Originally Posted by
lotusauriel
Unrelated irritation comment. I'm not here to argue. I have become an occasional lurker, because I got tired of being attacked for any and everything I say, feel, or do. Everyone wants to pretend this is a safe and positive space, but it isn't. A lot of you are obsessed with your own point of view, and most of the people who actually say anything are only here to force themselves on everyone else. Nobody stops to consider that what they are interpreting may NOT be what the OP intended. Everyone's life experience is different. And NOBODY knows everything about anything. NOBODY has the right to assume that any person's experience is better, more, or worse than anyone else's. We are all still humans, and we should all still be trying to respect everyone else, but I don't see that here. People listen to who they choose, and gang up on anyone they don't like or feel threatened by, and that just isn't right. At the same time, you all seem to think that everyone has to be the same and get along on the same level. We aren't, and we don't. Just wearing a fake tail does NOT make us all compatible. There should be a lot more to everyone than whether or not you have a tail, and what kind it is. Or who you "support". We are people, in costumes, that like to swim. Yes, it can be more than that, but that is NOT the only thing. It is not ok that certain people in this group are allowed to harass and beat down anyone they feel like, while those people being harassed are not even given a chance to be heard. This is not a community. It 's a battleground for people with no empathy, and a playpen for children that don't have a clue. I did not come to this group so people that don't know me can make judgements and tell me how to be. I also do not need to hang out with kids that I only have a tail in common with. It's just not enough, and I have MUCH better things to do with my life, and so do all of you, actually. Not that being young is bad, I just have a small problem with the concept that everyone can just be the same, and swim together, when the behavior on this forum very clearly shows that it just is not happening. This group should be a meeting ground where we can talk and see what works, but not be forced into awkward or unpleasant conversations or situations. This is generally a fantasy escape from regular life, and it shouldn't be so negative or uncompromising. I put this in the bitch thread because it is meant as a basic statement of my feelings. As such, no response is needed. Think about it. Fix it if you understand and want to. Or don't. I don't care. What I won't be doing is responding to any more attacks. On anyone. Thanks.
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