hun, if they already lying about their NEM size, what else are they lying about :P
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hun, if they already lying about their NEM size, what else are they lying about :P
so jay i noticed you posted twice in the forum but you didn't post an introductory thread! why not introduce yourself?
Funnily, I can relate.
Years ago, I tried dating for a short while because my family was whining about grandchildren and such.
It's not like I had a giant list of requirements for dates- be nice, be smart, and be taller than me.
That was it.
I stressed the height part before each date, and every single dude out there lied about it, adding 2+ inches on.
EVERY. SINGLE. ONE.
Why the eff would you lie and waste everybody's time?
I can only assume that most guys are so full of themselves, not only do they perceive themselves to be taller (and bigger) in every aspect than they are in reality, they also think that no matter what the requirement for dating was, they would overcome it by their awesomeness and surely a woman who says "be taller than me or get out" will change her mind as soon as she sees them.
That said, from my experience in the alien and terrifying world of dating, I also learned that women will lie about as often about their age and weight as men do about size.
there was an incident where my husbands aunt lied about her age because she wanted to find a husband. the guy divorced her for lying. he didnt care that she ended up being older but he didnt like the dishonestly.
My biological mother made a fake dating profile saying she was 20, my weight and height, and then proceeded to post pictures I had on my personal facebook.
She for several dates, and each one, the guys met her and left. One of them found my personal Facebook and filled me in. I was mortified. My own mother was catfishing with my photos.
Lets just say she's no longer involved in my life
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^i think there was an episode on LAW AND ORDER about that :P
WHAT THE EFF?!Quote:
Originally Posted by Shimmer Mermaid
That's messed up!
Heck thats probably where she got the idea from. It scared me. I got the account and pictures removed. Plus got her to admit to it, but it was my breaking point
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That's awful.
Agreed with Arion, hooooooly crap. Why on earth would she even do that???!!!
Thats good you got them removed. dont u take shit from NOOOOOOBodyQuote:
Originally Posted by Shimmer Mermaid
She's done worse so it didn't surprise me As much
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and yet men cannot complain about making a mess because the seat was down. Nope. That conversation never ends well. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Shimmer Mermaid
how about one of those toilet night lights? http://illumibowl.com
He's free to complain, its just I am used to living alone. So I'm not used to having to even look. I wouldn't get bothered if I didnt get stuck 90% the time.
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I was scheduled to tour my dream apartment and LESS THAN 24 HOURS before the tour, the landlord calls to say that someone else has signed for it. I'm so devastated, it was everything my partner and I were looking for and so much cheaper than we were expecting to find. Finding housing in Minneapolis has been such a chore for us so it felt like a literal dream come true :mad::mad::mad:
ON TOP OF THAT, I'm getting closer and closer to purchasing my tail and I'm so torn. I love Mertailor's fluke options but don't like his customer service or the visibility of his monofins. I love Merbella's attention to detail and beautiful paint jobs but can't wait a year+ for my first silicone tail. I love Mernation's turnaround time and think they're improving drastically as a company but their fluke options just aren't appealing to me. :(
If I could have a Mertailor/Mernation/Merbella chimera tail, all my problems would be solved. :cry:
Good luck, Marius!
Why not asking the people behind Sirenalia ? They have a spot open for a silicone tail :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Marius
http://mernetwork.com/index/showthre...ight=sirenalia
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Originally Posted by Mermaid Marius
i think mernation can adjust fluke shapes for existing molds? (I dunno if they charge for this? but they also do custom flukes whihc you can probably look into.)
on this page user introverting has an example of an adjusted mernation fluke.
http://mernetwork.com/index/showthre...-Thread/page33
Paul and I called off our engagement because we felt his mom was taking over something that should have been our day and she and my parents didn't seem to realize that you need a lot of money to feed and seat and get favors for 200+ people, and that's not even including the guests they'll bring, that's the amount of people they want us to send invites too with a card for them to reserve even more seats and plates.
I'm getting stressed because we haven't told anyone that we called it off because we don't want his mom or my mom to get pissy at us for telling them they took over. We may get engaged some other time but right now we dropped all wedding plans
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I'm so sorry to read this, Momo! I hope you can get things figured out. It's your day, you should be able to do it your way.
Elope and run away to Tahiti and get married on a beautiful sunset beach, just the two of you.
The Hell with everyone else!
My heart goes out to you, hun! Let me know if I can be if ANY help! :mermaid kiss:
Momo I'm really sorry to hear that. When I got married my mother took over my wedding and I've regretted it ever since. She was really against my husband's family even though they've never been anything but nice to our entire family. I was forced to give invitations to people I didn't even know. It wasn't MY wedding more like a party where I was the main talking point. I hope and your partner will get the weddin of YOUR dreams
Hun ya'll better fight for your wedding like I did mine. Otherwise they'll walk all over you for the rest of your life.
Arion spoiled sushi.
I LOVE sushi!!!
And he went and made that reference, now I can never get the image out of my head whenever I eat sushi...
Oh Momo. Sending hugs.
