Guess what? Put away groceries, fold and put away laundry.
On Sunday, before actually taking my pain medication and eating, i sweep the house, swiffer thrice, FOLD MY MOTHER'S BED, make pickled vegetables (which involves exerting force and packing it tight into a huge jar. Then AFTER taking meds: put away groceries again, bring down heavy load of laundry, hand everyones jackets because for some reason everyone is fucking (pardon language here) lazy when i need to be resting, clean table, put laundry in the dryer and fold and put away laundry once more, DID THE DISHES TWICE (full sink mind you)
TODAY: Bring down heavy laundry (seriously, i don't even make much laundry since i wear my outside clothes back-to-back and a pair of pajamas for one week, but somehow everyday there's always a load to be brought down...SERIOUSLY!), RESWEEP, swiffer thrice again, bring up my mother's heavy nail polish collection from the basement.. TAKE USELESS MODELING PICTURES FOR MY MOTHER'S FACEBOOK., helped her with her facebook AGAIN. Put away lawn chair that she brought out for no reason bring down a large tub of water to empty out in the laundry room's sink and put away said heavy nail polish collection... and i feel my damn sutures open. DAFAQ!

and because of the meds i was drowsy and i dropped gardening fliers on my foot so when i tried to scream, my gum started bleeding. WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK.

And you wanna know what the stupid part about all this is? she CLAIMS i am lazy, and spoiled, sleep in until 12 (wtf not even. i wake up at 8 to help her do chores!), AND take bubble baths (I have NEVER in my fucking life taken a bubble bath. and even if i could, it is not in my nature to waste water. i only take 15 minute showers.) talk about delusional.

and when i try to speak i get yelled at for "talking back, being disrespectful, dishonour." what bull!

and later i have to pick my niece up from school. in the cold. when i should be resting.