Apologizing would require a level of self-awareness I don't think he has. 🙄 People like that never actually feel remorse for being horrible people, just annoyance and being held accountable for spouting their bullshit opinions.
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Apologizing would require a level of self-awareness I don't think he has. 🙄 People like that never actually feel remorse for being horrible people, just annoyance and being held accountable for spouting their bullshit opinions.
Oh how I WISH I had seen that before getting blocked!!Quote:
Originally Posted by PearlieMae
I was always shy, quiet and easily intimidated when I was younger, and I was bullied throughout the majority of my school years. To be honest, I'm not entirely sure what happened, but suffice it to say that changed. Dramatically.
That was what allowed me to become a mermaid less than a year ago, and for the first time ever, I have a boyfriend. So yeah... [emoji23]
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what a bunch of assholes! I commented, but they are too narcissistic to care about others feelings..sigh
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Originally Posted by LouLouBelle
Oh I already went up one side of her and down the other
I'm glad that the original videos are down. It's obvious that Sammy was the instigator. Did he learn anything? Who knows. We may never know nor even get an apology, which I also think he should do and do it publicly, addressing his mistake for what he did to that young lady but again that may never happen. My only concern is for the (currently) unknown mermaid that's in the video. I hope that she didn't see those videos and/or articles BEFORE seeing all the mers coming to her aid. Something like that could be emotionally scarring especially if she didn't see all our responses. It's heartbreaking. I pray that she did see all the support and love. What frustrates me is that the beach that this happened at is only 30 - 40 mins away from me and IF she's local, she's somewhere near me. I wish there was a Mermaidar available to find her. :(
There's too many people, things are moving too fast, I am having such a hard time functioning.
We lost my dad at 5 this morning..
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Originally Posted by Shimmer Mermaid
Don't worry about functioning...just take care of you right now.
Hug hug hug. More hug.
Seconding the Pearlie.
Take care of you, do your best to take your time and just forget thinking for a while. Focus on sensation - like drinking hot tea or coffee or whatever. Take long baths. Go for a walk. Make absolute certain you take care of you.
I'll say it again, thank you so muchQuote:
Originally Posted by PearlieMae
I plan to take the best care I can of myself for my son, my husband and my sister, who is staying with us for as long as she needs until she decided she's going to move in with our uncle.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sabrina the Selkie
My step mother is throwing a for because my sister doesn't want to wake up in the mornings to have coffee with our dad, only for him not to be there at the kitchen table waiting on her.
She is saying it's "harder on her" than it could ever be on her, my older sister and I, when he was the only parent we really had.
The one time I hoped and thought she would be decent, she is being absolutely horrible.
Thank you guys for your thoughts and love. It means so much to me. ❤
My sister asked me to post a few pictures for y'all to see. I feel like with these you get a pretty good look at his personality.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. 💔 Be gentle with yourself.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sister, Shimmer.
I'm so sorry, Shimmmer, :(
I saw on FB I am so sorry for your loss :(
I'm so sorry hun :(
he seems like a warm, kind-hearted man in those pictures
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Just let your step mother vent...whether she means it or not, she's lashing out because she doesn't know what else to do. Let it slide like water off a duck.
Hug. He's beautiful.
And again seconding Pearlie. She is lashing out. But I agree her grief doesn't give her an excuse to belittle your grief and generally be horrible.
I'm glad your sister's gotten out of there.
So sorry for your loss, Shimmer. *huge merhugs*
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Aw, I'm sorry, Shimmer. From what you've said about him and from his pictures, he sounds like a really great guy.
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I lost my father when he turned 37. Things aren't the same, but they get better. Get lost in a book, a game, whatever you love. It'll help take your mind off all the stress and pain.
All my love and hugs to you tonight. ❤️
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Oh shimmer! :cry: I remember when I lost my grandmother back in 2013. She was very sick and we were all going to go to South Africa to spend her last Christmas with her but she passed away before we went. I found out after I got home from a camp. I was absolutely shattered :cry: