B!TC# IT OUT!

**Mermaid Lunette** · 07-19-2015, 06:20 PM

yea, i really didn't think he was this type of guy :'( it is just very frustrating. we were so close to being out of the woods and suddenly we fall straight into a pit :'(

**SeaGlass Siren** · 07-19-2015, 06:27 PM

i think you need yo kick him out of your friend circle. that SOB doesnt deserve your kindness.

**Mermaid Lunette** · 07-19-2015, 06:31 PM

possible, just talking it out with people helps me feel better at least ^^ thanks everybody :') he was kinda distant after the 6 month mark when signing the car to him didn't happen. so he isn't really in our friend circle anyway.

**Cordelia** · 07-19-2015, 06:41 PM

So sorry to hear this happened to you, Lunette. Never co-sign a loan for someone, and cut that guy right out of your life. Who cares if he was mad or not? He knew what he was doing and he obviously didn't care.

**Mermaid Lunette** · 07-19-2015, 06:43 PM

yea, you are right (all of you) and no worries, we learned our lesson, never co-signing for like anything again really ^^;

**Naufra** · 07-19-2015, 09:35 PM

When murderers and other badly-behaved people blame their lack of self-control on a health problem you yourself have and you manage to be a functioning, contributing member of society in spite of it. Way to make it harder for others with that condition to get work or even help, @$$#0les. Way to build the already crippling social stigma about that condition! Good job,%&#$ers! Thanks SO much for making it so that I can't even admit to what I have and show people what a good example of someone who lives with that condition and still manages to have a life and a career looks like! Thanks for blaming every stupid thing you do and every bad choice you make on a condition that the rest of us have to work our asses off to HIDE now just so that we don't lose our jobs! THANKS! Now crawl into a hole and die.

**Mermaid Pickles** · 07-19-2015, 11:13 PM

Well my rant is just about pointless. But I'll put it anyway since it might help it get out of my head.

I went to a convention recently, and about three weeks ago, looked at my bank account to find fraudulent charges. I went to the bank to dispute these charges, then noticed that a bunch of charges were made to my debit card while i was taking a four-hour nap during the con. Only person who was anywhere near my was my now ex-boyfriend. My sister and i confronted him about it, and he denied it, but then was like "Yeah i used your card for parking and food. No. Just food. Oh. Parking, food, and used it at a booth." I have a withdrawal that was made using my PIN number while i was asleep. We asked him about it, and he denied, saying it must have been me. But my sister even has proof I was asleep. Because she called me multiple times while I was taking my nap, and only her last call during that time frame woke me up. I had asked my now-ex to watch my stuff while i slept, since i had set my bag down by the chair i was in. When my sister called me and woke me up, I immediately called her back, freaking out because my now-ex was not there and neither was my bag. I couldn't find him, he wasn't answering his phone. I sat and waited, and about thirty minutes later, he came back, carrying MY bag and a bunch of food which he then ate by himself. I asked where he'd been and how he'd paid for the food when he'd said he'd left his debit card in the hotel room in his suitcase, and he claimed he'd found it in his pocket. His debit card, that is. Turns out, when I checked my bank records, there were charges to the food spots in the convention center, a starbucks on the second floor of the convention center, a booth, and an atm withdrawal. Now, after almost three weeks, he's admitted to the parking, some of the food, and the atm, but he won't admit to the booth. Though he can't exactly use the excuses that I did it, since I was asleep when those charges were made, or that someone else took my card, since if someone else took my card, they wouldn't be stupid enough to give it back. And i have the card besid emy bed, since I can't use it since my account is frozen. And once he admitted to using it in an atm he claimed it was an accident and that he thought my card was his. And I know that is a lie. He keeps his card in his back pocket, and mine was in a hidden pocket within a purse within a backpack. His debit card is black and blue. Mine is red and has my picture on it. Stealing my debit card and using it is a federal offense. If i could afford it, I would file charges. But I can't afford it. And now I can't get the flipping money back because he won't talk to me and it's too late to take it up with the bank.

Also. I broke my foot. YOU KNOW HOW FRUSTRATING THAT IS WHEN YOU HAVE TO CALL THE SCUBA SHOP AND TELL THEM YOU CAN'T COME SWIM WITH THEM BECAUSEYOU HAVE A BROKEN FOOT? It is insanely frustrating.