B!TC# IT OUT!

[Saren]

Momo I'm really sorry to hear that. When I got married my mother took over my wedding and I've regretted it ever since. She was really against my husband's family even though they've never been anything but nice to our entire family. I was forced to give invitations to people I didn't even know. It wasn't MY wedding more like a party where I was the main talking point. I hope and your partner will get the weddin of YOUR dreams

[SeaGlass Siren]

Hun ya'll better fight for your wedding like I did mine. Otherwise they'll walk all over you for the rest of your life.

[Mermaid Jaffa]

Arion spoiled sushi.

I LOVE sushi!!!

And he went and made that reference, now I can never get the image out of my head whenever I eat sushi...

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Oh Momo. Sending hugs.

[The Water Phoenix]

I realised at school today I left my lunch at home so I had to go through the day without eating anything. My school has a canteen but I had zero money so I couldn't get food. Even worse, I had to go to swimming training on an empty stomach. When I got home, I looked for my lunch bag and it wasn't on the table where I left it. So I looked through my sisters bag and guess where I found my lunch bag, in my sisters school bag! So SHE was the one who took MY lunch that I accidentally left at home! She didn't bother to let me know that I left it at home! It had the last slice of chocolate cake that I wanted badly and my sister ate it! I was looking forward to it... Rant over

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Agreed, our parents and families tried to control ours, and so we got the one person who wasn't trying- his dad- and we just went to a court house and had it done so they would all shut up, we have a big wedding planned for later this year

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[Shimmer Mermaid]

Been there. Aren't siblings the best?

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[Mermaid Arabella]

I'm so sorry, Momo! *merhugs*

If y'all don't want to elope (and I would totally support that decision, haha!) you might try what a friend did for her wedding: she and her husband decided who all they wanted to attend and budgeted for that. They told both their parents that if they wanted other family/friends, they could pay for them. I know part of the reason for this is that she has a really strained relationship with her mother (I ran interference a couple times leading up to the big day) but it seemed to work pretty well.

Remember that regardless of what your parents tell you, or your friends tell you, or we or anybody else tells you - you guys do what makes you two happy. You love each other, and that's what matters. <3

[Mermaid Marius]

i think mernation can adjust fluke shapes for existing molds? (I dunno if they charge for this? but they also do custom flukes whihc you can probably look into.)

on this page user introverting has an example of an adjusted mernation fluke.
http://mernetwork.com/index/showthre...-Thread/page33

I remembered seeing this and being hopeful. The fluke I want is pretty elaborate but I think I'm gonna take a chance and ask them if they'll make it.

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[shimmygoddess]

This made me giggle, since I received my first ever Dick pic text yesterday. LOL. Lieing of any type is wrong, so I understand.

All right.

I'm thinking of buying and offering measuring tapes to every single guy who lie about the size of their penis. SINCE WHEN a size XL or XXL is the same as a size L or even a M?!?!

For real. I'm a "size queen" and I'm not ashamed of it. I know what I prefer and when it's about hooking up with a guy, I want to make sure I have a good time because it's honestly one of the things I like to do to relax. Best remedy ever when you feel stressed. But at the moment, I'm FED UP with these liars who waste my time.

It's NOT funny when you invit a guy in your place, you get to know him a bit, you're excited about what's coming and then when the guy drop his pants, you look at him like "REALLY BITCH??" and the next thing you have to do is to explain that it's not what you were expecting and that he has to go. It's really disappointing to see that the giant sausage they were all bragging about online with fake photos happen to be small like nems you eat in a sushi shop

I always feel like an asshole when it happens because they all look disappointed when I ask them to leave. And everytime I want to say "this would not happen if you didn't lie to me in the first place" but instead I shut my mouth. My issue is that it has happened WAY too many time lately. The gay community in Paris is already complaining that there are too many bottoms on dating applications like Grindr, it's REALLY diffficult to find a good real top to have fun with and we also have to deal with compulsive liars and guys with an ego about their d*cks??

We. Are. Fucked. And not even literally.



Edit : I also wish to say that I'm aware my post sounds very shallow though. Sex is not about size and all. It's about chemistry and feeling comfortable with a partner. I would say it's just my own preference. We all enjoy sex in a different way and I guess hung men is mine. I hope reading this post didn't make anyone uncomfortable. I did hesitate before posting because I was unsure of how it would be received.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Sympathies to you Shimmy. I know that's traumatizing

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[shimmygoddess]

I have only recently starting texting and I had asked my husband and people if stuff like that happens and it has never happened to them. After doing some research on the # on FB I realized it was a pervert who sent it to numerous dancers who pages he stalks

Sympathies to you Shimmy. I know that's traumatizing

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[PearlieMae]

Ugh! That's super creepy! Get the number changed asap!

