How fragile is the male ego? :fallover:
Much less an insecure Alpha male...
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How fragile is the male ego? :fallover:
Much less an insecure Alpha male...
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Best thing to do I think is ask him why he feels the way he does. :/
The bitch in law totally did NOT just steal my slippers, coffee mug, and cookware.
What the fuck. And I cannot talk To my mother about it because she threw me this curve ball
"stop saying shit about her, your husband will be sad"
EXCUSÉ MOI?? Like who am I supposed to talk to then if I cannot talk to my husband about his shit mother?
Talk about your raging case of foot fungus next time you see her?
(I might be slightly evil. ;D )
Better advice would be to have a discussion with your husband and ask that he have a talk with her about boundaries. I read a lot of dear abby and dear prudence and I am sure this is what they would suggest. Hopefully, he'll be in your corner! ^^
This is the same woman who nearly ruined my wedding. If the bitch ruins my marriage there will be hell to pay.
Can't you talk to your husband? I don't think he'll like that his mother steals either.
He knows his mother steals. I talked to my husband yesterday. She's been stealing his chinese new years money for years. :| i just have to put eveything under lock and key.
Recent update as of last night (well this morning because he told me just now): she tried to talk him into letting her give a chinese house blessing for good luck for when we get our house. him and i aren't very religious people and we really don't believe that'll help us at all so he told her "thats not needed, but we do need help packing and moving things into the truck" and she goes "oh i dont want to do that i want to help do the leaf and the boiling water" and goes on to say what she was gonna do. thankfully husband was very firm and said "no, that's not help.." and so this fucking bitch goes "stop being stubborn, i want to help" ... wtf how is that helping?
so then it starts going back and forth "thats not help, helping is physically helping us, not worshipping some unknown god" "stop being stubborn, your brother did it for his house" "thats because him and his wife are superstitious, we aren't"
"fine i'll ask andrea" but of course the husband knows me so well so he goes "andrea is going to agree with me" and she goes "you don't know that"
LIKE WTF no. she's not the one whose known me for 9 years-- he is.
she secretly did a room blessing behind my back too so we would have kids after i repeatedly told her not to-- because i dont want kids, two im not religious, three it aint happening "i aint about that lyfe". :\
like fine i live in her house, she can do whatever she want and practice whatever thing she wants. but OUR house is OURS, MY belongings are MINE and i really don't appreciate our boundaries being stepped on, and religion being shoved down my throat..
Ack! That's messed up. Both on principle and on the fact that she's messing with you and your husband's personal space (temporary or not) makes me want to climb the wall. And just taking your things WTF?!Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
My own mother-in-law-to-be is old-school Swedish, has her little superstitions and religious ticks, maybe a bit crazy (manipulative) but at least she doesn't get too pushy about babies or steal my stuff, lol!
Wow. I'm so sorry this is happening to you, but soon you and the hubby will have your own place without her living with you, yes?
xoxo
Yeah but I fear it's not soon enough. I get the keys in august.
Just repaeat this matra til then, "just three more months, just three more months..."
Be brave SeaGlass, and stay positive! I know it's hard, but August will be here sooner than you think.Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
During my entire childhood, we had house guests at all times practically. Some were great people, but most were not and I still have some emotional scars I deal with when it comes to strangers being in my personal space/home.
The worst was when I was at the beginning of my Jr. year of high school. My father lost his best friend to cancer and we had to take care of his daughter. She was 22, but mentally disabled with the mind of a 4 year old; multiple personality, schizophrenic and violent. She had lucid moments, but most times she was completely bonkers.
She constantly either stole from me or was trying to kill me.
Each day I came home from school she would try to ambush me with a kitchen knife, a pan of hot oil she would try to throw on me, or she'd sneak into my room at night and try to strangle me. It was pretty horrifying, but the thing that saved me each time was that she couldn't move too quickly due to the medication she was on. Even so, I was always afraid the one day she'd get lucky.
My father did nothing about it during those long 2 years, telling me I was making things up. As soon as I graduated I got the hell out of there. He only recently acknowledged the situation and how it affected my life then and now.
Be glad you husband is on your side, even if it seems like he is torn between his mom and you. it sounds like he wants the same as you; a space of your own with no one to dictate or 'rearrange' it for him.
xoxo
Holy crap. I'm glad you got out of there. Thankyou for your words as well.
i just want to sit down and cry
^^^ Hugs!* xoxo
*angrily preparing for disneyland*
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*ANGER INTENSIFIES*
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Uh, why are you angrily preparing for Disneyland?
last minute packing
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Anyone seen the latest seaworld commercial saying "Our whales live as long as they would in the wild, even longer"?
