B!TC# IT OUT!

**Imogen Finnly** · 02-08-2015, 12:39 AM

I am going to call my tac guy first and see what he thinks i shohld do. He is pretty sensible so im sure i can get some advice for this before going to the irs. Its just a hassle you know?

formerly jayy

**JessieMermaid** · 02-08-2015, 09:30 AM

Ok so last night I had to work, we'll it's Mardi Gras season and Saturday was a big day. I didn't get downtown in time to park anywhere near work so I had to park in BFE. And guess what? My car got towed. So I come home at 1 am after cling the city in pound to see if they have it, which they had no clue at the time, and went to bed. Called this morning at 730 and the officer says they MIGHT have it on the lot. So now I have to go down there to see if it hey do. And the entire ride hime,my husband decided to bitch about the car, how it got towed, the officers the wouldn't let me through, and my manager (basic the entire situation) and I can't help but feel like everything is my fat and that I'm the idiot. I cried al the way home and most of the night..... Now this isn't the only bad part from last night. One of our guests complain about EVERY SINGLE THING! We ate not the best/most up to date hotel; it's kinda shitty. But the new owners are going to do some overhauling after the season ends. I explained that and she goes off the handle. The bed spread, lack of parking, key mixup, the tv. My Mgr offered her her money bacj if she checked out; she refused and continued to ream me and my Mgr about how shitty the hotel is. House keeping isn't doing the job. They are leaving rooms dirty, putting dirty covers back on the beds , etc. So I had to clean 2 rooms last night. Something I should have NEVER had to do.

**Amphitrite** · 02-08-2015, 09:06 PM

Very frustrated!

**PhaylennMurúch** · 02-08-2015, 09:56 PM

Originally Posted by Amphitrite

Very frustrated!

what about, hun?

**Yulia** · 02-10-2015, 09:30 AM

I know I've ranted quite a bit about this, but seriously!??

A Mermaid Iona "inspired" tail from Aurore la Sirene, and you can clearly see that this one has that weird bifin-plexiglass combo inside. UGH. WHY

**Imogen Finnly** · 02-11-2015, 01:43 PM

That tail.. urgh.. this lady needs to stchaaaaap!

formerly jayy

**Mermaid Mystery** · 02-11-2015, 03:46 PM

Originally Posted by Merman Dan

Could be worse... Shark Week Becomes "Summer of the Shark"

sounds like most of mine.... I just got over a 2 MONTH period and it's been two weeks (I've been sick those two weeks) and now it's back. ughhhhhh

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**Mermaid Nessie** · 02-11-2015, 09:32 PM

So I live in a university residence and this semester we had a new guy move into the room next door to us. He was very nice at first and seemed pretty cool. However he has grown to be quite the creeper. He come knocking at our door at least once a day, completely uninvited and without warning. If my roommate or I answer the door, he will just come right in a start talking. Normally I have no issues letting people in my room and I love to chat with new people, however this guy shows up at the most random times, without asking if he can come over. Last weekend he showed up at the door at 2am, drunk out of his mind, trying to convince me to go to a party with him. I told him no and was very unimpressed, and kicked him out. On top of this, he will text me every day, asks and says very awkward things; acting like we are bffs. I can't even get over how creepy he is. I have literally showed zero interest in talking to him and he just doesn't pick up on social cues. If he sees me in the hall he will go and smack her on the back or poke my sides and it's just very uncomfortable. The other day I got back from a friend's house and he saw me coming in and came out of his room and said "Wow way to answer your door" I explained to him that I was out all night and he got angry and went back into his room. It is at the point where I've told my roommate not to answer the door if he knocks, and I rush to my room sometimes to avoid getting stuck talking to him in the halls. This guy is just downright creepy and I don't know how much more obvious I need to be for him to TAKE A FREAKING HINT. I don't want to be rude or mean. I just want him to leave me alone.

**Mermaid Jaffa** · 02-11-2015, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by Mermaid Nessie

So I live in a university residence and this semester we had a new guy move into the room next door to us. He was very nice at first and seemed pretty cool. However he has grown to be quite the creeper. He come knocking at our door at least once a day, completely uninvited and without warning. If my roommate or I answer the door, he will just come right in a start talking. Normally I have no issues letting people in my room and I love to chat with new people, however this guy shows up at the most random times, without asking if he can come over. Last weekend he showed up at the door at 2am, drunk out of his mind, trying to convince me to go to a party with him. I told him no and was very unimpressed, and kicked him out. On top of this, he will text me every day, asks and says very awkward things; acting like we are bffs. I can't even get over how creepy he is. I have literally showed zero interest in talking to him and he just doesn't pick up on social cues. If he sees me in the hall he will go and smack her on the back or poke my sides and it's just very uncomfortable. The other day I got back from a friend's house and he saw me coming in and came out of his room and said "Wow way to answer your door" I explained to him that I was out all night and he got angry and went back into his room. It is at the point where I've told my roommate not to answer the door if he knocks, and I rush to my room sometimes to avoid getting stuck talking to him in the halls. This guy is just downright creepy and I don't know how much more obvious I need to be for him to TAKE A FREAKING HINT. I don't want to be rude or mean. I just want him to leave me alone.

Can you report him to school guards for stalking and harassment?

**Mermaid Nessie** · 02-11-2015, 09:41 PM

He hasn't done anything that can be deemed "wrong", I don't want it to have to come to that.

**Mermaid Jaffa** · 02-11-2015, 09:45 PM

Originally Posted by Mermaid Nessie

He hasn't done anything that can be deemed "wrong", I don't want it to have to come to that.

At the cost of having unwanted advances?

**AniaR** · 02-11-2015, 09:52 PM

you actually can report that fyi, for knocking on your door at 2am, alone. Dont worry about rude or mean. tell him to take a hike and down answer when he knocks,

**Mermaid Lunette** · 02-11-2015, 09:56 PM

Entering your room without permission is something you can probably report. I mean, that is showing no respect for your consent. You could simple get in his way and say aloud, "I am not consenting you to enter my room." If he does anyway that is DEFINATELY something you can report.

**Mermaid Jaffa** · 02-11-2015, 09:59 PM

And he's touching you, even pats on the back, without your permission. That counts too.

**Mermaid Lunette** · 02-11-2015, 10:01 PM

If you REALLY don't wanna report him you could try to talk to him, explain he is making you uncomfortable, and set some boundaries? If he doesn't respect that, report him, if he does then maybe he will turn off his creep mode. If he does not pick up on social ques he MIGHT actually just need direct explanation.

(Although with this option I would suggest both you and your roomate do this, preferable in a public place where he is less likely to act irrationally in case you are worried he will.)

**Mermaid Jaffa** · 02-11-2015, 10:05 PM

If that doesn't work, kick him in the nuts and tell him to piss off! Wait till he sneaks up on you then whirl around to do that. Its self defence cos you weren't expecting someone to creep up behind you like that...

**Mermaid Nessie** · 02-11-2015, 10:15 PM

He just texted me (surprise, surprise) So I sent him a very nicey worded tex message explaining that he has overstepped some boundaries and I'd appreciate it if he stopped...