B!TC# IT OUT!

Meanwhile I just found out today that I got kicked out of the NC-Merfest group. Just like that. With no reason :doh:

Oh wait... On second thoughts, must be because I didn't acknowledge some people who claimed to be mer royalty and because I didn't take their side on some drama. Well, they can still suck it. I don't care the slightest and I'm not gonna bother coming back. *snap*

After what happened in my country, I find all that shit pretty irrelevant and not worth my time and energy. I'm gonna focus on work, gym and the preparations of my upcoming trip to MerMania.

^WTF? thats random.

Understandable, Arion. Some people are just not worth dealing with.

On a completely unrelated note, I have a school field trip today, so there was no threat to MY saftey, but my school went on soft lockdown today (no one could leave or come in, but people could move around the school and go to classes like usual)

They gave us no info until it was over so, I'm sitting in a sewage treatment plant with my environmental class worried out of my mind.

Turned out to be nothing. Social media just blew out of proportion.

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Meanwhile I just found out today that I got kicked out of the NC-Merfest group. Just like that. With no reason :doh:

Oh wait... On second thoughts, must be because I didn't acknowledge some people who claimed to be mer royalty and because I didn't take their side on some drama. Well, they can still suck it. I don't care the slightest and I'm not gonna bother coming back. *snap*

After what happened in my country, I find all that shit pretty irrelevant and not worth my time and energy. I'm gonna focus on work, gym and the preparations of my upcoming trip to MerMania.

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Witch please! If they mer-royalty, then I am Raina's Uncle.

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Meanwhile I just found out today that I got kicked out of the NC-Merfest group. Just like that. With no reason :doh:

Oh wait... On second thoughts, must be because I didn't acknowledge some people who claimed to be mer royalty and because I didn't take their side on some drama. Well, they can still suck it. I don't care the slightest and I'm not gonna bother coming back. *snap*

After what happened in my country, I find all that shit pretty irrelevant and not worth my time and energy. I'm gonna focus on work, gym and the preparations of my upcoming trip to MerMania.

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Ahh, then you missed the big "stop bullying" post from this morning where it is stated that anyone reported to be harassing other mers will be prosecuted because the reached out to the state and federal authorities.

Oh yeah lol, the post where Christomer went on an angry rant about how anyone caught "bullying" (read: calling his girlfriend out for her bullshit / criticizing her shitty behavior / not taking her side in her stupid drama) will be SENT TO JAIL.

I'm shaking in my fins. The Internet Police are gonna come knocking on my door any minute, I'm sure.

Quick, hide yo kids, hide yo wives, and hide yo husbands cuz they policing errbody up here.

ANYWAY.

The entire weekend (my niece's baptism and my housewarming) the inlaws kept asking about when im having kids. when. not even asking if i want any or what my plas are. like they demand i pop a bun in my oven when i literally just bought a house.

i could go on another rant about finances, being psychologically and mentally not ready but i feel like an overplayed record player.

That sucks, SeaGlass. :(

I hate it when people pull that stuff. I literally turned eighteen today, and because I'm so young EVERYONE I know refuses to believe me when I say I'm not having my own. I plan on adopting toddlers and fostering teens WHEN I'M OLDER. Like really. So many of my family suffers from "I had kids too young, had to grow up too fast, and never got a chance to learn about myself in consequence"

And now they want me to repeat the behavior. *headwall. Repeatedly*

Tieri and Seaglass :lol:

I am sorry to hear though SeaGlass about your inlaws pushing for grand kids...ugh....families who interefere and try to control your life is never a fun situation
You could always reply though with:" As soon as you pay for their education, food, diapers, baby sitters, day care etc etc etc and give me 1 million on the side, as soon as that happens i am willing to give you even 2 grand kids, see how reasonable i am?"

yeah it's been a total strain on me. sorry about your family. ugh. stupid people need to stop breeding.

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Tieri and Seaglass :lol:

I am sorry to hear though SeaGlass about your inlaws pushing for grand kids...ugh....families who interefere and try to control your life is never a fun situation
You could always reply though with:" As soon as you pay for their education, food, diapers, baby sitters, day care etc etc etc and give me 1 million on the side, as soon as that happens i am willing to give you even 2 grand kids, see how reasonable i am?"

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here's the thing though, THEY WOULD DO ALL. AAAAAALL of that.

it wasnt just them though, it was literally my mother in law's sister, my brother in law, my sister in law, and my brother in law's wife's friend.

i can't. i can't. literally, i can't.

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You are in good company. Maybe we'll have t-shirts made for the occasion. ;)

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here's the thing though, THEY WOULD DO ALL. AAAAAALL of that.

it wasnt just them though, it was literally my mother in law's sister, my brother in law, my sister in law, and my brother in law's wife's friend.

i can't. i can't. literally, i can't.

