We have the anniversary coming, the big 10, and she's my angel, I want buy her the g pot womans toy to make her happy. Went here, bought it and some other stuff, boutght flowers, and rose petals to put on the floor when she comes back from work, I will cry I know if she will I will too and then we'll be together in bed. Just wanted to ask if its a good idea to use the toy one her or better to give her the chance to use?