B!TC# IT OUT!

[Mermaid Enora]

I only hate having to call my work. They always ask me to work extra hours and I hate having to turn them down makes them mad at me I think

[Lucinda]

This isn't an overly bitch-y bitch, but I am so annoyed with myself.

I do not understand why I have such a fear of making phonecalls.

To any one.

Ever.

I freak out!
They might be busy.
It might be inconvenient.

I can't even call a store.
You know. When it is someone's /job/ to answer the phone.

It is ridiculous and I am getting myself so stressed out and worked up about making a phone call.

>.<

I can totally identify with what you're describing. There was a time when I would rather swing by the dental clinic or the hairdresser to make an appointment than do it over the phone. When I was little, I was scared of shopping on my own because I was anxious of the social situation of paying. Of course, a lot of this could be attributed to the fact that Finnish is my third language and I was totally afraid of people saying things I wouldn't understand, and of me getting numbers wrong or dates wrong.
It's easier today, but I still worry about misunderstandings or that I neglect to mention something important, or have trouble remembering a word or expression I want to use, or come across as rude and aloof if I try to stick to the facts (or alternatively seem ditzy when I'm being nice). There are just so many things that can go wrong.
If there is a concrete issue that needs discussing, then I'd rather write so that I can make sure I've explained my side of the story in the most coherent and understandable way possible. Then I can also look up words and rephrase things. But calling someone is a bit like the verbal equivalent of an athletic performance, if you trip during it you mess it up. But in writing you can think things through.

[Mermaid Lorelei]

Ugh. So I had someone call me at work. They had a screaming baby in the background that they were yelling at. They never answered me, so I hung up. A couple minutes later, they called back to yell at ME for saying that someone had hung up on them and how rude they thought it was.
M'am, if you don't want to be hung up on after YOU call someone, then perhaps you should wait until you're done screaming at your child and ready to speak with the person you phoned. -.-'

[Shimmer Mermaid]

OMFG

We just bought a single wide trailer from some woman, paid 8500 for it, plus 1200 to move it.

She said she called her husband when we bought it, we have the title. We have a bill of sale. We have the trailer as of this morning.

Her "HUSBAND" just called us, and is demanding that we give the trailer back.

Saying she lied to him about how much we paid, and turns out she pocketed the money and left apparently.

He's being an ass.
She's proving that she's a liar.
And it's stressing my 71 year old father with lung cancer out.


Can I politely ask you guys...
WHAT IN THE FLYING SAM HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO DO IN THIS KIND OF SITUATION?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

I. Am. Freaking. Out.

People are just asshats.

It seems like it's just one thing after another with me!

[Rogue Siren]

OMFG

We just bought a single wide trailer from some woman, paid 8500 for it, plus 1200 to move it.

She said she called her husband when we bought it, we have the title. We have a bill of sale. We have the trailer as of this morning.

Her "HUSBAND" just called us, and is demanding that we give the trailer back.

Saying she lied to him about how much we paid, and turns out she pocketed the money and left apparently.

He's being an ass.
She's proving that she's a liar.
And it's stressing my 71 year old father with lung cancer out.


Can I politely ask you guys...
WHAT IN THE FLYING SAM HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO DO IN THIS KIND OF SITUATION?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

I. Am. Freaking. Out.

People are just asshats.

It seems like it's just one thing after another with me!

Double check your documents to make sure all the right signatures are there, etc. I'd do that then block the man's number.

[Meronica]

If you have the title he legally can't do anything and needs to take it up with his "wife".

I would take over the situation to avoid stressing out your dad if I were you. :/ If you ignore them long enough they'll leave you alone and fight amongst themselves.


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[coral_sybil]

I don't believe that he has any ground for it as long as the trailer was sold and all the paper is sound. Otherwise I'd demand a full refund including anything extra you had to pay for it.

[coral_sybil]

Beyond that it becomes a question of if they aren't just scammers and liars and have done this before and stressed people out to steal their money

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Everything is all there. We've got everything we need, but this guy is a major ass

[Echidna]

^^
tough situation, but:

is the trailer legally yours? Waterproof papers and transaction?
Then do nothing.
It's not your fault his gf or w/e stole the money and eloped. His problem.

Alternately, you can give it back IF he pays you back first.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

If he wants to go to court over it all, then what ever. I was there and my step mother was there whenever all documents were signed.

He will get that trailer back without paying us back, AND refunding us for moving it.
He was there this morning when they moved it, he told them to take it.

Now he's throwing a tantrum because of his wife/girlfriend lying to him. >.<

[PearlieMae]

What? He's getting it back without giving you your money back??? Call the police! He's stealing what is rightfully yours!

Lying girlfriend/wife is not your problem.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Sorry I meant
He will NOT get that trailer back without paying us back, and refunding us for moving it.

He can't steal it without us knowing, it's a 14 ft x 40 ft. It's literally maybe 200 yards from where my father lives.

Plus he has NO idea where we live or where the trailer is.

If I had it my way, I'd be decking him in the face right now!

[PearlieMae]

I don't blame you! You might want to file a police report anyway, so there's a record of his craziness.

[Anahita]

Whining bitch time here.

My divorce has finally settled. Now can my f*cking ex husband leave me the f*ck alone? Like, I hated you when I was married to you, dude. What the hell makes you think I want to deal with your broke, abusive ass now?

I have another thing to bitch about, but I don't feel like bitching about it until I see the outcome of it. That thing's a whole messed up bucket of f*ck.... So I'm biding my time for now hoping that it'll work itself out. But know that I'm bitching about waiting for it

[Lotus the Mermaid]

Whining bitch time here.

My divorce has finally settled. Now can my f*cking ex husband leave me the f*ck alone? Like, I hated you when I was married to you, dude. What the hell makes you think I want to deal with your broke, abusive ass now?

I have another thing to bitch about, but I don't feel like bitching about it until I see the outcome of it. That thing's a whole messed up bucket of f*ck.... So I'm biding my time for now hoping that it'll work itself out. But know that I'm bitching about waiting for it

So thankful you got away from him! I'll be praying he leaves you alone.

Also, I love your new profile picture!

[JayJ79]

If I had it my way, I'd be decking him in the face right now!

physical violence always makes the situation so much better

[SeaGlass Siren]

so my husband went to go take that second blood test to see if his liver is ok. I'm worried about him. doctors appointment is tomorrow to see the test results. if his liver is really bad i have no idea what i'm gonna do or even how to help...

[Mermaid Lilium]

so my husband went to go take that second blood test to see if his liver is ok. I'm worried about him. doctors appointment is tomorrow to see the test results. if his liver is really bad i have no idea what i'm gonna do or even how to help...

*huge mer-hugs*

<3

[SeaGlass Siren]

;_; thankyou lilium. *hugs*