B!TC# IT OUT!

**Mermaid Mystery** · 05-28-2015, 04:56 PM

he's actually 13, and according to him IM the psychopath! and yeah we have a tarantula, I don't particularly like this one but I have my eye on one particular species

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**MerMaisy** · 05-28-2015, 05:01 PM

For some reason I thought he would be older. What kind? I live out in the country and capture them occasionally from the road so they don't get run over. I still don't like them too much, but ya know a life is a life.

**SeaGlass Siren** · 05-28-2015, 05:26 PM

... son needs to learn some discipline. :|

**Mermaid Momo** · 05-28-2015, 05:40 PM

How could someone who's 13 be that clueless as to not know that if you set something on fire in the house that nothing good would come out of it?

**SeaGlass Siren** · 05-28-2015, 06:23 PM

like were we that stupid back then? or is it just me :|

**Mermaid Mystery** · 05-28-2015, 07:17 PM

she's a Mexican fireleg. and yeah, the worst part is he just "graduated" the 8th grade. like "look I'm smart *sets the house on fire*"

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**MermaidCelesteFL** · 05-28-2015, 07:29 PM

Every week, me and my roommates and two other friends are supposed to get together and do our Percy Jackson RP. Instead of holding it on a consistant basis, they decided a few weeks ago, that they'll hold the rp sessions when it's most convenient for everyone except for me.

So now this has been the fourth week in a row that they've held rp without me. If it were anyone else, they'd cancel the rp or reschedule it. But if it's me, they just continue to hold it without me. This is the ONE TIME throughout the week that I get to see my friends and hang out with them without making drastic schedule changes for someone. This rp meant a lot to me. It was the one thing I look forward to every week, so that I don't go crazy working all of these strange hours.

I got angry and upset last night, and it ended with me crying due to frustration and lonliness. I wanted my roommate to feel how I felt; so I locked him out of our room to see how he likes being left out. Mind you, there is another door to our room leading from the closet that was still open. If he would have gone through that route, he still would have gotten into the room. Instead, he decided to camp out on the couch in the living room and then b*tch about it all over facebook so that his friends would gang up on me. Not only did he do this online, but he hid it from my facebook account so that I couldn't see it. Lucky for me, I have an alternate account.

He talked about how I locked him out of our room, how he has to sleep on a cat-piss-stained mattress every night, about how I sleep during the day, and how he plans on rudely waking me up early in the morning (even though I work late every night, so I normally don't get to sleep until around midnight-0100).

It's not my fault that he never puts sheets on his bed and sleeps on just his mattress every night, when all of my roommates and myself have urged him to get sheets. My cat keeps peeing on his mattress, because he doesn't cover it up anymore. He just puts some vinegar on the mattress and sleeps on it, rather than getting a waterproof mattress cover. Hell, at this point, I'll get him a waterproof mattress cover since it is my cat that's doing the damage. I'll even pitch in for a new mattress if he wanted. Instead, he wants to be a martyr and use OUR friends to gang up on me and make my already hellish life an even bigger hell.

tl:dr- I'm angry because I can't be with my friends throughout the week and weekend, I made my roommate pay for it, and he's being a jerk and a martyr about a situation that he had control over.

**SeaGlass Siren** · 05-28-2015, 07:32 PM

Originally Posted by mermaidofthelabyrinth

she's a Mexican fireleg. and yeah, the worst part is he just "graduated" the 8th grade. like "look I'm smart *sets the house on fire*"

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**Mermaid Mystery** · 05-28-2015, 08:12 PM

ACCURATE

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**SeaGlass Siren** · 05-28-2015, 08:18 PM

but did you know the voice actor actually spelled SMART accidentally wrong when they were recording? they thought it was SO funny, that they redid the lip movements for homer just to include "SMRT"

**Mermaid Mystery** · 05-28-2015, 08:41 PM

that makes it so much better. I love the simpsons so much

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**PearlieMae** · 05-28-2015, 09:06 PM

Originally Posted by MermaidCelesteFL

Every week, me and my roommates and two other friends are supposed to get together and do our Percy Jackson RP. Instead of holding it on a consistant basis, they decided a few weeks ago, that they'll hold the rp sessions when it's most convenient for everyone except for me.

So now this has been the fourth week in a row that they've held rp without me. If it were anyone else, they'd cancel the rp or reschedule it. But if it's me, they just continue to hold it without me. This is the ONE TIME throughout the week that I get to see my friends and hang out with them without making drastic schedule changes for someone. This rp meant a lot to me. It was the one thing I look forward to every week, so that I don't go crazy working all of these strange hours.

I got angry and upset last night, and it ended with me crying due to frustration and lonliness. I wanted my roommate to feel how I felt; so I locked him out of our room to see how he likes being left out. Mind you, there is another door to our room leading from the closet that was still open. If he would have gone through that route, he still would have gotten into the room. Instead, he decided to camp out on the couch in the living room and then b*tch about it all over facebook so that his friends would gang up on me. Not only did he do this online, but he hid it from my facebook account so that I couldn't see it. Lucky for me, I have an alternate account.

