I think I've been quite blessed with the situation I was given though. Now that I work for the Disney store everyone thinks my mermaiding is pretty awesome and they've all dubbed me the resident mermaid. Granted they all love Disney and cosplay as well so...
My friends outside of work all support me as well :)
For next years Dreams Take flight event where we all send special needs and orphaned children to Disneyland at no cost (including flight and hotel and entertain fees) they all want me to bring my mermaid tail and if I need to be reimbursed for my tail they'd let me