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    I feel the need to B!TC# and not sure to whom, so here it comes.

    I'm trying really hard to mentally and physically settle in with my new roommates. They are filthy and disgusting. I confronted them about the entire place being dirty. There is random stuff strewn everywhere and their game systems may as well be just a pile of thrown about abused pieces of machinery. The floor is littered with debris, unused and broken cat toys, cat litter, hardened food, random bits of metal and I don't even know what - on top of all the dirt and whatever all the stains are. I trip over EVERYTHING when I walk around and heaven forbid I have to walk around at night - I can't go without kicking something of theirs and stubbing my toe. So when I confronted them about it, one exclaimed "This is clean! I just have a lot of clutter." Yeah. Right! It's FILTHY. Now, there's an overflowing pile of dishes (none of which are mine, as I diligently clean my few dishes the instant I finish using them) as well. One of them if not both apparently leaves their clothes in the washer for so long that they are hardened to a crisp, and *I* had to put their clothes in the dryer just so I could use it.

    And tonight? There is no negotiation. The "head" of the household, as I look at her (she has been here the longest anyway), is really infuriating me. She's got her cuddly guy friend here (no, not boyfriend, just a guy friend, I walked in on them spooning on the couch). They're watching movies in the living room so I have to hide in the bedroom. She closed the door on me, and got huffy that I was doing my laundry cause it's barely as loud as the TV blaring. I can't even post up on the kitchen table where I might find an empty plug if I was so lucky, but I can't because the table is littered with so much clutter you can barely see a corner of the table itself.

    Now, students are not supposed to have pets here. Apparently, the other roomie got her cat "OK'd" by the FORMER head of student affairs, because she was "home sick" and the cat helps with her "illness." Bullshit. Cats are no longer qualified as service animals, and it wasn't even worded as that. The litter box is FILLED with poop and litter ALL OVER the floor. And I swear it looks like someone took all the catfood and threw it all over the entire apartment. I've HAD IT I've only been here a week and already I'm wanting to hide in a germaphobe bubble. I also moved my fish to my BFs mostly because I am terrified that the cat is going to kill my fish. I would go to class worried the entire time that I would return to his little tank on the floor and Valentine missing. Already the cat's jumped on the kitchen counters and tore down a ton of dishes (thank gods the beast didn't break my favorite coffee mug). The new head of student affairs is a good teacher and friend of mine, he's taken really good care of me as a student and now in his new position. I'm going to go to him and ask him to check the files of the roommates and see if a cat was OK'd. And ask if he can take his time looking for CLEAN roommates with NO PETS. I don't care if it takes a couple weeks, and I know I just moved in but this is just unbearable. Student affairs usually does a "roommate match" but since I was going through a really hard time at home, he moved me ASAP and originally picked these girls because I was to have my OWN room but the other gal took it because she "felt it was deserved" and didn't tell student affairs like she was supposed to. I'm willing to wait and find the roommates I match better with. I don't even get along with these girls.

    I know roommates aren't perfect, but with as many options as there are to choose from, it can't be THIS bad.

    MAN that felt good to get out.

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    Whoa, she should NOT of gotten a cat with out talking to everyone else in the house first. What if someone was allergic? I have a friend who would do something like that. She had SOOO many pets at her house. She never took care of them and her house just stank because they pissed on the floor and the litter boxes weren't cleaned out. It was awful. She's in college now and she just took a cat in and is keeping it in her dorm room. I don't even think she can do that...

    But I think you need to sit down with your roommates and discuss some ground rules and talk about the cat. Maybe convince her to keep it outside and inside at night? If you can't get them to go by those rules, I'd look into moving out. There is NO need for you to live like that and act like the mother cleaning everything up. That's just not right..

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    Small little rant here: I know my husband isn't my "keeper" or anything.. but I must admit I get frustrated when I have a narcolepsy "oops nap" (as I call them) and he just lets me sleep instead of waking me up. He knows I would want him to wake me up but he just lets me sleep becuase "I must need it". That's all well and good, but it does not do me good, especially when it's after 7. I'm having a horrid time with my delayed phase sleep disorder even more since I've moved to the Pacific Northwest. Right now I got bed at 4:30am and get up at 2:30pm and no matter how many different things I try (and believe me I've tried just about everything - I could go on and on) I can't get it to budge. I'm super stressed out trying to find a job and feeling guilty for not having one in this new town yet, and having an insane sleep schedule is not helping at all. I'm trying to be "gentle with myself" in not bullying myself for something that is a health issue, but it's so hard. And then I fall asleep at 10:30pm for an hour and he just lets me sleep when he knows how frustrated I am! God knows what time I'll get to bed now D: Worst part is usually once it goes "forward" it sticks I could go on and on about frustrations with that. Just.. AAAAHHHHHH!!! >_<!!! I FREAKING HATE MY SLEEP DISORDERS.

