B!TC# IT OUT!

[Merman Arion]

Meanwhile I just found out today that I got kicked out of the NC-Merfest group. Just like that. With no reason

Oh wait... On second thoughts, must be because I didn't acknowledge some people who claimed to be mer royalty and because I didn't take their side on some drama. Well, they can still suck it. I don't care the slightest and I'm not gonna bother coming back. *snap*

After what happened in my country, I find all that shit pretty irrelevant and not worth my time and energy. I'm gonna focus on work, gym and the preparations of my upcoming trip to MerMania.

[SeaGlass Siren]

^WTF? thats random.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Understandable, Arion. Some people are just not worth dealing with.

On a completely unrelated note, I have a school field trip today, so there was no threat to MY saftey, but my school went on soft lockdown today (no one could leave or come in, but people could move around the school and go to classes like usual)

They gave us no info until it was over so, I'm sitting in a sewage treatment plant with my environmental class worried out of my mind.

Turned out to be nothing. Social media just blew out of proportion.

[SeaGlass Siren]

Meanwhile I just found out today that I got kicked out of the NC-Merfest group. Just like that. With no reason

Oh wait... On second thoughts, must be because I didn't acknowledge some people who claimed to be mer royalty and because I didn't take their side on some drama. Well, they can still suck it. I don't care the slightest and I'm not gonna bother coming back. *snap*

After what happened in my country, I find all that shit pretty irrelevant and not worth my time and energy. I'm gonna focus on work, gym and the preparations of my upcoming trip to MerMania.

Witch please! If they mer-royalty, then I am Raina's Uncle.

[PhaylennMurúch]

Meanwhile I just found out today that I got kicked out of the NC-Merfest group. Just like that. With no reason

Oh wait... On second thoughts, must be because I didn't acknowledge some people who claimed to be mer royalty and because I didn't take their side on some drama. Well, they can still suck it. I don't care the slightest and I'm not gonna bother coming back. *snap*

After what happened in my country, I find all that shit pretty irrelevant and not worth my time and energy. I'm gonna focus on work, gym and the preparations of my upcoming trip to MerMania.

Ahh, then you missed the big "stop bullying" post from this morning where it is stated that anyone reported to be harassing other mers will be prosecuted because the reached out to the state and federal authorities.

[Starfrit]

Oh yeah lol, the post where Christomer went on an angry rant about how anyone caught "bullying" (read: calling his girlfriend out for her bullshit / criticizing her shitty behavior / not taking her side in her stupid drama) will be SENT TO JAIL.

I'm shaking in my fins. The Internet Police are gonna come knocking on my door any minute, I'm sure.

[SeaGlass Siren]

Quick, hide yo kids, hide yo wives, and hide yo husbands cuz they policing errbody up here.

[SeaGlass Siren]

ANYWAY.

The entire weekend (my niece's baptism and my housewarming) the inlaws kept asking about when im having kids. when. not even asking if i want any or what my plas are. like they demand i pop a bun in my oven when i literally just bought a house.

i could go on another rant about finances, being psychologically and mentally not ready but i feel like an overplayed record player.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

That sucks, SeaGlass.

I hate it when people pull that stuff. I literally turned eighteen today, and because I'm so young EVERYONE I know refuses to believe me when I say I'm not having my own. I plan on adopting toddlers and fostering teens WHEN I'M OLDER. Like really. So many of my family suffers from "I had kids too young, had to grow up too fast, and never got a chance to learn about myself in consequence"

And now they want me to repeat the behavior. *headwall. Repeatedly*

[Adalira]

Tieri and Seaglass

I am sorry to hear though SeaGlass about your inlaws pushing for grand kids...ugh....families who interefere and try to control your life is never a fun situation
You could always reply though with:" As soon as you pay for their education, food, diapers, baby sitters, day care etc etc etc and give me 1 million on the side, as soon as that happens i am willing to give you even 2 grand kids, see how reasonable i am?"

[SeaGlass Siren]

yeah it's been a total strain on me. sorry about your family. ugh. stupid people need to stop breeding.

[SeaGlass Siren]

Tieri and Seaglass

I am sorry to hear though SeaGlass about your inlaws pushing for grand kids...ugh....families who interefere and try to control your life is never a fun situation
You could always reply though with:" As soon as you pay for their education, food, diapers, baby sitters, day care etc etc etc and give me 1 million on the side, as soon as that happens i am willing to give you even 2 grand kids, see how reasonable i am?"

here's the thing though, THEY WOULD DO ALL. AAAAAALL of that.

it wasnt just them though, it was literally my mother in law's sister, my brother in law, my sister in law, and my brother in law's wife's friend.

i can't. i can't. literally, i can't.

[Merman Dan]

Meanwhile I just found out today that I got kicked out of the NC-Merfest group. Just like that. With no reason

You are in good company. Maybe we'll have t-shirts made for the occasion.

[Adalira]

here's the thing though, THEY WOULD DO ALL. AAAAAALL of that.

it wasnt just them though, it was literally my mother in law's sister, my brother in law, my sister in law, and my brother in law's wife's friend.

i can't. i can't. literally, i can't.

Ow shit? They would? I was just bluffing!
I don't want kids myself, maybe adopt one day in the far far future but most likely not even that.
I thought you could bluff your way out of the discussion, if you don't want kids do not use my bluff then lol.
Just stand your ground and dont do it.

[SeaGlass Siren]

yeah i definitley dont want their money. they have a track record of "but i did this for you"

no. im not taking that leverage money.

[Merman Arion]

You are in good company. Maybe we'll have t-shirts made for the occasion.

Hell yes!

[Adalira]

I would not either with my family. They would have something to throw in your face any time it suits them, something to hold over your head.
It seems to be in the secret book of parenting, the secret book that you only get when you give birth ;-) the book that says:" Make sure to do a lot for your child so you can make them feel guilty later on and throw it in their face ones they get opinions of their own or try to live their own life."
My brother keeps asking my hubby and me/I when we will get official married since it is "really time to do so" and we just keep saying nope, we will get married when it suits us.

[shimmygoddess]

Oh yeah lol, the post where Christomer went on an angry rant about how anyone caught "bullying" (read: calling his girlfriend out for her bullshit / criticizing her shitty behavior / not taking her side in her stupid drama) will be SENT TO JAIL.

I'm shaking in my fins. The Internet Police are gonna come knocking on my door any minute, I'm sure.

I am not in that group anymore....but heard about that rant....You cannot report people for 'bullying' when they speak the truth. Such crap!

[shimmygoddess]

You are in good company. Maybe we'll have t-shirts made for the occasion.

oooohh..I want a shirt too!

[Amphitrite]

I can really only take so much. And today was just too much. I haven't had a shower for weeks because I can't handle the stimulation of a shower. And I can't handle a lot of things. I'm just feeling above and beyond not enough. Not enough for myself and certainly not enough by anyone else's standards. So I can either stay here and sob and shake every damn night or I can work on moving out. There's really no reason to have a mock-conversation about this with anyone. I just... it is SO HARD to maintain a facade of 'I can actually put up with your shit' on a regular basis. So I am looking on my government's website to try to see if there are any options for a person with my needs and I found this 'findmyroommate' thing. But the link doesn't lead anywhere so I'm a bit stumped. But I will keep looking. Meanwhile I'm going to splurge and finally by myself a frikkin monofin. And I figure I will throw in a pair of goggles and a snorkel for fun. It'll be interesting (isn't it always for us? ) but it'll work out. I get paid every Friday and that'll do. Anyways, fishies, hug your family and friends if you can and take a breath of fresh air for me. <3