Yup, he was 100% batcrapcrazy. Still is, I know he still uses me as an excuse for his bad behavior.
Yup, he was 100% batcrapcrazy. Still is, I know he still uses me as an excuse for his bad behavior.
Take the wave now and know that you're freeTurn your back on the land face the seaFace the wind now so wild and so strongWhen you think of meWave to me and send me a song
When people aren't on time....to an event they planned -______-
Up From The Sea, We Rise
Up To The World Of Skies
There's Never Been, Not Ever Before
A Child Born of Sea & Shore
A few weeks ago, I sent an email to my town's pools administration to ask if I could train in a pool with my tail, I properly explained everything about it.
They replied today, sending me the aqua gym classes schedule.... Why do we always have to deal with really dumb people in life? (￣△￣) meh
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They probably just saw the word train and that was it.Originally Posted by Kitty Kyuppi
Ugh! I am so upset... I don't even know how to feel, but my situation is causing me so much emotional stress and I just don't know how to deal with it. So, my sister, Kayla who I cannot stand at all... AT ALL, she's such a vile person. She's bullied me all my life, and she's only nice when she wants something. My parents know this. I have never really had my own room. I've always shared. Kayla is the one who's always had her own room because out of the two of us (Myself, my youngest sister Ciara), nobody wants to share a room with her. Now Kayla is getting her room taken away because she never cleans it. There were moldy dishes and bugs... Yuck. The original plan (of my mother) was to give Ciara Kayla's room and have Kayla move onto the back porch. Then my mom said Kayla was allowed to sleep in my room on the top bunk... WHY?! I feel like Im being punished. Ciara is getting her own room, which is wonderful, but now I have to deal with Kayla. I now have to sleep in the same room with the sister who has constantly bullied me about my health, about my absences from school, about my acne, and about me as a person. Not only that but she's known for stealing. Over the past month I've had over $40 dollars go missing... And now I have to share a room with her. (My moms explanation is that I've had my privacy long enough, this is because Ciara has been sleeping out on the couch. This is not my fault but my mom apparently thinks it to be... No matter how much I beg I have a feeling that Kayla once again will get her way and I honestly don't know what to do with myself.
Formerly known as "kimmie".
Well on back nights you could go to Ciara's room. Is Kayla mean to Ciara too?
If Kayla were my sister, I'd slap her so hard it'd leave my wonderful and bright red hand print on her face, each time she insulted me.
What do you do when she bullies you? Do you fight back or go away and cry? If telling your parents don't do anything for you, its time to fight back. Not saying to resort to dirty tricks like she does, but each time she insults you, give her enough of a whack to hurt but not break. She'll soon get the message that if she hurts you, you'll hurt her back. That's the thing about bullies, they always pick on the weaker person, even more if the other person does not fight back. They think you're easy prey.
Formerly known as ireneho
Yes, she's basically mean to everyone. Ciara's nice enough to let me room with her when things get bad, but it just upsets me that Kayla is basically getting what she wants. And I know eventually this will become her room and shell be allowed in here all the time because I will not be in the room when she is.
Formerly known as "kimmie".
Lol, that made me laugh so hard...
There have been a couple times where I do fight back and our fights become physical. I don't know where my strength comes from because I'm a weak person but I always overpower her. But the trouble with that is, I get in trouble. Where a my parents have kind of given up on Kayla and let her get way with her bullying.
Formerly known as "kimmie".
How old is your sister?
How old are you and your sisters, if you don't mind me asking? If you're in your mid-late teens, take solace in the idea that one of you will be able to move out for college soon. Get out of the house when your sister is bugging you-- get a job, do some mermaid stuff, whatever.
My younger sister is the same way, with the sudden anger and bullying, and stealing clothes/money. All you can do is bite your lip and get away from her as much as possible. Hitting her will just get your parents to rush to her aid and that's even more frustrating. :/
Hide a camera in your room, next time she starts up a fight with you, you have proof that you're not the one starting the fights.
