B!TC# IT OUT!

[Mermaid Aria]

PS: When was the last time your dads ever followed through with a threat like that? Like, EVER? If he HAS killed a pet, or taken it back to the pound, etc., then you are living with a dangerous psychopath and should GTFO ASAP.

He is probably tired of having to make all the money to make everyone else's lifestyle possible and is lashing out in frustration.

I'm sorry that you had such an awful day! We all say things we don't necessarily mean when we are angry. I send you lots mer love so that it gets better!

In my situation my dad has never actully done anything besides say awful words that I won't repeat on here and push him off the couch or chair in frustration, but he has gotten violenty angry before. This was related to a number of mental health issues that spring from the way he lost his previous job in conjunction with his naturally bad temper. And yes he did whine about the money, but again he had no reason to as I paid for the dog and all his care as well as all of my own expenses with my work study job. My mom and brother also have their own jobs and pay for the own stuff. The one who didn't was my sister who at the time was like 10, but she does now that she is 16, so he really just pays the bills for the house. Also, never mind that he goes to the casino every night and throws away his money. Like I said, Things are better now, he got a better job, and I've grown up and moved out of state, but he still does this to my mom and sister ocasionally.

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[PearlieMae]

Again, my apologies, fellow mers...I'll shut up now.

[Mermaid Whisper]

Again, my apologies, fellow mers...I'll shut up now.

No worries! We still love you


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[Shimmer Mermaid]

After 20 days, they are deemed abandoned, and the state can take them. At this point, since we've been the one taking care of them, legally speaking, we could change over all of the paper work, and have them put in our names.


My sister texted last night saying "hey, sorry I haven't talked to you, I've been at deer camp and haven't has signal or internet, yet she has been texting our step mom talking about her chihuahua? And she's been posting on social media? I brought this up and she said "well I had 1 bar of service, and when I went to our cabin I had WiFi."

No mention of her horses or anything of the like.

My husband wants to switch them to our names, find suitable homes with sweet little girls who will play with them and braid their mane and tails and such, and use the money to have the vet do the last sweep of cleansing, flushing, and medications to Tray, because it's just me and my husband flushing it and giving him feed medication, but it's hard for me to get out and flush it while David holds him because I'm on the last 5 weeks of my pregnancy, and I can feel him nudging his way down day by day. I have begun to feel so much pressure that it wouldn't surprise me if I went into labor right now.



I decided that we'll wait until the first of september, and see if she's got them by then, that's when we start setting hay out and really working on getting things ready for winter so it'll be done by Halloween.

I feel like I'm being more than fair?

[Mermaid Arabella]

Shimmer, you are a paragon of patience. I would already be putting ads out to sell them to someone who will actually give a damn about them.

[Mermaid Whisper]

You're definitely being more than fair.

I'm sorry that your sister is being this way. I think rehoming the horses is a great idea, and your timeline sounds perfect.

I hope Trayzon gets better as quickly as possible, and that everything goes smoothly with the baby! You're such a kind person and you sound like an amazing sister, even if she doesn't see it. You're doing good things, and you should be proud of yourself for pulling through!


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[Shimmer Mermaid]

Shimmer, you are a paragon of patience. I would already be putting ads out to sell them to someone who will actually give a damn about them.

The bad part was that both mares had a home together with two little girls who were VERY excited, and as soon as my uncle took her in, she told me she was going to keep them, and that I needed to tell the family to forget it. I told the family the whole situation and offered them to come visit and play with Stormy and Tray and that i would help them look for another set of horses.
They've visited twice, and would be the perfect home.

You're definitely being more than fair.

I'm sorry that your sister is being this way. I think rehoming the horses is a great idea, and your timeline sounds perfect.

I hope Trayzon gets better as quickly as possible, and that everything goes smoothly with the baby! You're such a kind person and you sound like an amazing sister, even if she doesn't see it. You're doing good things, and you should be proud of yourself for pulling through!


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This is what I needed to hear honestly. Ive been feeling like a terrible sister and that's why she stopped talking to me, but my husband has been saying I've been giving her too much patience and forgiveness, and just giving her the ability to walk on me.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Oh my gods. I'm gone for ten days and everyone's goes through shit.

Lots and lots and lots of belated hugs!

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[Rayne Mermaid]

OMG! So I posted a pic on Facebook of my tail design yesterday....Some random chick reposted it and said it was hers,with the "Feeling Blessed" status! I am so mad!! I even wrote to her about it,but she's too chicken shit to respond. Has this happened to anyone else? I'm not even a mermaid yet,and already getting ripped off!!

[PearlieMae]

Well, now you know to play your cards close to the chest. Report her to Facebook for stealing your intellectual property. Don't post anything you aren't prepared to have stolen.

[Rayne Mermaid]

Well, now you know to play your cards close to the chest. Report her to Facebook for stealing your intellectual property. Don't post anything you aren't prepared to have stolen.

Lol Yes,Pearlie...Lesson learned the hard way *sighs* Oh well....at least it was only a rendering and not the actual tail. I wont be posting any more about it until Im in it!

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Ouch. No fun

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[Shimmer Mermaid]

Anyone know how to rephrase "There were some who liked me, there were those who didn't.....
For those of you who didnt, kiss my *insert picture of donkey*"

My dad wanted that exactly on his headstone, and my step mother refuses to put it on there unless we find a "nicer" way to word it, but we still get to use the donkey.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Gaahhhhhhhhhh

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[Mermaid Alea]

Anyone know how to rephrase "There were some who liked me, there were those who didn't.....
For those of you who didnt, kiss my *insert picture of donkey*"

My dad wanted that exactly on his headstone, and my step mother refuses to put it on there unless we find a "nicer" way to word it, but we still get to use the donkey.

"There were some who liked me, there were those who didn't.....
For those of you who didnt I refer you to my *insert picture of donkey*"

I don't know if that makes it any better.

[Mermaid Whisper]

My oldest sister told me that if she's not allowed to die, neither am I, so now we have this morbid pact not to kill ourselves.

It's a blessing and a curse.


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[Sabrina the Selkie]

Keep those oaths, Whisper. None of us want to loose you. Keep the fight, mersister!

And Shimmer. Tell your step-mom to kiss the donkey. His death, his grave, his choice.

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[PearlieMae]

Give your dad exactly what he wants.

My mom made me promise to put ONLY "Whoops!" on her headstone. She died in October and was cremated, but I'm still getting her a stone...one that says "Whoops!"

[Mermaid Whisper]

***

[Sabrina the Selkie]

The second job might help. But like Shimmer said, don't be afraid to go to a women's home, if need be.

Also: are there any programs in place to help people on the autism spectrum? I feel like there should be something that can help you GET OUT OF THERE.

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