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Try and keep positive darlin, and think about seeing someone. I was diagnosed as bi polar, manic depressive, etc etc and then I went to a therapist who speacialized in anxiety and he threw all of those diagnosis out. I have PTSD, and all of my other issues stem from that. It has helped tremendously. Go and see someone, please. You see how many care for you here, but you need someone in real life to help you through as well.
Like we've all said, Mystery, feel free to come talk to us.
And that goes to anyone who needs it!
ditto ^What Sabrina said^
Mystery - I'm still relatively new to the forum and don't really know you, but I want to echo what everyone else has said.
I've suffered enough with depression myself. It's a lot more common than people realise. I've been at the stage where I felt so awful it was as if something really horrific had happened... but it hadn't. I would randomly break down in tears for absolutely no reason and I remember being at work and passing off my swollen face as hay fever... I had seen a GP and psychologist but it didn't help at all. It wasn't until I moved and got a new GP that I finally got it sorted out. She said she could tell I was 'fine in myself' from talking to me, and didn't have any need for a psychologist. Looking back it does make sense - if you're struggling to cope with something in particular, psychology can help. But if it's a chemical/hormonal imbalance that's making you feel awful, no amount of psychology will change that. You need to figure out which one before you can do anything about it.
There's absolutely no shame at all in asking for help. My advice would be to get help and if you don't feel it's working, get a 2nd opinion. It's not normal to feel like that all the time - you should be able to enjoy life and if you just can't, then ask for help. (I tried a variety of different antidepressants before finally finding one that worked for me, and I still can't believe the difference it's made.)
In the meantime, I'm sure I can speak for everyone when I say you can always vent on here.
If you are able to make it to mermania next year, look forward to that when you're feeling low. Having something so amazing to look forward to can definitely help.
Love and hugs, [emoji177]
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alright everyone, I do need a bit of advice. I'm possibly getting a Bowie tattoo next month and I don't know exactly what I want. I already have a labyrinth piece planned out but for now I want something small. I was thinking the black star but I don't know. I know it will probably hurt like a bitch but I hope it will lift my spirits a bit.
Get the red and blue Ziggy Stardust lightning bolt! :D
I was gonna suggest the same thing.
I was thinking that as well, but I don't know where I'd put it.
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...2e1af8feac.jpg I sort of have this in mind but I'm not sure. decisions are hard.
Me: Joins a website for making friends because I'm lonely
Website: Ask your friends to sign up too!
Me: Bitch I don't have any friends! That's why I'm here damn it!
This morning I got to wake up with a huge erection. It has been 30min and it doesn't want to stop :headwall:
Whoever thinks it's cool, let me tell you it's not! I feel very uncomfortable. It's like my penis has a mind on its own, it's super annoying.
:gah: :gah: :gah:
Sorry I sounded like a mervert. I just..
:headdesk:
BWAHAHAHAHAHA :rotfl:Arion you freaking crack me up.Quote:
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This is so relatable....
Fuck my life. I don't make a big deal usually of celeb deaths (cuz it happens to everyone and its part of the circle of life) but today I find out that Alan Rickman (Severus snape) has died from cancer.
Too many people dying and I hate it.
Excuse me while I wear black for the rest of my life.
I honestly couldn't believe it I had to search for the truth myself...this is insane...
I'm angry. At everything.
How can you not be...this is terrible