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Ow shit? They would? I was just bluffing!:lol:
I don't want kids myself, maybe adopt one day in the far far future but most likely not even that.
I thought you could bluff your way out of the discussion, if you don't want kids do not use my bluff then lol.
Just stand your ground and dont do it.

yeah i definitley dont want their money. they have a track record of "but i did this for you"

no. im not taking that leverage money.

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Hell yes! :highfive:

I would not either with my family. They would have something to throw in your face any time it suits them, something to hold over your head.
It seems to be in the secret book of parenting, the secret book that you only get when you give birth ;-) the book that says:" Make sure to do a lot for your child so you can make them feel guilty later on and throw it in their face ones they get opinions of their own or try to live their own life."
My brother keeps asking my hubby and me/I when we will get official married since it is "really time to do so" and we just keep saying nope, we will get married when it suits us.

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Oh yeah lol, the post where Christomer went on an angry rant about how anyone caught "bullying" (read: calling his girlfriend out for her bullshit / criticizing her shitty behavior / not taking her side in her stupid drama) will be SENT TO JAIL.

I'm shaking in my fins. The Internet Police are gonna come knocking on my door any minute, I'm sure.

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I am not in that group anymore....but heard about that rant....You cannot report people for 'bullying' when they speak the truth. Such crap!

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oooohh..I want a shirt too! :lol:

I can really only take so much. And today was just too much. I haven't had a shower for weeks because I can't handle the stimulation of a shower. And I can't handle a lot of things. I'm just feeling above and beyond not enough. Not enough for myself and certainly not enough by anyone else's standards. So I can either stay here and sob and shake every damn night or I can work on moving out. There's really no reason to have a mock-conversation about this with anyone. I just... it is SO HARD to maintain a facade of 'I can actually put up with your shit' on a regular basis. So I am looking on my government's website to try to see if there are any options for a person with my needs and I found this 'findmyroommate' thing. But the link doesn't lead anywhere so I'm a bit stumped. But I will keep looking. Meanwhile I'm going to splurge and finally by myself a frikkin monofin. And I figure I will throw in a pair of goggles and a snorkel for fun. It'll be interesting (isn't it always for us? :p ) but it'll work out. I get paid every Friday and that'll do. Anyways, fishies, hug your family and friends if you can and take a breath of fresh air for me. <3

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YES x1000!!!

Lost my job, filling out all the job applications I can so hoping I find something.

I've been through the loss of two animal friends this week, and now my lizard has a few (easily fixable) health problems. if I don't fix them it could be fatal eventually. not an amazing start to my week.

New shootings last night at Saint-Denis, in the suburbs of Paris. 7 people arrested including 3 terrorists and 4 suspects. One kamikaze who was a woman exploded. 2 other terrorists killed. 5 policemen hurt. Operation still ongoing in direct live tv...

Edit : the people who got arrested were targeting La Defense which is the area where I work..! [emoji26]

From what I've read it was the police going in to raid and arrest them, I still don't think they caught everyone yet.

The nearest to another attack is that an ambulance full of explosives was found at a stadium in Germany or something, my brother told me about it last night.

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There's big uproar in Germany all of a sudden because the soccer arena in Hannover had to be evacuated and the game couldn't take place.

Mass shootings and war-like incidents?
"oh yea bad zzzzzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzz btw all is fine"

aborted soccer game?
"NOOOOOOOOOOOOO THIS IS WAR"

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Not really a bitch out but something that was on my mind.

The hardest part about being a woman isn't actually deciding what to wear.
It's actually bleeding from your vagina, being pressured into birthing babies, not having the same opportunities as male counterparts in the workplace, being ridiculed when you say feminism is still needed, hearing things like "I'm gonna rape and beat you" "get back to the kitchen and make me a sandwich", being called a bitch when she sticks up for herself when being cat called, being told by men "no you cannot have an abortion even if you were raped", being told you are not a good mother for feeding formula milk as opposed to breastfeeding or being a working mother as opposed to staying at home full time... And hearing shit from Caitlyn Jenner's mouth like "picking your outfit is the hardest part about being a women" making it seem like all women are shallow and that all other problems I've mentioned are trivial.
Wtf. No. Just no.
Like congrats for identifying as a female and coming out, but I don't think you fully grasp what it is actually like.

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Not really a bitch out but something that was on my mind.

