B!TC# IT OUT!

[Merman Dan]

Congrats, Shimmer! I like how "B!TC# IT OUT!" became "POP IT OUT!" for awhile, there.

[Merman Dan]

Hydra, my condolences for your loss. My wife and I dealt with such a loss ourselves, a decade or so ago. On my right arm I have a tattooed sleeve of sargassum seaweed with lots of sea critters hiding in it, as a symbol for my children. Closest to my hand is an anemone, there for Marina.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Congratulations to you and your husband, Shimmer. He's a gorgeous little boy.

I hate to darken the thread again but I have some sad news I've been waiting to share. I wanted to wait longer but I'm seriously hurting and need to vent. At my latest surrogacy ultrasound today I discovered at nine weeks along the baby had no heartbeat. There was no bleeding around the sac, no clots, nothing...just no heartbeat. The doctor assured me that it was nothing I did and it can happen with pregnancies and I understand...I'm just hurting because this is a first for me.

My mother had the same happen to her at 5 months along. No other signs, just no heart beat. She had to go through full labor.

Congrats, Shimmer! I like how "B!TC# IT OUT!" became "POP IT OUT!" for awhile, there.

I know it. It was hilarious.

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[MermaidIndie]

Congrats Shimmer he's so cute!!!


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[Azurin Luna]

Congrats Shimmer, nice to hear everything went fine!

Sorry to hear that Hydra *mer hugs*

[MermaidCelesteFL]

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[merstorm]

Hydra sorry to hear that just don't know what to say to make you feel better

[Hydra1337]

Thank you for the kind words. Just to update my situation I ended up having the miscarriage yesterday before I could have surgery but I ended up in the ER my pain was do bad. The support I got here has seriously helped mentally. Thank you, all.

[merstorm]

hey thanks for the update wish there was much better news we are with you

[Shimmer Mermaid]

We send our love to you ❤ I'm so sorry this has happened

[Mermaid Clara]

*SIGH* I'm such a bad fish mom! I neglected my 30 gallon for I don't know how long. So today I got my butt in gear and removed the gravel and replaced it with cleaned sand. It's still hella gross and the water is tinted deep yellow because I had a piece of driftwood in it. Once I let the fish settle down and adjust to the changes and let the debris settle I'll add more clean water and in a few days I'll do a partial water change and try to get more of the debris out. I'm so mad at myself!!!!!


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[Shimmer Mermaid]

Husband had a wreck on the way to work today, head on collision with another car, the other car was totalled, his Ford Focus was not, just grill damage. The other driver was a little banged up, but nothing serious, considering they were going pretty fast.

His air bags did not employ until 3 hours post accident, so I am pissed and I want to sue Ford.

He's okay, his neck, back and face hurts, but no cuts or broken bones.

When I picked him up he cried and kept apologizing for being in an accident that wasn't even his fault.

Thank god for insurance. 😓

[malinghi]

That sucks, glad he's safe.

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[PearlieMae]

Bad emotional day...One year since my Mom died. I miss her so bad.

Shimmer, I'm glad your hubby wasn't seriously hurt!

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Love to everyone. Shimmer, Hydra, Pearlie.

So many hugs to you all

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[Shimmer Mermaid]

Thank you everyone. We seem to have the worst luck this year, besides my son being born.

This morning my husband drove my old Dodge to work, and it's never had any problem before, he gets about 30 minutes away from the house on his way to work, and the truck just dies while hes going down the road.

He sat on the side of the road for 2 hours, nobody stopped to help him.
I got there (i was in my track shorts, which I sleep in, and a hoodie because it was 6 am) and we were trying to get the truck off the road into a farm drive and within 10 minutes, two older men pulled over to help.
Then afterwards proceeded to ask for my number, in front of my husband.

I promise, I tried not to be rude considering they helped pull his truck off the road.


It's not like I wear a wedding ring...

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Bedding smells like milk because last night my husband accidentally elbowed my engorged chest and started a fire hose effect.

[Mermaid Clara]

I just want to cry and crawl into a hole and die! It's my first day back since I was only scheduled once at work last Tuesday. And to make things worse they updated the register software so it does hella new stuff and I barely understand how to use it. So I did something wrong and it wouldn't read my customer's chip card. So I tried calling over the one of the department leaders and she ignored me, so I just used the walkie to radio for someone to come, I didn't hear a response. So I waited then called on the walkie again. Then one of the other department leaders yelled "Seriously!?!? Two of us are right over here! What do you need!?" I just seriously just felt like crawling into a hole and hiding forever, not to mention crying(because like everything makes me cry). So the nice department leader lady comes over and shows me how to do the thing right. But I'm not sad anymore I'm beyond pissed at the department leader named Melia. Wtf? I didn't do anything wrong, y'all were talking and ignoring me. I'm sorry that I didn't get fucking scheduled during the first time we updated the system. But should I be to be talked to like a piece of shit just because you're in a higher position than I am? I'm starting to hate my job! Just because of these coworkers who take everything out on me. I don't deserve this, I'm fucking fragile as fuck right now, my mom has cancer and I'm extremely depressed and emotional and stressed beyond the fuck out.


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[TheSaltySiren]

So today is my birthday...And I don't think I have ever been more sad in my life. I sit here, staring at a computer screen, crying. I have no friends, and no family..and no money. I can't even afford to go buy myself food for the day. I have never been so low in my life, and I just don't understand why. I have done so much good in my life, for others, and for the world, and yet it seems I get repayed by having everything taken away. I have been ripped off by TWO tailmakers, Had money stolen, been kicked out of where I am living for no reason at all, etc.... Karma hates me for some reason, and no matter what good I do, it never gets repaid.

Is this the world we live in? A world that just doesn't care.
If so I think I may just call it quits.
32 years of battles is enough for me...

[MermaidCelesteFL]

@AutisticMermaid- I'm sorry to hear that, life can get really rough sometimes! Please keep your chin up, you still have friends here! <3