B!TC# IT OUT!

[Hydra1337]

Sabrina: The Selkie Slayer

[SeaGlass Siren]

Dear parents. Seriously stop stepping on my tail. Your kids are more behaved than you. (They touched my tail gently and sometimes with two fingers when I asked them to.) one adult kept stomping on my tail after I repeatedly told her not to. After when I said it cost me 2000 dollars they backed away. Seriously I shouldn't have to ask repeatedly and tell you it's expensive when I asked politely the first time

[Shimmer Mermaid]

I'd be flipping out. Tail slap.

[Mermaid_Sarina]

Thats awful Seaglass I've had the same issue! Parents can be so rude

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[Cordelia]

A mini bitch? I ordered a fin a month ago tomorrow, and it's still not here! Sent off an email just now, hoping it arrives soon. Kind of my fault for not asking for a tracking number earlier, but omg, a new fin! I've been working my tail off these past few months. I deserve this!! Right? #soimpatient

[Shimmer Mermaid]

I usually don't get this pissed. Not as furious as I have been the past week. I've tried not posting about it, but dear God it's killing me. And I know I need advice on how to help her or how to not deck this little pecker in the face. 😡

Okay, my sister, 16, has been dating the same guy for almost a year now, next month would've been their one year. They just went to prom together, and everything was hunky dory.

I noticed subtle social media changes that made me think they may have been arguing or something. So I asked her what was up.

They broke up. Apparently the little shit told her the day before prom "as soon as prom is over, I'm done with you. I'm not done until prom is over."

I noticed she seemed significantly less excited that night and while getting ready for prom.
But I didn't want to say anything.

They went to prom, and were fine, until prom was over.... He looked at her when they got in the car and said "so are you going to give me what you know I want or not?"

Yeah. I'm fuming.

She told him heck no. And that he knew better than asking her.
He tried peer pressuring her "everyone else is" and pulling the whole "if you really love me".

She stood her ground with it, he practically shoved her out of the car when He went to drop her off.

Then, not a week later he's bragging about getting with someone who would give him what he "needed"

I bought her Ben and jerrys. And told her I'm proud of her for standing her ground.

But I am still absolutely livid over it.

She seems okay, just doesn't want to talk about it a whole lot.

What do I do? Does anyone want to send her some advice?
Heck, does someone want to send me advice before I spontaneously combust?

[Shimmer Mermaid]

What company? My finfun took a few weeks to come in. But yes, you definitely deserve your fin!

[SeaGlass Siren]

Shimmer. For real, send her my way. She deserves so much better than the douchebagery that is this prick. I spurn him as I spurn a rabid dog. Good on her for not giving herself to some asshat who does not deserve it.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Definitely. Do you have an instagram or something she can talk to you on? I'm beyond proud that she is so smart

[SeaGlass Siren]

Yes ! SeaGlasssiren

[Cordelia]

Omg, Shimmer. Hopefully he gets the clap.... He'd deserve it at that rate. Way to go, for your sister though!

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Also, the fin is a Mahina. I've been eyeing them for years! But, like I said, not really a bitch, so much as an omgicannotwaituntilthedangthingisonmyfeetandimswim mingaroundthelake!

Is that too much excitement? I just dropped some money on new fabric, too!

[Shimmer Mermaid]

I've wanted a Mahina for over a year now, they are just so cute!!!

And no, definitely not too much excitement. Never too much excitement. Lol

I'll tell my sister what you said! She'll get a kick out of it.

[Hydra1337]

I'm sorry to hear about what happened to your sister, Shimmer. She sounds really nice from your previous posts and that ass hat of a boyfriend doesn't deserve her. Hopefully she'll feel better soon.

[MerMaiden Lissa]

I couldn't decide between a Mahina and finis rapid, but ordered the rapid. I get it tomorrow. I'm so excited! I hope you get yours too

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[Coral Corey]

I usually don't get this pissed. Not as furious as I have been the past week. I've tried not posting about it, but dear God it's killing me. And I know I need advice on how to help her or how to not deck this little pecker in the face. 

Okay, my sister, 16, has been dating the same guy for almost a year now, next month would've been their one year. They just went to prom together, and everything was hunky dory.