The hardest part about being a woman isn't actually deciding what to wear.
It's actually bleeding from your vagina, being pressured into birthing babies, not having the same opportunities as male counterparts in the workplace, being ridiculed when you say feminism is still needed, hearing things like "I'm gonna rape and beat you" "get back to the kitchen and make me a sandwich", being called a bitch when she sticks up for herself when being cat called, being told by men "no you cannot have an abortion even if you were raped", being told you are not a good mother for feeding formula milk as opposed to breastfeeding or being a working mother as opposed to staying at home full time... And hearing shit from Caitlyn Jenner's mouth like "picking your outfit is the hardest part about being a women" making it seem like all women are shallow and that all other problems I've mentioned are trivial.
Wtf. No. Just no.
Like congrats for identifying as a female and coming out, but I don't think you fully grasp what it is actually like.

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I can't. Literally, I can't.

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I can't. Literally, I can't.

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I know I tried to put a Regina mills gif but my phone hates me. :(

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"get back to the kitchen and make me a sandwich",

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I used an aquatic half-slaad beach-dwelling sorcerer in a D&D game once. Yep. A tuna-slaad sand witch.

My mum and I run a foodbank and yesterday I had to walk out to stop myself from punching one of our 'clients' in her stupid face. We serve tea and coffee in the winter so people sit in the warmth and talk with us for a while. I could talk for hours with some of the people we have. So this woman I talk to all the time (every week) suddenly started a Racist rant about 'all these filthy refugees, look at their clothes, they even have phones they just want to come here and blow us all up' I calmly started to tell her why they need to come to Scotland, that we need to help them because they are in such desperate need and she just says 'yeah I get that but i'm just a big racist' she started laughing. I asked her if she would throw her phone and clothes away if something happened here' 'of course not, I paid for these' Ugh I told her that the drone attacks the government are sending to 'wipe out ISIS' are dropping bombs of civilian areas she laughed again and
said 'Serves them right, we had to teach them a lesson after what they've done to Paris, they killed all those people.' I had to walk away then. Every terrorist identified in Paris( to my knowledge) has been European, not that if they were Syrian I would turn away any refugees. We of course still have to give her what she needs from the food bank but honestly I just wish we could turn awful people like her away. And oh my god If her 'friend' that comes into the foodbank calls her son (the friends) a 'Mongo' in front of my little brother one more time the owner of the hall has told us he doesn't want them anywhere near. We will be referring them to Another foodbank. I'm making signs because we have to give everyone a warning they are entering a hate and judgment free building. I would never dream of judging someone by their circumstances especially in a Foodbank so I don't see how it could be hard for someone to hold their tongue for half an hour while they collect what they need.

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Not really a bitch out but something that was on my mind.

The hardest part about being a woman isn't actually deciding what to wear.
It's actually bleeding from your vagina, being pressured into birthing babies, not having the same opportunities as male counterparts in the workplace, being ridiculed when you say feminism is still needed, hearing things like "I'm gonna rape and beat you" "get back to the kitchen and make me a sandwich", being called a bitch when she sticks up for herself when being cat called, being told by men "no you cannot have an abortion even if you were raped", being told you are not a good mother for feeding formula milk as opposed to breastfeeding or being a working mother as opposed to staying at home full time... And hearing shit from Caitlyn Jenner's mouth like "picking your outfit is the hardest part about being a women" making it seem like all women are shallow and that all other problems I've mentioned are trivial.
Wtf. No. Just no.
Like congrats for identifying as a female and coming out, but I don't think you fully grasp what it is actually like.

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This is what I've been saying! and I totally think she didn't even deserve that woman of the year award. What did she do to deserve that? She's a homophobe and a racist, I hope those aren't the qualifications for winning that award. I can think of so many more transwomen who deserved that award if they wanted to pick a transwoman.

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Oh yeah lol, the post where Christomer went on an angry rant about how anyone caught "bullying" (read: calling his girlfriend out for her bullshit / criticizing her shitty behavior / not taking her side in her stupid drama) will be SENT TO JAIL.

I'm shaking in my fins. The Internet Police are gonna come knocking on my door any minute, I'm sure.

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I'm in that group, but I don't participate and turned off notifications so I missed everything leading up to the bully rant (I did see the bully rant tho, mostly just scrolled past it :P)
What were they calling her out on before hand that made him post that?

Friendly reminder that childbirth and menstruation suck but are not woman-exclusive. And they aren't woman-identifiers. There are cis women who don't menstruate or have children.
Other than that yeah.
She's not a good representation of the trans community, mogai community, or of women, and yet is being treated as such. *shrug* will just continue ignoring her now


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^ yes there's definitely that -- thank you for clarifying. I'm as cis as cis can be and forget the others ._. Oops.


What irks me too is that anyone who spoke up about how she didn't deserve to win (well no shit if anyone gave that speech I don't think they would've won either) was labeled as transphobic. Wtf why

It's just because bandwagon liberals can just say "The only reason you don't like it is 'cause she's transgender!"

Please if any woman said that id call them out.

to be fair on Caitlyn though she was surrounded by the kardashians who aren't really the best role models so....