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    Senior Member North Pacific Pod Mermaid Kane's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slim View Post
    Here a question that creeps me out but I'm going to ask. I noticed one night that someone was logged in on this site for 2 hours who never posted before. The person was just looking at attachments everytime once I started checking the profile 1 hour after I noticed the name still on when scrolling to the bottom of the site. This person has a deviantart page under the SAME name he has on this site and his blog on there has a fetish scoring system of what he on too. It clearly states that mermaids are a plus 5 points in it. Should I mention his name on here or should I message an admin and provide a link to his deviantart page with his username so they can block him from here? I'm concern saying the name will make him active and start harassing mers on here as he already has an account for 2 years.
    That's disgusting...



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    Senior Member Ransom's Avatar
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    Wow, thanks for the alert Slim. Hopefully the admins can sort it out.
    "Only in death does duty end." -- Warhammer 40,000

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    GROSS.

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    Senior Member Pod of Oceania Mermaid Jaffa's Avatar
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    Thought I wouldn't have to post here... I was going through my fb mer page and found a like from Gordon Shagene. Is there a way to remove it?

    Nvm. Figured it out. Banned him instead!
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    Holy crap, I just finished reading through all of this, because it's one of my main concerns for when I start to set up. Now, I know that I am in need of a mertender to assist me (and to never do one on one gigs that sound fishy as hell), but it didn't occur to me that mertenders would need more of an emphasis of mermaid bodyguard than I originally thought. I thought their main job would be to help me whilst in the tail where I would obviously be restricted. It was an afterthought that they would be around to keep people from being handsy/creepy.
    My question is, is there a thread floating around as a quick guide to finding/picking the right mertenders? I thought i could just have one other assistant with me and that it didn't matter if it was a man or woman, but now i'm thinking having a woman helping wouldn't be as intimidating to these sexist freaks. The thought occurred to get my boyfriend in on it, but I don't see that working out as a good business relationship. And I guess the only way to protect my online presence would be just to delete, block, and delete some more... reading the story about the one guy coming up and holding one girl at an event and then the other where the guy was trying to book a mermaid with her just going to a private location by herself... freaks me out completely. If I found another girl that wanted to do this with me (which I would love to have in the future) I feel like that ads to the seriousness of safety with two women effectively helpless in tails...

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    Senior Member Ransom's Avatar
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    Forewarned is forearmed. This thread serves its purpose every time someone finds out here rather than by experience Sadly, these people can't be dodged entirely, and social media makes you easier to find -- it doesn't care by whom.

    I don't think you need to aim to be intimidating, though your tender does need to be assertive, observant and able to defuse tough situations gracefully. You don't want to be looking over your shoulder all the time.
    "Only in death does duty end." -- Warhammer 40,000

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