That makes more sense, Mystery. Sorry that's all going on.
But I do think she's coming from a place of concern.
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That makes more sense, Mystery. Sorry that's all going on.
But I do think she's coming from a place of concern.
my mom stopped taking her medicine and started drinking again. To make things worse told me that all I care about is stuff and I don't care about her. She actually fucking believes that, I know that its not true, but i'm afraid that maybe it is true. But I know it can't be true because if I really didn't care about her then what she said wouldn't be hurting me so much right now. I'm not fucking fine, i'm torn.
*hugs*
Again, that addiction monster loves to lash out at everyone and anyone. I'm sorry you're at the receiving end here.
I'm South Aistralian so...Quote:
Originally Posted by Mer-Crazy
But these are thing I've gotten asked by New Zealanders... Sure, I don't sound like the rest of the lower South Island but damn, I'm just trying to finish school so I can go back home to the Clair Valley.
The sad thing is that I do have a surfing chicks body (Apart from that my upper body is very... masculine) and my tan is mostly from spending too much time in the river by my house.
Ugh. Sound is not playing on my Lenovo's movie maker. Why???? I need to finish this damn project!
So about a week ago I convinced my dad to get my the finis competitor monofin for my birthday (December 22) I looked at different places online and found that swim outlet has the best sale on for Christmas but they don't have my size. After surfing the website for a bit I found they have an online customer service chat. So I opened it up and asked when my size would be in. The gentleman said they would be in December 12th and if my dad got the faster delivery I would have it in time for my birthday (so I can pretend to be surprised haha) but yesterday when I went to see if they had stock they still didn't. Today I spoke to a different customer service person and they said they don't know when the monofins would be in and left it at that. She said she did some digging but couldn't find a date. I don't know when the monofins will be in, I'm not mad at the CS girl but I'm annoyed I'm gonna miss the deal so I don't think my dad will buy it for me at full price. I'm upset they told me one date and it didn't show up (again might not even be swim outlets fault) it just really sucks.
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Maybe you can call them and place the order on the phone and that way you can work that out. Also remember that there are discount codes you can use from Hannah Mermaid or Kariel and I think it's 20%Quote:
Originally Posted by BeMyHero
Quick update on the situation from last night.
She didn't go to the detox clinic. She denied taking anything beyond the prescribed pain meds she's been taking since her surgery a few months back, which means one of three things:
1) She's fucking lying
2) She's telling the truth, for once, and no cocaine is involved, except she's now abusing her pain medications instead
3) She's telling the truth in that she didn't do any coke last night, but took the painkillers while it was still in her system from shortly before and the meds reacted badly to it.
I'm not a doctor, still doing research on it, so IDK. Those are my best guesses.
Dad's taking today off to look after her and find her "someone to talk to," which is something at least?? I'm skeptical, but whatever.
Sent her a text today asking if she wanted to come over this weekend to bake fudge with me. Maybe bonding shit like that will help, somehow. I dunno.
Alrighty, so, it looks like I MAY have developed hypothyroidism from my birth control implant. Woohoo. I'm having bloodwork done this week to find out. If nothing else, my doctors won't be able to ignore the shit that is nexplanon anymore.
Holy shit, all.
my English teacher has made part of our final grade notes for the final but she hasn't told us what to write and she moved the final to tomorrow. I'm so angry. we haven't done ANY finals prep in her class. I want to scream
It'll be fine, Mystery. The more you stress about finals, the worse you do. If you've been doing the work, you'll do well on the final.
Oh my god! I'm at school and these students are a fucking joke. To make things worse I'm trying to study in the lounge because the library is full. People are belching and screaming and yelling. I'm so fucking done with these shitty low lifes' crap! I can barely type this because it's that loud in here. Please pray for me so I don't freak out or murder anyone.
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I'm kind of angry. A friend of mine got fired at work and they way it all went down bothers me, basically this is sort of what happened.
My coworkers were all hanging out in the break room. Female coworker is talking about her weight, that she needs to Go on a diet, her ass looks big, etc etc, male co worker tells her she looks fine. Her butt looks fine. She doesn't need to diet. Female co worker goes to boss, files basically a sexual harassment against male co worker for making comments about her butt. Boss fires male coworker for sexual harassment. Male coworker has been one of the nicest people I have met since starting there. He is a cancer survivor and he works taking care of people in hospice. I tried to tell my boss that I have never seen him do anything inappropriate, but she had to follow protocols. I am friends with the female coworker, even if I disagree with what she did. She genuinely thought he had wronged her, but getting a guy fired right before Xmas. Gah, I'm so frustrated.
That is really upsetting Mermaid Lily Pad. :( Poor guy he was just trying to be nice. :(
I really disagree with the whole thing. Just because he made a comment to make her feel better and more comfortable with her skin is not enough to file a sexual harassment. Come on.... I'm a receptionist, I work with a lot of female coworkers, I always have a nice comment for them about their clothes, their hair when I notice something different. We already had a talk about weight issues, boobs issues, diet and such, I told to each one of them they were all looking fine and none got upset. Perhaps the fact that I'm gay is a different ground than your story but still, they all knew I meant well and not something perverted. Heck, what should I say about my coworkers saying that I have a big black butt huh? Should I feel uncomfortable? Heck no, they were just teasing. I've got a big butt and I can't lie lol
I work at a spa. We are always talking about bodies, teasing each other, goofing around. It's the nature of our work to be comfortable around each other. We sometimes have hours between clients where we sit around and BS with each other. At times we even work on each other to get practice. (We are LMTs). We are encouraged to work on each other to keep healthy since our joints ache. Now we can't even work on each other's carpel tunnel syndromes. Basically this is a warning to men in the workplace. What one girl perceives as light hearted teasing, another may view as sexual harassment. Watch what you say and do.
^ I think it's more so the fact that because you're gay they know you won't swing that way and :edit here because wasn't worded correctly: there's no threat
Still the guy shouldn't have been fired.... If he said something derogatory then yeah that's grounds to be fired but telling the girl she's beautiful the way she is and doesn't need to diet and getting fired for it is just blegh
They posted sexual harassment posters in our break room. They basically state:
No commenting on a persons looks, as that could be seen as flirting and is unprofessional.
No touching of any sort, which includes hugs, pats on the shoulder, etc.
No making any sexual comments at any time.
Basically, stand two feet away while ignoring the piece of lettuce stuck in your coworkers teeth and talk only about the weather.
Ooof. Wow.