B!TC# IT OUT!

[Venessa Louisiana Mermaid]

Yesterday I checked into hair and makeup before I had to walk in a fashion show and the lady started working with my hair. It is always chaos backstage and she said my hair was still damp and that I needed to take the blow dryer and dry it more in the bathroom while she worked on another model. I did it and I didn't detect any wetness so I came back. She sent me back AGAIN.
The third time I came back I asked her to check again if it was good enough. ( I have MS I can't feel "slightly wet" the nerves in my hands just don't pick it up. I only feel heat or cool. She stopped what she was doing , and said very loudly. You don't know how to feel WET??? what planet are you from?? In front of 30 makeup hair people modelers and handlers. Some laughed. I had to embarrassingly explain to her my nerve disorder. She still didn't seem to get it. I wanted to sink into the floor I felt so humiliated and stupid.

You should have said I may not be able to feel Wet, but I sure can detect assholes and my radar is screaming around you, bitch!

[Venessa Louisiana Mermaid]

I sent him "hey if you don't want to talk, then hell just say so. It won't hurt my feelings."

Play hard to get. Dudes love that shit.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

XP he comes to help my dad with stuff, and I ride all sexy like on my big majestic horse and say "sorry fella, this is uncatchable" *cue horse rearing and galloping away like a total bad ass*

[Elle]

I'd just come out and say it. you know? so 'hey I like you, do you like me or are you still seeing me as your student?'

Subtlety for women is like very discreet and about facial movements. Not all men are able to follow these kind of cues. Neon signs are sometimes the way to go

[Shimmer Mermaid]

See that's when my social anxiety just goes bananas

[Kishiko]

I have to agree with Elle here. Guys don't get subtle. It's so much easier to just outright tell him rather than dance around the issue playing games


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[Merman Arion]

I'd just come out and say it. you know? so 'hey I like you, do you like me or are you still seeing me as your student?'

Subtlety for women is like very discreet and about facial movements. Not all men are able to follow these kind of cues. Neon signs are sometimes the way to go

I totally agree with Elle's opinion. I'm a guy and sometimes, my kin can be very dense or blind when it comes about signs.
Just be honest and tell your feelings. You might get rejected politely but then, you will know.

[Elle]

See, if you know you're both on the same page, then you can play the games. But trying to start the games without knowing his position can make things difficult.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Hmmm this makes me want to explode

[Venessa Louisiana Mermaid]

Hmmm this makes me want to explode

Take it from the gal who has been married 15 years in June. Ignore the shit out of him. It will make him crazy for you. It is an ego thing. Guys want what they can't have. Throw him a bone here and there like some flirty eyes but then yank it right back. Watch Gone with the Wind. Let Scarlet O'Hara be your spirit guide.

[Kishiko]

See, if you know you're both on the same page, then you can play the games. But trying to start the games without knowing his position can make things difficult.

Exactly! If he's not interested and you try to play games, you will waste your time and end up looking foolish


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[MermaidShannon]

See that's when my social anxiety just goes bananas

Send him this candle. Dudes love aggressive.

[Elle]

bahahahahahahahahahahaha. love it

[Echidna]

If I were a guy, I'd be scared

But yep, none of the men I've met in my life got subtle hints. Ever.
For some, not even "leave me alone and go eff yourself" is enough, they still think you're into them...

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Well I sent through facebook messenger, and I got a "seen" notification about an hour ago. But I've seen him look at a message, and think about what he's going to say in response, then message back. And I've seen him look at a message, but because he's busy, he waits to respond...sooooooo

[Meronica]

Okay hooooold up. Woahhhh Nelly. If this guy was your teacher and seems to have some kind of friendship with your father, he probably doesn't want to be interested in you because, like Venessa said, it sounds like the beginning of a Dateline episode (even if he isn't much older than you).

Was he your high school teacher? I know that at my high school the AP Gov. teacher got in hot water for dating his ex-student even though she had graduated. They couldn't fire him, but oh lordy were there rumors.

What I'm trying to say is that he might very well think you're a QT3.14, but he may be hesitant to pursue anything with you because he'd be risking his friendship with your dad, his job, and his reputation. Sucks but that's life.


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[Shimmer Mermaid]

That's not a problem. I live in the south. Anything is acceptable once you're out of school. Plus my dad has been very blunt about how much he wants this man to be a part of the family.

[MermaidShannon]

Wrap it before you tap it

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Don't be silly, wrap the willy!

[MermaidShannon]

Equip it before you dip it