B!TC# IT OUT!

[Neerai]

Today I'm really sad. My husband has been left the Army, and he's totally devasted. It's time to search a new job...

[Hydra1337]

I woke up to some upsetting news this morning. For those that don't know I'm a gestational surrogate and this morning I got an email from the intended parent that they no longer want to attempt another embryo transfer. I understand their feelings since the last transfer ended in painful miscarriage but I am still somewhat hurt because my husband and I bonded with him through common interests. I have already been re-matched but to some level it still breaks my heart and I feel Mernetwork is the only place I can truly express how I feel.

[WaterDragon]

I woke up to some upsetting news this morning. For those that don't know I'm a gestational surrogate and this morning I got an email from the intended parent that they no longer want to attempt another embryo transfer. I understand their feelings since the last transfer ended in painful miscarriage but I am still somewhat hurt because my husband and I bonded with him through common interests. I have already been re-matched but to some level it still breaks my heart and I feel Mernetwork is the only place I can truly express how I feel.

I am so sorry Hydra.

[Hydra1337]

Thanks, WaterDragon. It means a lot. Hopefully the phone interview with the new match will go well.

[WaterDragon]

Thanks, WaterDragon. It means a lot. Hopefully the phone interview with the new match will go well.

Please keep us posted, I hope it go's smoothly.

[Hydra1337]

Me too. If it doesn’t I'll have to start applying around for a job.

[Saelyyia]

So I lost my Dad last night. His heart and lungs failed completely out of the blue while we were watching a movie Friday night and after 24 hours in the ICU and OR he didn't make it. My dad was pretty much my whole world and my rock who always took care of me when my chronic health issues flared up and now he is just gone and I feel so incredibly lost. And to top it off my mother (his ex) who is a very mean and vindictive person has gone completely nuts and when she should be to comfort me and help me figure this out she was asked to leave for being happy he was gone until she found out she got nothing and then she turned into a raging psycho sea-witch and caused a huge fight.

[LouLouBelle]

So I lost my Dad last night. His heart and lungs failed completely out of the blue while we were watching a movie Friday night and after 24 hours in the ICU and OR he didn't make it. My dad was pretty much my whole world and my rock who always took care of me when my chronic health issues flared up and now he is just gone and I feel so incredibly lost. And to top it off my mother (his ex) who is a very mean and vindictive person has gone completely nuts and when she should be to comfort me and help me figure this out she was asked to leave for being happy he was gone until she found out she got nothing and then she turned into a raging psycho sea-witch and caused a huge fight.

I'm so sorry to hear that. I know there's nothing I can say that will make things easier, but you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. ❤️


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[Azurin Luna]

I'm so sorry to hear that Saelyyia *merhugs*

[Hydra1337]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[Mermaid_Izzy]

I'm so sorry for your loss, prayers, love, and merhugs sent your way...❤️️


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[merstorm]

Ok hugs to all hang in there

[Mermaid Whisper]

I lost my sister last Tuesday. I'm still so heartbroken without my dearest. The viewing is today and the funeral is Thursday. Trying to stay strong for my merfriends


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[Neerai]

I lost my sister last Tuesday. I'm still so heartbroken without my dearest. The viewing is today and the funeral is Thursday. Trying to stay strong for my merfriends


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I'm so sorry for your loss.

[Azurin Luna]

I'm sorry to hear that Mermaid Whisper *merhugs*

[Hydra1337]

I'm sorry, Mermaid Whisper.

Quick update/bitch on my situation. I went a whole week straight without hearing anything from the surrogacy agency when I was supposed to have a phone interview with a potential match. Apparently the match didn't want anything to do with me and stopped reading my profile the second she saw I labeled my religion as atheist. So now the religion section of my profile has been removed (at the agency's suggestion) so that finding a fast match will be easier. There are four more potential couples lined up but from what the agency implied they sound like religious people too so I'm not holding my breath. These people may have the right to choose who they'd like as a surrogate but I think it's bullshit that I'm bluntly being discriminated against for being atheist.

[The Sunfish]

I'm so mad right now. I have always lived very close to the Great Smokey Mountains and Gatlinburg, and they're very dear to my heart. I don't know how many of you have already seen this, but there has been a huge wildfire burning in the Smokeys for the past few days, and it recently spread to Gatlinburg.

While the aquarium seems to have been spared (thank heavens), so many have lost their homes and businesses, and some even their lives.

The thing is, there's a suspicion that the fire was a result of arson. I don't know what kind of person goes around setting fires in such a beautiful place during an awful drout, and I don't think I want to either. : ' (

[Merman Jon]

I lost my sister last Tuesday. I'm still so heartbroken without my dearest. The viewing is today and the funeral is Thursday. Trying to stay strong for my merfriends


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Sorry for your loss, whisper. I think you should do a dedicated swim in honor of your sister.

[Mermaid Whisper]

Sorry for your loss, whisper. I think you should do a dedicated swim in honor of your sister.

That would actually be lovely. I am thinking of going for a swim for the first time since August once my new tail comes in. She was really supportive of my mermaid dream and she knew how happy it made me. She was the one that suggested I go to MerMania <3 my dreams are becoming reality because she encouraged them. She embraced who I was when my parents wouldn't. I miss her a lot, but I know she's in a better place now.

[Merman Jon]

That would actually be lovely. I am thinking of going for a swim for the first time since August once my new tail comes in. She was really supportive of my mermaid dream and she knew how happy it made me. She was the one that suggested I go to MerMania <3 my dreams are becoming reality because she encouraged them. She embraced who I was when my parents wouldn't. I miss her a lot, but I know she's in a better place now.

I did 2 dedicated swims to honor the ones I lost. I had an old gym teacher asked me to do a dedicated swim in his honor. And I agreed to it.