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KatieScottArt
11-06-2017, 09:03 PM
what I will not do is bow down to Raina because she is a famous mermaid.
Girl... It's really not fair to pull that card- with anyone. Aside from that, the amount of work and heart Raina has put into this community is insane. Please be nice :c
AniaR
11-06-2017, 09:13 PM
I just want to state, I was sent her screen shots but it's not my place to post someone else's private conversation in here, they were forwarded to Iona who also agreed he was merely responding to what she'd put out, and in a sincere polite and respectful way. He even when so far as to explain WHY he thought she was in into him for goodness sake.
After seeing her behaviour in some FB groups it just seems like there's an issue with authority and respecting rules, and that rules aren't personal nor are they up for debate. Enforcing the rules we all agree to isn't bullying. But labelling an innocent boy a mervert all over the internet, is.
Also, I didn't know I was famous :D cool!
MermaidAnnabella
11-06-2017, 10:55 PM
Wow. I did not pull any card or bully anyone. Though I'm not surprised that Raina's loyal fans are running to her aide either. Like I said, I don't cower to bullies.
How am I supposed to know whether or not someone is autistic when I first meet them? And whether or not he is, I never said autism is a bad thing. I did not "lure" anyone, I sent someone a compliment. Are you against people complimenting others, Harlem Mermaid? And Calizare? Maybe you should read back to the original thread, because I was not the only one who reported Kristian. Calizare, there is no reason for you to be so judgy, rude, and off course.
Y'all are the ones making this into something dramatic. Get a grip and move on.
MermaidAnnabella
11-06-2017, 10:56 PM
Unlike what you seem to be doing, I happen to have a life outside of the internet and it's one that I dedicate to inclusivity and truth. My comments end here. Anything else beyond it is of your own accord and stemmed from your own issues.
gay-mermaid
11-06-2017, 11:01 PM
Unlike what you seem to be doing, I happen to have a life outside of the internet and it's one that I dedicate to inclusivity and truth. My comments end here. Anything else beyond it is of your own accord and stemmed from your own issues.
"Im gonna put you in a position where you have to defend yourself, but make it seem like your just trying to keep fighting and 'bully' me, because i have done things like this before and do it for fun. Manipulation and gaslighting is fun!!1!!1!"
Mermaid Kane
11-06-2017, 11:04 PM
Guys, move on.
gay-mermaid
11-06-2017, 11:07 PM
Guys, move on.
Your right, sorry man. I dont like seeing people put others in that sort of postion, i knew someone like that, and it was awful to experience.
AniaR
11-06-2017, 11:08 PM
"Im gonna put you in a position where you have to defend yourself, but make it seem like your just trying to keep fighting and 'bully' me, because i have done things like this before and do it for fun. Manipulation and gaslighting is fun!!1!!1!" right?? lol the gas lighting and projection going on is crazy, oh well! no sweat off my back.
I do not even know the people here agreeing with me, LOL. Cookie is the only one I know :p perhaps people agree with me because it's simply the rules of mernetwork and it's pretty clear what was done here. But sure, let's pretend I'm just famous so you don't have to be accountable for your actions, easier scape goat.
Guys, move on.
It *is* the drama thread :p
:bulldozer:
gay-mermaid
11-06-2017, 11:12 PM
right?? lol the gas lighting and projection going on is crazy, oh well! no sweat off my back.
I do not even know the people here agreeing with me, LOL. Cookie is the only one I know [emoji14] perhaps people agree with me because it's simply the rules of mernetwork and it's pretty clear what was done here. But sure, let's pretend I'm just famous so you don't have to be accountable for your actions, easier scape goat.
It *is* the drama thread [emoji14]
:bulldozer:
Yeah, man. Her behavior isnt okay and we can all see that. The idea we're only defending you because your well-known is awful, no one should be treated like that. I've experienced gaslighting before and i hate seeing anyone have to go through it.
Calizaire
11-06-2017, 11:15 PM
Wow. I did not pull any card or bully anyone. Though I'm not surprised that Raina's loyal fans are running to her aide either. Like I said, I don't cower to bullies.
How am I supposed to know whether or not someone is autistic when I first meet them? And whether or not he is, I never said autism is a bad thing. I did not "lure" anyone, I sent someone a compliment. Are you against people complimenting others, Harlem Mermaid? And Calizare? Maybe you should read back to the original thread, because I was not the only one who reported Kristian. Calizare, there is no reason for you to be so judgy, rude, and off course.
Y'all are the ones making this into something dramatic. Get a grip and move on.
No. Stop deflecting. YOU contacted a young man first and told him he was cute and lamented him being far away.
He politely asked if you had a crush on him, and you came running here to report him wrongly in a desperate attempt to look relevant in anyway.
Even if he didn't have a development disability this would be disgustingly wrong.
I did read the original thread, thank you.
Those of us who have ACTUALLY spent years in the community are wondering at what point you'll stop lying.
Mermaid Kane
11-06-2017, 11:16 PM
It *is* the drama thread :p
:bulldozer:
True, true. *Gets popcorn*
Seriously though, I feel bad for you, Raina. People keep getting mad at you for being a supportive/helpful and extremely active member of the community... because that is such a crime, ya'know??
Venessa Louisiana Mermaid
11-06-2017, 11:16 PM
Actually, I don't think you have much of a life outside of the internet. You have been on quite the tear today, getting yourself banned from several groups. You have been bullying and calling people out incessantly for weeks on end. When you don't like what someone says you send them a long pm, block them, and then have your friends come after them.
So let's get a couple of things straight pre-emptively...Raina isn't a bully, but she and I and all of our friends will fight you with facts, screenshots and more undercover work than the fucking FBI can dig up on someone if you try it. So don't try it. You are gaslighting and then playing the victim at every turn....and no...nobody has been attacking you. You are just argumentative as all hell and I think that all the accusations your are hurling at everyone here are projections you fell about your own self...insecurity, judgmentalness, and rudeness. And dramatic? The irony. Honey, trust me....swim back to the shallow water because you are in way to deep here.
Unlike what you seem to be doing, I happen to have a life outside of the internet and it's one that I dedicate to inclusivity and truth. My comments end here. Anything else beyond it is of your own accord and stemmed from your own issues.
AniaR
11-06-2017, 11:28 PM
True, true. *Gets popcorn*
Seriously though, I feel bad for you, Raina. People keep getting mad at you for being a supportive/helpful and extremely active member of the community... because that is such a crime, ya'know??
Don't feel bad for me, life is awesome ! People resent what they don't have and it doesn't stop me any. I've been here nearly a decade and in a few more I'll be the old fart mermaid.
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Ransom
11-06-2017, 11:29 PM
You don't need defending from anyone Raina -- your contributions and heart say more than we ever could. Don't age yourself on our account [emoji14]
You've every right to be cheesed off (I would be), but I think it's better to let this go. At the very least, we all learnt something -- that words mean things, especially compliments.
From what I read I can't blame Kristian for reacting the way he did. Again Annabella, just block him and move on, no hard feelings. All of this could've been avoided by telling us: "That's possible. I'll block him cos' it creeps me out, but I see where you're coming from."
It doesn't flat-out disagree, and gives us some common ground to work with.
Online we can argue till we're blue in the face, but it's very rare it changes anyone's mind. Let's not take this personally and step away.
gay-mermaid
11-06-2017, 11:33 PM
Don't feel bad for me, life is awesome ! People resent what they don't have and it doesn't stop me any. I've been here nearly a decade and in a few more I'll be the old fart mermaid.
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Words to live by
AniaR
11-06-2017, 11:39 PM
You don't need defending from anyone Raina -- your contributions and heart say more than we ever could. Don't age yourself on our account [emoji14]
You've every right to be cheesed off (I would be), but I think it's better to let this go. At the very least, we all learnt something -- that words mean things, especially compliments.
From what I read I can't blame Kristian for reacting the way he did. Again Annabella, just block him and move on, no hard feelings. All of this could've been avoided by telling us: "That's possible. I'll block him cos' it creeps me out, but I see where you're coming from."
It doesn't flat-out disagree, and gives us some common ground to work with.
Online we can argue till we're blue in the face, but it's very rare it changes anyone's mind. Let's not take this personally and step away.
Great advice 😘
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Mermaid_Izzy
11-07-2017, 12:07 AM
So this is why my phone kept going off...[emoji23]
I just find it troubling so many new people join the community, create drama, and then in turn cause others to leave because of drama.
Sometimes I wish people would learn it’s okay to agree to disagree and to choose their battles wisely.
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The Harlem Mermaid
11-07-2017, 12:12 AM
MermaidAnnabella (https://mernetwork.com/index/member.php?9076-MermaidAnnabella) No most def not against giving or sending someone compliment when it applies,and doesnt get taken out of content and misunderstood by an autistic young man. i dont need to read the rest of thread to know that you causing waves. And Raina does have many many fans and yes we will defend her and anyone in our merfamily and our fans outside the community that is being wrongfully accused but girl trust me Raina can fight her own battles on land and sea. This wasnt about her it was about you tarnishing a young autistic mans name after you saw or read that he wasnt one of the cool dudes dare i say not your type so you needed a scape goat and used him. and for the record I dont usually join in Drama threads but when you bully an innocent person that put you on my radar. This will be the last i say on this i truly hope you find a conscious and make this right for him.
Mermaid Annabella, just stop blaming Raina. Yes she famous but like you and I, she also human and our fame doesn't really follow us outside the community. Yes someone else did originally complain about him before and they didn't have proof. The "proof" you had wasn't enough and I told you that there has to be more than that for anything. I even told you it would be best to drop it unless you had more proof than what was shown because this isn't a battle worth fighting at the moment as you needed "proof" than what you had. You choose not to listen to me so it's not entirely her fault. It takes two to tangle and you choose to take out those dancing shoes and tangle when you decide to not listen. Let's go with the fact you didn't know the person had autism, a person with no disorder/handicap would had consider the person was trying to be nice. Nothing in those 4 screenshot showed obsessiveness. The thing about being famous is it can happen to anyone. You can use your grudge against her and become better than her. It's actually easier than what you think because you got more free time to be a helpful member in the community unlike Raina who has a full time job including gigs almost every weekend that takes away her time. Time is your friend on this. Just remember her being famous also works against her if you remember that enough people try to blame her for Mermania which she had no control on.
Just one final piece of advice, don't consider this as having a destroy reputation in the community. This community does allow 2nd chances but will not give it if everyone sees grudges toward another mer. Two people tried to dragged me into this thread in the past (one even falsely accused me in that other thread) and I survived with my reputation being repaired.
gay-mermaid
11-07-2017, 02:35 AM
Another reason why this whole situation bothers me so much is i have a lot of problems understanding social cues and i have low empathy. (Im actually getting screened for autism soon) I've made people uncomfortable without knowing, because i think we're having a normal conversation. So the fact that Mermaid Annabella is trying to ruin this kids reputation seemingly because she realized he didn't act neurotypical just hits so close to home. Treating people with autism as predators simply because they seem weird is not okay.
gay-mermaid
11-07-2017, 02:42 AM
Another reason why this whole situation bothers me so much is i have a lot of problems understanding social cues and i have low empathy. (Im actually getting screened for autism soon) I've made people uncomfortable without knowing, because i think we're having a normal conversation. So the fact that Mermaid Annabella is trying to ruin this kids reputation seemingly because she realized he didn't act neurotypical just hits so close to home. Treating people with autism as predators simply because they seem weird is not okay.
Lmao sorry if it doesnt make sense im not great at putting my thoughts down in writing..
I understand what your saying but I wouldn't stress over it. A person can be diagnosed with it and function as adult with no sign of autism for people to notice. Don't worry about people being uncomfortable during conversation without knowing, it happens. It also makes a great filter with finding out who the fake people are from the real friends as real people will take the time to get to know you better. Depending how you handle it if you are diagnosed, I'm confident you'll find more advantages over disadvantages within traits.
Another reason why this whole situation bothers me so much is i have a lot of problems understanding social cues and i have low empathy. (Im actually getting screened for autism soon) I've made people uncomfortable without knowing, because i think we're having a normal conversation. So the fact that Mermaid Annabella is trying to ruin this kids reputation seemingly because she realized he didn't act neurotypical just hits so close to home. Treating people with autism as predators simply because they seem weird is not okay.
gay-mermaid
11-07-2017, 02:53 AM
I understand what your saying but I wouldn't stress over it. A person can be diagnosed with it and function as adult with no sign of autism for people to notice. Don't worry about people being uncomfortable during conversation without knowing, it happens. It also makes a great filter with finding out who the fake people are from the real friends as real people will take the time to get to know you better. Depending how you handle it if you are diagnosed, I'm confident you'll find more advantages over disadvantages within traits.
Im not worried about whether people notice if i have autism!! If i am autistic its something I'll be proud of! Your right about how i shouldnt worry about what others think!
Winged Mermaid
11-07-2017, 03:06 AM
Alright, folks- I think it's time we dropped it and moved on! People have made their points, and the OP of the complaint has stopped replying after she said she would. Let's move along, shall we? :)
gay-mermaid
11-07-2017, 03:06 AM
Alright, folks- I think it's time we dropped it and moved on! People have made their points, and the OP of the complaint has stopped replying after she said she would. Let's move along, shall we? :)
No problem!!
