It just happens and people drift because people change. Maybe for the better. If they're treating you like this now then they were never really friends were they? Just something to consider. It sucks but you deserve better. Find some new friends?
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It just happens and people drift because people change. Maybe for the better. If they're treating you like this now then they were never really friends were they? Just something to consider. It sucks but you deserve better. Find some new friends?
Friends, money - oil, water. They do not mix, you get a spill.
That's why I never lend anyone money. I will buy someone a gift occasionally, but I won't lend them money. I have never, ever been paid back whenever I have lent money to someone, so I simply don't trust people enough to pay me back anymore. A little selfish yeah, but I simply can no longer stomach it x.x I might be a bit less stingy if I had more money, myself.
I hate to sound like a normal teen but, I cant wait to move out. I am so sick of putting up with all of the bull*hit drama here. So long story short I go to a private school and I am about to finish school and my grandfather pays for my and my little bros school. Well my principle says that he missed a payment. She has sent late notices and has been really nice about it but every time he gets a late notice he gets upset at me. Well one day I called him on the phone while at school so he could come talk to her. They could hear him and my aunt(which its none of her bizz anyways) yelling at me on the phone through the wall. So she prints off a bunch of info for me to give to him. I get home,give it to him and tell him he needs to go talk to her and I am not doing anything but my school work now. He needs to take care of it. He gets upset and starts telling me what he has and I tell him I dont care just fix it, if it does not get fixed I dont get my diploma.
So today I go to remind him he needs to go and talk to her. "Im so sick of this and having togo down and pull her head out of her ass". I told him stop, I dont wanna hear it. You are alwaysing telling me to be nice and act like a Christian and dont cuss. "Well what about you?" I dont go around preaching to people about it then start doing it myself. I love you and I respect you but Im jut sick of hearing it. Then my Aunt yells at me saying well he is tired of your shit and I tell her well then he needs to tell me not you. "Well I am telling you for him" and I said dont worry I will be moving out of here as soon as I can. I slammed the door and took off.
I get stuff like this from my mom already I dont need anymore. Its part of the reson I spend Friday-Tuesday at my boyfriends house.
Maybe I am just causing issues,idk anymore I am just sick of my tummy hurting when I leave my BFs house caz I dont wanna come back. I know what happens when I am here and to be honest, this does not even feel like a home to me anymore.
It happens... Are you able to pay it yourself?
If I could I would be more than happy to but I dont get paid enough to make the payments. If he does not decide to pay I might have to find a second job or ask if my parents can split it with me.
i hope all goes well for you dac :( :hugs:
Monofin exchange woes with scubastore.com/TradeInn retailers.
After hours and hours of research trying to find someone else to order it from (since their only US shipping option costs almost as much as the monofin itself) and only finding options that were upwards of US$180, I ordered from scubastore.com. I tried a ton of times to order and it kept rejecting my paypal/card (not their fault -- turns out my bank had never updated my address when I moved though I told them the new one), so finally had my boyfriend order it for me to the tune of just over US$100.
I ordered a pink Hydra, since the clear was out of stock and they couldn't tell me when it would be back in. I got it on a Thursday (though DHL delivered it to the unit next door, and after minor freaking out about where it was I figured it out), and when I opened it in all of my excitement I found I had a coral Triton (a smaller size). However, them being in Spain, they were already closed. Friday Scapey, the b/f, called since he paid and I can't call internationally, and got them to agree to send DHL to pick it back up on their dime and they told him that they would send out the correct one as soon as they had confirmation that DHL had it. DHL got it Friday (after the company was closed), so I expected my new and correct monofin would go out Monday (the 15th).
On Tuesday the 16th the b/f called again to confirm it went out, and they now said they weren't sending it until they got the old one back. He argued with them until they said they would send it, except they were then out of stock of all Hydras. Their website said 5 days, so I figured that it would go out by the end of last week, but it still hasn't gone out as of today. The b/f was told it would be up to 2 weeks, and this upcoming Tuesday marks 2 weeks.