I realised at school today I left my lunch at home so I had to go through the day without eating anything. My school has a canteen but I had zero money so I couldn't get food. Even worse, I had to go to swimming training on an empty stomach. When I got home, I looked for my lunch bag and it wasn't on the table where I left it. So I looked through my sisters bag and guess where I found my lunch bag, in my sisters school bag! So SHE was the one who took MY lunch that I accidentally left at home! She didn't bother to let me know that I left it at home! It had the last slice of chocolate cake that I wanted badly and my sister ate it! I was looking forward to it... Rant over
Agreed, our parents and families tried to control ours, and so we got the one person who wasn't trying- his dad- and we just went to a court house and had it done so they would all shut up, we have a big wedding planned for later this year
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Been there. Aren't siblings the best?
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I'm so sorry, Momo! *merhugs*
If y'all don't want to elope (and I would totally support that decision, haha!) you might try what a friend did for her wedding: she and her husband decided who all they wanted to attend and budgeted for that. They told both their parents that if they wanted other family/friends, they could pay for them. I know part of the reason for this is that she has a really strained relationship with her mother (I ran interference a couple times leading up to the big day) but it seemed to work pretty well.
Remember that regardless of what your parents tell you, or your friends tell you, or we or anybody else tells you - you guys do what makes you two happy. You love each other, and that's what matters. <3
I remembered seeing this and being hopeful. The fluke I want is pretty elaborate but I think I'm gonna take a chance and ask them if they'll make it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Lunette
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This made me giggle, since I received my first ever Dick pic text yesterday. LOL. Lieing of any type is wrong, so I understand.
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Sympathies to you Shimmy. I know that's traumatizing
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I have only recently starting texting and I had asked my husband and people if stuff like that happens and it has never happened to them. After doing some research on the # on FB I realized it was a pervert who sent it to numerous dancers who pages he stalks :(
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Originally Posted by Shimmer Mermaid
Ugh! That's super creepy! Get the number changed asap!
I got a text like that years ago...I was on the bus on my way home from work and I was texting my husband. All the sudden I got a dick pic from some random number! YUCK!
I halfway contemplated insulting the bastard and saying something like "GRADE: D-, WOULD NOT F*CK" but I thought that might cause them to lash out and flood me with more pics, or sign my number up for spammy text stuff.
So, I have a few things to bitch about.
My eyes used to adjust so that I could see fairly clearly underwater without goggles.
Lately, I've been swimming a lot, and the chlorine started to bother me. So I finally gave in and bought a pair of goggles - something I hate. I hate the feeling of constriction, EVERYTHING.
Today, I was in a slightly less chlorinated pool, so in the last five minuets of my swim I took off my goggles just to revel.
And I couldn't see anymore. It was one of the most traumatizing experiences of my life and I've been hit by an SUV and dragged eighty feet by it when my jean jacket snagged on the underside.
I'm still extremely weepy about it. I guess my eyes got used to not having to adjust so they just stopped.
And on another note: a friend I used to tutor in Japanese asked me to prom. I've been debating my answer for weeks now, and he's been incredibly sweet and patient.
There's this other guy who has been extremely passive about relationships. He asked me out months ago, but aside from vague flirting we've done nothing. And he's too chicken shit to make a move. ON SOMEONE HE ALREADY ASKED OUT WHO SAID YES.
I know he isn't going to ask me to prom. I just do. He's the sort of gamer dude who probably thinks he's too nerdy/off beat/cool to go.
So. Today, I tried to tell him that someone asked me to prom and that I was going to say yes. But then I needed to educate the lunch table about feminism. So I couldn't, because he'd think I was just rejecting him because of some of the ignorance I've had to stomp out of him - and the entirety of the table.
That is not the issue. That was never the issue. He's smart, funny, and I never have to correct him twice. But he lacks cajones completely.
And I couldn't just keep stringing along the guy who asked me.
So I finally said I'd go with him.
So now the sentence has gone from "Someone's asked me to prom and I think I'm going to say yes," to "I'm going to prom with someone else."
And he's going to be hurt, and he's not going to understand, and I really did and DO like him, but I just can't keep waiting for him to grow a pair and stop being so damn passive.
So. I'm terrified about how to handle this. But I'm telling him tomorrow. I will. I won't be that bitch who unintentionally two-times because she's too awkward to say anything. I won't.
Tell gamer guy that you really do like him. Alot. But decided to go with another guy because that guy had the balls to ask you. Explain if it were a situation where you needed help, would he have the guts then to stick up for you? Or continue hiding behind his shadow.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sabrina the Selkie
Lunette, you're completely right. And if he wasn't completely passive about EVERYTHING, I would totally ask him.
And I should talk to him. It's just annoyingly difficult to plan the time to have that sort of heart to heart.
And Jaffa, that is exactly what I'm going to do.
Hugs to both of you.
Be more proactive and less passive, cos he's gonna lose that special someone, You.
More hugs.
I lost my betta fish. I can't find my pleco either but that's normal. how the hell do I lose a huge betta fish? he can't even jump out so he's probably not sitting all crispy on the floor. but he can't just disappear in the tank unless someone ate him, but the other fish are too small and non aggressive to do that. what the fuck?