NorthSeaAlaria
11-07-2017, 04:50 AM
Im not worried about whether people notice if i have autism!! If i am autistic its something I'll be proud of! Your right about how i shouldnt worry about what others think!
Oh hey fellow autistic mer :D hi!
Can I just say I'm glad there's a thread to move drama stuff to when it crops up :) means it's not swept under the rug but it has a proper place, y'know? Not gonna leave over stuff like that any time soon.
PearlieMae
11-07-2017, 10:34 AM
Don't feel bad for me, life is awesome ! People resent what they don't have and it doesn't stop me any. I've been here nearly a decade and in a few more I'll be the old fart mermaid.
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HEY! I'M the old fart mermaid! You will have to fight me for THAT title!
Dancing Fish
11-07-2017, 11:17 AM
Y'know, I was going to claim that title myself when I read that, but then I thought, "I'd have to fight Pearlie," and decided to save my health. ;) Hee hee!
So YouTube recommend me a video and I'm just like "NOPE!" and click on no interested. The video is called "Mermaid Melissa images captured over the years" and it's was uploaded less than 2 years ago. Why is it in this thread? It's because she a mermaid who once read the threads in this forum and it's obvious some of those pictures were photoshop and I don't like it when other mers take credit from other people work. She never swam with an elephant name Raja and I don't see joetsm credit on the whale shark picture. Sorry if this sounds more like a rant she not even giving credit to the people she takes the animals pictures on the web that she puts on her Facebook page. I hate it when people (including people as big as her) takes a free ride from other people work for the sake of staying relevant. She really needs to update of her Facebook Bio as she not the only "Mermaid" first name here in Florida. Florida has 2 "Mermaid" which are Melissa and Ari. Rant and vent over.
AniaR
11-08-2017, 08:13 AM
oh yeah we have a whole thread on mermaid melissa, lol Raven and I helped her get started, she's sadly got a big history of making things up! she seems to focus more on making youtube money now
Ransom
11-08-2017, 09:26 AM
oh yeah we have a whole thread on mermaid melissa, lol Raven and I helped her get started, she's sadly got a big history of making things up! she seems to focus more on making youtube money now
I liked watching her vids before, but hearing this... Well, that brings it all down to earth, and she should know better than to leave out credit for her posted pics :(
I'm really curious tho. How'd you start with her and fall out?
Mermaid Kane
11-08-2017, 10:03 AM
oh yeah we have a whole thread on mermaid melissa, lol Raven and I helped her get started, she's sadly got a big history of making things up! she seems to focus more on making youtube money now
You watch one, ONE, of her videos, and your suggestions blow up.
She has the most click baity titles too.
AniaR
11-08-2017, 10:07 AM
Long story short:
the three of us basically started at the same time. Melissa got screwed over by mertailor (a whole other drama on it's own) but eventually made up with him.
We taught her everything we knew, and Raven lent her a tail she had made (back in the alex plus days) as Melissa had no tail, and booked her for some gigs with her.
Then Melissa paid Adam Martyn (a known scammer) something like 4k for a tail and he ran off with her money.
I helped her launch a public campaign against him and basically supported her daily in the matter (I still have all the emails!)
She made up with mertailor after she got a tail from MVD and after we both promoted her and helped her so much, pretty much turned on us. I found out she admitted to people she was just using me which really hurt because I actually did consider her a friend and cared about her, and you know me since she was scammed I went all in to help.
We all parted ways, she decided to label herself the "world's best" and doesn't understand how to use online stuff very well so has her sister manage stuff.
She got into the youtube bubble just in the right time and got her videos viral with her sisters help, so most of her income comes from monetizing that.
The photos are totally stolen and photoshopped to make it seem like she's done things she hasnt (aka swim with an elephant, swim with whalesharks etc)
She copied whole sections of my book and put it on her website
There was some drama (all documented with proof on a thread here) that she edited the "mermaiding" wikipedia page and made it all about her and the few things she left about others like Hannah? she changed the citations to point to HER website. So some forum members got together and fixed it. (sister does all this stuff for her)
Anytime I, Linden or Hannah get in the news, she copies our SEO keywords for our businesses and pays to have them promoted for her own website on google. So if I get a big news coverage and you go to google me, my specific business name and tabs comes up on her website!
It's all just really sneaky and frustrating that she rides everyone else's "coat tails" and exploits people, but is seen as an industry leader. The sad thing is SHE HAS TALENT and should rely on that!
Mermaid Kane
11-08-2017, 11:24 AM
Long story short:
the three of us basically started at the same time. Melissa got screwed over by mertailor (a whole other drama on it's own) but eventually made up with him.
We taught her everything we knew, and Raven lent her a tail she had made (back in the alex plus days) as Melissa had no tail, and booked her for some gigs with her.
Then Melissa paid Adam Martyn (a known scammer) something like 4k for a tail and he ran off with her money.
I helped her launch a public campaign against him and basically supported her daily in the matter (I still have all the emails!)
She made up with mertailor after she got a tail from MVD and after we both promoted her and helped her so much, pretty much turned on us. I found out she admitted to people she was just using me which really hurt because I actually did consider her a friend and cared about her, and you know me since she was scammed I went all in to help.
We all parted ways, she decided to label herself the "world's best" and doesn't understand how to use online stuff very well so has her sister manage stuff.
She got into the youtube bubble just in the right time and got her videos viral with her sisters help, so most of her income comes from monetizing that.
The photos are totally stolen and photoshopped to make it seem like she's done things she hasnt (aka swim with an elephant, swim with whalesharks etc)
She copied whole sections of my book and put it on her website
There was some drama (all documented with proof on a thread here) that she edited the "mermaiding" wikipedia page and made it all about her and the few things she left about others like Hannah? she changed the citations to point to HER website. So some forum members got together and fixed it. (sister does all this stuff for her)
Anytime I, Linden or Hannah get in the news, she copies our SEO keywords for our businesses and pays to have them promoted for her own website on google. So if I get a big news coverage and you go to google me, my specific business name and tabs comes up on her website!
It's all just really sneaky and frustrating that she rides everyone else's "coat tails" and exploits people, but is seen as an industry leader. The sad thing is SHE HAS TALENT and should rely on that!
That's a real shame. She could help the entire business by promoting others when she gets success, and giving the community proper credit..
Ransom
11-08-2017, 11:41 AM
Hopefully someone sets her straight, it's a horrible thing to do :(
Sorry to dredge that up, she was one of my inspirations as a freediver -- her 4-5-minute breath holds helped me set my own targets for static apnea.
I do grit my teeth when I see self-proclaimed 'first' or 'world's-best'. Because mermaiding is just so cool and graceful to outsiders, too many can do this and get away with it.
AniaR
11-08-2017, 12:34 PM
as I understand it she has exaggerated her breath holds by slowing down video footage and has actually only hit the best ones once or twice.
Mermaid Linden is a pro freediver and a judge for competitions- she's someone who is amazing to follow IMO
Ransom
11-08-2017, 01:18 PM
Yup, it had occurred to me. I'll definitely check Linden's videos out :)
Also hunted down the thread on the Wikipedia page. Kept wondering -- who the heck would do such a thing?
Hope it's resolved tho, that's really low.
Beside Linden, you may want to check out Hannah Fraser. Both mermaids are amazing and keep their focus on the environment.
AniaR
11-08-2017, 02:30 PM
Linden is a very accomplished freediver compared to Hannah, in terms of actual free diving ;)
Linden is a very accomplished freediver compared to Hannah, in terms of actual free diving ;)
So very true. Having both of their names mentioned and knowing their background shows that anyone can be successful if they try. Melissa may break pass the 3 minutes breathhold barrier again if she gets back into shape.
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Ransom
11-09-2017, 08:53 AM
So very true. Having both of their names mentioned and knowing their background shows that anyone can be successful if they try. Melissa may break pass the 3 minutes breathhold barrier again if she gets back into shape.
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I do think it's been pointed out that being a mer (even a successful one) is a side hustle at best, and a really busy one. Salute to those who manage it!
That said, I REALLY need to get my old abilities back. That'll take some doing...
Amadi
12-05-2017, 06:38 PM
I have nothing to hide. I have not attacked anyone, nor did I screw anyone over. I did not try to harm anyone, in either reputation or livelihood. I vented. Vaguely, about a valid issue. So your dig about one of my previous posts in the bitch-out thread is moot. In that christian thread, initially, I was questioning why they were dragging in a screenshot from a pagan thread, with an obviously negative point being made about it. I have that right in both cases. Also in that thread, they were discussing ways to convert people to their particular religion, via mermaiding, which I feel is so beyond wrong. And then they were trying to put me down and convert ME. And if you would like me to show the exact post I made on facebook about MY feelings about your shitty scam, I can. I notice that your tactic is to use a person's words and feelings against them, and then try to spin it so you look better. You should quit now. Really. I can and will back up every single thing I have ever said and done, and I was trying NOT to do what you are now doing. But I will not allow you to smear my name, just because I was not the free ride you were looking for. Do you want to continue? It's Friday evening, and I have the whole weekend. You are NOT the sweet and innocent "promoter" that you claim to be.
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Glad someone else see's the man for the fraud he is.
Glad someone else see's the man for the fraud he is.
You don’t even know me
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Mermaid Momo
12-06-2017, 02:33 AM
Don't give whoever it is the satisfaction of a response slim. They want Attention and the best thing to do is not give it to them and let them stew in their saltiness alone
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AniaR
12-06-2017, 08:47 AM
To the people trolling Slim on mernetwork, this behaviour is against the rules. In addition, so is making multiple accounts.
JUST STOP. We don't log on to mernetwork to have to endure your personal issue with slim. You literally made this account to troll Slim - that's all you've done with your three posts. Your behaviour isn't welcome here. Get off our forum
AniaR
12-18-2017, 10:08 AM
These people just make up shit to keep drama going with you and it's wearing on everyone's nerves. How desperate does someone have to be for attention? They literally just wake up and say "I'm going to pretend Slim did X to me so everyone will flip out on him" and it's tiring.
Slim, this is what people do WHEN THEY HAVE NO RELEVANCE in the community. they LOVE the reaction they get from you. Their only way to keep the focus on them is drama.
Just rise above man, you don't have to convince anyone of their lies- they're known for them and it's REALLY obvious to anyone with a brain. Anyone who writes you off because of their lies, aren't worth your time anyway. You aren't a politician, you don't owe anyone a statement anytime someone makes up shit about you.
IN addition, this behaviour gets people banned from mernetwork, so report that to an admin.
From now one when people come to you with "so and so said you did this" don't take it personal, just tell them "nope, but thanks for letting me know". and swim on man.
lotusauriel
12-18-2017, 03:44 PM
You don’t even know me
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkOh. Yes. We do. And while I don't know or care what kind of crap you are involved in now, you'd think eventually people would see what you do. But whatever. All I care about is that I did NOT fall for your BS, you did NOT get into my finances or life, and I am more than fine. A thousand miles away from you.
This isn't your battle so I ask for you to stay out of it. Didn't you tell the admin you plan no further contact with me? If so stay true to your word. No one know who made the call and my phone number got changed. I would had rather not said anything on my last post but I was REQUIRED to. If you however you feel this is your business, I can ask to have your number check which I no longer have.
Oh. Yes. We do. And while I don't know or care what kind of crap you are involved in now, you'd think eventually people would see what you do. But whatever. All I care about is that I did NOT fall for your BS, you did NOT get into my finances or life, and I am more than fine. A thousand miles away from you.
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lotusauriel
12-18-2017, 04:14 PM
This isn't your battle so I ask for you to stay out of it. Didn't you tell the admin you plan no further contact with me? If so stay true to your word. No one know who made the call and my phone number got changed. I would had rather not said anything on my last post but I was REQUIRED to. If you however you feel this is your business, I can ask to have your number check which I no longer have.Yes. Yes. Always turn things around and invent stuff to make someone else look bad. As far as I'm concerned, if someone is trying to bring your lies to the light, I'm all in. At least until I get bored or have something else to do. I don't bother you. I don't harass people. And you better have some proof before you go around accusing people of things that aren't true again. I'm not playing your game. You can't intimidate me or manipulate me. But YOU ARE the biggest liar and game player on this forum. But what YOU do IS illegal and hurtful, and eventually your "people" will figure you out.
lotusauriel
12-18-2017, 04:17 PM
This isn't your battle so I ask for you to stay out of it. Didn't you tell the admin you plan no further contact with me? If so stay true to your word. No one know who made the call and my phone number got changed. I would had rather not said anything on my last post but I was REQUIRED to. If you however you feel this is your business, I can ask to have your number check which I no longer have.And also. In case anyone didn't catch that? He did just threaten me. Again.
I'm trying to prevent you from being dragged into something you know nothing about. I am not further commenting on this. Say all you want, I'm doing no more input on this.
And also. In case anyone didn't catch that? He did just threaten me. Again.
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AniaR
12-18-2017, 05:37 PM
there's no threat there. can you please honestly just zip it? this is absolutely freaking ridiculous and has NOTHING to do with mernetwork. Everyone is tired of this. It's annoying AF and makes ya'll look REALLY bad.
Mermaid_Athena
12-19-2017, 03:15 PM
https://imgur.com/a/RkwZf
here’s the photo of the case number for the police report that my employer filed. They called the police on Jason when he called and left his name. The information is in the report. Go check it out for yourself. I’ve stayed quiet and out of this because I’ve had three panic attacks thanks to his actions. I believe this was all over and done with months ago then I came into work the other day and they asked me “do you know a Jason?”
I nearly fell to the floor right then and there.
Tell me—if I lied, why is there a police report? Why did my employer call the police to come talk to me?? Why did o just receive word that the police called Jason to tell him to cut it out?
Why have I had deal with being barely able to breath for the past few days because I’m living in TERROR?!??
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im only here to post that information from the police. He is in no way a victim here.
Khaleesi Daenerys
12-19-2017, 03:51 PM
Kinda unfair you posting this since you know he can’t reply. Shouldn’t you not post this since it's an open case and because it looks like you’re luring him to say something.
Mermaid_Athena
12-19-2017, 03:56 PM
I wanted people to know flat out that he is lying. I’m sick and tired of living in fear. He shouldn’t reply anyway. Also as far as open case I was told to.
AniaR
12-19-2017, 06:41 PM
that doesn't prove he's lying. LOL that proves you decided to call the police about someone calling you. Please. stop. You're literally guilty of harassing him the same way you claim he harasses you. staaaaaaaaaaahp you are hardly living in terror but you're all certainly making this thread a terror
Mermaid_Athena
12-19-2017, 06:52 PM
Rania— my employer called, unrelated to me. So get off that high horse of yours.
AniaR
12-19-2017, 07:06 PM
where's the proof that even happened? How about get this carp off the forum??? if it's real let the police deal with it cuz everyone's tired of the baiting you guys are constantly doing on here. The forum isnt for airing your dirty laundry
Mermaid_Athena
12-19-2017, 07:17 PM
Try calling the police station with that case file I posted. That would be the proof. Regardless, I’ve done nothing other than simply post the refutation to his antics. You’ve defended someone without the full story. I’ve given you the evidence that was needed. I don’t need to explain myself any further. Go call the police yourself and you’ll see that —again, as I said before— my *employer* called the police on him. Not me.
Regardless. This is the drama thread. But I’m done. I’m flat done dealing with all the mermaids on here. You can have your high school style clique. I’m a grown woman that shouldn’t have to deal with people who refuse to listen and side with a person who randomly starts spouting things about a person lying when there’s outsiders who are witnesses.
Good bye.
Damn I wish there was a way to delete accounts on here. This whole thing is bullshit.
Khaleesi Daenerys
12-19-2017, 07:45 PM
Good bye.
Damn I wish there was a way to delete accounts on here. This whole thing is bullshit.
I know I wish there was a way for you to delete your account too.
PhaylennMurúch
12-19-2017, 10:24 PM
The case file, as of now, only proves that you have a business card.
No one on this forum can call the number and just get the information over the phone. They'd need to be close enough to pick up the record and willing to pay the fee.
Three working days following the incident the report will be available to the public. Copies are obtained in the records section of the Police Department located in the front lobby area. You may call ahead to order your copies from the Records Department, 954-7045. There is a charge to obtain these records. The records window is open Monday through Friday from 8:00a.m. to 5:00 p.m.
Marinus Mortimer
12-20-2017, 09:22 AM
OMG I guess this thread isn’t the DRAMA thread for nothing lol [emoji23] I’ve been seeing soooooo much drama lately but like u said Raina I learned to pick my battles and now I just sit back and watch sipping on some tea and laughing my butt off with all this bs, irrelevant stuff like, can’t me all just keep swimming and not drag some petty childish stuff for so long, mean I know there are guppys on Mernetwork but most of us are adults, Slim bro my advice to you is ignore it bro take note from Bruce Lee and “Be like water” don’t resist just let the bs float on by like a trout after spawning season is over, trust u show them no attention and they will drift over to people who give them relevance... same for u Athena girl just let it go and slow deep breaths will help. PS “Don’t shoot the messenger, I’m just friends with the monster” - (Love the way you lie)
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AniaR
12-20-2017, 09:32 AM
Try calling the police station with that case file I posted. That would be the proof
No Actually, all that does -again- is prove someone filed a report. It doesn't prove your allegations are true. Anyone can file a report.
I don’t need to explain myself any further
Actually, if you decide to exploit the forum to make such serious legal allegations - yeah- you do have to explain yourself and provide proof. Otherwise it's clearly slander/libel and harassment. That's the thing about making any allegations on mernetwork. They can only stand if you provide proof.
Damn I wish there was a way to delete accounts on here. This whole thing is bullshit.
Have you tried.... not logging in?
I know I wish there was a way for you to delete your account too.
Amen Amen Amen
I mean if we wanna talk about sketchy dealings, you ran a gofundme for a mermaid , who claims she got no money from you/didn't know you did it, and gofundme confirmed you accepted money from it (anyone can inquire with gofundme about the status of it - and yes- there are screenshots)... so... it just sorta seems to me like this is your retribution for that being ousted. You seem to think Slim is the only person who has an issue with you and must be the only one to blame anytime you think something happens. When in reality someone independent from the two of you ousted that.
But really, at the end of the day, you guys and your friend who made an account on here solely for baiting Slim, are misusing the forum. Keep your facebook drama to facebook. It seems like anytime one of you is bored you just pop in to bait Slim or make some public FB post to bait him and stir shit up.
we are all tired of it.
AniaR
12-20-2017, 09:39 AM
take note from Bruce Lee and “Be like water” don’t resist just let the bs float on by like a trout after spawning season is over
PREACH. I have "Be Water" tattooed on my arm :)
Marinus Mortimer
12-20-2017, 09:46 AM
PREACH. I have "Be Water" tattooed on my arm :)
Omg really I was discussing with my mom getting matching tattoos with that phrase, great minds think alike!
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shimmygoddess
12-20-2017, 08:50 PM
No Actually, all that does -again- is prove someone filed a report. It doesn't prove your allegations are true. Anyone can file a report.
Actually, if you decide to exploit the forum to make such serious legal allegations - yeah- you do have to explain yourself and provide proof. Otherwise it's clearly slander/libel and harassment. That's the thing about making any allegations on mernetwork. They can only stand if you provide proof.
Have you tried.... not logging in?
Amen Amen Amen
I mean if we wanna talk about sketchy dealings, you ran a gofundme for a mermaid , who claims she got no money from you/didn't know you did it, and gofundme confirmed you accepted money from it (anyone can inquire with gofundme about the status of it - and yes- there are screenshots)... so... it just sorta seems to me like this is your retribution for that being ousted. You seem to think Slim is the only person who has an issue with you and must be the only one to blame anytime you think something happens. When in reality someone independent from the two of you ousted that.
But really, at the end of the day, you guys and your friend who made an account on here solely for baiting Slim, are misusing the forum. Keep your facebook drama to facebook. It seems like anytime one of you is bored you just pop in to bait Slim or make some public FB post to bait him and stir shit up.
we are all tired of it.
I vaguely remember that gofundme...whats the deal with that?
PhaylennMurúch
12-20-2017, 11:34 PM
I vaguely remember that gofundme...whats the deal with that?
After a mermaid's house got burgled and the mermaid was taken at gunpoint to an ATM Mermaid Athena started a GoFundMe on her behalf to 'help offset the costs of the lost items'. She managed to raise like $150. The victim mermaid didn't even know that the GFM was going on and hasn't seen a penny BUT GFM confirmed that the money was transfered out of their system. One can only assume that Mermaid Athena pocketed the money.
Here's a screenshot of the post in Mermaid Mania. The GFM was taken down because the website was notified that it was fraudulent.
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Mermaid Kane
12-21-2017, 12:11 AM
Thats sick....
After a mermaid's house got burgled and the mermaid was taken at gunpoint to an ATM Mermaid Athena started a GoFundMe on her behalf to 'help offset the costs of the lost items'. She managed to raise like $150. The victim mermaid didn't even know that the GFM was going on and hasn't seen a penny BUT GFM confirmed that the money was transfered out of their system. One can only assume that Mermaid Athena pocketed the money.
Here's a screenshot of the post in Mermaid Mania. The GFM was taken down because the website was notified that it was fraudulent.
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gay-mermaid
12-21-2017, 12:13 AM
After a mermaid's house got burgled and the mermaid was taken at gunpoint to an ATM Mermaid Athena started a GoFundMe on her behalf to 'help offset the costs of the lost items'. She managed to raise like $150. The victim mermaid didn't even know that the GFM was going on and hasn't seen a penny BUT GFM confirmed that the money was transfered out of their system. One can only assume that Mermaid Athena pocketed the money.
Here's a screenshot of the post in Mermaid Mania. The GFM was taken down because the website was notified that it was fraudulent.
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Thats horrible.... mermaid athena just lost any credibility i thought she might have...
Starfrit
12-21-2017, 12:42 AM
Not that Athena has ever had a scrap of credibility to her name to begin with. :T
gay-mermaid
12-21-2017, 12:50 AM
Not that Athena has ever had a scrap of credibility to her name to begin with. :T
Good point
Mermaidares97
12-22-2017, 03:33 PM
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I'll let the photos do the talking
Khaleesi Daenerys
12-22-2017, 04:35 PM
Ooh that's embarrassing :$ lol :lol:
PhaylennMurúch
12-22-2017, 11:09 PM
why would she even start a GFM without talking to the victim first?
gay-mermaid
12-22-2017, 11:15 PM
why would she even start a GFM without talking to the victim first?
To take advantage of peoples charity and compassion so she could take the money for herself
Starfrit
12-23-2017, 12:54 AM
Yeeeaaaaahhhh word of advice to literally everyone:
Don't give a cent to any GoFundMe Athena decides to set up. It won't go to the cause she's claiming it's for.
I feel bad for the people who got suckered by her last time.
Not that Athena has ever had a scrap of credibility to her name to begin with. :T
While I’ve been quiet from this thread, a friend sent me this to make me aware.
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180101/71dd3105d1567454a2f445e7876b03a1.jpg
I still wonder if her friend are going to admit they were wrong about my friend leaving reviews on her page. [emoji848]. We never got proof on that however I’m not going to cry and claim bullying. I’m going back to my silence now.
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AniaR
01-01-2018, 10:27 PM
the irony
Khaleesi Daenerys
01-01-2018, 11:21 PM
I might make a video for that... lol :pirate:
PhaylennMurúch
01-03-2018, 04:45 PM
So a few months back I made a post on my FB about a new Mer, Anna Browne, (Mermaid Annabella here). She was being aggressive and predatory with sellers and harassing them to lower their prices, then turned around and was selling what she bought for up to ten times what she paid (like that Hot Topic Ariel purse she tried to sell for $200)
This is the post I made: “Hey mer friends. Some of you have talked to me about Anna Browne harassing you about the Buy,Sell,Trade mermaid tails group.
Well last night she violated someone’s privacy and I removed her from the group. She complained to the admin that is never actually there and claimed that I was violating her right to free speech and picking on her.
Well Rayne decided that the mods actually have no authority and re added Anna. Please direct your complaints to Rayne as I will not attempt to mod a group where bullies like Anna Browne (who just yesterday flirted with an autistic man and then tried to have him labeled a predator) are allowed to run rampant.
I have removed myself as a mod for that group, I hope you all have better luck dealing with her shit than I did.”
That was literally it. I blocked her (and a friend of hers that she was using to pester me) and left it at that. I’d get people coming to me complaining about her off and on and told them that it wasn't my business. I didn't bring it here and I haven’t SEEN any chatter about her except when she tried to get that Autistic man labeled a predator. I certainly haven’t encouraged people to harass her or pester her. I also haven’t used my real name here, ever.
In fact she admitted in a chat that she had an alternate account using the name Christina Klaire.
Yesterday I get this:
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AniaR
01-03-2018, 05:02 PM
this is the girl who was trying to have the autistic guy labelled as a mervert right? No one on here said anything about her since then, just commented in the thread when it all went down months ago. I don't see a single post where people are encouraging others to bull/harass her. I've noticed her giving bad advice/wrong advice in many FB posts that weren't actually asking for advice. People in the community don't really like that kinda thing so I am sure it probably rubbed some the wrong way.
I'll never understand why people need to fake being a victim. if you feel misunderstood, or strongly that you need that attention, there's nothing wrong with getting professional help from a counselor.
I think in this internet age we all succumb to attention issues from time to time.
Now I'm wondering if she's got multiple accounts on here.
PearlieMae
01-03-2018, 05:14 PM
THAT WAS HER?
PhaylennMurúch
01-03-2018, 05:42 PM
THAT WAS HER?
Yep
Nerdmaid Faith
01-05-2018, 01:17 PM
THAT WAS HER?
