B!TC# IT OUT!

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Originally Posted by Madison Juliette

Hold the phone, I need to go back to Arion's post.
1. Gay gyms exist? I learn something new every day!
2. People in the gym think it's ok to touch someone's butt without permission? WTF is wrong with people?!

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1.They do exist. Underneath mine, there is a sauna, a hammam, a room where you can get a thaï massage, a maze, a tv-room where you can watch some porn movies and a few cabins with beds where you can fuck with someone you had eyes on while you were working out in the gym.
2. Sadly, yeah... Once, I was drying my back with my towel after a shower and a guy thought he could touch and feel my balls and make a joke. I was so ready to punch him but the fact that he was in his sixties kind of stopped me. Needless to say, I took another shower as I didn't know where his hands had been before. BLEH.

They have a 0 tolerance policy. Meh.

Arion your gym sounds... Uh... Awesome except for the fact that there isn't any way to protect patrons.

I suggest cussing them the eff out.

Nah I agree with you there hun. Really. I mean my sister vegetarian and I do eats (kinda) healthy but she doesn't push her foos ideals on me. I like meat, I have a sacred relationship with bread and no ine can pry it out of my cold dead fingers

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Well that is kinda interesting gym. But yea I would think a 0 policy would be strictly enforced. As for the old guy touching you. Wel I would have stilled punched him, thats even creepier. But when it come with sexual harrassment I don't take shit and thats usually my automatic response. And then swearing them out

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Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren

Arion your gym sounds... Uh... Awesome except for the fact that there isn't any way to protect patrons.

I suggest cussing them the eff out.

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I know the fact that there is a basement made for hooking up with guys can seem "off" under a gym but as I previously said, it's a GAY gym. In Berlin, there are gay clubs with the same kind of basement. Sex sells. A LOT. And I'm gonna be honest, I already had a few moments with some guys who had eyes on me during my work out sessions and they were so hot I would have been a fool to let the opportunity pass. If that makes me a slut, fine. I like sex and I'm not ashamed of it *shrug*

The only thing that makes me kind of mad is that even when you don't send ANY signal, some guys think it's okay to make a move. Like for example, I'm just sitting in the hammam, relaxing and sweating after my work out, I'm wearing a towel, my arms are crossed, my eyes are closed and I'm just enjoying the heat. And then, some guy sit next to me, wait a few minutes and then put his hand on my thighs without my consent! That's the moment when I tell them to f*ck off!

Fortunately, it doesn't happen much. Most of them have manners and know how to read signals but some just don't.

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Originally Posted by Keiris

I'm sure it's worth the risk. ;)

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If it were you, it would be another story [emoji5]

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Originally Posted by Merman Arion

If it were you, it would be another story [emoji5]

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:swoon:

I wonder...if you were sitting there with your eyes closed, maybe you missed some playful banter and they took your silence as an invitation instead of realizing you couldn't hear them? ;)

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Originally Posted by PearlieMae

:swoon:

I wonder...if you were sitting there with your eyes closed, maybe you missed some playful banter and they took your silence as an invitation instead of realizing you couldn't hear them? ;)

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Well, it´s true that I always take off my hearing aids when I'm using the hammam to relax so obviously I can't hear much :doh: I mostly close my eyes but I always watch out my surroundings to make sure no creeper sit next to me.

Arion, you are deaf? I had no idea!

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Originally Posted by Imogen Finnly

Arion, you are deaf? I had no idea!

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YUP :) Deaf since my birth. I have been wearing my hearing aids on both ears since I was five years old.

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Originally Posted by Merman Arion

Well, it´s true that I always take off my hearing aids when I'm using the hammam to relax so obviously I can't hear much :doh: I mostly close my eyes but I always watch out my surroundings to make sure no creeper sit next to me.

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While my eyes are not fully devolpt due being premature, my hearing is just the other way around! I can hear almost EVERYTHING it freaks me out sometimes, and get quite irritating. with having Autism, I really hate irritating stuff other people can't or just don't hear as good as me.

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Originally Posted by Merman Arion

YUP :) Deaf since my birth. I have been wearing my hearing aids on both ears since I was five years old.

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Wow! I didn't know that. Do you use French sign language?

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Originally Posted by Merman Arion

I know the fact that there is a basement made for hooking up with guys can seem "off" under a gym but as I previously said, it's a GAY gym. In Berlin, there are gay clubs with the same kind of basement. Sex sells. A LOT. And I'm gonna be honest, I already had a few moments with some guys who had eyes on me during my work out sessions and they were so hot I would have been a fool to let the opportunity pass. If that makes me a slut, fine. I like sex and I'm not ashamed of it *shrug*

The only thing that makes me kind of mad is that even when you don't send ANY signal, some guys think it's okay to make a move. Like for example, I'm just sitting in the hammam, relaxing and sweating after my work out, I'm wearing a towel, my arms are crossed, my eyes are closed and I'm just enjoying the heat. And then, some guy sit next to me, wait a few minutes and then put his hand on my thighs without my consent! That's the moment when I tell them to f*ck off!

