Wierd. I wonder where he went...?
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Wierd. I wonder where he went...?
Why didn't you just ask the guy you wanted to go with yourself?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sabrina the Selkie
found him, he looks terrible and I fear this may be the end for him. I can't tell what it is just yet, if anything, but if it gets worse I'll have to set up an isolation tank or worse. Not fun.
Nothing but sweet sibling rivalry :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shimmer Mermaid
I would have, if he weren't so passive about everything. But this entire time he's been too nervous to do anything, say anything. He asks me to the movies with a light tone so he can pretend it was a joke if I brush him off. So of course, I do. That's just not how one should handle that sort of thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by PearlieMae
And then, yesterday he said "We're you at school yesterday?"
And I said, "For what little of it there was, yeah"
A pipe had burst, and the only way to stop it's gushing was to cut off water to the whole school, so they let us out at like 10:30.
"Oh," he said. "I waited outside the main entrance for you, thinking we could hang out, but I didn't see you, so I just left."
And he has a phone. He has my number. He could have texted me and then we could have spent time. If it had really gone well, I could have asked him to prom. But it's just another example of his damn passivity.
And maybe because my dad is super passive, and never pays child support and is generally unreliable, as much as I do love him, but I'm super cautious about relationships and this sort lf behavior just sets on my alarm bells and turns me waay off.
My now husband was super passive in high school, I hated it, but loved him. I was kinda like you are about it. Finally I said enough with it and became kind of a bitch about it. I just walked up to him in the middle of the hallway, and told him "if you dont quit this 'i have no testicles thing' I'm going to just find a boyfriend, not an awkward 'its hard to say if we're dating' that's been going on for a year. "
That night he called me and FINALLY asked me out on a movie date, and said that he loved me telling him what's what and being assertive.
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Thankfully even though my husband was shy, if he really liked a girl he'd be really assertive about it :p
Other little boys who would want to ask me out always went through their friend. Sorry I'm looking for a man, not a child.
Well, at least he fixed the behavior, Shimmer.
XD SeaGlass. But seriously, that's a huge part of the issue.
Sometimes you just gotta bang on the door and say 'SHIT, OR GET OFF THE POT!'
To which I reply "LEAVE ME ALONE!! I'VE ONLY BEEN IN HERE FOR HALF AN HOUR!!!"Quote:
Originally Posted by PearlieMae
wait... what?
Kitten is dying. She hasn't eaten in a few days and she's just not looking good. I don't want to say goodbye to her, but it's getting closer to time.
Rest in peace my sweet angelhttp://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/2016...0d584247c9.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Mystery
Oh hugs, Mystery! My deepest sympathies.
Oh no I'm so sorry for your loss mystery :(
I'm so sorry Mystery. Your kitty was well loved and believe me, she'll have known that. I hope you're ok.
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I'm about ready to explode. I'm ticky about what I post about my relationship, especially when we argue, but seriously I need to get this off my chest before I explode.
😡😡😡
I was trying to find old pictures of me and my husband when we were in high school dating, I ended up finding most on his mothers fb page, so I kept digging because some weren't tagged or anything.
Mistake.
I instead found that a girl he claimed he dated for like a week and said she became very, well, crazy, he had instead proposed to and was A WEEK AWAY FROM MARRYING HER.
We promised to tell each other everything about our pasts, so no surprised popped up in the future. I told him everything about mine, and he claimed he told me all of his...
I brought it up, and he just said "I'm getting in the shower, I cant deal with this right now."
How the heck does he think I feel? I am not only upset, but because of me being 12 weeks pregnant, I am getting sick at everything.
If I could just punch him in the Moby right now I would.
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thank you all. I'm having a hard time. every time I look down I see old scars and it brings up so much.
on another note, I'm sick of people trying to start shit with me, especially on things I'm educated about. there's no winning there.
Yikes, Shimmer, what a nasty surprise. :( I hope he has the decency to sit down and talk about it with you.
He finally came around last night, after he noticed I was crying. He apologized about it all, and explained everything that happened.
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Why I ooughta.....
let me at him! Let me at him!
Guys. Hold my tail.
