B!TC# IT OUT!

[PhaylennMurúch]

you and your DH need to get on the same page because that woman is becoming toxic and will do anything she can to insert herself into your relationship. I shudder to think of what she's going to do if you two become parents

[SeaGlass Siren]

Oh my God don't get me started on the babies, keep her away from your children :/
my MiL can't keep herself away from my newborn nieces. And I get that they're her grandchildren but she always butts heads with the mothers (her daughter and daughter in law) how to raise and take care of the children and here this bitch goes trying to pinch the bridge of the nose so that it looks higher (supposedly it's an Asian thing where u punch the bridge of the nose so the bone makes your nose look higher). Sorry but if that method worked she wouldn't be as ugly ��

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Oh, burn.

And she should really gtfo of her children's parenting methods.

[Hydra1337]

I definitely know about POS mothers. My own mother kicked me, my husband, and my daughter (who was barely a week old) out of her house because we "never helped around the house". I tried to do dishes every night or after every meal but it's hard when you have A FREAKING NEWBORN that you need to take care of by yourself. And I say "by yourself" because my husband was CONSTANTLY being dragged away to do ridiculously minor or tedious tasks for her instead of allowing him to help me with our daughter. Another reason she kicked us out was because we refused to drop what we were doing at 10PM and drive back to her house to help her make a Skype Account for a job interview when the internet had been shut off because donating to PBS and putting money aside to take only my little brother to the beach because I was too pregnant to travel at the time of the trip. She wanted this to happen while we were supposed to spend a weekend with my husbands mother and his side of the family who we hadn't seen in four years. But no, making a Skype Account with no Internet access was WAY more important. Oh, and she threatened to rehome our cats if we left the house for an hour or two.

[SeaGlass Siren]

Ugh hydra. Your mother sucks...

[Hydra1337]

Thankfully my husband eventually convinced me to completely cut off contact with her. When his mother helped us move to Florida we got harassing phone calls and texts to "try working things out". The last one ended with her saying Steve (my husband) was sick in the head and needed help. That was the last straw for me. After that she tried using my brother and my cousin (who had been the last person I trusted in my shitty family) to get my new address which Steve and I presumed was so my anger prone father could "pay a visit" after he threatened Steve life on multiple occasions.

[Princess Kae-Leah]

Re, Momo-N2, I was challenging myself. My level is between N2 and N3, N3 I could pass easily so it felt like more of a challenge to do N2, plus if you're at all serious about wanting to be a translator, you need AT LEAST an N2 to get your foot in the door. Even a scanlation group I follow, which is all volunteer fan translation specified at least an N2 level.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Ugh. Trying to apply for scholarships galore so that I can actually GO to the school I got into in Japan.

And of course my computer chose now to malfunction ridiculously. Kill me now. And the enrollment fee is due on April 1st. I have the money I need for THAT, at least. But I feel uncomfortable paying it down without more money lined up.

[Mermaid Clara]

Why can't my dad just trust me and have faith in me that I won't screw up my diet by going out and hanging out with my best friend? Yes I be tempted and want to eat other foods, but I'm also super invested in this diet and it's something that I really want. My dad doubts that I have any self control at all. Which also points to the fact that he fat shames me and scolds and yells at me because I would eat something unhealthy or eat a lot of something. I'm so freaking sick and tired of this!!!! I'm my own person, I'm only a human being, I'm young, I make mistakes, I can spend my money on whatever the heck I want and I'll eat whatever I want whenever I want. I don't need you freaking breathing down my neck while I'm on this diet and lifestyle change and saying I cannot do something like hanging out with my best friend just because you absolutely have no faith in me and don't trust me to have self control. *SIGH* I can't wait until I can move out and have my own life for once!


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[PhaylennMurúch]

because your dad is a Jackass who wants to see you fail. Everything you do for yourself he tells you that you'll fail, when you do move out put the man on limited contact and you'll be amazed at the weight that has been lifted off your shoulders

[Sabrina the Selkie]

I feel like I say "Preach it, Phaylenn!" a lot, but that makes the sentiment no less valid.

Your dad really needs to leave you alone and learn to be a supportive parent.

[PhaylennMurúch]

I feel like I say "Preach it, Phaylenn!" a lot, but that makes the sentiment no less valid.

Your dad really needs to leave you alone and learn to be a supportive parent.

I'm just as surprised as anyone that I'm becoming wise in my old age.

btw, Sabrina, have you ever been down to Naplate County? My mother's family is from there

[Sabrina the Selkie]

No, I haven't, unfortunately.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Friday, my husband got fired from his job, for something that wasn't his fault and something that was illegal from the company,
He was told to get something, and when he came back in a truck, He drove behind what looked like a parked work truck(the big kind that's supposed to beep when they're in reverse and have lights and such).

Apparently it wasn't parked, but was in reverse, but nobody could tell because it didn't have any lights, no noise, no spotters, nothing. Which is illegal on a big job site like that.

The incident happened Thursday, but Friday is when they fired him. It was his first write up, ever, which is also illegal, the company has a "3strikes you're out" policy.

Anyway, his grandpa sent my husbands car to Kentucky to get worked on, so now he no longer has a way around to a new job, he's part of a union hall, so they will get him another job, but he has no way there except my truck.

Which I'm totally fine with, it's just I'm not moving in until we get this apartment, so my actual house, my dog, my horses, my everything, is 2 hours away. My sister has agreed to take care of my animals.

But I've already been here for more than a week now, and that's the longest I've left and been gone. My dad doesn't think it's fair to my animals that I'm gone so much, and I agree. Its only temporary, but it seems like it's one thing after another...

[SeaGlass Siren]

my husband got promoted at work to take over operations. thats right. no longer technical management.. but operations management.
which makes the feminist in my angry because i've been trying to overhaul operations, redflagging all the existing problems and potential issues the company has but when I brought it up, it all got swept under the rug. my husband does the same thing and he gets a promotion.

THIS IS WHY I NEED FEMINISM. THE GLASS CEILING EXISTS.

( dont get me wrong i'm proud of him because yay that means more money for us, but i'm angry because that's two steps back for equality :\ )

[Shimmer Mermaid]

I'd much rather have your situation, granted the whole equality thing would've really upset me. Did you tell him how you felt about it And asked his opinion?

[MermaidCelesteFL]

Getting really tired of people asking me if I work for Weeki Wachee.

Do I look Aryan to you? No, I do not.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

I don't know, from what I've seen, the girls from weeki wachee are pretty good, so they must think you are pretty good.

[MermaidCelesteFL]

I'm not discrediting their work, but they are extremely selective when it comes to their performers.

I still don't know exactly I why didn't make it. They refused to return my messages and calls.

To me, it feels like you got really excited about a potential job opportunity, spend a long time practicing for the interview and sprucing up your resume to the max- only for them to tell you that you didn't get the job and refuse to tell you why.... And then your friends and random strangers keep asking you why you didn't get the job, and you can't give them a reason. ...but they never stop asking about it.

It gets annoying.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

I didnt realize you had tried to get in.
Or that any of that had happened.
I'm sorry. They should at least tell you why they didn't accept you. 😐