How often is it appropriate to message tail makers? I ordered a custom hybrid tail in April, and it hasn't been finished yet, which, I get the long timeframe, I'm not her only client I'm sure... I message the seller every month or so for updates but I still feel like a bother. Since I'm pretty sure the tail won't fit anymore (I developed a thyroid disorder and put on about 30 pounds since commissioning), I commissioned a custom fabric tail from another maker, but now she hasn't responded to me in two weeks - I sent my payment, measurements and Mahina fin size on the 21st, and have messaged a few times after that with no response. Am I pushy? I just want a tail, but I've waited so long I want to give up... I don't know what to do anymore.