[Madison MerFaerie]

I got a text like that years ago...I was on the bus on my way home from work and I was texting my husband. All the sudden I got a dick pic from some random number! YUCK!

I halfway contemplated insulting the bastard and saying something like "GRADE: D-, WOULD NOT F*CK" but I thought that might cause them to lash out and flood me with more pics, or sign my number up for spammy text stuff.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

So, I have a few things to bitch about.

My eyes used to adjust so that I could see fairly clearly underwater without goggles.

Lately, I've been swimming a lot, and the chlorine started to bother me. So I finally gave in and bought a pair of goggles - something I hate. I hate the feeling of constriction, EVERYTHING.

Today, I was in a slightly less chlorinated pool, so in the last five minuets of my swim I took off my goggles just to revel.

And I couldn't see anymore. It was one of the most traumatizing experiences of my life and I've been hit by an SUV and dragged eighty feet by it when my jean jacket snagged on the underside.

I'm still extremely weepy about it. I guess my eyes got used to not having to adjust so they just stopped.



And on another note: a friend I used to tutor in Japanese asked me to prom. I've been debating my answer for weeks now, and he's been incredibly sweet and patient.

There's this other guy who has been extremely passive about relationships. He asked me out months ago, but aside from vague flirting we've done nothing. And he's too chicken shit to make a move. ON SOMEONE HE ALREADY ASKED OUT WHO SAID YES.

I know he isn't going to ask me to prom. I just do. He's the sort of gamer dude who probably thinks he's too nerdy/off beat/cool to go.

So. Today, I tried to tell him that someone asked me to prom and that I was going to say yes. But then I needed to educate the lunch table about feminism. So I couldn't, because he'd think I was just rejecting him because of some of the ignorance I've had to stomp out of him - and the entirety of the table.

That is not the issue. That was never the issue. He's smart, funny, and I never have to correct him twice. But he lacks cajones completely.

And I couldn't just keep stringing along the guy who asked me.

So I finally said I'd go with him.

So now the sentence has gone from "Someone's asked me to prom and I think I'm going to say yes," to "I'm going to prom with someone else."

And he's going to be hurt, and he's not going to understand, and I really did and DO like him, but I just can't keep waiting for him to grow a pair and stop being so damn passive.

So. I'm terrified about how to handle this. But I'm telling him tomorrow. I will. I won't be that bitch who unintentionally two-times because she's too awkward to say anything. I won't.

[Mermaid Jaffa]

And on another note: a friend I used to tutor in Japanese asked me to prom. I've been debating my answer for weeks now, and he's been incredibly sweet and patient.

There's this other guy who has been extremely passive about relationships. He asked me out months ago, but aside from vague flirting we've done nothing. And he's too chicken shit to make a move. ON SOMEONE HE ALREADY ASKED OUT WHO SAID YES.

I know he isn't going to ask me to prom. I just do. He's the sort of gamer dude who probably thinks he's too nerdy/off beat/cool to go.

So. Today, I tried to tell him that someone asked me to prom and that I was going to say yes. But then I needed to educate the lunch table about feminism. So I couldn't, because he'd think I was just rejecting him because of some of the ignorance I've had to stomp out of him - and the entirety of the table.

That is not the issue. That was never the issue. He's smart, funny, and I never have to correct him twice. But he lacks cajones completely.

And I couldn't just keep stringing along the guy who asked me.

So I finally said I'd go with him.

So now the sentence has gone from "Someone's asked me to prom and I think I'm going to say yes," to "I'm going to prom with someone else."

And he's going to be hurt, and he's not going to understand, and I really did and DO like him, but I just can't keep waiting for him to grow a pair and stop being so damn passive.

So. I'm terrified about how to handle this. But I'm telling him tomorrow. I will. I won't be that bitch who unintentionally two-times because she's too awkward to say anything. I won't.

Tell gamer guy that you really do like him. Alot. But decided to go with another guy because that guy had the balls to ask you. Explain if it were a situation where you needed help, would he have the guts then to stick up for you? Or continue hiding behind his shadow.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Lunette, you're completely right. And if he wasn't completely passive about EVERYTHING, I would totally ask him.

And I should talk to him. It's just annoyingly difficult to plan the time to have that sort of heart to heart.

And Jaffa, that is exactly what I'm going to do.

Hugs to both of you.

[Mermaid Jaffa]

Be more proactive and less passive, cos he's gonna lose that special someone, You.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

More hugs.

[Mermaid Mystery]

I lost my betta fish. I can't find my pleco either but that's normal. how the hell do I lose a huge betta fish? he can't even jump out so he's probably not sitting all crispy on the floor. but he can't just disappear in the tank unless someone ate him, but the other fish are too small and non aggressive to do that. what the fuck?