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    Dumb idea but have you spoken to an alternative therapist to work out what could be causing the phase sleep disorder? Or perhaps your body is just telling you to move to Europe. Im heading the opposite way; 4am wake up (wide) and no chance to sleep - even if I had to work late the night before. Good luck

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    iblondie; The head of student affairs, the nice one I said I am pretty much friends with, he didn't even tell me she had a cat. I honestly don't think he knows, otherwise I know he would have asked me "do you mind a roommate with a cat." Indoor or outdoor, the cat box still is full and still would be full in the future. What bothers me more is the messiness of them. I am NOT going to clean up after them. I WAS, but as I saw how fast they make things messy, I decided it is not my ajkflsdifj job. Screw the ground rules, I can tell now they won't respect them, so I'm just going to student affairs. We're allowed to switch dorms I know, and this scenario was all one big rushed solution that should have taken a few days longer to find me roommates more suitable. Cleanliness and no pets (unless they're in a tank). That is ALL I ask for. I'm not even asking for best friends with these clean petless women, or to perfectly get along with them as I know we'd all have our boundaries and tolerate one another. I just want those two things.

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    Update!

    I talked to head of student affairs. He takes SUCH good care of me! Probably helps that he favored me in class as his best student? Such a pity to hear rumor that they're moving him back to teaching. At least I spoke up now, and not later. So, they're going to have a surprise inspection earlier than usual at this apartment. The girl is OK'd to have a cat, BUT she is suppose to clean up after it very very well. The apartments are supposed to be kept cleaned for health reasons. I have a huge sinus issue so while I cannot literally smell things unless it's riiiight under my nose, smells really mess with my nose - I think that's why I got sick last night and I'm okay today after fresh air. I did laundry and my nose was repeatedly right over the uncleaned litterbox. Anyway! I talked about everything going on here and he was surprised to hear how bad it was. So he is moving me into the single bedroom so I have my own room AS WAS PLANNED initially. The girl that "stole" my room actually broke contract and she could get fined and penalized for what she did. And the fact she's not keeping up after her cat. And both of them could get a warning for how terribly messy the place is.

    Yay! My own room! So I can hide in there and not have to smell the horrid cat remnants, not have to bear with their mess, and be a happy little mermaid in my own bubble.

    She is supposed to be moving out tonight, but I can hear her in there nagging at someone about something over the phone, and she's not doing a thing about it. She's already been warned. All I have to do is drop a hint that I heard they're doing mid term house inspections soon but not 100% sure when, so they at least have a "fair warning." I love my old teacher/head of student affairs!! <3

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    I'm glad it all worked out for you!! YAY!

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    Yeah, I'm just waiting for her to MOVE OUT of there. She was supposed to move out tonight but instead I came home to hear her B!TC#ing on the phone to someone about something (too muffled to hear), slamming dishes around, then she left and slammed the door really hard. I KNOW that Head of Student Affairs (let's just call him HSA) kept anonymity concerning me, but I also know the timing is "coincidental" as well. New girl moves in shortly after ornery girl moves into open room against contract. Ornery girl gets caught now that new girl is here. New girl gets room as new girl was supposed to. I'd be on to me, too. LOL!
    I'm sorry, I just like rules. I follow them. I set them and follow them. I would hope others do, too. I'm a rat if I feel the need.

    As it is, she is only in that room 10% of the time. Usually she is in there for maybe an hour or two either napping (she sleeps at her boyfriend's), or getting ready for class or work. She practically lives with her boyfriend. Soooo.. why not let someone have the room who will actually utilize the space (and I'll stress again that on the forms it was written that I was to take that one). SOO I guess tomorrow I have to talk to HSA again, as he told me to report if she did not comply.

    Hooray, rules.

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    B!TC# IT OUT!

    I know we all get busy and from time to time we put certain things on hold to get other things back on track, but it's still frustrating that I took so much time away from mermaiding trying to get my personal and work life straight and now it's all together and now it's too cold to go swimming!!!! ARGH!! It's just not fair! I finally got everything else fine, and now I can't swim without worrying about frostbite! I mean seriously?! It's never cold in Texas until I want to swim!
    Hugs, fishes, and mermaid kisses!

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    I have been called 7 times today from our house phone provider to ask it I wanted an upgrade. One of them refused to talk after I stated I wanted to be taken off the call list and hung up on me and another yelled at me when I told him that I'd already been called 6 times before him and wanted the company to stop calling me.
    I'm sad and exhausted from dealing with all these calls in the last hour

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    I swear those people can be far too rude. I know they probably get a lot of people that yell at them, but that's still no excuse to act unprofessionally on the phone to their customers for wanting to keep their service as-is and stop being HARASSED. I understand your frustration, I tend to just hang up on them right away. I just say "stop calling," and promptly hang up without any hesitation!