Formerly known as ireneho
I am 16, Kayla will be 16 in January, and Ciara is 14.
Formerly known as "kimmie".
Thankfully my mother has said if Kayla begins to bully me then she will no longer be able to sleep in my room. However I think this is only temporary as she was going to let Kayla sleep here until KAYLA decided to sleep on the back porch -.- it's so frustrating. I'm planning on getting a job soon and I cannot wait... I already spend a lot of time in my room to get away from her and her sharing a room with me is just something I can't even wrap my head around.
Formerly known as "kimmie".
Two years will go by faster than you realize. (: It sucks that you guys are going to have to a share a room, but don't bother stooping to her level and ignore her when she's being a jerk. Also maybe invest in a small safe for your valuables. (:
I'm planning on buying a safe very soon. It's so hard to ignore her but it seems like that might be the only solution. Maybe even collecting the things she does in a notebook? It might convince my parents if they see the large amount of stuff she does.
Formerly known as "kimmie".
Looks like this might just be the end of this relationship.
I don’t think this has to do with her wanting you to be controlling, more so that she wanted you to be worried because it shows that you value her. I know I get a wave of pride and pleasure whenever my bf says he’s worried about my guy friends snatching me away because it means that I matter to him and he is worried about losing me. So basically, to me it feels like he cares whenever he gets worried about someone else catching my eye.
If it was free, then he holds all rights to the drawing still. He might have agreed not to share it, but there wasn’t an actual contract. I personally never show drawings people request to be private, mostly because I don’t do most for free and there is a fee people have to pay for private commissions :P (since it means I can’t post in a portfolio of any kind). Sure, it sucks, but hey that’s life. (Also, with free art you have to remember that you are getting a service for free and they also have life going on and are not obligated (by the fact that you paid and as such are in a contract) to get it done in a timely manner, though it’s my personal term of service to get it done asap, it’s different for every artist.) If you really want to see it, as him to email it to you.
Having to deal with a sister just like this once, she bullied me over the way I looked, over my hair, over how I didn’t have many friends, and stole money from me (I once save up $800 for a tail and she stole it and my mom refused to do anything, my dad tried but mom didn’t want him to punish her, because “maybe she just had the exact amount of money and Ronda lost hers, yada yada”)etc, I can only give you advice on what worked for me : I showed her that I didn’t care, and that nothing she said actually registered because I know it was mean of me but I made sure she knew that I held no value to anything she ever said to me. And I also beat the brakes off of her whenever she tried to show out too :P But anyway, the main reason why many people do things like this and be total douche bats is because either they want attention or they’re so uncomfortable being themselves that they draw attention to their acts instead of to themselves (my sister’s reason was both of those) Give her time to grow the Flipper up and don’t be afraid to stand your ground and show her that she can’t push you around. If she steals money of yours, confront her, if she mocks you, ignore her like she isn’t even there, don’t even look at her, but don’t actually avoid looking at her, just go about your day like you’re there alone and she isn’t there and only when she says something nice will you pay any attention to something she says.
Thankyou everyone for the advice. I really appreciate it! I'm not so stressed about the situation now, and it'll be easier to keep calm about it.
Formerly known as "kimmie".
I don't even know why I bother anymore or anyways! I'm continuously ignored. But that is both an okay thing and the most annoying thing in the world. There are times when I just want to be left alone, and others when I want to talk and socialize. But all the flipping time. Ignored, no comments, maybe someone will glance my way but nah. Ignored again.
Sometimes I swear i have a superpower. People forget I'm there. I've honestly had people ask me a question and when I turn to look at them to answer they are walking away forgetting they even said anything, or hell even fade out midsentence and walk away.
It's annoying. It's upsetting. It's like I'm less of a person because I cannot seem to exist in the same reality they do. Like I'm a friggin ghost playing house with everyone around me.
It pisses me off, and makes me want to cry at the same time.
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