B!TC# IT OUT!

[MermaidSandie]

Just a little bit of bitching here, I really need to get it out of my system. Aslo the man pill would be a great idea if men would actually put it to use

Going through my first breakup [woooo I was late to the dating game] and I honestly have no idea what to do. He just said that he felt that he rushed into dating too fast [which I understand] and that he wants to be friends a little more first. I get that, but it's also totally screwing with my mind. I heard that he had a really good relationship with his ex so maybe he still has feelings for her and I'm just the rebound girlfriend and he doesn't want to be flat-out mean to me, or he maybe still likes me and just can't handle the relationship right now. I'm kind of just scared that I did something wrong or that I'm the rebound relationship. I don't want to ignore him, so I'll probably try and act like nothing's wrong or just give him space. He also told me "there's still prom" which really mind fucked me. what does that mean???

also he's in my 6th period class tomorrow and I really don't want to look at his face.

okay I'm done bitching

[IllynReaver]

On the birth control for men thing, http://motherboard.vice.com/read/the...cant-we-use-it it's simply an injection that's completely reversible. Also some other options http://mentalfloss.com/article/67816...ontrol-methods.

[PhaylennMurúch]

Just a little bit of bitching here, I really need to get it out of my system. Aslo the man pill would be a great idea if men would actually put it to use

Going through my first breakup [woooo I was late to the dating game] and I honestly have no idea what to do. He just said that he felt that he rushed into dating too fast [which I understand] and that he wants to be friends a little more first. I get that, but it's also totally screwing with my mind. I heard that he had a really good relationship with his ex so maybe he still has feelings for her and I'm just the rebound girlfriend and he doesn't want to be flat-out mean to me, or he maybe still likes me and just can't handle the relationship right now. I'm kind of just scared that I did something wrong or that I'm the rebound relationship. I don't want to ignore him, so I'll probably try and act like nothing's wrong or just give him space. He also told me "there's still prom" which really mind fucked me. what does that mean???

also he's in my 6th period class tomorrow and I really don't want to look at his face.

okay I'm done bitching

As someone who didn't start dating till after High School, and who has had two partners in her lifetime. You are not late to the dating game. If you don't want to look at his stupid face then don't. Pretend that he's not there. You did nothing wrong and he's a jerk for stringing you along. He said "there's always prom" because he probably thinks that he now has a backup date.
Don't hold out for him, he's a shrimp in this big ocean and you are worth more than an itty bitty shrimp

[Mermaid Cecelia]

Just a little bit of bitching here, I really need to get it out of my system. Aslo the man pill would be a great idea if men would actually put it to use

Going through my first breakup [woooo I was late to the dating game] and I honestly have no idea what to do. He just said that he felt that he rushed into dating too fast [which I understand] and that he wants to be friends a little more first. I get that, but it's also totally screwing with my mind. I heard that he had a really good relationship with his ex so maybe he still has feelings for her and I'm just the rebound girlfriend and he doesn't want to be flat-out mean to me, or he maybe still likes me and just can't handle the relationship right now. I'm kind of just scared that I did something wrong or that I'm the rebound relationship. I don't want to ignore him, so I'll probably try and act like nothing's wrong or just give him space. He also told me "there's still prom" which really mind fucked me. what does that mean???

also he's in my 6th period class tomorrow and I really don't want to look at his face.

okay I'm done bitching

Im sorry you're in this situation :/ I've actually been the other person in that situation, I started dating a guy soon after a break up and I broke up with the new guy because I wasn't emotionally ready. I still wanted to be friends with the guy to see if it could work out later, but I needed to be comfortable with being single first. If I were you, I'd give him some space but also make sure to explain to him how you're feeling about everything. I know it sounds cliche, but communication really is extremely helpful. It'll be awkward seeing him at first, but that'll go away with time

[SeaGlass Siren]

...and all the guys in here just crossed their legs.

Aww :P sorry merdudes!!!