Holy carp the plot thickens. I totally thought it was another idiot always commenting on her stuff about silicone and whatnot?!?!? Also bull-fucking-shit about not sharing private messages and whatnot. She almost ruined one of my beloved pod members by sharing a private chat.
AniaR
01-05-2018, 03:12 PM
ok so recap:
- makes a post wanting a mermaid dating thread, but then accuses a young man with autism of being a mervert after initiating contact with him and flirting, then flips out on people here calling us all bullies for not being ok with that
-Makes multiple accounts to message people and paint herself as a victim of bullying
-nit picks people's FB posts in the various buy and sell groups and the podsquad to the point people feel targetted by her
-claims she is being bullied through mernetwork PM and fb pm but refuses to post proof (I suspect just messaging from her own alt accounts)
Khaleesi Daenerys
01-05-2018, 03:23 PM
So she's a shark in the water? :shark::shark:
Khaleesi Daenerys
01-05-2018, 03:33 PM
42706 I'll leave this here.
So who is going to play the victim in this one?
Mermaid Kane
01-05-2018, 05:15 PM
42706 I'll leave this here.
So who is going to play the victim in this one?
Oh god. Both in one place. >_>
Ocoree
01-05-2018, 08:18 PM
I've been lurking a while, and as a potential tail builder, this is giving me a good insight on what folks to avoid when I do finally attempt test commissions o.o;
Marinus Mortimer
01-05-2018, 08:54 PM
On another note Ocoree that picture u have as avatar I just [emoji7]
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May I also mention that Avon want nothing to do with her. They actually got her listed as a scammer to her area.
https://www.facebook.com/avondistrict7838/posts/746526488824837
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ok so recap:
- makes a post wanting a mermaid dating thread, but then accuses a young man with autism of being a mervert after initiating contact with him and flirting, then flips out on people here calling us all bullies for not being ok with that
-Makes multiple accounts to message people and paint herself as a victim of bullying
-nit picks people's FB posts in the various buy and sell groups and the podsquad to the point people feel targetted by her
-claims she is being bullied through mernetwork PM and fb pm but refuses to post proof (I suspect just messaging from her own alt accounts)
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Khaleesi Daenerys
01-05-2018, 11:59 PM
LMFAO!!!! :lol::lol ^::clap:
Mermaid Yuki
01-06-2018, 12:33 AM
look https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/help-me-fundraise-for-frostbite#/
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she offer to show proof on that site. athena not show proof of donation i think. annabelle, please show proof.
Again! :jawdrop: ugh.
look https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/help-me-fundraise-for-frostbite#/
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she offer to show proof on that site. athena not show proof of donation i think. annabelle, please show proof.
Mermaid Momo
01-06-2018, 12:41 AM
Why not just have the people donate directly to the film's indie gogo campaign? It's even on the same exact site. Trying to reap benefits of a high donation tier?
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Ransom
01-06-2018, 12:55 AM
If all of that's from one person it's a LOT of trouble to go to just to... what, raise a few hundred dollars and feel better about themselves?
God help them, we certainly can't.
Khaleesi Daenerys
01-06-2018, 12:56 AM
look https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/help-me-fundraise-for-frostbite#/
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she offer to show proof on that site. athena not show proof of donation i think. annabelle, please show proof. Hmm sounds like what Athena did too lol. Maybe proof will appear from her soon.
I can see it now a new facebook group launched by the two of them mermaids against funding fraud lol.
Ocoree
01-06-2018, 02:17 AM
On another note Ocoree that picture u have as avatar I just [emoji7]
Why thank you! It was a traditional piece I messed around with on a fin design I was concepting at the time. The full piece is in my gallery.
Back on topic - if these people are posting on indiegogo/gofundme, are they getting their ip addresses/accounts reported directly to the admins of the sites? Granted there are ways to get around that, but still - at least help crack down on them before they scam people out of hard-earned money.
The fact she's banned by Avon of all companies is just... wow..
Marinus Mortimer
01-06-2018, 02:47 PM
I just stabbed my best friend with a needle tip sculpting tool for stepping on my sculpt even after being warned now we’re not friends. But my art is more important than him... (keeps sculpting)
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Ocoree
01-06-2018, 02:52 PM
I just stabbed my best friend with a needle tip sculpting tool for stepping on my sculpt even after being warned now we’re not friends. But my art is more important than him... (keeps sculpting)
*Sage nods* Yes, never get between an artist and their brain baby(is). My roommate and I both respect this golden rule of crafters with our projects. She might take up half or more of the tv/couch area with her cloth, and I might swamp her sewing area with the plastic sheets for fin cutting from time to time, but we take GREAT care to not muss each other up!
Marinus Mortimer
01-06-2018, 03:11 PM
*Sage nods* Yes, never get between an artist and their brain baby(is). My roommate and I both respect this golden rule of crafters with our projects. She might take up half or more of the tv/couch area with her cloth, and I might swamp her sewing area with the plastic sheets for fin cutting from time to time, but we take GREAT care to not muss each other up!
That’s nice but he comes to my house almost every day so he knows what where and every time someone comes in the house I tell them that they will be stabbed if I find they stepped on my sculpt so every one gets fair warning
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PearlieMae
01-06-2018, 05:22 PM
That’s nice but he comes to my house almost every day so he knows what where and every time someone comes in the house I tell them that they will be stabbed if I find they stepped on my sculpt so every one gets fair warning
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Wow. You're gonna get your ass kicked.
Marinus Mortimer
01-06-2018, 06:04 PM
Pearlie u obviously have never met me in person lol the only person who’s ever “kicked my ass” was my mom once and only cause I would never defend against her but other than that a lifetime of mix martial arts won’t allow me to get beat up hun it’s cute to think about though [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
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PhaylennMurúch
01-06-2018, 06:08 PM
Why not just have the people donate directly to the film's indie gogo campaign? It's even on the same exact site. Trying to reap benefits of a high donation tier?
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yeah, if I remember correctly the movie (it was a sequel, the first one was ok but was more of a straight to DVD quality so they didn't get greenlit for a sequel without a lot of funding) offered an extra part, like maybe a week of work, for $4500 (travel, food and lodging not included)
So she thought that she would actually be able to meet the director/actors and talk to them. Obviously never worked as an extra before.
Annabella seems to have made $100 from her fundraiser and did not contribute to the movie fundraiser, as they had four fan donations totaling $105, and since they didn't get their goal each of those backers got their money back. Anna kept hers.
I'd also like to point out that she didn't provide proof that the funds raised from her fundraiser boxes for Hurricane relief in PR actually went there either.
plain and simple, she's a predator and has been for a long time.
I also find it amazing that she was offering editing, ghostwriting and publishing services (BTW you can buy an ISBN for your ebook for $29 and if you buy in bulk they're even cheaper) when she herself published on CreateSpace and has no editing or even proofreading background (and judging by the reviews on her book she didn't proofread her own work before publishing it). Only ghostwriters with long, proven track records of bestsellers can demand $30,000 for a book under 80,000 words.
the best part though is this "Book Publication
You will have any book you have written completely edited professionally, receive a legal book cover, aid in writing agent query letters, recommendations from a published author to publishing houses, guaranteed publishing deal with Amazon and Barnes & Noble, and a book trailer made for your book."
for $3000 she will edit your book, help you self publish, THEN help query agents (who don't really look for books that are already published unless they're a breakaway hit, btw) AND write you a letter of recommendation as a published author.
1. A query letter is highly personal and should not be ghost written.
2. Querying agents is free and easy with websites like querytracker.
3. Agents and publishing houses don't care if another author, published or not, likes your work. UNLESS that author is a best seller and works with those specific people. A letter saying 'this person is faboo' from a self published author with what seems like less than 10 sales to her name will get you diddly squat.
4. Publishing with CreateSpace is practically free. For the $3000 she asked for you could use their actual professional editors, artists, formatters and get a marketing plan and actually have a published book that is quality. Twice or more.
5. NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE GUARANTEED TO GETTING YOU PUBLISHED BY A PUBLISHING HOUSE. SHE IS LITERALLY PROMISING YOU PUBLICATION, A THING SHE CANNOT GUARANTEE.
At first I honestly thought she was an overexcited guppy, eager to jump into the community and I genuinely tried to help her with her ads and interactions but as time went on it just got worse and worse.
$20 for a bra with gorilla glue starfish and book shavings. BOOK SHAVINGS
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$10+ for a jar of what is essentially laundry detergent paste to put on your tail
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Then there was the "sexy mermaid time" ad that was supposed to include bondage rope, a blindfold and a tickler. that really had dollar tree netting, a polyester necktie and a small baggie with a feather in it that had been plucked from an anonymous bird. The total cost to her was probably less than $5 and she charged $20 for it
Or the more recent Hot Topic Ariel silhouette mini dome purse that was sold for $55 new a few years ago. She tried to use the 'only 1000 made' to charge $200 for it. Someone pointed out that you could buy it for $48 elsewhere.
AniaR
01-06-2018, 06:43 PM
ISBNs are free through Lulu :) For far less than 3000$ you can have them do all of that and then some. What qualifies her exactly to do any of that stuff??? I am not saying that to be a jerk either. It just seems her education and professional experience seems to change depending on what thread she's replying to
I SAW THE SEXY MERMAID TIME my oh my
That would someone explain her previous position as the Washington State Senate on her Linkedin profile. :lol: I'm still horrified she did a sexy mermaid time package that I'm fortunate enough to never see. I don't want to believe if anyone actually bought it.
ISBNs are free through Lulu :) For far less than 3000$ you can have them do all of that and then some. What qualifies her exactly to do any of that stuff??? I am not saying that to be a jerk either. It just seems her education and professional experience seems to change depending on what thread she's replying to
I SAW THE SEXY MERMAID TIME my oh my
AniaR
01-06-2018, 07:02 PM
it was dollar store stuff. a bit of fish netting, a feather, a tie... lol
PearlieMae
01-06-2018, 07:20 PM
""sexy mermaid time" ad that was supposed to include bondage rope, a blindfold and a tickler. that really had dollar tree netting, a polyester necktie and a small baggie with a feather in it that had been plucked from an anonymous bird. The total cost to her was probably less than $5 and she charged $20 for it"
And it was a PIECE of dollar store netting. About $.02 worth.
:jawdrop:
Mermaid Mystery
01-06-2018, 07:24 PM
yikes
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PearlieMae
01-06-2018, 07:24 PM
Pearlie u obviously have never met me in person lol the only person who’s ever “kicked my ass” was my mom once and only cause I would never defend against her but other than that a lifetime of mix martial arts won’t allow me to get beat up hun it’s cute to think about though [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
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Yawn
Khaleesi Daenerys
01-06-2018, 07:31 PM
I don't think I can be surprised by her anymore, not since Avon banned her lol.
PhaylennMurúch
01-06-2018, 07:44 PM
the netting from the dollar store is literally "luau decoration" netting.
also Dollar store employees aren't paid enough to really GAF about what you buy
Marinus Mortimer
01-06-2018, 07:46 PM
Yawn
Why u being that way Pearlie?
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Keiris
01-06-2018, 09:34 PM
"sexy...mermaid...time...???????" Hahahahaha!!!!
Ocoree
01-07-2018, 12:15 AM
That’s nice but he comes to my house almost every day so he knows what where and every time someone comes in the house I tell them that they will be stabbed if I find they stepped on my sculpt so every one gets fair warning
I guess I deserved that kind of response from typing my statement in a brain-dead state. I'll try again to better lay out my thoughts.
I'm just putting down my two cents from experience, so it's more observation than anything. I completely get it though - it's your brain baby, and you don't want anyone getting their mitts (or in this case stompers) all over it before it's finished. Believe me I have a hard enough time NOW keeping my stepmom away from my projects because she keeps trying to get her claws into them and making the process FAR more complicated than it seems, when she's not coincidentally BREAKING them.
I've learned over the years dealing with my craft being destroyed that often the second round produces better results, and sometimes even reveals any issues we may have overlooked in the first run through. It's frustrating as hell sure, you had spent all those hours working on that fluke sculpt! I've found that putting stacks of things close to knee height near something I don't want folks near works sometimes, as most people will reflexively skirt around the taller obstacles. Could be as simple as a box or drying rack. It's going out of your way to protect your work, something you shouldn't have to worry about in your own home, but accidents do tend to happen, or intentional sabotage. One of the reasons I refuse to post any work at my job - it'll either be picked apart by kids, or sabotaged by coworkers via their own mishandling, or not preventing grubby little sticky grimy gross fingers from getting all over the shiny pretty piece. Roommate's lost a couple cosplay costumes and props she made herself that way.
The other thing is that I've found behaving in the way you did around the things I protected ended up in driving almost everyone out of my life. This stemmed back to freaking elementary school with no real social skills. It's not fun... What's more rewarding is finding those people that actually do respect what you do. It's one reason me and my roommate work with each other - we know how protective we are of our brain babies. I know full well she'll pelt a pillow or a pen at me if I fudge up her fabric with a miss-step. Generally though, if the friend is a regular visitor, and knows full well, it could be that they weren't true friend material, or it was an honest accident. I wasn't there to witness, so I can't say which would be accurate. All I know is it's rather miserable not being able to have any companionship to share joy with. Makes the few true friends more erstwhile.