Fortunately, it doesn't happen much. Most of them have manners and know how to read signals but some just don't.

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Dont get get me wrong I'm totally fine with people practicing sex (hey it's a human need
to get off every once in a while, it means you're healthy :p)

The gym with a hookup area and extra perks just took me off guard. Never knew such things existed.

I want a Thai masseuse at our gyms.... :(

i've been feeling down lately. for my anatomy class we have a job shadowing project where we have to intern/volenteer somewhere which has somthing to do with the medical field

i've been asking but i keep on getting rejected. you'd think hospitals would take anyone but they have standards that i cant go by. most of it is because of age.

idk, my other classmates have been alreaddy working and i havent found one place who has even emailed/called me back. i know i shouldnt take it personally but i cant help but to think why no one wants my help.

Maybe because you're too fishy :baduntss:
Jokes aside im sorry it's been difficult for you :(

So my grandmother's dog has an incredibly sweet nature, but they ruined him with poor training. I'm sitting on their couch with him next to me one paw lifted to help me give him a good scratch, nuzzling his head into my side, after an extremely frantic, loud grab at my dinner.

I think he may out live them, and I don't know if I'll be able to take him.

A badly behaved old dog won't be adopted.

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Originally Posted by Merman Arion

I know the fact that there is a basement made for hooking up with guys can seem "off" under a gym but as I previously said, it's a GAY gym.~snip~ Fortunately, it doesn't happen much. Most of them have manners and know how to read signals but some just don't.

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I'm sorry you have to deal with unwanted advances, it doesn't matter where you are. We have gyms here, and some are known as gay gyms, some even end up as hook-up joints, but the actual hook up joints or bath houses are quite separate, at least that what I've seen so far. I'm not gay man, of course, but when so many friends are, you're aware. And I used to live in the best LGBT neighborhood in SoCal; Hillcrest. LOVE and miss that little city within a city.

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Originally Posted by Sabrina the Selkie

So my grandmother's dog has an incredibly sweet nature, but they ruined him with poor training. I'm sitting on their couch with him next to me one paw lifted to help me give him a good scratch, nuzzling his head into my side, after an extremely frantic, loud grab at my dinner.

I think he may out live them, and I don't know if I'll be able to take him.

A badly behaved old dog won't be adopted.

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It's never too late with dogs! Esp if someone could start retraining, new training, now. But if you can't (since he's not yours), it would def be worth a shot if you end up with him. The saying about teaching old dogs new tricks applies to humans pretending they can't change. :p Old dogs can and are often happy to relearn, and if not, you'll know you tried. :)

I have a small bitch-out.
We recently moved into a condo, and the everyday sounds of people living life are extremely difficult for me to deal with. :/ In my last home, a duplex, we barely heard anyone. I think I got super used to it. In the apartment before that, the manager was wonderfully strict and everyone (but my upstairs neighbor on date night) was super quiet or got kicked out. Before those, I lived in houses for many years.

It's been almost three months and I'm finally starting to not feel on edge all the time. I have extremely sensitive hearing... if nothing else, I'm learning again to use meditation and such to chill the eff out.

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Originally Posted by Merman Arion

I know the fact that there is a basement made for hooking up with guys can seem "off" under a gym but as I previously said, it's a GAY gym.~snip~ Fortunately, it doesn't happen much. Most of them have manners and know how to read signals but some just don't.

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I'm sorry you have to deal with unwanted advances, it doesn't matter where you are. We have gyms here, and some are known as gay gyms, some even end up as hook-up joints, but the actual hook up joints or bath houses are quite separate, at least that what I've seen so far. I'm not gay man, of course, but when so many friends are, you're aware. And I used to live in the best LGBT neighborhood in SoCal; Hillcrest. LOVE and miss that little city within a city. My lesbian friends tend to not deal with the same issues, or at least, they haven't talked about it.

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Originally Posted by Sabrina the Selkie

So my grandmother's dog has an incredibly sweet nature, but they ruined him with poor training. I'm sitting on their couch with him next to me one paw lifted to help me give him a good scratch, nuzzling his head into my side, after an extremely frantic, loud grab at my dinner.

I think he may out live them, and I don't know if I'll be able to take him.

A badly behaved old dog won't be adopted.

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It's never too late with dogs! Esp if someone could start retraining, new training, now. But if you can't (since he's not yours), it would def be worth a shot if you end up with him. The saying about teaching old dogs new tricks applies to humans pretending they can't change. :p Old dogs can and are often happy to relearn, and if not, you'll know you tried. :)

I have a small bitch-out.
We recently moved into a condo, and the everyday sounds of people living life are extremely difficult for me to deal with. :/ In my last home, a duplex, we barely heard anyone. I think I got super used to it. In the apartment before that, the manager was wonderfully strict and everyone (but my upstairs neighbor on date night) was super quiet or got kicked out. Before those, I lived in houses for many years.

It's been almost three months and I'm finally starting to not feel on edge all the time. I have extremely sensitive hearing... if nothing else, I'm learning again to use meditation and such to chill the eff out.