Well. At least he finally talked.
Well last night I had a rape dream :| I suspect it was because last night everyone was asking when I'm gonna have a baby and my mom also kept asking.
i #handledit by responding snarkily as follows.
- sorry dad your bloodline ends here LOL
- why don't you have babies mom? Why don't you ask my other sisters mom?
- I'll wait until my mom has another baby. "But she already had you" and she can have another one "I don't think she physically can" that's the idea :D
- sure we'll wait a few years. We'll see what happens after I'm rolling in cash and going on vacations :)
heck even my niece spoke up for me and she's only ten!!
- grandma when u had babies did it hurt?? "Yes" exactly why would you want that for her???
Everyone, beware! ANGRY MERMAID ON THE LOOSE :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
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I am sincerely hoping you intended to type BABY dream, and not rape dream....Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
No it was a rape dream. 6 People kept coming at me with penises. :|
One (sorry kids reading this) ejaculated into me. I can honestly say I don't have any idea what that feels like but I felt it literally in my GUT and it was the most terrifying sensation ever. It was THAT vivid.
so I'm a bit traumatized this morning.
Re: arguing: never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mermaid Mystery
Oh no, Sea Glass! I hope it was just from the pressure you were getting and perhaps a little gas. I know how unsettling dreams like that can be...Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
Sorry, I was confused by the way that you typed it. When you said people were asking when you'd "have one", the ambiguous "one" is BABY. Not that people were asking you when you were gonna have a rape dream. Because that would be terrible.Quote:
Originally Posted by SeaGlass Siren
I'm sorry that you had a terrible dream like that.... hopefully that doesn't happen again....
Dammit! I thought I put baby 0-0 you are correct though. Everyone kept asking me for babies yesterday.
Oh Mystery, I didn't see that you lost your kitty...I am SO sorry for your loss :hug:
In Donegal last night a tragedy happened. A family of six ina csr that lost control, went off a pier. A bystander leaped in and swam over and the father handed the bystander his 4mo old baby. He went back into the car to save the rest, but the car dropped into the water. The father, the mother, a teenage girl, and two very young boys drowned.
I see horrific stories more often than I like. (Thank you Facebook, not)
But..
This shakes me. Like almost vomitting shakes me.
There is something about drowning in a vessle that literally can make me so scared, and Im not scared of anything else.
This is the same reason i havent watched the Titanic.
It is reason I spent countless hours studying the deck plans on that ship with scenario plans on how i would have survived with my fiance.
Its the reason i get too emotional to cut off my fiances hair. So we leave it long.
Its almost like i experienced something, like it was real, but havent.
I have no idea why this anxiety and panic is instilled in me.
But i am the first to jump off a boat to a bottomless void of ocean with great whites. I have no idea.
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That's terrible.... :(
Ouch I'm so sorry.
I'm the same way! Finally someone that understands it.
Mines not being locked in underwater vessels, though that does give me a bit of anxiety and makes me really uncomfortable just thinking about it
Mine is weirder? I guess
I can swim in lakes, and only if I'm not the only one in the water. But when I play video games where you have to swim in deep water where you can't see the bottom, I have an anxiety attack.
Like crying, hyperventilating, shaking anxiety attack.
But like I said, in person, as long as I'm not the only one out in water I cant see the bottom in, I'm fine. If I can see the bottom, I'm fine and can swim by myself. But if I can't see and I'm the only one in the water, I am fine at first, and then I overthink, and have a panic attack in the water. So I always have to have someone go first, and stay realitively close.
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I got into a heated debate with an old childhood friend of mine about my stance on SeaWorld. It triggered a manic depressive episode on my end.
That happens to me a lot. Only not about seaworld, other forms of captivity in general.
My partner's mother told ME that I'm too flirty and I need to "cut that shit out".
This woman has literally been married three times and cheated in all three unions. And she's trying to tell me that the fact that I've managed to forge a platonic relationship with one of my exes who lives 600 miles away is "crossing a line"
I have never been so tempted to smack the absolute shit out of a woman in all of my goddamn life.
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I would've lost it. Kudos to you for having the tolerance not to though
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Woooow.