I want a new a new mer name.

[lotusauriel]

You should be whoever you really are. Whatever that is.

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[Mermaid Alea]

I'm with Lotusauriel. Unless if you have been wanting to change your name for other reasons, I wouldn't change it just because of drama. There are a lot of mers on here who have been dragged into drama before. Just think how confusing it would have been if they decided to change their name every time they got mixed up in some drama. I think that if Slim is the name you want to return to, maybe you shouldn't leave it at all. But I don't want to pressure you too much if you were wanting a name change for other reasons as well.

[Slim]

The main only reason I wanted a name change was to stay away from the drama of one person. Though I went quiet and remain quiet, the person talks to others and left groups with over exaggeration of things. No true detail of it but I see karma from her own doing. I will still remain silent and do nothing about it. Slim fits me the best and there would never be a name more perfect for me than that. Being tall and skinny is what I'm known for beside my willingness to help anyone.

[lotusauriel]

The main only reason I wanted a name change was to stay away from the drama of one person. Though I went quiet and remain quiet, the person talks to others and left groups with over exaggeration of things. No true detail of it but I see karma from her own doing. I will still remain silent and do nothing about it. Slim fits me the best and there would never be a name more perfect for me than that. Being tall and skinny is what I'm known for beside my willingness to help anyone.

Everybody has haters. For whatever reason, whether you figure it out, fix it, or just let it go, you just have to go on being and doing you. Don't worry about what other people say or think. In the end, YOU will show what you really are.

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[Keiris]

If the name suits you and you love it then stick with it! I don't know what drama you're referring to and I doubt most here do either, or care for that matter. I certainly wouldn't let another person in ANY way dictate my choice of name...especially one I loved. Sounds like Slim for the WIN!

[Slim]

I'm trying to truly let it go. This would be the 2nd time in my life I have truly gave up on thinking someone could be a good person and accept the fact that some people can truly run on hate and selfishness. I'm always going to be awesome and I will always be me.

[deepblue]

The thing is, when it comes to people who cause trouble aka drama, the online mer community knows it. People can point fingers as much as they want, everyone can see who is actually a repeat drama-causer, who got sucked in, who handled it the best they could, etc. Some will have their own opinions about it, but most people just don't care if they're not involved. If you change your name one day, I hope it's for the right reason. If someone gets their name dragged by someone else, they should know that their name is not really sullied by that. One's own actions are what matters, because that's what people will go by.

So if your concern was only that your good name was used badly, I'd definitely hold onto it, because it's stronger than all that.