This may be more appropriate for the drama thread so feel free to remove and I apologize if so.
Im concerned about the mermaid volunteer gig I do. It’s sending up some red flags, but I also feel terrible because I’m fond of my pod and want this venu to succeed. Here’s the issues:
We have no private changing space, and I’ve had people walk in on me mid-change, once topless (switching from a shell bra to a t shirt). We are alone usually in our tails with no staff checking in on us at all, and once I was left to sit for half an hour before a staff member finally showed up to block the door so people wouldn’t come in so we could switch out girls; I wasn’t about to remove my tail with kids around and ruin the fantasy. These are 4 hour gigs. The tank I was “hired” to swim in is currently broken (we’ve been working on some fund raising), but I didn’t sign up to be an exclusively dry performer. The tank had some issues beyond that and would have had sharks in it. The final straw was despite me giving two weeks notice I wouldn’t be there for my shift, no coverage was found and I was told it was my responsibility to find a replacement (not stated at the outset and we have a limited number of ladies with limited schedules).
I love mermaiding. I love working with kids. I WANT this venu to succeed so badly because our community needs it. The smiles and hugs from the kids make it all worth it, so don’t get me wrong. I’m not bitter about it at all.
Im just concerned about the potential safety issues and lack of concern for our wellbeing as performers. I’ve brought it up multiple times and nothing is changing. I’m so grateful for the opportunity and the realization of a dream, that I feel guilty. I’m worried about drama and hurting peoples feelings, especially those I care about.
So, what would you do? Would you quit the venue and give up the gig or tough it out and hope for improvement?
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