I'm not saying what you did was unreasonable depending on the situation, just a bit alarming.
Bit more of an elaborate two-cents recap, but I tend to ramble a bit when fully awake ^_^;
PearlieMae
01-07-2018, 12:46 AM
Why u being that way Pearlie?
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Because bragging about stabbing someone because you can't move your sculpt out of the way is ridiculous and tiresome. Bragging about your 'martial arts training' is even moreso. People properly trained know they don't even have to mention it.
Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 02:32 AM
I guess I deserved that kind of response from typing my statement in a brain-dead state. I'll try again to better lay out my thoughts.
I'm just putting down my two cents from experience, so it's more observation than anything. I completely get it though - it's your brain baby, and you don't want anyone getting their mitts (or in this case stompers) all over it before it's finished. Believe me I have a hard enough time NOW keeping my stepmom away from my projects because she keeps trying to get her claws into them and making the process FAR more complicated than it seems, when she's not coincidentally BREAKING them.
I've learned over the years dealing with my craft being destroyed that often the second round produces better results, and sometimes even reveals any issues we may have overlooked in the first run through. It's frustrating as hell sure, you had spent all those hours working on that fluke sculpt! I've found that putting stacks of things close to knee height near something I don't want folks near works sometimes, as most people will reflexively skirt around the taller obstacles. Could be as simple as a box or drying rack. It's going out of your way to protect your work, something you shouldn't have to worry about in your own home, but accidents do tend to happen, or intentional sabotage. One of the reasons I refuse to post any work at my job - it'll either be picked apart by kids, or sabotaged by coworkers via their own mishandling, or not preventing grubby little sticky grimy gross fingers from getting all over the shiny pretty piece. Roommate's lost a couple cosplay costumes and props she made herself that way.
The other thing is that I've found behaving in the way you did around the things I protected ended up in driving almost everyone out of my life. This stemmed back to freaking elementary school with no real social skills. It's not fun... What's more rewarding is finding those people that actually do respect what you do. It's one reason me and my roommate work with each other - we know how protective we are of our brain babies. I know full well she'll pelt a pillow or a pen at me if I fudge up her fabric with a miss-step. Generally though, if the friend is a regular visitor, and knows full well, it could be that they weren't true friend material, or it was an honest accident. I wasn't there to witness, so I can't say which would be accurate. All I know is it's rather miserable not being able to have any companionship to share joy with. Makes the few true friends more erstwhile.
I'm not saying what you did was unreasonable depending on the situation, just a bit alarming.
Bit more of an elaborate two-cents recap, but I tend to ramble a bit when fully awake ^_^;
He used to come to my house daily and the sculpt doesn’t move from its regular resting place under the fishtank but it’s a large sculpt so it’s not fully covered by it, the apartment is small so there isn’t space for me to be placing tables and shit on my moms living room or she would kill me lol, and it’s not like i stabbed him with a knife inches deep it was a simple quick poke with a needle tool like getting pinched while sowing, also that was just the drop that overflowed the damm there was some tension already for some attitude he gave my mom and I wasn’t happy about it so he later stepped on the sculpt he’s been seeing there seance it’s dawn and casually steps on it while I’m not there I return from the kitchen with some food for the both of us and tragically the corner had a footprint omg I was like “ yo nigga what happened to his it was fine earlier”. He said “ I was looking out he window and I stepped on it”. I said “ nigga how manny times u been here I’ve even helped me with it sometimes, you know what’s next right?, I grabbed the tool and poked him on the thigh hard enough to draw blood but not deeper than half an inc, he saw me do the same to my brother when he tried playing me for a bitch saying he would squish my fin and I told him he would be stabbed he squished it cause he thought I wouldn’t do it but he knew he was wrong when he felt it in his thigh, there’s no excuse if so one says if you move I will shoot I sure as hell will not even breath, and ...
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Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 02:36 AM
Because bragging about stabbing someone because you can't move your sculpt out of the way is ridiculous and tiresome. Bragging about your 'martial arts training' is even moreso. People properly trained know they don't even have to mention it.
Pearlie Mae first of all I’m not bragging this thread is for venting drama so I utilized it to ent what was my current situation nooo bragging just venting , and I mentioned the martial arts because u come out the reef saying I’m gon get my ass kicked by who tell me please cause I’m waiting, there was no need for your sass and rudeness I actually respect you and consider you someone I look up to as a Mer but I guess your not so sweet after all.
Edit,
The sculpt rests in the same place everyday same place so if I had a child laying there every day he would forget and stepp on it?
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Ransom
01-07-2018, 03:03 AM
Whoa guys. @ Mortimer, I see it's causing you a lot of irritation. I say that's just between you and him though.
I recommend venting to a real-life friend, in person or via PM.
(I've plenty to get irritated about IRL myself, but I don't give details here -- there's a core I trust with that role, none of whom are on MN as far as I know.)
That way, you won't feel like you owe anyone here an explanation, and no one's going to wrongly interpret what you say.
Hope things get sorted out though. All the best!
Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 03:10 AM
Whoa guys. @ Mortimer, I see it's causing you a lot of irritation. I say that's just between you and him though.
I recommend venting to a real-life friend, in person or via PM or Facebook. (I've plenty to get irritated about IRL myself, but I don't give details here.)
That way, you won't feel like you owe anyone here an explanation, and no one's going to wrongly interpret what you say.
Hope things get sorted out though. All the best!
I see what ur saying but I have no division between me and me in a tail and the thread is titled The Drama Thread not The Mermaid Drama Thread so I thought I could share this with y’all cause I don’t talk to many people and my other two friends just laughed and said that he should have known me enough to not test me like that I am a man of my word and when I say something it’s cause I meant it. Plus nah i know I don’t owe anyone an explanation cause it’s not that complicated I stabbed him a little bit but not bad enough to be in jail for just a poke lol otherwise I wouldn’t be writingthis now
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Mermaid Kane
01-07-2018, 12:04 PM
Isn't.... stabbing people.... kinda illegal?
PearlieMae
01-07-2018, 12:24 PM
He probably just poked him enough to make his friend annoyed.
Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 12:26 PM
Isn't.... stabbing people.... kinda illegal?
It is but I wasn’t trying to kill him just poke him
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Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 12:26 PM
He probably just poked him enough to make his friend annoyed.
Exactly!
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Ransom
01-07-2018, 12:31 PM
The word we're looking for is 'pricked'. Don't laugh.
Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 12:34 PM
The word we're looking for is 'pricked'. Don't laugh.
Lmao that’s a new word for me nice! But he is a prick
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Ransom
01-07-2018, 01:05 PM
Lmao that’s a new word for me nice! But he is a prick
Sent from my iPad using TapatalkGlad to help! Saw some great tips from Ocoree tho, maybe you could post on or create a thread about keeping unwanted hands (and feet) off your crafting projects. I'm eager to begin a non-mer cosplay project and could use the advice.
Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 05:51 PM
Glad to help! Saw some great tips from Ocoree tho, maybe you could post on or create a thread about keeping unwanted hands (and feet) off your crafting projects. I'm eager to begin a non-mer cosplay project and could use the advice.
Sure I just made a non mermaid Drama Thread so yeah that happened following advice is good sometimes now watch some folk say another drama thread i not needed or some bull shit.
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Mermaid Kane
01-07-2018, 06:34 PM
Okay, good. xD I had the image of you just stabbing him... lol.
Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 06:35 PM
Okay, good. xD I had the image of you just stabbing him... lol.
Lol I didnt explain well
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Mermaid Kane
01-07-2018, 06:36 PM
Lol I didnt explain well
I'm also just a teen, and I tend to misinterpret and make more of things then I should. :P
Okay, good. xD I had the image of you just stabbing him... lol.
I was actually thinking the same at first
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Marinus Mortimer
01-07-2018, 07:25 PM
I was actually thinking the same at first
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Yeah no I wouldn’t put my liberty in risk for some dum shit it would have to be a damm good reason for me to slit a throat cause it’s either one or one hundred with me no in between
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Ocoree
01-07-2018, 10:06 PM
I'm glad it was explained a bit better ^_^; I was also fighting an image of a pair of scissors in the thigh or something. I've done my fair share of needle or pen poking, but rarely enough to cause more than a get-your-attention pain and bleeding. It was really freaking me out thinking of someone being so violent.
Marinus Mortimer
01-08-2018, 01:12 AM
I'm glad it was explained a bit better ^_^; I was also fighting an image of a pair of scissors in the thigh or something. I've done my fair share of needle or pen poking, but rarely enough to cause more than a get-your-attention pain and bleeding. It was really freaking me out thinking of someone being so violent.
Yeah I can be violent but only with good reason and I hate abuse so I’m a fait guy more like a eye for an eye type thing
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Mermaid Yuki
01-09-2018, 01:41 AM
oh no. these two seeds are like sharing the same green bean pod. average people do not like green beans.
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honest? no she not. neither is the one nominating. please be friendly mermaid pod, not yucky green bean pod.
AniaR
01-12-2018, 08:27 PM
Hey slim regardless of who did this I'd change up your apple ID stuff if you haven't already, and add secondary verification.
Thank you. I took care of that as soon as I check the login activities and saw it was real. Hopefully next week is less crazy.
Hey slim regardless of who did this I'd change up your apple ID stuff if you haven't already, and add secondary verification.
Khaleesi Daenerys
01-12-2018, 11:18 PM
I’m SPECULATING here but I will not be shocked if it was the “who name shall not be mentioned” but I’ll call her Voldemort did the DOS Attack on this site. I say this for a couple reasons.
1. There is a popularity contest which shows in Yuki screenshot. On Wednesday morning about 2am, there was a 3 way tie and I saw my friend on there. I asked all my exes to like my friend photo which brought my friend in the lead with 17 likes. Between 10am to noon, Voldemort gained over 80 foreign likes. She bought fake reviews and likes for her page so this doesn’t shock me she’d buy likes for a popularity contest.
2. I learned on Facebook that the last couple DOS attack this site experience was mers who had drama they don’t want seen. This site looks like it went down within 4 hours I noticed Voldemort bought likes who only makes drama in this thread. I’m sure a google search from buying likes to a bought DOS attack can’t be far from each other.
3. My Apple account got attack yesterday during the site outage. IP in the email and in the account activity indicates south Florida. Only two mermaids knows my email address. My ex who lives in GA and one Mermaid who happens to live south of here.
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4. How does the most drama filled mer in the community not once acknowledged the outage? All my friends said Voldemort is acting quiet about the site and wonder if I knew anything.
There just too many coincidences so I’ll be shocked if it’s not her. As I said, I’m only SPECULATING. I still don’t know how she not blocked/banned from the site.
edit: a little after 1 hour I posted that, Annabelle put me on block. I noticed this because I no longer see none of her post in the mermaid group that sells stuff. Like the water I remain calm and at peace. Just reading stories from the ripples of the stones that other people throw.
:pirate:
Ransom
01-12-2018, 11:45 PM
This is awful -- it looks like one person hired a DDOS team to attack the site directly.
The attackers have already shown several times that they can shut it down anytime they wish.
Might it be time to invest in better protection from a business-tier Internet security firm?
Mermaid Whisper
01-12-2018, 11:54 PM
MerNetwork is a volunteered project. As we don’t pay to use the site, it makes no money on its own. The admins have to pay for the server space and the domain themselves, understandably so.
I’m not sure what something like that would cost, particularly for a site of MN’s stature, but I can’t imagine it’s inexpensive, otherwise we would have been using it by now.
Forgive me if I come off as harsh, I’m just very passionate about this forum,,
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I seen some sites use the protection before you can view their sites. I should probably message them once I can figure which site it was. At least that way we have an idea how much it would cost.
MerNetwork is a volunteered project. As we don’t pay to use the site, it makes no money on its own. The admins have to pay for the server space and the domain themselves, understandably so.
I’m not sure what something like that would cost, particularly for a site of MN’s stature, but I can’t imagine it’s inexpensive, otherwise we would have been using it by now.
Forgive me if I come off as harsh, I’m just very passionate about this forum,,
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Ransom
01-13-2018, 12:02 AM
That's interesting, Slim. Does that mean the entry text tells you who they're secured by?
Ransom, There are some sites where it'll bring you to a page saying something along the line "Please wait 5 seconds, DOS Attack protection" and then brings you to the site right after those 5 sec. I'm guessing if someone issues a hit, it'll hit that instead of the main site. I just got to pay attention to read who providing that so I can message them.
Ransom
01-13-2018, 12:09 AM
Ransom, There are some sites where it'll bring you to a page saying something along the line "Please wait 5 seconds, DOS Attack protection" and then brings you to the site right after those 5 sec. I'm guessing if someone issues a hit, it'll hit that instead of the main site. I just got to pay attention to read who providing that so I can message them.Righto, I'll keep an eye out on my end too. Thanks for the tip!