I can't believe they didn't hold aside the monofin they knew they had to send to me that I paid for already and that they still had in stock on that Friday when they were alerted that they sent me the wrong one. It's a time-sensitive order, which is why I went for the pink (being in stock) and didn't wait for the clear. Scapey's going to call them again and see if they can guarantee that I'll have it by next Friday, otherwise we'll just get a refund and I'll have to pick a different brand/fin -- but . The next cheapest option I can find for the Hydra is going to be in the range of $150-200, and I might as well order a better one for that.
Do you have to have the hydra?
Ive found customer service with Finis on thier fins has been wonderful. Even had free replacement straps several time when I got a few from a bad batch.
I really didn't want a Finis. I don't like how the have the ridges. I may just be stuck with it since I'm in such a time crunch.
Update: Their "I would have it two weeks" was a lie. They're not coming in until Fri May 3 and so can't even ship out until the 6th.
This is a really ridiculous rant: but I'm going to EXPLODE! My tail is finally HERE, my students have gone home and I've done all my prep work, but I'm not technically supposed to go home for another hour and 20 minutes! I want to go get my tail! I seriously can not sit still, I'm so excited.
Maybe I'll go organize my class library. Or clean out my cupboards. Or something. *wriggles*
OMG. THALASSA. I AM SO EXCITED FOR YOU.
So so so sucks that you had to wait knowing it was home...you've probably left by now though! PICTURES PICTURES PICTURES!!
Lol, nope I'm still at work. :-(
Omg, that's just so...distressing. When do you go home?
It's not really a complaint but... My cat of 19 years died today of kidney failure. I'm doing my best to remember him during the good times and not the bad. He was my best friend for nineteen years, since I was seven years old. I really miss my little guy but I have to think positively.
On a pet note: my foster doggy has cancer. T^T Poor little pup.....She's such a sweetie, too.
And WAAAH. Poor kitty....he had a very long life, though. I'm sure it was a good one.
Aww! *hugs both* It's so sad when pets are ill! I'm so sorry.
In other news, I'm sorta upset with myself because I forgot to drink water while working on our Ren Faire site and gave myself heatstroke. Literally, headache, tingling hands and feet, shaking hands and feet, dizziness, nausea...the works. It was NOT a fun experience, especially since I was a 50 minute drive from home. Here's hoping I never forget to drink water again!
And it's very embarrassing!
I've very very low blood pressure. My GP says it's great that I shouldn't be worried about it. I'm not worried about it at all. I'm worry of forgetting drink enough water when I'm in a hot place, or busy working and then faint. I can hear what people said!! and yepa I eat enough sweets and food.... and no no no I haven't drink too much ... I just finished a 5 hours exams in June in Madrid without air-conditioner and the party was over for me before even start it!
I get really angry when people say things like "a man wouldn't want a steak with no meat on it so why would he want a woman with none?" I understand there's a lot of pressure on woman to be thin, but all of these things are incredibly insulting to thin women!! I'm underweight because of my health and metabolism, it's not something I can help!
Ugh, so I woke up this morning, was just sipping some coffee and chilling out when my mom came home and asked me what I was doing. I told her and she immediately started yelling at me! Now, I am behind on schoolwork, but I know that I'll be able to finish in time for summer. But my mom completely freaked out and started yelling at me because I wasn't doing schoolwork first thing in the morning. I mean, can't I just wake up first? Geez! It's like she has no confidence in me what-so-ever! I am very sure that I will be finished, but she is just freaking out! It's not like it's her problem! I mean, sure, she payed for school (actually my dad did), and if I don't finish in time, I'll pay for the extra time that it'll take to finish it and she knows that, so I don't see the big deal! And it's not like I'm a terrible student too. I'm actually an honor student! My grades are nothing below 90% EVER.
Just... RAAAH! I can't take it! I love my mom, but she can be pretty b*tchy sometimes.