[MermaidSandie]

@phaylennMuruch and @Mermaid Cecelia

Thank you for the support <333 I [kind of???] worked things out with him today, which kind of helped. It may or may not have involved me hiding under a table, but we communicated through the passing of notes [although we were less than 5 feet apart lmao] and confirmed that he's not mad, I don't hate him, and we're both sorry so I guess things are fine for now. He drew a picture of me in my tail lmao

[Mermaid Cecelia]

That's great sandie

[Mermaid Clara]

My iron levels are getting low again Low iron runs in the women in my mom's side of my family. When my iron levels get low I get super tired easily. Back on the iron supplements I go!


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[Mermaid Clara]

F**king hiccups! I've had them for like almost 20 minutes


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[Starfrit]

F**king hiccups! I've had them for like almost 20 minutes


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Can we get an award over here for Most Adorably Innocent Complaint in the B!tc# It Out Thread?

I totally get you, though. I rarely get the actual hiccups (I have a weird issue with my diaphragm where I'll hiccup once every hour or so), but when I do that shit hurts. D:

[Merman Dan]

F**king hiccups! I've had them for like almost 20 minutes

Next time try drinking water slowly through a straw while holding your fingers in your ears. If that doesn't do the trick at least you'll amuse everyone standing nearby.

[PearlieMae]

sending hugs pearlie! and I thought male birth control was an injection of a liquid that turns into a gel and blocks the ductus deferens?

I still wouldn't trust anyone saying they've done that, or have had a vasectomy. Truth is, the onus is upon women to control our reproduction, and the war on women's control over their bodies is very real. Conservatives know that if they can control one aspect that is particular to a certain group, then they have a toehold of doubt within that group's mindset.

Are you going to let some group tell you what you can and cannot do with your own body?

(And a vasectomy just snips out a section of the hose that carries the baby-making juice. ;-) )

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Oh gods. Japanese Language Proficiency Test starting in an hour.

*hyperventilates in abject terror*

[PearlieMae]

Hiccup cure: to stop the esophageal spasms -aka hiccups - take a deep breath and hold it with pressure. One way to do that is to put the top of your thumb in your mouth and pretend to blow it out. Do that for as long as you can maintain pressure, then try to slowly exhale. You'll hiccup while you're doing it, but keep trying.

Works every time.

[Mermaid Wesley]

Tightening the diaphragm muscle ^ it's a spasm so if you try to tense all those muscles in there it can stop em! I usually just flex all the muscles I can in my torso lol


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[Rogue Siren]

F**king hiccups! I've had them for like almost 20 minutes


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Drinking water upside-down cures them for me every time.

(Basically I get a sip of water in the mouth, then lean over and hang my head upside-down to swallow. xD)

[SeaGlass Siren]

I drink a sizeable amount of water, hold my breath until I can't, and swallow.

so here is my bitch. December hates me. Yesterday my husband showed up to pick me up and he tells me the dinner for my friends party is at 8. Ok fine I can watch the Christmas wish video at 7:30. I end up missing he video because it got moved until 5:20-6 when he wanted to kill time in the mall. So we head over to the keg at 8 when... Everyone is near finished their meal. Because the dinner was supposed to be at 6. Wtf. I'm upset (still) because I literally missed everything so I didn't even get to eat a proper dinner (just a small app was all I had) and now I'm worried ouat didn't record properly because of the speech so I might have missed a huge chunk of that too. Now I'm
Now I'm worried i will be late for work because even though I showed Up early I nearly started my shift late because I misread my schedule that day.
This upsets me because I'm a stickler for being punctual.

im so upset that I'm only running on 4 hours of sleep

[SeaGlass Siren]

Oh great now my birth control is missing. What else do I need to miss?? PHANtOM OF YHE oPerA?????!'dks

[Starfrit]

Oh, SeaGlass. :c On the upside, Phantom of the Opera is gonna be AMAZING and you're gonna have such a great time, and everything will start looking up for you! <3

I find December is always crazy and awful. Christmas is one of my fave holidays but December is one of my LEAST favorite months because things are always just pure chaos.

[Starfrit]

(PS I'm still insanely jealous you get to see POTO, I wanna sneak to Toronto and like, smuggle myself into the theatre in your purse of something.)