B!TC# IT OUT!

[Anahita]

Oh man, Phoenix, that sucks. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It's hard enough when someone you care about so much passes; it's even harder when you have a family member like your uncle just being a prick just because.

[Ariadne]

That is just...yuck. Bless your heart and don't even give this person any more of your thought or time. ((hugs))

[Jadestone]

Phoenix I am SO sorry for your loss, and your situation *hugs*

It sounds like you really knew your Grandmother and what she wanted best, and that you made your choices based on this. You have nothing to feel bad about in regards to your actions/decisions. Your other family members really have no right to be ragging on you this way.

Again, *hugs* Stay strong buddy Hope the waters calm soon.

[Phoenix Mermaid]

Thank you all very much for you kind words

[Mermaid_Dominique]

Phoenix, I'm really sorry for your loss , Big hug! I wish you all the best. I do believe hard times make us stronger. Don't feel guilty about yourself, you deserve a really big hug and some rest!

[SeaGlass Siren]

oh my god phoenix.. that's horrible. seriously you should say it to his face and publicly in front of everyone (that's what i'd do anyway.. with no shame). :hugs:

[Amphitrite]

*sobs for no reason*


I went to meet up with some new 'friends' and they never even showed up. I was supposed to go to an important meeting with them. I don't even feel like bothering with what we were going to do in the first place any more.

[Azurin Luna]

That really sucks if they left you waiting like that for nothing
*mer huggles*

[mermaidwhisperer]

Oh my god you poor thing!

[mermaidwhisperer]

Lol

[New York Mermaid]

My estranged older sister gets $40,000 for a settlement which she currently has and she calls me to complain about my mom (who is 66yrs old and not working mind you. I give her money when I get money, even if its my last $20. She's my mom.) for $100 dollars to buy some groceries. Then my sister brags about spending $5,000 on her 2 daughters for school clothes and accessories (my Nieces). How is it My Sister is now asking me for money because "things are getting tight" and wants $50. a week from me. Just to make it clear I don't/haven't owed her any money at all.

It upsets me because, I have no food in my house right now- with the exception of one box of raspberry Jello. She knows in my case I'm only doing random work when I can (cause i quit my other job), my hubby is already paying our bills and she has $35 grand to use at her leisure. Meanwhile she already planning an extravagant trip to Disney world and to buy another Gucci bag (which cost oh somewhere in the $1,900-$2,000 range).

I'm Just:


Sorry about that I'm just fuming right now Ive been sick all day, I could barely eat soup and I got to do something tomorrow,Im just (revert to photo above)

[Dacora]

~sigh~ Its ok. Its not like I need to see or anything....


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[PearlieMae]

My estranged older sister gets $40,000 for a settlement which she currently has and she calls me to complain about my mom (who is 66yrs old and not working mind you. I give her money when I get money, even if its my last $20. She's my mom.) for $100 dollars to buy some groceries. Then my sister brags about spending $5,000 on her 2 daughters for school clothes and accessories (my Nieces). How is it My Sister is now asking me for money because "things are getting tight" and wants $50. a week from me. Just to make it clear I don't/haven't owed her any money at all.

It upsets me because, I have no food in my house right now- with the exception of one box of raspberry Jello. She knows in my case I'm only doing random work when I can (cause i quit my other job), my hubby is already paying our bills and she has $35 grand to use at her leisure. Meanwhile she already planning an extravagant trip to Disney world and to buy another Gucci bag (which cost oh somewhere in the $1,900-$2,000 range).

I'm Just:


Sorry about that I'm just fuming right now Ive been sick all day, I could barely eat soup and I got to do something tomorrow,Im just (revert to photo above)

SHE wants $50 a week from you FOR WHAT?

Sorry, I know she's your sister, but as we say in Jersey, F*** dat HO! Tell her to jam her trip, her purse, and settlement straight up her a**. You want I should pay her a visit? I'm in the mood for a fight!

[PearlieMae]

~sigh~ Its ok. Its not like I need to see or anything....


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Get your eye prescription from your eye doctor (they HAVE to give it to you), including your pupilar distance - I think that's the word for the distance between your pupils - and go here: http://www.zennioptical.com/

My favorite pair cost me under ten bucks (plus shipping)!

[Mermaid Octavia]

but as we say in Jersey, F*** dat HO!

THIS! PearlieMae, can you adopt me and be my sassy aunt from Jersey? Please?

/massive merhugs for NYM!

[PearlieMae]

Oh yeah! Funny thing is, I'm Hawaiian and grew up in Kentucky!

Jersey by osmosis. Call me Auntie Pearl!

[New York Mermaid]

Thanks Octavia,

@Pearliemae trust me she's a ... greedy person. Lol you're from jersey awesome!!

[PearlieMae]

Sometimes you have to distance yourself from toxic people, even if (and sometimes especially if) they are related to you!

[Mermaid Oshun]

Pearl I am too old to call you aunt so I will call you Sister Pearl

[PearlieMae]

Pearl I am too old to call you aunt so I will call you Sister Pearl

Makes me sound religious!