I noticed subtle social media changes that made me think they may have been arguing or something. So I asked her what was up.

They broke up. Apparently the little shit told her the day before prom "as soon as prom is over, I'm done with you. I'm not done until prom is over."

I noticed she seemed significantly less excited that night and while getting ready for prom.
But I didn't want to say anything.

They went to prom, and were fine, until prom was over.... He looked at her when they got in the car and said "so are you going to give me what you know I want or not?"

Yeah. I'm fuming.

She told him heck no. And that he knew better than asking her.
He tried peer pressuring her "everyone else is" and pulling the whole "if you really love me".

She stood her ground with it, he practically shoved her out of the car when He went to drop her off.

Then, not a week later he's bragging about getting with someone who would give him what he "needed"

I bought her Ben and jerrys. And told her I'm proud of her for standing her ground.

But I am still absolutely livid over it.

She seems okay, just doesn't want to talk about it a whole lot.

What do I do? Does anyone want to send her some advice?
Heck, does someone want to send me advice before I spontaneously combust?

WOW! This guy is REALLY dumb! He says it's over after prom and THEN asks for sex?! THE NERVE! I'm glad your sister is smart though. All I can tell you to make you both feel better is (I know this sounds strange) it's a good thing he was a dick about breaking up with her. It would take her much longer to get over him if he was nice about it. I've been through both types of situations and that was my experience at least. I wish you both peace and happiness and that your sister has better luck next time with guys.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

Thank you, this was her first real boyfriend.
And as selfish as this may sound- i get to spend more time with her since she's no longer having to deal with him.

[Coral Corey]

Thank you, this was her first real boyfriend.
And as selfish as this may sound- i get to spend more time with her since she's no longer having to deal with him.

It sounds like she is much better of spending time with you. The first boyfriend is a difficult one to get over and I hope she knows she deserves MUCH better than him.

[Mermaid Mystery]

where are you from so I can whoop his ass?

[SeaGlass Siren]

Whoop his ass all the way over the Great Wall of China.

[mermaid_selene]

So... bad news and good news.

I discovered a couple days ago that there would be a large tabletop gaming day at the mall, where anybody could playtest whatever game they wanted until midnight for free. So as soon as I found out, I excitedly told my roommates and invited them on facebook to join me. The one roommate that has been excluding me said that he was going to be in a different city that day- so he wouldn't be able to join. Good.

So I tagged four of my closest friends in the area who might be interested in going with me- and asked if they wanted to go. Only my best friend responded.

Yesterday was the day of the event, and I ended up having a nasty PTSD episode as I was getting ready to get everyone together to go. Luckily, my best friend was there and eventually got me to calm down and took care of me- and even invited me to come watch Gravity Falls with her. We watched an episode, and then I remembered that we should have left a while ago to go to this event. And then it happened....

"Oh, <exclusion roommate> set our RP night to be tonight. I'm just waiting on the rest of the friends to be here."

Yep. He knew that I had planned for our friends to go out and play tabletop games, but instead- had convinced EVERYONE that I invited to join his RP game that exact same day and time- AFTER I sent the invite out. Not only did he lie about not being in town, he convinced everyone to change their plans and exclude me.

I was livid. I finally snapped, and said, "Ok, you know what, you're right. You guys go have fun WITHOUT ME, AGAIN. I know your game will be so much better without me being around. Goodnight." And started to storm upstairs. My best friend chased me upstairs and decided that instead of waiting around for friends x and y to show up for the RP night, we were just going to go to the tabletop event together right then and there.

Best friend saves the day!

I finally told her in the car how I felt about being constantly excluded from all of roommate's games and get-togethers with friends- and how it has gotten to the point where I am now giving said roommate the silent treatment (you know, for my own sanity). I love my friend, but she is kinda dense at times. Despite this happening multiple times in the past, she never really put the pieces together. So now she knows, and she will be talking to him about it when she gets the chance.

Being excluded sucks especially when you know that it's because they don't want you there specifically. I say next time they do that. You should like go out with your best friend and have fun. TBH the only mean one is probably the ring leader of it all. I'm sure the other ones just don't know what to do in that situation or are too shy to go against him. If you need me to tail slap someone just call.