As for funding a protective measure for MN, there are avenues like Patreon, paid memberships or simple crowd-funding the admins can use. Hopefully there's enough interest to try it out :)
AniaR
01-13-2018, 12:14 AM
yeah this has been an ongoing issue with the website. Anytime something comes to light with proof on the forum - usually people caught red handed with second accounts harassing others etc- that person puts and attack on the site.
Over the years we've done fundraisers to raise money to cover the costs of upgrading security.
Last time it happened was hours after some major merrowfins drama ;)
Ransom
01-13-2018, 12:24 AM
yeah this has been an ongoing issue with the website. Anytime something comes to light with proof on the forum - usually people caught red handed with second accounts harassing others etc- that person puts and attack on the site.
Over the years we've done fundraisers to raise money to cover the costs of upgrading security.
Last time it happened was hours after some major merrowfins drama ;)Thanks for the heads up Raina! I haven't been on long so this is the first big outage I've encountered.
That said, the best security providers (I'm thinking Kaspersky, McAfee, Norton, etc.) are subscription-based, so if MN goes that way there'll be recurring fees. I love that comms and posting here is free, though some recurrent income would go a long way.
Or the more recent Hot Topic Ariel silhouette mini dome purse that was sold for $55 new a few years ago. She tried to use the 'only 1000 made' to charge $200 for it. Someone pointed out that you could buy it for $48 elsewhere.
Annabelle doing that again for $200:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/britslist/permalink/1429823090480595/?sale_post_id=1429823090480595
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And here Hot Topic page:
https://www.hottopic.com/product/disney-the-little-mermaid-ariel-silhouette-mini-dome-handbag/10459962.html
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I wonder how many she bought and how much they were on clearance...hmm.
AniaR
01-16-2018, 08:31 AM
I've seen this type of complaint a lot.
I personally saw her selling broken monofins that would be unusablehttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/24916b8203ca45f7df2ad214c050644b.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/a04e9d024b1a9b733fd3388aaad375dd.jpg
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AniaR
01-16-2018, 08:48 AM
So Let's summarize, here's what we have proof of with this woman:
1) Baiting an autistic member of the community into a conversation about dates and then trying to spin it like sexual harassment while at the exact same time making a thread asking people for dates.
2) Multiple Facebook accounts used to get around people who have blocked her, and also try to paint herself as a victim by baiting people into conversations about herself
3) Selling broken items that are unusable at a close to base cost (Broken monofins)
4) Up-pricing items such as fabric tails and mermaid bags
5) contradicting herself about her own skill levels and education (e.g. claiming to have been a mermaid for X amount of years, having "education" in any topic that comes up)
6) Crying "bully" anytime someone holds her accountable for anything. Refusing to be accountable for her own words and choices and blaming others (see the threads she's participated on in here)
Then there's what I suspect:
I suspect she has multiple accounts on here as well considering when there's been drama with her on here, a new member with no posts will suddenly appear to defend her
I personally suspect she was directly involved with the attack on the website and would not be surprised in the least if she tried to paint herself as some hero who figured out who did it. This seems to be her MO. Do the bad thing, then act like you aren't involved and be the hero.
Anyone else got something to add with proof? Because that's more than enough to get her at least suspended if not banned from mernetwork, and I suspect multiple FB groups. I'm tired of scammers in our community and two faced people trying to play all the sides and take advantage of others.
Mermaid Kane
01-16-2018, 11:53 AM
Put it all together like that, and she sounds like a (low functioning) psychopath. Manipulative; Con artist; Constant lying to make situations favorable; Constant blame sifting (like clockwork); Rage-like reactions to opposition.
Even if she is/n't a psychopath, she is being a true asshole, and should be suspended. My two cents.
So Let's summarize, here's what we have proof of with this woman:
1) Baiting an autistic member of the community into a conversation about dates and then trying to spin it like sexual harassment while at the exact same time making a thread asking people for dates.
2) Multiple Facebook accounts used to get around people who have blocked her, and also try to paint herself as a victim by baiting people into conversations about herself
3) Selling broken items that are unusable at a close to base cost (Broken monofins)
4) Up-pricing items such as fabric tails and mermaid bags
5) contradicting herself about her own skill levels and education (e.g. claiming to have been a mermaid for X amount of years, having "education" in any topic that comes up)
6) Crying "bully" anytime someone holds her accountable for anything. Refusing to be accountable for her own words and choices and blaming others (see the threads she's participated on in here)
Then there's what I suspect:
I suspect she has multiple accounts on here as well considering when there's been drama with her on here, a new member with no posts will suddenly appear to defend her
I personally suspect she was directly involved with the attack on the website and would not be surprised in the least if she tried to paint herself as some hero who figured out who did it. This seems to be her MO. Do the bad thing, then act like you aren't involved and be the hero.
Anyone else got something to add with proof? Because that's more than enough to get her at least suspended if not banned from mernetwork, and I suspect multiple FB groups. I'm tired of scammers in our community and two faced people trying to play all the sides and take advantage of others.
AniaR
01-16-2018, 11:54 AM
This got posted to a group I run. I don't normally share PMs but since they were already shared, here you go. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/9e40c3231b3af062351f2664c5cdab7b.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/78fb9f474340ebc42dc12e3f2fad577c.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/ce2c9aed7acd6eec9a2d04a31be7ed15.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/dd0f1863991b32aef56f4b491353b214.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/a69489d265154e190a45779a6a23d0ec.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/ec89680450b94139c1067598fae1388a.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/d89e897cfa90ef16ac144b42b94fd6dd.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/c1fd1b4a261b6d5c5073cd210bfe02f5.jpg
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AniaR
01-16-2018, 12:02 PM
So here's my reply to Anna and Brittany's comments.
First of all, accusing the OP of lying? Where is the lie? She was charged more than the tails were worth. That's not a lie, that's not opinion, that is fact.
Second, seems to me it took her a bit of time to put together the fact she was scammed, a common occurrence. But I mean really, are we going to go down that victim shaming mentality of "why now?" OP JUST HAD SURGERY DUH
Third- if Anna keeps choosing to re-sell other company's products NOT as a branded official reseller, than yes she is responsible for them and not the company. This is basic sales. I sell mermaid linden's monofins. If a customer needs a refund or has issue with quality, it's MY responsibility, and then if I want to follow up with body glove I can. When I sold a monofin and it cracked on first use I refunded the customer and gave them a free replacement. Then it's up to me to follow up with bodyglove to get reimbursed. If Anna doesn't understand this, she needs to stop reselling items.
Fourth- sorry, you don't "accidentally" overcharge someone on shipping by such a significant amount. This is not the first complaint I've seen about her overcharging for shipping. And then you don't accidentally forget you overcharged when you get the money, go to the post office, and it's less. If you can't figure out how to do shipping- pick a flat rate and stick with it.
Fifth- can we just point out that this woman goes around editing everyone else and their writing but puts "advantage" and "unethical" in quotations? How many times can someone say the word absurd?
If anything is disgusting, it's how she keeps gaslighting people who hold her accountable.
TOTALLY EXPECTING ANOTHER ATTACK ON THE FORUM AFTER THIS.
Marinus Mortimer
01-16-2018, 12:06 PM
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AniaR
01-16-2018, 12:14 PM
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AniaR
01-16-2018, 12:52 PM
Her "friend" harassing people who disagree with her https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/eaf12ba2b35feca54cc08a59194e813a.jpg
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Calizaire
01-16-2018, 01:15 PM
:jawdrop: Who does that?!
AniaR
01-16-2018, 01:17 PM
I'm going to keep posting proof here so we have it in one place.
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Mermaid Arietta
01-16-2018, 01:52 PM
Wow. I'm newer to the community and I had no idea people were so dishonest. This is crazy. Thank you guys for the warning. I'll be sure to keep an eye out.
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AniaR
01-16-2018, 03:51 PM
I was just sent some messages from people who want to be anon (though I will forward to Iona as she will keep discretion)
Anna is approaching some of my friends in the industry with some made up stuff about things she wasnt around for that happened years ago THAT ARE ALREADY DOCUMENTED HERE WITH PROOF. lol
She's taking a fraction of a true situation and gaslighting it to make it look like it's something else, so on the chance she's messaging any of you here's the deal:
She claiming I labelled someone in the community a pedophile and tried to get them thrown out of Merfest, when in reality, loads of people witnessed some inappropriate behaviour from this person and raised it with the organizer of Merfest 1. Years later when running Mermania, when looking for volunteers it was brought to our attention that this person had a criminal record in their state (this can be googled) and they had made some *concerning* posts on this very forum that you can go look up about their children being taken away from them. Combine that with what I and at least 5 others observed us organizers for mermania had to have a serious talk about risk management and how we would address the situation. IN the end we decided anyone who wanted to volunteer had to have a clear criminal background check and a clear child abuse registry check- which we did for every single volunteer. Context *matters*. Now I can have all the opinions I want about this person and share then in private just as anyone else can do, but I am certainly not kicking them out of a convention calling them a pedophile. LOL no one kicked them out. But uh, nice try Anna trying to dig up something years old to call me a bully when it is my professional responsibility to investigate these matters when they're raised as a concern??? lol
Next, she claims I am lying about my relationship with mermaid Melissa. Again, Anna's be around what, 5 minutes? Melissa and I go back a decade. LOL I still have all the emails. She says I lied about Melissa tagging Linden's tags on her stuff but you can literally google these tags and see for yourself. (and seriously do you really believe Linden would lie?) She says I lied about helping her get started- girl I still have all the emails. videos, and messenger chats and I've already posted them on here LOL. You can also see a pic of her and Raven when Raven lent her a tail for her very first gig.
This girl has NOTHING to go on, so she's looking for super old stuff to twist around from when she was what - 8 years old? LOL.
Mermaid Kane
01-16-2018, 04:12 PM
This really sucks. Lets hope she doesn't attack MN again.
I was just sent some messages from people who want to be anon (though I will forward to Iona as she will keep discretion)
Anna is approaching some of my friends in the industry with some made up stuff about things she wasnt around for that happened years ago THAT ARE ALREADY DOCUMENTED HERE WITH PROOF. lol
She's taking a fraction of a true situation and gaslighting it to make it look like it's something else, so on the chance she's messaging any of you here's the deal:
She claiming I labelled someone in the community a pedophile and tried to get them thrown out of Merfest, when in reality, loads of people witnessed some inappropriate behaviour from this person and raised it with the organizer of Merfest 1. Years later when running Mermania, when looking for volunteers it was brought to our attention that this person had a criminal record in their state (this can be googled) and they had made some *concerning* posts on this very forum that you can go look up about their children being taken away from them. Combine that with what I and at least 5 others observed us organizers for mermania had to have a serious talk about risk management and how we would address the situation. IN the end we decided anyone who wanted to volunteer had to have a clear criminal background check and a clear child abuse registry check- which we did for every single volunteer. Context *matters*. Now I can have all the opinions I want about this person and share then in private just as anyone else can do, but I am certainly not kicking them out of a convention calling them a pedophile. LOL no one kicked them out. But uh, nice try Anna trying to dig up something years old to call me a bully when it is my professional responsibility to investigate these matters when they're raised as a concern??? lol
Next, she claims I am lying about my relationship with mermaid Melissa. Again, Anna's be around what, 5 minutes? Melissa and I go back a decade. LOL I still have all the emails. She says I lied about Melissa tagging Linden's tags on her stuff but you can literally google these tags and see for yourself. (and seriously do you really believe Linden would lie?) She says I lied about helping her get started- girl I still have all the emails. videos, and messenger chats and I've already posted them on here LOL. You can also see a pic of her and Raven when Raven lent her a tail for her very first gig.
This girl has NOTHING to go on, so she's looking for super old stuff to twist around from when she was what - 8 years old? LOL.
PhaylennMurúch
01-16-2018, 05:36 PM
buying fake reviews does not mean that she's behind the attack. It's more likely that Anna has because she is currently being irrevocably outed as a scammer and a bad person in general. People (and hey, look it's not just me! feeling a bit vindicated) are coming forward with Anna's bad behavior and her seemingly Psychotic antics, her "friends" who may or may not be real people harassing folk and telling them to kill themselves. She's a narcissist and probably also a sociopath, up until now all of her stories were about ANNA triumphing over *insert thing* and being the HERO, or ANNA is the victim of people trying to silence her, lets see how ANNA can triumph over *insert person who is actually holding her accountable*.
If it were Athena then the attack would have been back when HER shenanigans were discovered.
Ransom
01-16-2018, 11:05 PM
I don't get it. How does someone who behaves like this get 'friends' who're capable of that?
Good thing other people are getting the hint and doing due diligence though. Let's hope in future it's before they get burned, not after.
AniaR
01-16-2018, 11:07 PM
Anyone can pay $25 for an attack like that. It's insanely easy to do. Doesn't have to be friends :/
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AniaR
01-17-2018, 12:18 PM
Just putting this here for record keeping. She made this fake account which another member reported and it got taken down. If anyone else has any proof of other fake accounts please keep track. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180117/2cf6168fc19c7d0f94705f5dc5e9ca95.jpg
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Winged Mermaid
01-18-2018, 06:21 AM
I personally suspect she was directly involved with the attack on the website and would not be surprised in the least if she tried to paint herself as some hero who figured out who did it. This seems to be her MO. Do the bad thing, then act like you aren't involved and be the hero.