EXCUSE ME NO THEY DON'T. THEY'VE FOUND ALMOST HUNDRED YEAR OLD WHALES IN THE WILD. Seaword whales live AT MOST around 20, often much less! OMFG. I JUST HRRRGGG
They're digging their own grave.
Indeed they are.
On another note, I have another thing to be mad about.
My sister borrowed money from my friend in january, said she'd pay it back, and hasn't even considered paying it back. She owes my friend about two hundred fifty dollars and is refusing to pay her back. And my friend is working two jobs and is also paying a lawyer to get her fiancee permission to come back to the US.
No, you can't say that Ari has tons of money, Bekah. She'sat least working. I go out and do stuff and apply ot places, but you stay up until five AM and sleep until three pm. Don't tell me you have no time. Get off your butt, get a job, and BEFORE YOU EVEN DO THAT, PAY ARI BACK.
Ari's about to call the credit bureau on Bekah. I'm laughing inwardly because Bekah's basically been spoiled and never had to pay anyone back so she naturally tries to weasel her way out of it and it's backfiring this time.
PFFFT
Yeah, I'm going to call bullshit on that Seaworld one...
I am not mad about this, but I am just a little annoyed. First of all, I don't like online classes. My first one I had a bad experience with because the teacher didn't really teach, and evidently even in the in person classes with her she would not teach.
Now to today when I am working on my work for an online class I started last week. The teacher provides a document that tells you what you will be doing for this week's assignment so I read over that, watched 2 videos, both boring hour long documentaries, and while watching took notes and then added 4 photos for each as required and cited the sources. I just finished (most of today I have been outside doing yard work) and I go to upload my work and realize there are two drop boxes for this week. I thought that was odd so I just uploaded to both boxes. Then I realized one box had a whole paragraph explaining a separate assignment for this week, not mentioned in the instruction document for this week at all! I went back and double checked, it was not mentioned! So now I have to do lots of reading, taking notes on the reading, find images, and watch I think it was 3 more videos! With my luck they will all be hour long documentaries. :(
I know I can do the work especially since it isn't due until next Wednesday, but I had hopped to finish it all today so I won't have to worry about it. I am mainly annoyed that it was so hard to find this other assignment - and it is a big assignment - so I found it frustrating to think I was done for this week when really I was not, and also I wanted the rest of the week to be devoted to the new art project I have been assigned. Oh and also when I went to turn in my assignment tonight, it said it was 125 days late or something like that, and I realized the settings for the class drop box were for 2014 not 2015. :doh: I hope I can get through this class.
so after 6 hours we arrive at the hotel and THEY LEAVE ME LOCKED IN THE CAR
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I vote #12, the cute striped dress ;-)
#12 is super cute.
how long were you locked in the car?
Granny, the 103 year old orcaQuote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Pickles
I vote 12 too!
I was locked in for like ten minutes lol and I'm definitely wearing the striped dress
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I vote #2. If you're doing any rides though, you'd be more comfortable with shorts underneath.
Apparently "fixing the heaters" at my pool meant "turn the temperature WAY down." I could only swim for a half hour before I was shivering.
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sorry but i need to vent abit
im the youngest of 4
im always compared to my siblings at home and at school
why must i be a combination of different people?
cant i be myself and not ____ little sister?
cant i have my own traits and not traits of others?
yeah im really close to my sisters but im not thier "mini-me"
and why does correcting my parents of this bring me into thier fight about messy-ness?
I'm dead. like DEAD.
also, you know that "urban legend" about how Disneyland releases cats at night? http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/05...095b551b18.jpghttp://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/05...ca64bd90de.jpghttp://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/05...fa1abf435f.jpghttp://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/05...b31ca60820.jpg
it's true. and they're friendly.
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Wait what? I have never even heard of that legend. :rollover:
Someday I want to go to Disney again. I have only been there once and that was when I was so young I remember NOTHING about the experience. :( I really want to go to animal kingdom. I really love going to zoos - especially if they are a large zoo with natural, large exhibits and good photo opportunities.
Omg. Kittehhhhhhh!!!!
People at work are talking Memorial day plan, but I have nothing planned. No friends or people on Tinder have asked if I want to hang out, my asks have gone unanswered, and any I would ask have friends they are closer to that they would rather be with.
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Originally Posted by mermaidofthelabyrinth
oh absolutely, they have hundreds of cats. They give them wonderfully quiet safe places to hang out during the day (with food and water) and they keep the IRL mice/rats out of the park
I want to go swimming today but I always get harassed and it's going to be much worse if I swim this weekend (the only chance I have)
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I really need a restraining order, but seeing as my abuser lives in the same house as me and won't be gone anytime soon, I'm screwed.
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