How fragile is the male ego? :fallover:
Much less an insecure Alpha male...
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How fragile is the male ego? :fallover:
Much less an insecure Alpha male...
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Best thing to do I think is ask him why he feels the way he does. :/
The bitch in law totally did NOT just steal my slippers, coffee mug, and cookware.
What the fuck. And I cannot talk To my mother about it because she threw me this curve ball
"stop saying shit about her, your husband will be sad"
EXCUSÉ MOI?? Like who am I supposed to talk to then if I cannot talk to my husband about his shit mother?
Talk about your raging case of foot fungus next time you see her?
(I might be slightly evil. ;D )
Better advice would be to have a discussion with your husband and ask that he have a talk with her about boundaries. I read a lot of dear abby and dear prudence and I am sure this is what they would suggest. Hopefully, he'll be in your corner! ^^
This is the same woman who nearly ruined my wedding. If the bitch ruins my marriage there will be hell to pay.
Can't you talk to your husband? I don't think he'll like that his mother steals either.
He knows his mother steals. I talked to my husband yesterday. She's been stealing his chinese new years money for years. :| i just have to put eveything under lock and key.
Recent update as of last night (well this morning because he told me just now): she tried to talk him into letting her give a chinese house blessing for good luck for when we get our house. him and i aren't very religious people and we really don't believe that'll help us at all so he told her "thats not needed, but we do need help packing and moving things into the truck" and she goes "oh i dont want to do that i want to help do the leaf and the boiling water" and goes on to say what she was gonna do. thankfully husband was very firm and said "no, that's not help.." and so this fucking bitch goes "stop being stubborn, i want to help" ... wtf how is that helping?
so then it starts going back and forth "thats not help, helping is physically helping us, not worshipping some unknown god" "stop being stubborn, your brother did it for his house" "thats because him and his wife are superstitious, we aren't"
"fine i'll ask andrea" but of course the husband knows me so well so he goes "andrea is going to agree with me" and she goes "you don't know that"
LIKE WTF no. she's not the one whose known me for 9 years-- he is.
she secretly did a room blessing behind my back too so we would have kids after i repeatedly told her not to-- because i dont want kids, two im not religious, three it aint happening "i aint about that lyfe". :\
like fine i live in her house, she can do whatever she want and practice whatever thing she wants. but OUR house is OURS, MY belongings are MINE and i really don't appreciate our boundaries being stepped on, and religion being shoved down my throat..
Ack! That's messed up. Both on principle and on the fact that she's messing with you and your husband's personal space (temporary or not) makes me want to climb the wall. And just taking your things WTF?!Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
My own mother-in-law-to-be is old-school Swedish, has her little superstitions and religious ticks, maybe a bit crazy (manipulative) but at least she doesn't get too pushy about babies or steal my stuff, lol!
Wow. I'm so sorry this is happening to you, but soon you and the hubby will have your own place without her living with you, yes?
xoxo
Yeah but I fear it's not soon enough. I get the keys in august.
Just repaeat this matra til then, "just three more months, just three more months..."
Be brave SeaGlass, and stay positive! I know it's hard, but August will be here sooner than you think.Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
During my entire childhood, we had house guests at all times practically. Some were great people, but most were not and I still have some emotional scars I deal with when it comes to strangers being in my personal space/home.
The worst was when I was at the beginning of my Jr. year of high school. My father lost his best friend to cancer and we had to take care of his daughter. She was 22, but mentally disabled with the mind of a 4 year old; multiple personality, schizophrenic and violent. She had lucid moments, but most times she was completely bonkers.
She constantly either stole from me or was trying to kill me.
Each day I came home from school she would try to ambush me with a kitchen knife, a pan of hot oil she would try to throw on me, or she'd sneak into my room at night and try to strangle me. It was pretty horrifying, but the thing that saved me each time was that she couldn't move too quickly due to the medication she was on. Even so, I was always afraid the one day she'd get lucky.
My father did nothing about it during those long 2 years, telling me I was making things up. As soon as I graduated I got the hell out of there. He only recently acknowledged the situation and how it affected my life then and now.
Be glad you husband is on your side, even if it seems like he is torn between his mom and you. it sounds like he wants the same as you; a space of your own with no one to dictate or 'rearrange' it for him.
xoxo
Holy crap. I'm glad you got out of there. Thankyou for your words as well.
i just want to sit down and cry
^^^ Hugs!* xoxo
*angrily preparing for disneyland*
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*ANGER INTENSIFIES*
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Uh, why are you angrily preparing for Disneyland?
last minute packing
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Anyone seen the latest seaworld commercial saying "Our whales live as long as they would in the wild, even longer"?
EXCUSE ME NO THEY DON'T. THEY'VE FOUND ALMOST HUNDRED YEAR OLD WHALES IN THE WILD. Seaword whales live AT MOST around 20, often much less! OMFG. I JUST HRRRGGG
They're digging their own grave.