That's what happened. Myself and the other admin and mods very much believe it was Anna who had the website attacked. When it was down, she sent us this message on the MerNetwork FB page:
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Myself and the other admin and mods all think that this story is ridiculously improbable. Just outrageously farfetched. She in a Starbucks in Seattle (with city a population of over 700,000 people, btw), and overhears some people talking. Those people just so happen to be planning an attack on a site that she is a regular user on? A small site like this one, no less? Then gets their first and last names, and website/company info? Also the suspicious timing of the attack coming after her being outed here.
(I blacked out the names/info, as I don't believe these people had anything to do with the attack on the site. They're probably people who Anna is upset with for one reason or another. No need to have their names up there.)
I took the time to look into and follow up on the posts here and elsewhere, looking into her behaviors. The harassment, scamming (selling broken/unusable items, and extremely overpriced resells), fraudulent fundraising, and other behavior.. well that is not someone we want to have on this forum. She has been banned from this website. Her, and her alternate account (which I merged into her account, per the rules on here). That same alternate account was used to make the post (https://mernetwork.com/index/showthread.php?15977-FinFolk-Productions-is-a-Hypocrite) about the anon "confession blog" about mermaid tail makers on Tumblr.
AniaR
01-18-2018, 09:17 AM
That is so crazy!!! She's in the podsquad group sucking up to Finfolk every chance she gets, but totally outs herself with that comment about being mad she didn't get credit for the idea about perfection on that blog LOL.
This is her MO. play both sides
So glad she's been removed from here, and most FB groups now.
I am concerned she'll just keep making alt accounts, and luring newbs (at least on fb)
BlueCorvidae
01-18-2018, 09:41 AM
If you guys get proof that she was behind the DDoS attack, you can take legal action. What she did was against the law and she could see jailtime for it.
Mermaid Kane
01-18-2018, 12:27 PM
She's insane, lol. At least you could be a GOOD manipulator if your gonna do it at all.
Mermaid Kane
01-18-2018, 12:29 PM
They always return to the scene of the crime....
I never understood why they always return to the scene.
They always return to the scene of the crime....
PearlieMae
01-18-2018, 04:19 PM
Wowee wow! :fallover:
AniaR
01-20-2018, 08:44 PM
Good Lord...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jUxxYgsXTo
Epic reply on Youtube:
https://scontent-lga3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t31.0-8/26910569_1985015785153566_1656375042975985012_o.jp g?oh=0c762e06e43a8d43dfd88977c7aec013&oe=5AF7D957
-so she's 6'2"
-she can't even say people's names right
- she's also an expert in diving
...racism? Good lord.
Saelyyia
01-20-2018, 09:19 PM
How can you review a product you haven't tested yet....Someone needs to check her definitions.
Mermaid Kane
01-20-2018, 09:23 PM
LOL...
Ransom
01-20-2018, 09:28 PM
I don't know what's the bigger problem, the accusation of racism or the fact that even without proof, it's enough to ruin the target these days.
@Saelyyia - good point. If you're unboxing, by definition you don't have enough info for a review.
TybeeMermaid
01-20-2018, 09:36 PM
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I wonder how long it's gonna take for the number of dislikes to automatically take the video down.
KatieScottArt
01-20-2018, 09:57 PM
....She should post this on the Finfolk podsquad page as her official review if she hasn't already.
moomer
01-21-2018, 02:25 AM
I watched it. To the end.
Wow. This girl seems like she bought it purely to bag it out. From the very beginning she is almost scathing in the way she describes FinFolk.
I can't say I am surprised by the video, reading what I have about her from this forum.
I almost WANT her to upload it to the pod squad. I want her to reason herself out of this. Is that bad of me? :P
AniaR
01-21-2018, 10:36 AM
Finfolk are aware of all this stuff, I mean this is the person who made the anon Tumblr hate blog against them lol. Finfolk are just away enjoying their bday right now
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MermaidJuri
01-21-2018, 05:06 PM
If she hates it so much I'll take it off her hands!
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РусалкаАнна
01-21-2018, 05:38 PM
Thread popular. Why? Just see complaint
Winged Mermaid
01-21-2018, 05:59 PM
Thread popular. Why? Just see complaint
I see you're new here, so let me explain :) This is the drama thread, so it's been around for a long time (since 2011). I move posts in here from other threads when they go off topic because of drama. That's why the thread is so long!
Also the topic in particular right now is following a person who harassed a lot of people, and also attacked this site's servers. She's now known for lying and manipulating, so people are rather outraged right now. I've seen the cycle a ton of times though- this may go on for a few days until people get their frustration and outrage out, then it will die down. :)
РусалкаАнна
01-21-2018, 08:30 PM
You sure know they attack? Scary!!!
Ok. Have good day. :)
WickedlyGoodSeaWitch
01-22-2018, 12:13 AM
I've seen this type of complaint a lot.
I personally saw her selling broken monofins that would be unusablehttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/24916b8203ca45f7df2ad214c050644b.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/a04e9d024b1a9b733fd3388aaad375dd.jpg
Sent from my [device_name] using MerNetwork mobile appThat's my post! When I tried to post this on several mermaid groups one of her friends, "Brittany Campbell" totally attacked me and created all kinds of drama to get my posts removed. Anna Browne disgusts me and so do her "friends." At least I learned my lesson.
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WickedlyGoodSeaWitch
01-22-2018, 12:18 AM
So here's my reply to Anna and Brittany's comments.
First of all, accusing the OP of lying? Where is the lie? She was charged more than the tails were worth. That's not a lie, that's not opinion, that is fact.
Second, seems to me it took her a bit of time to put together the fact she was scammed, a common occurrence. But I mean really, are we going to go down that victim shaming mentality of "why now?" OP JUST HAD SURGERY DUH
Third- if Anna keeps choosing to re-sell other company's products NOT as a branded official reseller, than yes she is responsible for them and not the company. This is basic sales. I sell mermaid linden's monofins. If a customer needs a refund or has issue with quality, it's MY responsibility, and then if I want to follow up with body glove I can. When I sold a monofin and it cracked on first use I refunded the customer and gave them a free replacement. Then it's up to me to follow up with bodyglove to get reimbursed. If Anna doesn't understand this, she needs to stop reselling items.
Fourth- sorry, you don't "accidentally" overcharge someone on shipping by such a significant amount. This is not the first complaint I've seen about her overcharging for shipping. And then you don't accidentally forget you overcharged when you get the money, go to the post office, and it's less. If you can't figure out how to do shipping- pick a flat rate and stick with it.
Fifth- can we just point out that this woman goes around editing everyone else and their writing but puts "advantage" and "unethical" in quotations? How many times can someone say the word absurd?
If anything is disgusting, it's how she keeps gaslighting people who hold her accountable.
TOTALLY EXPECTING ANOTHER ATTACK ON THE FORUM AFTER THIS.I appreciated your support So Very Much after this happened to me. [emoji4]
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Sorry this happen to you. I do however feel your pain as Athena pulled a similar crap last year when she made a poor quality tail.
That's my post! When I tried to post this on several mermaid groups one of her friends, "Brittany Campbell" totally attacked me and created all kinds of drama to get my posts removed. Anna Browne disgusts me and so do her "friends." At least I learned my lesson.
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MermaidMorganna
01-22-2018, 04:22 AM
Her "friend" harassing people who disagree with her https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/eaf12ba2b35feca54cc08a59194e813a.jpg
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So this is how people knew what happened!! :D I've been wondering for days how people knew what she said.
MermaidMorganna
01-22-2018, 04:27 AM
I watched it. To the end.
Wow. This girl seems like she bought it purely to bag it out. From the very beginning she is almost scathing in the way she describes FinFolk.
I can't say I am surprised by the video, reading what I have about her from this forum.
I almost WANT her to upload it to the pod squad. I want her to reason herself out of this. Is that bad of me? :P
Not bad at all! I'd love to see it, but she blocked me on facebook after our run in on New Year's Eve.
WickedlyGoodSeaWitch
01-22-2018, 05:03 PM
The conversation screenshot is where Anna Browne is telling me that 2 of the tails (red and gold) she sold me were new AND where I'm Telling her the black one she sold me is in terrible condition Back in October. The second screenshot is of her in a YouTube video wearing the same red tail and taking about how she swam in it, even though she claimed in the conversation screenshot that it was brand new and had never been used. Busted. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180122/e8bb57509409e08c582553f46ca4caea.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180122/c2de82671c704b61d6699d4b1b285f5e.jpg
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Ransom
01-23-2018, 01:37 AM
"So, Lone Starr, now you see that evil will always triumph, because good is dumb!" - Dark Helmet, Spaceballs
This is the best description I've heard of one big problem -- drama-starters and flamers get the results they do because they happily do things that don't (and shouldn't) even occur to others :(
AniaR
01-23-2018, 08:11 AM
she also bashed the 2tails on her anon blog but then went on to sell their stuff... lol
In regards to Athena, she has me blocked since before I met her LOL. I *can't* see her stuff, but when she bashes me we have like 50 mutual friends so people tell me. LOL
MermaidMorganna
01-25-2018, 12:58 PM
GUYS! She got kicked out of the Finfolk Pod Squad! I guess drama went down last night after she posted her "review" of the fabric tail.
AniaR
01-25-2018, 01:15 PM
Finfolk has been aware of her actions, but they've been away.
KatieScottArt
01-25-2018, 01:36 PM
I was totally joking when I said she should post it.. but she actually did it? Dang! RIP.
Ransom
01-25-2018, 01:43 PM
Open mouth, insert foot [emoji23]
AniaR
01-25-2018, 01:51 PM
she actually isn't out of the group, Sean checked. She's still in it.
No she didn't post her review. Someone else did and then all Anna's friends said that it broke the rules and was drama because someone ELSE posted it.
I know Finfolk are planning on handling it when they're back from their trip
MermaidMorganna
01-25-2018, 01:54 PM
she actually isn't out of the group, Sean checked. She's still in it.
No she didn't post her review. Someone else did and then all Anna's friends said that it broke the rules and was drama because someone ELSE posted it.
I know Finfolk are planning on handling it when they're back from their trip
Ohhhh my bad. I heard from a friend that she had posted it. She's blocked me on facebook so I can't see for sure. She must've blocked my friend and thats why it looks like she was removed. My bad...
AniaR
01-25-2018, 01:55 PM
I was totally joking when I said she should post it.. but she actually did it? Dang! RIP.
the idea of someone who has never made a silicone tail trying to give YOU advice blows my mind. lol
I think this is just her way of trying to feel wanted/needed in the community.
Saelyyia
01-25-2018, 02:08 PM
Perhaps, but I've been watching the Pod squad feed just waiting to see what the FF Team decide to do once they are back. Its kind of like a horrible trainwreck overall at this point. You want to look away from all her BS, but you just can't because you are dying to know what Absurd action she takes next. At this point it is all just so laughable overall.
Mermaid Persephone
01-25-2018, 02:12 PM
Holy smokes... I had no idea half of this was going on until this morning. I've been blocked by her and happily not paying attention since she started being booted from stuff last week or whenever it was. She has spies telling her what goes on in groups or something, because I was blocked shortly after saying I agree with her being banned from groups ever since she sent a friend harassing messages and sends "friends" to tell people to commit suicide.
I'm excited that Anna's drama seems to be coming to a head and will hopefully soon be a thing of the past.
KatieScottArt
01-25-2018, 02:13 PM
the idea of someone who has never made a silicone tail trying to give YOU advice blows my mind. lol
I think this is just her way of trying to feel wanted/needed in the community.
Yeah, her advice was for the group overall but some people were like... ehh, maybe don't do that? I honestly really appreciated her enthusiasm and participation in the tailmaker's group to begin with, its so cool meeting people as passionate about something as you are. The lack of experience wasn't a huge issue for me but then the drama on here started happening, at which point I nope'd out. Shame
AniaR
01-25-2018, 02:33 PM
Perhaps, but I've been watching the Pod squad feed just waiting to see what the FF Team decide to do once they are back. Its kind of like a horrible trainwreck overall at this point. You want to look away from all her BS, but you just can't because you are dying to know what Absurd action she takes next. At this point it is all just so laughable overall.
I wouldn't blame them for just quietly booting her and dealing with it internally. My only concern is if people don't speak out, she'll keep being able to scam people.
PS talking about this on here inspired Eric Nova to make a livestream video saying I deserve to be put in a gas chamber
Ransom
01-25-2018, 02:48 PM
PS talking about this on here inspired Eric Nova to make a livestream video saying I deserve to be put in a gas chamber
You can dive into the mer costuming world as deep as you like, and still not escape Godwin's Law :(
Mermaid Kane
01-25-2018, 02:56 PM
PS talking about this on here inspired Eric Nova to make a livestream video saying I deserve to be put in a gas chamber
That's rather..... Violent? God, the things people will say on the Internet. -_-
I wouldn't blame them for just quietly booting her and dealing with it internally. My only concern is if people don't speak out, she'll keep being able to scam people.