    I recently had to deal with this for TWO MONTHS from a company wanting me to take a survey for some... education services thing. They called me 1 - 2 times a week for 2 months and every time I picked up the phone (expecting someone else to be calling), it was them. I'd do exactly what I told you (after enough phone calls answered trying to get them to stop), just hang the f#%$ up.

    Good luck with them!

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    Yeah, sorry about the phone issues girls, I had an experience almost like that a little while back. When i got my new phone, this one guy who i didnt know had called me and left a voicemail thinking i was another guy named josh or something. I let it slide cause everyone types a wrong number, right? The next day: he calls again. Then began texting me! I got my dad to tell him it was the wrong number, and he stopped for a few days. Next week? Same calls from the same guy. Again, we told him it was the wrong number. This pattern went on for a couple of weeks, until the guy totally raged!! He was cussing us out saying that he was done with our games and wanted to talk to "Josh" right now. Seriously? This guy had to have issues or something But, I finally got a new number and everything was fine after that But same, i also get those annoying sales calls.
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    I think politics are a poor choice of topic/subject here and I am not going to make a comment other than "bad choice."

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    Re: B!TC# IT OUT!

    Quote Originally Posted by Koral View Post
    I think politics are a poor choice of topic/subject here and I am not going to make a comment other than "bad choice."
    I didnt mean to offend anyone, that is why I didnt say any of the canidates names and kept my prefrence to myself. Im just tired of people around my area acting like kids about it and needed some place to blow steam without being bombarded by fire.
    I can delete it if is offensive to some people. Very sorry if I caused any issues.

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    I HATE MY ENGLISH TEACHER SO MUCH. like i can't even describe how much i hate her. She never teaches in class, or gives us any notes, and then she throws this insane test at us and keep in mind, i'm HORRIBLE at english. Like i'm so bad at that stupid arbitrary interpretation crap. UGH. But i'm actually a good writer, which was perfected by my amazing english teacher last year. The problem is that this year, the dumbass teacher doesn't like the writing style that my other teacher spent months working on with us. So I have NO IDEA what she wants from me. and she's never available if i want to talk to her. i want to tell the principal that she's incompatent, and i have good proof of it, but i don't know if its appropriate....

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    If you have a problem with it then you should tell the principal. I hate my science teacher this year, she is certified as a law teacher for high school and now she is teaching middle school science. Plus everything is a competition to her.
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    I have a feeling I'll be frequenting this thread often. I've got a ton of Asian rants (sine I myself am Asian and live under such.. Hardcore Asian parents.)

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    I was hoping i wouldnt have to rant so soon, but here i am about to rant. bear with me, i'm not going to spend my time correcting my grammar/spelling/capitalization/punctuation....

    *WARNING: THE FOLLOWING CONTAINS PROFANITY, AND IS INTENDED FOR AN OLDER AUDIENCE. VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED*

    WELL TO START, there is a very fine line between asking for financial help from family, and leeching off their money. with that said, i've got family on both sides leeching off our money. (all of my family is in vietnam, minus my immediate family... mom, dad, sisters, and a niece)

    NONE of them want to work, and they're always complaining how they have no money for "doctors, medicine, school" blahblahblahblah same damn shit over and over again.

    is it selfish of me for thinking that way about my family? like i'd understand if they did legitimately need it for those things, HOWEVER! they have not been using my family's money for those thing.. NOPE! they've been using it to GAMBLE. DRINK. BLOWING OFF OUR MONEY AS IF THEY'RE BALLERS. SCHIESE!!!

    and this has been happening for YEARS. and these are fully grown men and women with CHILDREN. (i don't view them as family as rude as that sounds because in no way have they ever helped us in anyway...one of them i don't even know about decides to talk shit about me! like wtf!)

    and you know what fucking pisses me off? THEY THINK MONEY FALLS FROM THE SKY IN NORTH AMERICA. i am not kidding. i'm talking about like
    "oh you guys live in AMERICA (note: I know you're uneducated, but do you need us to constantly remind you that we are in Canada. CANA-FUCKING-DA. we're nowhere close to being American you stupid Vietnamese people!) money just falls from the sky! (no it doesn't we have to work hard for that money, unlike you fucking viet people that just sit on your lazy asses all day just asking us for money.)

    what pisses me off even more? my parents HAVE to give that money. "we can't abandon family!" no, we cant, but they're not fucking children. hold on a second let me just type up more profanity, i need to get my anger out of my system.

    FUCKING BLOODY HELL YOU STUPID FUCKING ASIAN CUNT TWATS ! YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE FUCKING SMART, NOT FUCKING STUPID! SHIT! (I'm clearly not fond of being Asian)

    Ok i'm done.


    Like go work for your own money you;re like 30-40 year olds. my parents cannot fucking baby you all the time. fuck. GEEZE.

    ok i'm done ranting.

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