typical misogynist. don't reason with guys like that, they hope you'll try and reason because they know they can try and get in again. He cant respect a simple boundary, he's not a safe guy to be around
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typical misogynist. don't reason with guys like that, they hope you'll try and reason because they know they can try and get in again. He cant respect a simple boundary, he's not a safe guy to be around
I also got this message:
"1.) It's a Newfoundland thing, go back to your own fucking province if you don't like our customs. 2.) We are friends. 3.) You are very uptight, others have told me that before I met you. 4.) If you're gunna get on with petty bullshit, and be a little shit head, Don't look at me, don't talk to me, and don't text me anymore. Have a nice life"
..................... I'm currently speechless right now
Wow. What an ass. If you say you aren't friends, he doesn't get to decide you are. And I'm fairly certain barging into people's bedrooms isn't a custom anywhere, not even in Newfoundland.
1.) Racist pig. 2.) No we're not. 3.) You're an ass. Others have told me that before you. 4.) Cross my boundaries again and you'll be talking to my lawyer. Have a lovely day.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Nessie
:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:Quote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Jaffa
Hehe! Let him have it!
Or change to 3.) You're an ass. NOBODY likes you.
Dude, what a goddamn asshole. Be rude back; may as well completely turn him off. Also, the "we are friends" thing is f*cking disturbing. I'd kick his ass with glee.
yeah mermaids dont waste time over the opinions of shrimp
[QUOTE=AniaR;173727]yeah mermaids dont waste time over the opinions of shrimp[/QUOTE
I said thank you, and goodbye :)
2) We are friends
He has a VERY strange way of treating his friends. I agree, he's just getting the shits because he's not getting what he wants anymore. Creeper. Raina's advice is solid, ignore him.
Report him. Save the message and show it to the correct peeps. That is clearly aggressive behavior
I'm leaving it at that. He's leaving me alone, that's all I wanted :)
It sounds more like he is trying to guilt and manipulate you. He could be using a tactic, and might continue later.
I love how the Mers of the Oceania Pod seem to agree that a kick to the groin is a good way to go.
If any more problems arise I will be getting my residence coordinator involved. I already let one of the staff know in case anything else should happen. Asking for some respect is not me being "uptight" and I will not feel bad or apologize for doing so.
I think #4 is a lovely option and you can thank him for the suggestion. Then, when he tries to be your buddy again, grind his teeth into the curb.
OMG Nessie! What an *sshole that guy is!
I missed out on most of this and did not read it untill now.
I scrolled back and when i saw what he was doing i wanted to suggest you tell him you have a very jealous boyfriend so he needs to step back, or simply tell him your a lesbian because if you tell a guy you have a boyriend he may even be dumb enough to think he still has a change to win you over.
Telling a guy you are a lesbian usually makes them stop instantly lol...i know this for a fact because i have used that line in the past and it worked like a charm ;)
But in your case since things went a lot further aready bit his last message to you i would seriously suggest keeping record of his messages as proof/evidence if needed at some point and also writing down everything he has done that you did not like such as the knocking on your door at 2 am, touching you, barging in etc with the dates and times if you can remember.
Just to protect yourself.
Lets hope this *sshole got the message though.
His last text to you shows he is very upset and is trying to throw a sh*t load of guilt on you to get his way.
He wants to be right and make you feel like you were wrong.
Do not let him get to you in any way ok?
He is playing a mind game now and just do not respond to it.
Good luck!:hug:
well, there are the guys who will go "you just haven't met the right man yet!".Quote:
Originally Posted by Adalira
That type only shuts up if you have a girlfriend and they see you kissing in full view xD
First of all, that is NOT a Newfoundland thing. We're known for being super friendly, sure, but he's just being a creep who's all butthurt that you're calling him out. He thinks he's entitled to your time and attention whenever he wants it simply because he's decided he's your friend; even to us Newfs that is NOT COOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Nessie
Don't let what he says get to you— he's not worth your time and just generally seems like a scumbag, and you don't need that kind of pass over aggression and negativity in your life. :P
#4... That sounds like you scored a victory. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Nessie