B!TC# IT OUT!

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Wierd. I wonder where he went...?

[PearlieMae]

Lunette, you're completely right. And if he wasn't completely passive about EVERYTHING, I would totally ask him.

And I should talk to him. It's just annoyingly difficult to plan the time to have that sort of heart to heart.

And Jaffa, that is exactly what I'm going to do.

Hugs to both of you.

Why didn't you just ask the guy you wanted to go with yourself?

[Mermaid Mystery]

found him, he looks terrible and I fear this may be the end for him. I can't tell what it is just yet, if anything, but if it gets worse I'll have to set up an isolation tank or worse. Not fun.

[The Water Phoenix]

Been there. Aren't siblings the best?

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Nothing but sweet sibling rivalry

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Why didn't you just ask the guy you wanted to go with yourself?

I would have, if he weren't so passive about everything. But this entire time he's been too nervous to do anything, say anything. He asks me to the movies with a light tone so he can pretend it was a joke if I brush him off. So of course, I do. That's just not how one should handle that sort of thing.

And then, yesterday he said "We're you at school yesterday?"

And I said, "For what little of it there was, yeah"

A pipe had burst, and the only way to stop it's gushing was to cut off water to the whole school, so they let us out at like 10:30.

"Oh," he said. "I waited outside the main entrance for you, thinking we could hang out, but I didn't see you, so I just left."

And he has a phone. He has my number. He could have texted me and then we could have spent time. If it had really gone well, I could have asked him to prom. But it's just another example of his damn passivity.

And maybe because my dad is super passive, and never pays child support and is generally unreliable, as much as I do love him, but I'm super cautious about relationships and this sort lf behavior just sets on my alarm bells and turns me waay off.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

My now husband was super passive in high school, I hated it, but loved him. I was kinda like you are about it. Finally I said enough with it and became kind of a bitch about it. I just walked up to him in the middle of the hallway, and told him "if you dont quit this 'i have no testicles thing' I'm going to just find a boyfriend, not an awkward 'its hard to say if we're dating' that's been going on for a year. "

That night he called me and FINALLY asked me out on a movie date, and said that he loved me telling him what's what and being assertive.

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[SeaGlass Siren]

Thankfully even though my husband was shy, if he really liked a girl he'd be really assertive about it
Other little boys who would want to ask me out always went through their friend. Sorry I'm looking for a man, not a child.

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Well, at least he fixed the behavior, Shimmer.

XD SeaGlass. But seriously, that's a huge part of the issue.

[PearlieMae]

Sometimes you just gotta bang on the door and say 'SHIT, OR GET OFF THE POT!'

[Merman Dan]

Sometimes you just gotta bang on the door and say 'SHIT, OR GET OFF THE POT!'

To which I reply "LEAVE ME ALONE!! I'VE ONLY BEEN IN HERE FOR HALF AN HOUR!!!"

wait... what?

[Mermaid Mystery]

Kitten is dying. She hasn't eaten in a few days and she's just not looking good. I don't want to say goodbye to her, but it's getting closer to time.

[Mermaid Mystery]

Kitten is dying. She hasn't eaten in a few days and she's just not looking good. I don't want to say goodbye to her, but it's getting closer to time.

Rest in peace my sweet angel

[Sabrina the Selkie]

Oh hugs, Mystery! My deepest sympathies.

[SeaGlass Siren]

Oh no I'm so sorry for your loss mystery

[LouLouBelle]

I'm so sorry Mystery. Your kitty was well loved and believe me, she'll have known that. I hope you're ok.


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[Shimmer Mermaid]

I'm about ready to explode. I'm ticky about what I post about my relationship, especially when we argue, but seriously I need to get this off my chest before I explode.

😡😡😡
I was trying to find old pictures of me and my husband when we were in high school dating, I ended up finding most on his mothers fb page, so I kept digging because some weren't tagged or anything.

Mistake.

I instead found that a girl he claimed he dated for like a week and said she became very, well, crazy, he had instead proposed to and was A WEEK AWAY FROM MARRYING HER.

We promised to tell each other everything about our pasts, so no surprised popped up in the future. I told him everything about mine, and he claimed he told me all of his...

I brought it up, and he just said "I'm getting in the shower, I cant deal with this right now."

How the heck does he think I feel? I am not only upset, but because of me being 12 weeks pregnant, I am getting sick at everything.

If I could just punch him in the Moby right now I would.


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[Merman Dan]

[Mermaid Mystery]

thank you all. I'm having a hard time. every time I look down I see old scars and it brings up so much.

on another note, I'm sick of people trying to start shit with me, especially on things I'm educated about. there's no winning there.

[Celaeno]

Yikes, Shimmer, what a nasty surprise. I hope he has the decency to sit down and talk about it with you.

[Shimmer Mermaid]

He finally came around last night, after he noticed I was crying. He apologized about it all, and explained everything that happened.

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