He talked about how I locked him out of our room, how he has to sleep on a cat-piss-stained mattress every night, about how I sleep during the day, and how he plans on rudely waking me up early in the morning (even though I work late every night, so I normally don't get to sleep until around midnight-0100).

It's not my fault that he never puts sheets on his bed and sleeps on just his mattress every night, when all of my roommates and myself have urged him to get sheets. My cat keeps peeing on his mattress, because he doesn't cover it up anymore. He just puts some vinegar on the mattress and sleeps on it, rather than getting a waterproof mattress cover. Hell, at this point, I'll get him a waterproof mattress cover since it is my cat that's doing the damage. I'll even pitch in for a new mattress if he wanted. Instead, he wants to be a martyr and use OUR friends to gang up on me and make my already hellish life an even bigger hell.

tl:dr- I'm angry because I can't be with my friends throughout the week and weekend, I made my roommate pay for it, and he's being a jerk and a martyr about a situation that he had control over.

They don't sound like very good friends. Maybe they are trying to send you a message you aren't getting.

You might want to get your cat checked out, the peeing thing could be psychological, but it could be something a lot more serious! If the mattress smells like pee, he's going to keep going there, despite the vinegar. Or, he could have urea crystals built up in his urethra, a bladder infection, a kidney infection, diabetes, our a few other things that could kill him.

**MermaidCelesteFL** · 05-28-2015, 09:29 PM

Originally Posted by PearlieMae

You might want to get your cat checked out, the peeing thing could be psychological, but it could be something a lot more serious! If the mattress smells like pee, he's going to keep going there, despite the vinegar. Or, he could have urea crystals built up in his urethra, a bladder infection, a kidney infection, diabetes, our a few other things that could kill him.

Actually, I've already taken Raja to the vet, they said that it was a behavior thing and that she gets upset when I spend time with other people other than her. Maybe some separation anxiety.

**PearlieMae** · 05-28-2015, 10:09 PM

Sorry, I thought you said he...

Have you tried a Feliway or Comfort Zone diffuser? It works for my battling cats.

**Mermaid Alea** · 05-28-2015, 10:33 PM

Originally Posted by Imogen Finnly

So, my best friend, she is so smart and is very knowledgeable and travels a lot all over Europe because her boyfriend is from Germany, and together they make a crazy smart couple amd when im around her, i feel like my life completely pales in comparison and i feel so inferior and stupid. Like i am not smart enough to be around them. They dont give that impression but that's just my internal lack of confidence. It makes me feel like i am stupid for not attending college as if im not good enough. Not only that, but i dont have many friends and i keep to myself veey much so im awkward around people and stick my butt in my mouth a lot around strangers.
I was talking to this guy and he got up and walked away mid sentence. *face palm*
And her boyfriend is super nice and he has a natural gift with animals. Which makes me feel even more lame.
My husband always says he never sees me the way i see me, but i think thats natural.
* Sigh.*
Rant over

formerly jayy

Aww I know what you mean!! I feel that way too sometimes! My boyfriend has a friend named Jessie that is extremely smart. His girlfriend was the top of our high school class. When I am around the two of them and they are talking, I feel like an idiot. Even when I am just around Jessie, I feel a bit intimidated by his knowledge and how he likes to put people on the spot by asking them very difficult, controversial questions and getting them to debate him about it. I am horrible at doing un-expected debates. I shy away and can't think of things spur of the moment like that. Jessie is funny and I consider him a friend, but sometimes I can't help but feel dumb after being around him. I am in college and I still feel stupid, so it doesn't make much of a difference! Although, it is like my professor told us recently, "The more you learn, the more you realize you don't know anything about anything." And now that I think about it, while Jessie is sooo smart in my opinion, even he thinks he is stupid, which is strange to think about, but really, none of us are THAT smart. No one can know everything there is to know. Those things that your smart friend and her boyfriend know might seem amazing, but I am sure you are knowledgeable about things they are not knowledgeable about, or you might have a talent that they wish they had. Sometimes I feel weird telling people my major is Graphic Design, because some people don't think that is a very useful field. The interesting thing I have found though, is Jessie and other smart people like him will be amazed when they see my art and will tell me that they wish they could draw! While I am sure I will still feel stupid around such people, at least I can always remember that I probably have at least one talent that they do not have. I am positive that you have something amazing in you that your friend does not have. We all have something unique about us. You listen to your husband he wouldn't have chosen you if he didn't see something special in you. Out of an overwhelming sea of people, you captivated him like a sparkling pearl.

Originally Posted by Merman Dan

I'll turn 50 this year and still can't tie a tie. Facebook keeps asking where I grew up. So long as I never answer, I never have to grow up!

You go Merman Dan! My boyfriend just got into learning fancy ways to tie a tie. He particularly likes doing the eldritch knot. So if you ever have to tie a tie yourself, you might as well go all out and do something different from the norm!

**SeaGlass Siren** · 05-28-2015, 11:01 PM

Originally Posted by MermaidCelesteFL

Actually, I've already taken Raja to the vet, they said that it was a behavior thing and that she gets upset when I spend time with other people other than her. Maybe some separation anxiety.

aw.. :'D RAJA <3 YOU NAMED KITTY AFTER JASMINE'S PET TIGER