I did it again. I feel like a barnacle brain. I'm too darn emotional.
First I would like to say that there is only one person connected to the mercommunity that I have negative opinions about. Allen Sherod earned these negative opinions over a pointless argument that started out with me sticking my nose into something I shouldn't have even if he posted something EXTREMELY racist and continues to publicly share things so incredibly filled with hate... but I digress.
I have this impulsive behavior that usually involves me arguing with someone that I say sharing something that I perceived as negative... I'm not wrong with how I feel, but I just can't seem to stop myself from getting mixed up in stuff. So, I don't know... this time I got in an argument over tail maker thread.
I do not want to restart any of the discussion that happened in the past. I just... inside my heart, I just want people to get along and be nice, and I sometimes feel like I need to balance out negativity with something positive or at least defend someone or a group of people when I see something I think is wrong. I've never actually felt like anyone except that one person was ever someone who intended to be malicious. Not once. Even in my mood swing the summer I joined the community. I felt in my heart that everyone was good... that they did not have ill will towards me... I guess that's why I spent more than a year feeling guilty for what I did when I lost control...
I'm someone that's very quick to defend someone, but I can be really dumb about it. I'm just a guy overflowing with strong emotions. The desire to see people get along and to make good friends... I want to be helpful and supportive. I want to move mountains for people if it would help them. A wise guy once told me I spread myself to thin trying to extend myself to support others... My job is to clean up after customers and coworkers, I've been spreading myself thin as I try to help my mom while she's recovering from surgery... I shoulder more financial burdens than I would need to. I don't let my mom help me because if I can't do something for her I want her to be able to do something for herself... I made myself sick with worry the day leading up to Rocky's death. I...I expended almost my entire savings to make him feel better... When I try to help, I give it everything I have until nothing is left. Even though I feel drained... I'm still overextending myself... I'm trying to help... I'm trying to do good, but I keep getting consumed by my emotions.
You see, I give and don't take. I sometimes make mistakes trying to do good. Sometimes I am doing good, but I give everything... I expend my emotions, my physical strength, my will, my health, my soul for others... I know it's a problem, but I can't stop myself. I can't ignore stepping in where I perceive a problem, negativity, or something exists... I'm a barnacle brain, an emotional guy. A guy that has his heart dragging him around from one thing to the next... Shadow, Rocky, and Ezie have always returned what I have given... I don't know where I would be without them... I'm tired, and I need sleep. I need to stop expending myself for others. I need to somehow stop caring about stuff that I should just stay out of.
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