She already hitting Etsy groups asking trades for reviews. She not taking a break on her next scamming venture.
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That's rather..... Violent? God, the things people will say on the Internet. -_-
He was on Tosh.O before so I’m not shocked at all.
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Mermaid Momo
01-25-2018, 03:55 PM
I wouldn't blame them for just quietly booting her and dealing with it internally. My only concern is if people don't speak out, she'll keep being able to scam people.
PS talking about this on here inspired Eric Nova to make a livestream video saying I deserve to be put in a gas chamberI scrolled past the livestream because i was too busy to actually care (and recently his videos are less ;"here's an important problem in the community", and more; "i have beef, let's air dirty laundry") scrolling past though i thought it was about merrowfins because someone commented about how "he can't seem to get out tails but post thirsty selfies all the time" to sum it up lol (which tbh, i feel the same way but that's another topic) I didn't even know it devolved into sayong stuff like people should be put into gas chambers
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Mermaid Whisper
01-25-2018, 04:35 PM
I believe that video in question was a few months ago, and at one point similar things were said to Venessa.
There’s a bit of a...rift between folks now.
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Sherielle
01-25-2018, 05:21 PM
I'm personally tired of all the "They're the bad guys!" "No THEY are the bad guys!!" Then every one is suddenly friends for a time and then parties switch sides and it's a whole new "They're the bad guys" "No THEY are the bad guys!!!" Can people just stop obsessing over what the other person is doing and just deal with their own shit?
NomadicMermaid
01-25-2018, 09:25 PM
Has anyone reported her friend to that group to get her remove? I know saying anything to an Admin to the Mermaid Mania is a waste of time. If they claim victim, the other person gets banned without saying anything. Both Annabella and Athena got me blocked from that group without saying a word, admin of that group confirmed. Maybe that why it's the drama group on Facebook.
Hey Slim,
I'm sorry to hear that Mermaid Mania is considered the drama group on Facebook since we try very hard to keep it drama free - less heavy with the ban hammer in recent months but I know previously it was swung more often.
You were removed before I became one of the admins of the group so I can't comment on what went down there but I can tell you that Anna Browne and several of her friends/fake accounts were removed after some drama went down months ago. We have also instilled a warning system so that people are not removed without discussion first so that doesn't happen again except in extreme cases (i.e. predatory comments on a young mer's post, etc.)
If someone has issues or feels attacked, we do encourage them to contact one of the admins and we look into it carefully before making decisions. For example, when you contacted our head admin today in regards to Athena posting a photo of your tail, we removed the photo.
Again, I'm sorry to hear about your and Athena's ongoing issues and can honestly say I personally don't agree with everything going on.
AniaR
01-25-2018, 09:31 PM
I scrolled past the livestream because i was too busy to actually care (and recently his videos are less ;"here's an important problem in the community", and more; "i have beef, let's air dirty laundry") scrolling past though i thought it was about merrowfins because someone commented about how "he can't seem to get out tails but post thirsty selfies all the time" to sum it up lol (which tbh, i feel the same way but that's another topic) I didn't even know it devolved into sayong stuff like people should be put into gas chambers
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I had no issue with him until he flipped his story about mermania and started lying about it, and I mean seriously insane lies. He claimed we prevented Naja from sponsoring and I posted all the proof including behind the scenes on the website and messages and emails via a video, and Naja called him out too. After that he blocked me.
That was months ago and I pay no attention to him anymore, I have him blocked so I don't see his stuff. But he apparently just made this video after hearing about this Anna stuff on the forum I guess? (it's not posted anywhere else) and called Alex a cripple, and said he, I and Venessa should be led into a gas chamber.
I believe that video in question was a few months ago, and at one point similar things were said to Venessa.
There’s a bit of a...rift between folks now.
This was this week.
I'm personally tired of all the "They're the bad guys!" "No THEY are the bad guys!!" Then every one is suddenly friends for a time and then parties switch sides and it's a whole new "They're the bad guys" "No THEY are the bad guys!!!" Can people just stop obsessing over what the other person is doing and just deal with their own shit?
oh my God Amen. I've really had to scale way back on who I friend and interact with. There really seems to be this trend that the minute you can't do something for someone they flip on you. So many of these people were awful to me, then realized they risked being banned from Mermania so then they sucked up and apologized to me at the event, then after the event went right back to being awful.
It makes me want to leave the community, but honestly. I was never part of the community for the sole purpose of making friends. I'm part of it because I want to empower others, educate, and raise the industry standard.
I feel like last year really showed a lot of people's true colours to me and it REALLY sucked. But it also kinda made me much stronger and stop caring so much if people lie or what they think of me.
I'm careful now about what drama I got involved in. With the Anna stuff I felt like I needed to speak up because she was attacking someone I know who is Autistic and I couldn't just be quiet seeing someone get slandered like that. Everything else involving her is really her own undoing.
Hey Slim,
I'm sorry to hear that Mermaid Mania is considered the drama group on Facebook since we try very hard to keep it drama free - less heavy with the ban hammer in recent months but I know previously it was swung more often.
You were removed before I became one of the admins of the group so I can't comment on what went down there but I can tell you that Anna Browne and several of her friends/fake accounts were removed after some drama went down months ago. We have also instilled a warning system so that people are not removed without discussion first so that doesn't happen again except in extreme cases (i.e. predatory comments on a young mer's post, etc.)
If someone has issues or feels attacked, we do encourage them to contact one of the admins and we look into it carefully before making decisions. For example, when you contacted our head admin today in regards to Athena posting a photo of your tail, we removed the photo.
Again, I'm sorry to hear about your and Athena's ongoing issues and can honestly say I personally don't agree with everything going on.
I thank you for the answer. I still personally feel if I was removed without saying a word, they should had removed her for fairness otherwise the primary admin breaks the first for of the rules. I know your powers are limited which is why I communicate with one person. Thank you for the assistance.
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NomadicMermaid
01-25-2018, 09:44 PM
I thank you for the answer. I still personally feel if I was removed without saying a word, they should had removed her for fairness otherwise the primary admin breaks the first for of the rules. I know your powers are limited which is why I communicate with one person. Thank you for the assistance.
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I understand and hope we get to meet in person at one of the upcoming swims down in Florida!
Sherielle
01-25-2018, 09:50 PM
oh my God Amen. I've really had to scale way back on who I friend and interact with. There really seems to be this trend that the minute you can't do something for someone they flip on you. So many of these people were awful to me, then realized they risked being banned from Mermania so then they sucked up and apologized to me at the event, then after the event went right back to being awful.
It makes me want to leave the community, but honestly. I was never part of the community for the sole purpose of making friends. I'm part of it because I want to empower others, educate, and raise the industry standard.
I feel like last year really showed a lot of people's true colours to me and it REALLY sucked. But it also kinda made me much stronger and stop caring so much if people lie or what they think of me.
I'm careful now about what drama I got involved in. With the Anna stuff I felt like I needed to speak up because she was attacking someone I know who is Autistic and I couldn't just be quiet seeing someone get slandered like that. Everything else involving her is really her own undoing.
It’s why I stay out of the community. There are a few I would like to get to know but I’m tired of the pettiness.
I understand and hope we get to meet in person at one of the upcoming swims down in Florida!
That would be awesome to meet for a swim. With enough notice, I can get the time off. My pod is always excited to swim with new people.
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Mermaid Whisper
01-25-2018, 11:37 PM
Apologies on the misinformation Raina, I was thinking of the very severe situation a while back.
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Mermaid Mystery
01-26-2018, 12:10 AM
hi i posted anna's review in the pod squad because i am tired of her being able to get away with everything. AMA lol
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painfullyiced
01-26-2018, 03:37 AM
I thought I was the only one, I just learned tonight that she's doing this to MANY many folks; I thought I was going crazy.... I have a story to post, but can't figure out how to post screenshots.... but from the Finfolk post that someone had shared of her youtube review; I talked to the OP & found out shes doing this to everyone.
Ransom
01-26-2018, 04:06 AM
I thought I was the only one, I just learned tonight that she's doing this to MANY many folks; I thought I was going crazy.... I have a story to post, but can't figure out how to post screenshots.... but from the Finfolk post that someone had shared of her youtube review; I talked to the OP & found out shes doing this to everyone.Use the advanced editor and select 'photos, files, videos' on a phone, or the image button on a pc. Hope this helps.
AniaR
01-26-2018, 08:57 AM
Apologies on the misinformation Raina, I was thinking of the very severe situation a while back.
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that's OK, they make these calllout videos so much it's hard to keep up :p I just didnt' want you to think I was dredging up passed stuff.
Mermaid Kane
01-26-2018, 10:46 AM
I just wish people could be a lot less extreme. When you friends fight, you should try to mediate the issue, not take a side and violently attack the other friend.
That is how you lose them.
Sadly, its always easy to pick sides and hard to make peace.
AniaR
01-26-2018, 02:33 PM
Honestly, it's weird any of these things are issues to begin with. maybe I just have stronger morals when it comes to right vs wrong?
Stealing from others = wrong
Baiting an autistic boy = wrong
making up lies about people especially when they have video proof = wrong
Like how are these things opinions or even drama? It's only drama when someone doesn't want to be accountable for being wrong. lol if people actually showed some decency, there wouldn't be drama. Just don't be a dick. it's SO EASY lol
Honestly, it's weird any of these things are issues to begin with. maybe I just have stronger morals when it comes to right vs wrong?
Stealing from others = wrong
Baiting an autistic boy = wrong
making up lies about people especially when they have video proof = wrong
Like how are these things opinions or even drama? It's only drama when someone doesn't want to be accountable for being wrong. lol if people actually showed some decency, there wouldn't be drama. Just don't be a dick. it's SO EASY lol
Truth
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Mermaid Kane
01-26-2018, 04:30 PM
Honestly, it's weird any of these things are issues to begin with. maybe I just have stronger morals when it comes to right vs wrong?
Stealing from others = wrong
Baiting an autistic boy = wrong
making up lies about people especially when they have video proof = wrong
Like how are these things opinions or even drama? It's only drama when someone doesn't want to be accountable for being wrong. lol if people actually showed some decency, there wouldn't be drama. Just don't be a dick. it's SO EASY lol
p r e a c h
Mermaid Whisper
01-26-2018, 08:20 PM
I have no idea, I had assumed I couldn’t see posts since I was blocked, but as we don’t interact at all, that seems a bit more likely.
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AniaR
01-26-2018, 08:23 PM
well as per FB rules you cant have "mermaid athena" as a profile name so it may have done something cuz of that? I know a bunch of mers had that happen and had it switch to a fanpage instead. (not their choice)
mermaid_stardust
01-27-2018, 02:42 PM
Just putting this here for record keeping. She made this fake account which another member reported and it got taken down. If anyone else has any proof of other fake accounts please keep track. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180117/2cf6168fc19c7d0f94705f5dc5e9ca95.jpg
Sent from my [device_name] using MerNetwork mobile appHey guys I'm new here and honestly just came across this post. The alias she used is the name of a REAL person I know, a family member. And that is my name that says I am a '' mutual friend''. I had never personally talked to her. It is a large coincidence if you ask me. The only thing I have done recently was commented on her first folk fabric tail video very objectivly and said that I personally love my tail. Furthermore my past fb account was the one friend's with that sheryle account. I am not friends with this account. I just thought I'd let you know because of the magnitude of what this fake account means. I'm glad it's taken down and my step grandmas name is not being used for hurtful purposes any more
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PearlieMae
01-27-2018, 06:22 PM
Geez Slim! WHY DO YOU CARE? Move on! Anna/annabella/Athena/Danielle/whoever is NOT worth your time and energy! :headdesk:
AniaR
01-27-2018, 06:59 PM
Hey guys I'm new here and honestly just came across this post. The alias she used is the name of a REAL person I know, a family member. And that is my name that says I am a '' mutual friend''. I had never personally talked to her. It is a large coincidence if you ask me. The only thing I have done recently was commented on her first folk fabric tail video very objectivly and said that I personally love my tail. Furthermore my past fb account was the one friend's with that sheryle account. I am not friends with this account. I just thought I'd let you know because of the magnitude of what this fake account means. I'm glad it's taken down and my step grandmas name is not being used for hurtful purposes any more
She's used the real names of real existing people a few times, sorry that happened to you.
Mermaid Kane
01-27-2018, 07:35 PM
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She's used the real names of real existing people a few times, sorry that happened to you.
Really? That is simply awful. I hope she isn't doing it on purpose.
AniaR
01-27-2018, 07:39 PM
She is. :/
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Mermaid Kane
01-27-2018, 09:13 PM
She is. :/
Fuck her, then.
Ransom
01-27-2018, 09:31 PM
I spoke to the main admin of Mermaid Mania, he keeping his stance that I can't be a part of the group.That's fine, and the whole point multiple groups exist. Don't worry about it.
Scottish Clara
02-01-2018, 07:56 PM
Does Anna brown have access to this??
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